Blue Hats, Pink Hearts, and the Power of Love

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Bis Thorton
February 15, 2026
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Our world is full of so much greed, violence, and hatred. Many of us have begun to wonder: “Is love really enough?” Recently, the Texas UU Justice Ministry (TXUUJM) joined 30 partner organizations in a procession to the ICE family detention center outside of Dilley, Texas. Join TXUUJM Intern Minister Bis Thornton for a journey through the events of that day. Together we will explore what it means to hold love at the center of all things.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

We are recognizing Black History Month, by learning about and lifting up the amazing Frances Ellen Watkins Harper. Harper was a black woman born in 1825 to free parents. She used her life and her talents to work for the abolition of slavery, civil rights, education, and suffrage. She held dual affiliations with both Unitarians and the African Methodist Episcopal Church in Philadelphia. At a time when Christianity was being used to sanction slavery, Harper challenged Unitarians and other Christians to embody the libertarian message of Jesus.

She participated in the Underground Railroad, corresponded with John Brown, lectured across the United States and Canada about the evils of slavery. She wrote both poetry and fiction to help bring about those realities to the reader, as well as a message of liberation. After the abolition of slavery, she put her energy into suffrage, into universal education, and to civil rights.

Speaking to the National Women’s Rights Convention in New York, she said, we are all bound up together in one great bundle of humanity, and society cannot trample on the weakest and feeblest of its members without receiving the curse in its own soul. Harper is such a beautiful example of a person who used her talents and her value to work for liberation.

She not only spoke out against injustice, but she also painted a beautiful picture of the world we could have. Her poetry and fiction and short stories were both prolific and widely read, and she may have been the most read author, African-American author of the 19th century. But because she was both black and a woman, white supremacy and patriarchy did its best to bury her name after her death in 1911.

That’s until a few decades ago when her work was rediscovered. Her message has been found to be just as empowering today as it was in her time. Professor Melba Joyce Boyd said, Harper’s insight developed during an era rife with violent enforcement of racism, sexism, and classism constitutes a viable ideological framework for contemporary radical thought. She is an amazing Unitarian.

And you can learn more about her on your order of service. Here is a link to learn more about her. ///////////////////////////////

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

From Terrence Dixon’s 1971 documentary titled, MEETING THE MAN, JAMES BALDWIN IN PARIS

“Love has never been a popular movement, and no one’s ever really wanted to be free. The world is held together, really it is held together, by the love and the passion of a very few people. Otherwise, of course, you can despair. Walk down the street of any city any afternoon, and look around you. What you’ve got to remember is what you’re looking at is also you. Everyone you’re looking at is also you. You could be that person. You could be that monster. You could be that cop. And you have to decide in yourself not to be.”

– James Baldwin

Sermon

NOTE: This is an edited ai generated transcript.
Please forgive any omissions or errors.

It’s Tuesday night, and I am setting out my clothes for the next day. Tomorrow, I will get on a bus with many other people and travel to Dilly, Texas. Those detained inside have been demanding their release, shouting libertad, freedom.

We are coming to demand the same from the outside. I prepare my clothes. My shirt with the minister’s collar, a sweater, blazer, slacks, wool socks for my boots. We are planning to wear blue in solidarity with Liam Ramos, the little boy taken from Minnesota to Texas who was photographed wearing a blue rabbit hat. And every time I look at that now famous photo of him, I cry. He reminds me of my little brother, who sometimes goes by Mr. Cat.

He reminds me of the Palestinian children in photos who are lost or crying or scared, but who have signs of their joy nearby, a toy, a blanket, a shirt given to them by someone who wanted them to be safe. He reminds me of the children taken to Indian schools and the children who were born in internment camps, and he reminds me of the adults that those children grow into. I don’t own any blue clothing. I remember that my spouse Evan has a baby blue keffiyeh with a rainbow olive branches on it. I ask if I can wear it, and of course Evan says yes. I hang it up next to my outfit for tomorrow.

It’s Wednesday morning. It’s not yet dawn. I am greeting people as they arrive at the church to board the bus to Dilley. I ask everyone as they come up to me, are you coming on the bus with us today? People either say yes, or they say no, actually I’m going to carpool.

One woman says, no, but can you help me? I tell her I’m not sure, but she can come inside and have some breakfast and sit with us while we figure it out together.

A tiny fox trots around the church. I see people pointing at it and taking photos and smiling. People are excited for breakfast. A young man holding an iced coffee shakes my hand and we laugh about how cold his hands are.

I have a plastic rosary in my pocket. I call it my emergency rosary because I take it with me when I want a rosary that I’m not going to worry about because it’s not going to break.

The bus is late, but eventually it arrives. I say my morning prayers on the bus. I’m sitting at the front with Texas UUJM Minister Reverend Erin Walter because we are both wearing those minister’s collars. It’s important for visible religious leadership to be at the front of the bus because it often helps decrease harassment from law enforcement.

My morning prayers include words from the Gospel of Luke. I recite the words of the priest Zechariah to his son who will grow up to become John the Baptist, and I am saying them to the entire bus, to all the travelers, and to all the people inside of the detention center. You, my child, shall be called the prophet of the Most High, for you shall go before the Lord to prepare his way.

In my mind, there is love following behind us all, and we are making it possible for love to arrive. John the Baptist lived a strange and beautiful life, and he died a violent death at the hands of the state. I don’t want anyone to die.

We arrive at a place called Watermelon Park to hold a vigil and to hear stories. A man from the Carrizo Camacudo tribe addresses us. He says that this nation has broken treaties with indigenous people. and that it is breaking treaties with all of us now.

He charges us to change the narrative about this country, that no one is illegal on stolen land except those who are stealing it. He tells us about the world that this used to be, a world with clean water and clean air, a world with land that was beloved by all who walked upon it. I look around while he’s talking.

There are many people here who love each other and who love the land, or who are trying to learn how to love each other and to love the land. I love this flat, dry, scrubby Texas earth. I love the mesquite trees and the dusty ground and the yellow grass and the unbelievably enormous sky. I wonder what it will take to love it better.

I wonder what will make us remember this place as a place that grows watermelons instead of a place where the government holds people in cages.

A 13-year-old girl named Kendi speaks, and she is so small. When I was 13, I didn’t know how small I was. Now, whenever I see 13-year-olds, it’s all I can think about. Kendi was detained with her mother when she was just three years old.

She tells us how scared she is of dogs now. She believes that when she sees a dog, it should give her a feeling of joy, but instead she is incredibly frightened. Our relationship with dogs is so ancient. Humans and dogs have been friends for so long. I don’t want her to be scared of them either.

I look at the land and the sky and I think about dogs and I see so much breaking. Families are being broken apart and everyone is being broken away from who we are and what we are connected to. We are being broken away from other people and from the land and from the animals. We begin our walk from the park to the detention center. We pass by a prison on our way there. I feel my heart sink. My body is heavy.

The land and the people are being forced to hold all of these buildings that do nothing but house and cause and perpetuate violence. I wonder how many jobs there are in this area and how many of them are at the prison and the detention center. I wonder what it sounds like to some of the people in this town that we are begging for these places to be shut down.

I feel overwhelmed at the thought of what it will take to extricate everyone in this town from the violence they are being forced into, and I feel overwhelmed at the thought of what it will take to extricate everyone in this whole country from all of the violence we are all being forced into.

Many of us are trying to say no to the violence and do something else. I know it’s true here in Dili, too. Someone in front of me is carrying a huge white paper-mache sculpture of a bird. They’re holding the bird up on a stick like a sign.

I wish everyone were free. I wish the land were free. We walk for two miles, maybe three, and the whole way there I am praying that the cops and the ICE agents and everyone who operates these places will quit their jobs. I am praying that their hearts open up and they stop doing what they’re doing. I am praying so desperately that by the end of our walk, I am saying over and over again, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please, please.

When we reach the detention center, and I see the ICE and DPS agents standing outside of it, I am swept up in despair. Perhaps some part of me really wanted to find monsters, but what I see are human beings, which is worse.

I see precious children of the vast and loving universe who are choosing to do harm. I see people who had once been very small 13-year-olds too, and now they are this.

I feel I am seeing an active rejection of humanity so enormous that my heart and mind and spirit can hardly withstand it. I think of all the families trapped inside of the buildings behind them, and I wonder what these agents see.

In my mind, I see Kendi, who spoke at our vigil. In my mind, I see the photo of Liam Ramos in his blue hat, and I feel we are all so broken. There’s more to tell. If you read the news, You’ve heard the rest.

We came in peace and we were met with violence. I can tell you more about that sometime if you want. But I wanted to bring you along through time into our vigil and our procession because I don’t want those pieces to get lost.

Are you having a hard time lately? Me too. I’m not usually one to feel overwhelmed by the news, but lately I feel like I’ve got a huge heavy stone on top of me.

It’s one thing to know that our world is full of violence. And it’s one thing to step into the systems of that violence and try to stop it so that healing can come. And it is something else entirely to be bombarded with details of that violence in ways that push you into a state of fear and despair.

This feels like an awful Valentine’s Day sermon. Right? It’s the day after Valentine’s Day, and I wanted to come up here and tell you the good news about a love that overcomes obstacles and heals the impossible and reconfigures the world into a more beautiful place.

In a world like this one, trying to talk about love sometimes feels hopeless. It feels like I’m standing in front of the devil, and all I have to protect me is a little pink heart cut out of construction paper. I feel foolish. I feel small. But that is where love lives.

As Unitarian Universalists, we affirm that love is at the center of all things. At the center of all things is something so precious and so powerful and so ephemeral as a little pink heart cut out of construction paper or a little blue bunny hat. The gifts given to us by those who love us and want us to be safe.

The signs that tenderness exists even in suffering that is incomprehensible. There were moments that day where the world felt like it was broken. But I thought back to the words of the Comecrudo tribe speaker. I felt the audacious hope in his words for the people and land to be healed.

He painted a portrait of a beautiful world, and I wanted to live in it so badly that I believed in it. I believed we could love the world back to health. I believed we could love each other so deeply that we could come back together again. In my deep grief, I was also gripped by a kind of sacred foolishness, a belief in something impossible. I believed that love is enough because it is everything.

Before me, I saw human beings who had shaped themselves into tools of violence. When they deployed chemical weapons against peaceful demonstrators, I feared what this chemical would do to the people, and I feared what this chemical would do to the air and to the land as it sunk down into the earth.

But love was there too. I saw it in the defiance of the demonstrators. I saw it in the healers and medics who jumped into action to protect others.

I saw it in the way we gathered people into our bus to protect them and help flush their eyes. I saw it in the nurse on our bus who took charge of this task. I saw it in the way she touched frightened people with gentle calm and helped them breathe through their panic as the water flowed over their faces. When she asked for a towel and no one had one, I gave her the blue keffiyeh that my spouse had given me the night before.

As I watched the scarf catch the flowing chemical water and comfort an injured, frightened person, I felt I was watching this keffiyeh become one with all the others in Palestine and across the world who had protected, healed, and comforted someone in the fight for true liberation.

I felt connected. Beyond all hope or reason, surrounded by violence and panic and fear, I felt connected.

One day, we will all remember who we are. One day, the agents of violence will take off their helmets and lay down their guns, and they will run to unlock the cages they guard, and they will hang their heads in humility as all the prisoners run free. And there will be no more starvation, no more tear gas, no more typhus inside of concentration camps or measles inside of detention centers. There will be no more cages, no more broken treaties, no more children being taken and tortured. I believe it. Against all odds, I believe it.

Against all reason, I believe in pink construction, paper valentines, and blue bunny hats. I believe it is in our sacred nature to love one another. I believe that one day we will all finally remember it.

Please, God. May it be so.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

May we love the land and one another. May we remember who we are. May we hold love at the center of all things, and in doing so, free the world. May it be so.


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Fear…What is it good for?

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Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
February 8, 2026
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Fear is the reason we are here. It is a tool for survival but it can also get in the way of living into our values and meeting the moment. Join Rev. Carrie as she explores how we might honor our humanity, listen to our body, and live in alignment with our values.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

HERE WE ARE
by Austin Channing Brown

I wish i had something profound to tell you today. Something that could erase the sense of dread you feel right now. I wish I had the words that could carry as a shield around your heart and not feel the daggers of bitterness and disappointment. I wish my sentences were strong enough to carry your frustration. I wish you didn’t have to log off to preserve your mental and emotional health. I wish I could save you from feeling. Except I don’t want to save you from feeling because those feeling make you human, and we are going to need to hold tight to our humanity.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

From HOW SALVATION COMES
by Rev. Anna Blaedel

When our prayer is, “What the actual [heck]!” The answer to prayer is: Whatever sphere of influence you have, use it. Witness and name what others seek to ignore or normalize. Refuse capitulation, fear, threat. Resist dehumanization, a vicious cycle which trades life for lives, and will always fail to honor the sacredness of each life, each life a demand for protection, nourishment, survival. Which is to say: Practice love. Tend Lifeforce. Enflesh care, fierce and tender. Cultivate courage. Root in collective movement. Find your people, organize, and access the power that comes only by coming together. This is what prayer looks like. This is how God moves. This is how salvation comes.

May it be so. Or, as Octavia Butler wrote, “So be it! See to it!”

Sermon

It’s 6:00ish AM in the morning. A most unholy hour. I’m blurry-eyed, making breakfast for my youngest when she comes out of her room and says “Mama there’s a bird in the house.”

Just then I see that my cats are laser-focused on…a bird in my house.

Grab the kid and the cats, put them in a room and start closing doors. I open up the back door.

All the while fear is building.

Because after I get everything in place I have to face this bird.

Turns out, which I hadn’t know until then, I am terrified of birds in my house.

Gentle Broom, lots of flapping, and lots of me covering my face But I think, it flew out!

Great!

I start to let my cats out, and just as one is walking out, I see from the corner of my eye something flying.

She has not flown out, but rather is huddled at the end of the hall on the floor.

The same floor my very excited cat is on.

So now its my cat where I can’t get her, scared me, and tiny terrified bird. I hate this.

This fear is real. This fear is physically manifesting in my body.

Every time I go near the bird its like a hook has me around the middle and pulls me back.

Every.
Single.
Time.
I get to the same spot
Just a few feet away
And everything in my body
Said “NOPE”
And I scurry down the hall.

I cannot push past this fear.

I finally swallow my pride and call Russell, ask him to come home from the gym.

The cat, the bird and me continue our stand off. When I think he should be home I call him and say “ETA” to which he relies “I’m walking out of the gym now.” Expletive! (hand sign: slams phone down)

He eventually gets home, the bird is out of the house within a minute, I’m relieved. This knot of fear has left my gut, and then ..of course… I go on to do many brave things that day…

Fear
Fear is real and it is visceral

My brain,
My reason that could have said, “You are 100 times bigger than that sweet little bird”… went completely offline.

Some deep primal instinct completely took over, and made sure that I wasn’t getting anywhere near that bird.

it’s really quite impressive how quickly and powerfully our bodies reacted to danger.

And thank goodness it does. We would not be here if it wasn’t for fear. Fear that told our ancestors. “Run from the growly thing with sharp teeth. Get shelter before dark. Pay attention to those weird dark clouds.”

Fear is a visceral thing, that has kept us going as a species for at least 300,000 years.

But If fear can show up that strongly in a situation that is nowhere approaching dangerous, what do we do when it shows up because something is actually dangerous. AND we need to respond.

When there is no Russell to call.

There is only us. We are the only ones coming to save us.

Right now, that fear is showing up as we read or watch news of the the brutality of ICE and the complete disregard for humanity, the murders at the hands of ICE and Border Patrol of people like Keith Porter, Luis Gustavo Nunez Caceres, Heber Sanchez Dominguez, Renee Good, Alexi Pretti, and so many others.

  • The imprisonment of adults and CHILDREN and BABIES.
  • The occupation of American cities,
  • The complete disregard for any human and civil rights from the highest office in the land.

The ways in which these actions are happening as if the constitution was never written.

 

This fear is valid.
Is rational.
And can be used a tactic to keep us quiet and pre-complying.
Its a powerful tactic.

And IT’S ONE THAT WE CANNOT SUCCUMB TO.

On January 15, I answered the call for faith leaders to go to Minneapolis. To stand in solidarity with our colleagues and with the good people of Minneapolis and St. Paul.

Y’all, I was terrified. I was so terrified.

I signed several things saying that I accepted the risk.
I attended an info session where they told us that since the murder of Renee Good, ICE agents had started routinely pulling out their guns and pointing them at people’s heads.

It’s a powerful tactic.

I made sure my affairs were in order.
I wrote my memorial instructions…. because I still have opinions even when I’m dead.
And I got on a plane.

Now you may ask how can a woman who couldn’t get a bird out of her house do something that was actually dangerous.

Its because of my values and my hopes and dreams for us, and for my kids and all the kids.

I believe with my whole heart in liberation… collective liberation. I believe in our humanity. I believe in justice. I believe in a world where people get to live their one precious life unimpeded by racism, sexism, ableism and all systems of supremacy.

I believe in a more loving and kind world for everyone. And I believe that I have a moral obligation to use my one precious life well.

So with my values strongly in hand,
What becomes more terrifying than standing up to ICE agents and Border Patrol,
is what it would mean for our future if we did nothing,
If we did not speak up,
If we did not stand up.
If we allowed this cruelty and violence to become normal.

That is more terrifying than anything I was preparing to face.

I want my kids to live in a world where all of this, all that is being unveiled – all the cruelty, the harm, the gross violations of humanity, are just a bad bit of history they talk about, rather than their lived reality.

I want so much for this to end with accountability, justice.
That it ends in a way that leads us to build something much much better than what we have.
Because none of this came out of nowhere.

The roots of what we are experiencing go back deep into the colonization of this land.

  • The genocide and the continued oppression of indigenous folks.
  • Salvery, the slave catchers that manifest today
  • in the police murders of black people
  • To the Texas Rangers, taking land and lynching Mexicans and Tejanos.
  • Internment camps for Japanese Americans in the 2nd world war.

None of this is new.

 

And so when the fear became overwhelming and started to grab me around my middle… tried to physically take over, I reminded myself of the world I want. I got grounded in my values.

And when I didn’t have that in me, I borrowed. I borrowed it from my family, my neighbors, and friends, from my roomie in Minneapolis and dear Friend, Michelle Venegas Matula.
and I borrowed it from you.
I took all y’all to Minneapolis. (Shows her stole signed by the congregation)

Fear breeds in isolation.
Community is the antidote.

When I joined with the other hundreds of spiritual leaders from all over America – Christians ministers and pastors, buddhist monks, rabbis, Sikhs, and a whole lot of Unitarian Universalists – I felt peace.

I was surrounded by people, showing up in their values. Which was a beautiful reminder that we are many and they are few.

And we are seeing this same bravery coming from the grassroots, hyper local, leaderful organizing that is happening on the ground in Minneapolis.

Every day people coming together armed only with a whistle and love their neighbor trying everything they can to protect one another.

There is so much work to do, and it’s only going to work in community,

And its only going to work if we also allow our community to hold us.

Carolyn Grimminger reminded me a few weeks ago that Rev. Meg used to say

“Social Justice work is not a Sprint, but a Relay…. when you get tired, you don’t quit, you hand the baton on to someone else, and you rest, and join up again in the work after.”

 

Finally, fear grows with inaction. To do nothing but watch the horrors unfold is to let fear dictate how we will live. To let fear dictate how this story will unfold.

We have to act.

But we do not all need to act in the same way,
All of us going to Minneapolis doesn’t make sense.
All of us doing just one of anything doesn’t make any sense.

If we are going to pull apart the tapestry that is this “filthy rotten system1” then we are going to have to do what is ours to do. We are going to have to look at the skills and talents we have and bring them to one another.

The people engaged in the resistance to this occupation In Minneapolis are doing all kinds of things.

  • Some are alerting their neighbors to the presence of ICE.
  • Some are showing up and blowing whistles and honking horns to try to get ICE to leave.
  • Some are putting their bodies on the line.
  • And some are raising money for rent assistance and food.
  • Others are drive kids to and from school.
  • Others are picking up and doing their neighbors’ laundry so they don’t have to make themselves vulnerable at the laundromat.
  • Some are packing and delivering food.
  • Some are donating breast milk to the babies whose mom’s are taken.

There is so much work to do – all of it valuable – and every single one of us has something we can offer. Something we can do.

 

Some of us are called to stand at the front line, to stand in between harm and our neighbor.
And others of us are called to organize those people, the food delivery, the whatever.

Some of us are called to provide care.
To sit unflinchingly with someone in their pain.
Community care is foundational to the work of liberation. I am beyond grateful for our caring companions.

Some of us are called to lead songs.
Listen, If you want to take care of your nervous system: Sing.

If you want to feel brave, sing in a group. We need song leaders.

We figure out what we are good at. What it is that we are called to do and we do it.
“Because that is our sphere of influence” as Rev. Blaedel said in our reading.

Bringing your beautiful and precious life into the service of community.
Into the service of your values makes us Brave
It empowers us. And gives us hope.

I don’t know what is coming. I know what is happening in Minneapolis is terrifying

What is happening here is terrifying. To say it’s unjust is an understatement.

It’s awful and scary.

And it just is that bad as what we are seeing and probably worse.

I wish there was a way around it.

But we are a people of reason and logic and so to tell you anything different is to insult your intelligence.

But I do know we can do it.

We can face our fears.
We can hold our values close,
We can rely on one another – for comfort, for encouragement, for safety to take the baton when needed.
and we can do the work that is in our sphere to do.

We can take action.
We got this. No matter what comes our way, we got this!

And as long as the birds stay out of our houses, we will be okay”

1. Quote by Dorothy Day

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

As we go back to our normal lives, as we leave this sacred space, may you hold your values close, may you lean on community, and may you sing through your fear.

Go in peace.


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2026 Animal Blessing

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Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
February 1, 2026
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

To paraphrase Parker Woodland, “The world’s on fire, and we are still going to find joy.” Joy that nourishes us and joy that sustains us. In that spirit, please join us to bless the beloved animal companions in our lives. In these challenging times let us honor our animal companions who are such a vital source of our joy and resilience.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

THE STATE OF BLISS
excerpted from Blessings of the Animals: Celebrating Our Kinship With All Creation
– by Reverend Gary Kowalski

Don’t animals teach us about blessing, about joy! They remind us to be satisfied with what we have. Not one of them is worried about the stock market. Not one of them wants to run for Congress or govern the animal kingdom. None brags that their religion is better than their neighbor’s. Each is satisfied with just a little: fresh water, healthy food, and enough room to nest or den. None needs a passport or travel documents or immigration papers, because they don’t live in a state like Arizona or Texas that cares about such things. They live in a state of bliss.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

– by Henry Beston

We need another and a wiser and perhaps a more mystical concept of animals. Remote from universal nature, and living by complicated artifice, man in civilization surveys the creatures through the glass of his knowledge and sees thereby a feather magnified and the whole image in distortion.

We patronize them for their incompleteness, for their tragic fate of having taken form so far below ourselves. And therein we err, we greatly err. For the animals shall not be measured by man. In a world older and more complete than ours, they move finished and complete, gifted with extensions of the senses we have lost or never attained, living by voices we shall never hear.

They are not brethren, they are not underlings, They are other nations, caught with ourselves in the net of life and time, fellow prisoners of the splendor and travail of the earth.

Prayer

– by Albert Schweitzer

Hear our humble prayer, O God, for our friends the animals, especially for animals who are suffering, for any that are hunted or lost, or deserted or frightened or hungry; for all that must be put to death. We entreat for them all thy mercy and pity and for those who deal with them we ask a heart of compassion and gentle hands and kindly words. Make us, ourselves, to be true friends to animals and so to share the blessings of the merciful.

Sermon

For the last six or so months, when someone asks me what my theological argument is for say…trans people, queer relationships, a world in which no one is exploited, really anything that that person is struggling to understand because it was outside their own narrow context.

  • I simply say Platypuses. – Y’all, we live on a planet with platypuses,
  • Echidnas
  • Superb Bird of Paradise, So beautiful some one called them Superb!
  • Star nosed mole
  • Octopusi – they can squeeze their body in the tiniest spots.
  • Manatee,- Will hug you
  • Elephants – gather apples in a pile so they can go back and have a party when they ferment
  • Tardigrade, also known as water bears
  • and don’t even get me started on the animals that lived before us….

 

The creatures on this planet are proof that life is beautiful, interesting, weird, and diverse.

But for some reason, our species, us mammals, we Homo sapiens, want to make things boring And of course #notallhuman – But so many want to – Narrowing down what its supposed to mean to be our kind of animals. Refusing to see the beauty and creativity of creation, of which we are a part.

And so while today is a blessing of the animals, I want us to remember that we are also animals and because of that, let us learn from these precious members of creation.

Our dog friends who when we stare into their eyes both of our bodies flood with oxytocin – Teaching us that we are meant to be connected.

Our cat friends – often distributed to our homes by the universe’s cat distribution system – confidently and gracefully making your home theirs. Teaching us about taking up space and being true to ourselves.

And I know its not just cat and dog friends – We have so many animal companions, and I bet you could tell me about the blessing they are to you. About what they teach you.

Maybe you would tell me of the ways they bring joy into your life. Maybe they teach you about love, care, and how to have fun.

Animals invite us to see the beauty and diversity of this planet we all depend on, They teach us what it means to be present, to listen to our bodies, to love or, if they are anything like my cats, to communicate how they want to be loved.

They are a blessing and so for all they do. For all they are we bless them.

But first we gawk. Now is the time for the animal parade.

ANIMAL BLESSING
by Rev. LoraKim Joyner

May Blessings Flow…..
From our hearts and minds into our hands,
May blessings flow.

Around and around this circle of friends
May blessings flow.

For all you do and all your teach us
May blessings flow.

Around and around our beloved earth
May blessings flow.

For all beings,
may blessings flow.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

For all the animals in this room and online, with fur, or feather, or scale, or just us, the relatively less hairy humans, may we all find joy today, joy and companionship. And may we all be present today to that companionship, but also to the beauty and the mystery that is all around us. And most importantly, may we all be held by love.

Go in peace.


SERMON INDEX

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PODCASTS

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Love Survives

Listen to the sermon by clicking the play button above.

Rev. Erin Walter
January 18, 2026
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Rev. Erin Walter will hold space this Sunday through the words and music of the Rev. Meg Barnhouse, the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Parker Woodland, and more. Come be in community as we hold the joys and sorrows of the world, the nation, and our own hearts.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

– Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King
from his Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech

We’ve been in the mountain of war. We’ve been in the mountain of violence. We’ve been in the mountain of hatred long enough. It is necessary to move on now. But only by moving out of this mountain, can we move to the promised land of justice and brotherhood and the kingdom of God? It all boils down to the fact that we must never allow ourselves to become satisfied with unattained goals. We must always maintain a kind of divine discontent.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Anthem

I AM WILLING
– Holly Near

I am open and I am willing
To be hopeless would seem so strange
It dishonors those who go before us
So lift me up to the light of change

There is hurting in my family
There is sorrow in my town
There is panic in the nation
There is wailing the whole world round

May the children see more clearly
May the elders be more wise
May the winds of change caress us
Even though it burns our eyes

Give me a mighty oak to hold my confusion
Give me a desert to hold my fears
Give me a sunset to hold my wonder
Give me an ocean to hold my tears

Reading

HOW WE DIE
by the Reverend Meg Barnhouse
October 5th, 2022

“Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it.” – Haruki Murakami

I was at the bedside of a man in my congregation. He was dying. “I don’t know how to do this,” he said. He had been a professor, a scientist. He’d been mean to his wife, mean to his grown kids, mean to the people in the congregation. I was surprised at the openness of this moment.

“I don’t either,” I said. “I’ve sat by a lot of people while they were dying. It looks like you just go farther and farther away, and your body shuts itself down. Maybe it’s like falling asleep. You’ve done that plenty of times, right?” He was fighting, kicking at death like he had kicked at life.

One thing I’ve noticed as a minister is that people seem to die the way they live. Some want to be no trouble; they slip away when no one’s looking. Some want to be surrounded by family and friends; some want to be sung to, read to.

The end of life is a threshold time, meaning that it is a time when things come up for review. Families can reconcile or break apart. Often, emotionally wrenching decisions have been made.

Some people’s thoughts are of the people they’re leaving behind. Some people haven’t made any plans, any arrangements. Everyone’s been talking to them about “fighting,” and no one has asked what they would like to have happen at the end.

It’s good to give it some thought; that way you get to pick readings that say something about you, songs you like. No one who is crazed with grief has to figure all of that out. It’s your final message to those who have loved you.

I’m asking you to think about these things. Talk about them with your family before you get sick. Take care of your relationships so you won’t have any regrets that could have been fixed. Practice accepting help so you will be graceful to your caregivers, rather than surly.

What do you enjoy in your life? What do you want to hold on to? Write them down. Me, I want the song Skylark at the beginning of my service. It’s a sad song, and it’s going to be a sad time. I want people to cry. Dying is scary, but we are brave, and we can talk about it together.

Prayer

Great Spirit of Love and Truth, let us remember that we are of the nature to die. No one gets to skip that part. Let me sink into the knowledge that my body will return to the trees. Earth is where I’ve come from, and to Earth I will return.

Peace. Peace. Peace.

Video

ALL WILL BE WELL
– Meg Barnhouse

All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.

I said,
Julian, you are holy, you are holding my hand. (x 2)

She said, “All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.”

I said, “Julian, do you not know, do you not know about:
sorrow?
pain?
hunger?
shame?”

She said, “All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.”

I said, “Julian, do you not know, do you not know about:
loneliness?
disease?
cruelty?”

I said “Julian, it’s too much. It brought me to my knees.

She said, “All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.”

She said, “No one does not know, does not know about:
sorrow
pain
hunger
shame.”

She said, “All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.”

She said, “No one does not know, does not know about:
loneliness
disease
cruelty.”

I know, it’s too much. It brought me to my knees, where I heard:
“All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.”

And so, All will be well, all will be well; all manner of things will be well.”

She said, “Babygirl, do you not know, do you not know about:
tenderness?
friends?
the Spirit?

it’s only love that never ends and so,
All will be well, and all will be well, all manner of things will be well.” (x2)

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

Beloveds, thank you for your presence here today. Thank you for the gifts of love and beauty and humanity, truth, justice that you bring every time you walk in this door or roll in this door or crawl in this door and thank you for the ways you grab that mission to your heart and live it in the world every day.

You, you, we are a source of hope to each other and the world.

Love survives. Love survives.

From MLK to those we are grieving today, the love and the dreams still survive.

Please, please, please, ground yourself in hope as we go into this week. I am surrounding you, and the great mystery is surrounding you in so much love.

Amen, blessed be, and go in peace.


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PODCASTS

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Guide to Meg’s Sermons

 

Guide to Meg’s Sermons

2022 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
 Celebrating the Life of Meg Barnhouse  Rev Chris Jimmerson
 and many others
2-28-26
 You’re going to Pray for me?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-24-24
 Flower Ceremony and Farewell  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-29-22
 The Pumpkins Promise  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-22-22
 The fire of anger  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-08-22
 Curiosity and Respect  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-01-22
 Being Present with one another  Rev Meg Barnhouse
04-24-22
 Coming to life again  Rev Meg Barnhouse
04-17-22
 What is the Eighth Principle?  Rev Meg Barnhouse
04-03-22
 Grasshoppers in Indra’s Glittering Net  Rev Meg Barnhouse
03-27-22
 Water Ceremony 2022  Rev Meg Barnhouse
03-20-22
 How to eat a car  Rev Meg Barnhouse
03-06-22
 A Good Goodbye  Rev Meg Barnhouse
02-20-22
 What if you were really loved  Rev Meg Barnhouse
02-13-22
 Connected to All Creation  Rev Meg Barnhouse
02-06-22

2021 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
 2021 Christmas Eve Service  Rev Meg Barnhouse
12-24-21
 2021 Christmas Pageant  Rev Meg Barnhouse
12-19-21
 The Perils of Perfectionism  Rev Meg Barnhouse
12-12-21
 Dealing with difficult people (and trying  not to be one)  Rev Meg Barnhouse
12-05-21
 Right Concentration  Rev Meg Barnhouse
11-28-21
 Using Our Voices  Rev Meg Barnhouse
11-14-21
 Be Present in your Life  Rev Meg Barnhouse
11-07-21
 All Souls and All Saints  Rev Meg Barnhouse
10-31-21
 The Healing Power of Truth  Rev Meg Barnhouse
10-24-21
 Great Big Celebration Sunday  Rev Meg Barnhouse
10-10-21
 The Third Principle  Rev Meg Barnhouse
10-03-21
 So Much Wasted Effort  Rev Meg Barnhouse
09-26-21
 Resilience  Rev Meg Barnhouse & Rev Chris Jimmerson
09-19-21
 Down to the River to Pray  Rev Meg Barnhouse
09-12-21
 Right Livelihood  Rev Meg Barnhouse
09-05-21
 The Inherent Worth and Dignity of every Person  Rev Meg Barnhouse
08-29-21
 One coming out story  Rev Meg Barnhouse
08-15-21
 In the stream of your life  Rev Meg Barnhouse
06-27-21
 What did you just say?  Rev Meg Barnhouse
06-13-21
 Just a Reminder  Rev Meg Barnhouse
06-06-21
 Flower Communion 2021  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-30-21
 Why should I believe that?  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-23-21
 Abandon Hope and Fear  Rev Meg Barnhouse
05-09-21
 Blues Theology (Revisited)  Rev Meg Barnhouse
04-25-21
 History – It’s complicated  Rev Meg Barnhouse
04-11-21
 When Harold Hatcher gave up, He grew  Rev Meg Barnhouse
04-04-21
 Third Lap in a Four Lap Race  Rev Meg Barnhouse
03-14-21
 The Power of Our Words  Rev Meg Barnhouse
03-07-21
 Need a Little Mercy Now  Rev Meg Barnhouse
02-28-21
 To Corinth with Love  Rev Meg Barnhouse
02-14-21
 Blessing the Animals 2021  Rev Meg Barnhouse
02-07-21
 In praise of the dark  Rev Meg Barnhouse
01-24-21
 Wish you were here  Rev Meg Barnhouse
01-10-21
 2021 Burning Bowl  Rev Meg Barnhouse
01-03-21

 

2020 Sermons

 

 

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
 Guidance  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-27-20
 2020 Christmas Pageant  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-20-20
 What’s so Funny ’bout Peace, Love, and Understanding  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-06-20
 Poetry as Meditation  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-29-20
 Falling in love with what is  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-15-20
 Science, Imagination, and Magic  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-08-20
 All Souls  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-01-20
 American Civil Religion  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-25-20
 Lessons from the Garden  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-11-20
 Have smaller fights  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-04-20
 Forgiveness  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-27-20
 Celebration Sunday  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-20-20
 Be a stream and not a swamp  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-06-20
 Chalice Circles: Deepening Connection  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-23-20
 Radicals v Respectables  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-16-20
 Using your Anger, Holding on to your Hope  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-09-20
 Question Box Sermon  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-02-20
 The History of American Policing  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-14-20
 Useful Ignorance and Beginner’s Mind  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-07-20
 Flower Communion  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-31-20
 Living with Brain Trauma  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-17-20
 All will be well – Really?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-10-20
 Punk Theology  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-03-20
 A Trip to the Underworld  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-12-20
 Losing My Religion  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-05-20
 Social Distance, not Spiritual Distance  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-22-20
 Two Parables of the Beloved Community  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-01-20
 Sugar: What is enough?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-16-20
 Milk and Butter: Creativity within constraints  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-09-20
 How not to break a horse  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-02-20
 Salt  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-26-20
 Heat & Transformation  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-12-20
 The Burning Bowl  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-05-20

2019 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
When God was a baby  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-22-19
Perfect Miracles  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-15-19
What happens in families  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-24-19
How to comfort someone who is suffering  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-10-19
Jedidiah Morse and the Battle for Harvard  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-03-19
Room on the Broom  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-27-19
Protected on the Journey  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-13-19
The Concord Genius Cluster  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-06-19
This Apple  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-29-19
Celebration Sunday  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-22-19
How to Change Minds  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-08-19
Many Rivers to Cross  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-01-19
What does that pin on your backpack mean?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-18-19
Walking Toward the Deep End  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-11-19
In My Life  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-04-19
Out from Silence: Writing your Life  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-30-19
Being a blessing to the children  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-16-19
Beautiful ‘Flower Girls’  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-26-19
Playing ball on running water  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-19-19
Fiery and Fearless  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-12-19
How to grow a seed  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-21-19
The power of story  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-14-19
If I needed you  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-07-19
The Kindness Connection  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-24-19
Celtic Christianity  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-17-19
The Promise and the Practice  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-03-19
The Magic of Music  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-17-19
Blues Theology  Rev. Meg Barhouse
02-10-19
Animal Blessing  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-03-19

2018 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
Lessons and Carols Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-24-18
Spray it Gold and post it on Instagram Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-16-18
Live from Pflugerville Rev Meg Barnhouse
12-02-18
Come, ye thankful people, come Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-18-18
Fall down7, Get up 8 Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-11-18
A Little Mercy Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-04-18
Those who have gone before us Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-28-18
Safe Space/Brave Space Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-21-18
Love is the Spirit of this church, and Service is its law Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-07-18
What I Learned from Being a Writer Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-30-18
UU101, UU201, UU301 Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-23-18
Faith Out Loud Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-16-18
Wade in the Water Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-09-18
You are magic Rev. Meg Barnhouse
07-29-18
Let’s talk about depression Rev. Meg Barnhouse
07-22-18
The Genderbread Person Rev. Meg Barnhouse
07-08-18
A feeling for the holy Rev. Meg Barnhouse
07-01-18
ÊUnitarians and Abolition  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-17-18
Question Box Sermon  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-10-18
Does it hurt to Bloom?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-03-18
Things I Learned From My Mother  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-13-18
Seeds  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-22-18
Broken Things  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-08-18
A “Foolish” Easter  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-01-18
Finding our balance  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-25-18
Faith for UUs  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-04-18
Be the Spark  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-25-18
Why do bad things happen?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-11-18
Love, like a carefully loaded ship…  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-04-18
Animal Blessing Service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-28-18
The Power in the #MeToo Movement  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-21-18
How to invite changes in your life  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-07-18

2017 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
Christmas Pageant  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-24-17
Jesus’ Grandmothers Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-17-17
Grace  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-10-17
My Actions are My Only True Belongings  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-03-17
Elijah  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-19-17
Checking out, Falling back, Overwhelmed  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-12-17
Those who have gone before  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-29-17
Doing Justice  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-22-17
Groundbreaking  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-15-17
Transformation through service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-08-17
The Birthday of the World  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-24-17
Gathering in Community  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-17-17
Truth, Crushed to Earth, Shall Rise Again  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-16-17
You have to be carefully taught  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-02-17
Adventures in Hymnody  Kiya Heartwood
03-26-17
Get it to the size of an Oreo  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-05-17
Dealing with difficult people  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-26-17
Right Effort  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-12-17
Animal Blessing Service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-29-17
Trust, The Decor Committee & Citizens United  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-15-17
Right Livelihood  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-08-17

2016 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
Christmas Day Service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-25-16
Christmas Pageant  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-18-16
Star of Truth  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-11-16
A clear mind and an open heart  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-04-16
Acceptance and encouragement  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-13-16
Right speech  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-06-16
Honoring the ancestors  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-30-16
Right intention and the 10-10-10 rule  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-23-16
The final form of love, which is forgiveness  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-09-16
Mom, He started it  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-25-16
Abandon Hope and Fear  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-18-16
Water communion service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-04-16
The deep end of the heart  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-28-16
What holds us together?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-14-16
What I learned on my summer vacation  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-07-16
Talking to the trees  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-05-16
What’s the difference: Venting vs Lamentation  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-22-16
Make New Mistakes  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-08-16
Prayer beads for UUs  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-01-16
What’s the difference: Trinitarian and Unitarian?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-17-16
Punk Theology  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-03-16
Pretty Yellow Flower Day  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-27-16
The man comes around  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-20-16
Bee Yard Etiquette  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-06-16
What’s the difference: Protestants and Catholics?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-21-16
So many songs about love  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-14-16
Respecting the Fire  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-07-16
Forgiveness  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-24-16
What the difference between Sunni & Shiite Islam?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-10-16
Burning Bowl  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-03-16

2015 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
The Christians and the Pagans  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-20-15
Christmas Pageant  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-13-15
An upside-down world: A Hymn of reversal  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-06-15
Family Life as a Spiritual Path  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-22-15
The ugly duckling  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-08-15
At the threshold  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-01-15
Dialogue with Conservatives  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-18-15
Listening to Drag  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-11-15
Oh, Delilah  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-04-15
Good Grief  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-27-15
All beginnings are difficult  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-13-15
Choose to enjoy your life  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-30-15
The first one to try  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-23-15
Which God don’t you believe in?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-16-15
Father Earth, Mother Sky  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-21-15
Juneteenth  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-14-15
The boy who drew cats  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-07-15
Goldilocks and Elijah  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-24-15
Choosing to Bless the World  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-03-15
The Impossible Task  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-26-15
How many plagues will it take?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-12-15
The Cellist of Sarajevo  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-05-15
Palm Sunday  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-29-15
Question Box Sermon  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-08-15
The Red Shoes Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-01-15
The Book of Love Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-15-15
Want what you have Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-08-15
Blessing and being blessed: Animal Blessing Service Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-01-15

 

2014 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
Christmas History  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-21-14
Dirty Water  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
12-07-14
Gratitude  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-23-14
The Problem of Evil  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-16-14
Keep the home fires burning  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-09-14
The Ancestors’ Ways  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
11-02-14
Circle Round – Women’s Spirituality Tradition  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-26-14
Trust and Welcome  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-19-14
Now THIS is church  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-12-14
Forgiveness and Repentance  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
10-05-14
Sexual Morality, Justice, and Healing  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-28-14
Give them Hope, not Hell  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-21-14
Water Communion Service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
09-07-14
Playing ball on running water  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-31-14
Sacred Spaces  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
08-24-14
My faith is in science, but I try to keep an open mind  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
07-20-14
The death penalty, reluctant soldiers & Edward O. Wilson  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
07-13-14
Spiritual Growth  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-29-14
Honor Your Father  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-15-14
The Cherokee Removal  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-08-14
Rilke’s Swan  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
06-01-14
A Juicy slice of UU history – Michael Servetus  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-11-14
May the force be with you  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-04-14
Jesus’ Grandmothers  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-20-14
Depression  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-13-14
God wants you to be rich!  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
04-06-14
Balance/Equinox  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-23-14
Celtic Christianity/Redemption  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-16-14
The Second Commandment  Rev. Meg Barhnouse
03-09-14
Heard it through the grapevine  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
03-02-14
Failure is impossible  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-16-14
What we are worshiping, we are becoming  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-09-14
Animal Blessing Service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
02-02-14
The Magic of Music  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-19-14
Architecture and spirit  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-12-14
Burning Bowl  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
01-05-14

2013 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
A Sudden Flame, an Extraordinary Journey  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-22-13
Christmas Pageant  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-15-13
A UU Faith Story: John Murray  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-08-13
How did we get the bible?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-01-13
A Juicy Slice of UU History: The Iowa Sisterhood  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-17-13
Dismantling Racism  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-10-13
Creating Community  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-03-13
Mystery, Spookiness, Magic and Wonder  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-27-13
Walking between the raindrops Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-20-13
I’m a believer  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-13-13
Bedrock Values at the heart of humanism  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-29-13
Not so good at mindfullness  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-22-13
What if you can’t keep your promise  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-15-13
Water Communion  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-08-13
Margaret Sanger  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 08-25-13
Life of Pi  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 08-18-13
The Oversoul  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 08-11-13
Defense against the dark arts  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 08-04-13
Like Slow-Growing Trees in a Ruined Place  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-30-13
Amazing Grace  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-16-13
The Rose  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-09-13
Tales of the tribe  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-02-13
The right thing to do  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 05-05-13
Fiery and Fearless: Olympia Brown  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-28-13
The Gaia Psalms  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-21-13
Lies, gossip and fighting words  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-14-13
Will you harbor me?  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-07-13
Only life and death  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 03-31-13
Afri-kin  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 03-24-13
Good question  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 03-17-13
As God is my witness, I’ll never be hungry again  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 03-03-13
Recovery from Fundamentalism Rev. Meg Barnhouse 02-17-13
A Juicy Slice of UU History: Theodore Parker Rev. Meg Barnhouse 02-10-13
God the huntress Rev. Meg Barnhouse 02-03-13
Abandon Hope and Fear Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-27-13
The delicate art of forgiveness Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-13-13
Burning Bowl Service  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-06-13

2012 Sermons

Sermon Topic
Author
Date
Blue Christmas Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-23-12
Christmas Pageant Rev. Meg Barnhouse and Marisol Caballero 12-16-12
Rekindled Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-09-12
Sweet Honey from old failures Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-02-12
Thank you, I’m going downhill Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-18-12
Equilibrium with Elegance: Jazz and UU Theology  Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-11-12
Kicking the Statue of Shiva Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-21-12
A Safe Place Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-14-12
Land of Hope and Dreams Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-07-12
American Civil Religion Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-23-12
A Relationship of Promises Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-16-12
ÊSetting Sail Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-09-12
Water Ceremony and Ingathering Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-02-12
Bee Yard Etiquette Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-17-12
The Real Ten Commandments Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-10-12
Gold in the Shadow Rev. Meg Barnhouse 06-03-12
ÊWhat I learned from my mother Rev. Meg Barnhouse 05-13-12
Gaia Psalms Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-22-12
Grasshoppers in the Glittering Net Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-15-12
Quartet for the end of time Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-08-12
How many UUs does it take to change a lightbulb? Rev. Meg Barnhouse 04-01-12
What is enough? Rev. Meg Barnhouse 03-18-12
When to take the leap Rev. Meg Barnhouse 03-04-12
She stirs up the world Rev. Meg Barnhouse 02-19-12
The man who ate a car Rev. Meg Barnhouse 02-12-12
Everybody’s got a Hungry Heart Rev. Meg Barnhouse 02-05-12
Afri-Kin Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-29-12
Installation Service of Rev. Meg Barnhouse Rev. Peter Morales 01-15-12
A Stone of Hope Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-15-12
The Democratic Process Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-08-12
Burning Bowl Rev. Meg Barnhouse 01-01-12

 

2011 Sermons

 

Sermon Topic Author Date
Christmas Eve Lessons and Carols Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-24-11
How to disagree passionately and peacefully Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-18-11
Wisdom Tree Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-11-11
A Juicy Slice of Unitarian History Rev. Meg Barnhouse 12-04-11
The devil and Martha Stewart Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-20-11
Digging a good, deep well Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-13-11
There’s a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in. Rev. Meg Barnhouse 11-06-11
Honoring the Ancestors Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-30-11
Be a stream, not a swamp Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-16-11
We are gay and straight together Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-09-11
Repentance, Forgiveness, Reconciliation Rev. Meg Barnhouse 10-02-11
All the gossip from Concord Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-18-11
Where are the strong? Who are the trusted? Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-11-11
Water Communion Rev. Meg Barnhouse 09-04-11
A Spiritual Stretch Rev. Meg Barnhouse 08-28-11
Keeping an Eye on the Demolition Twins Rev. Meg Barnhouse 08-21-11
Liberty, Healing, Good News Rev. Meg Barnhouse 05-22-11
Where I come from is like this Rev. Meg Barnhouse 05-15-11
 Rapture in America  Rev. Meg Barnhouse
05-04-08

Not Just a Matter of Words

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Rev. Leona Stucky-Abbott
January 11, 2026
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

This sermon fosters understanding of erroneous Biblical expectations regarding God’s actions, of the human longing that informs people’s faith, of differences between polar perspectives and where they might coalesce, and of how UU principles may prompt action rather than remain just words. It tells stories that provoke, explore, and suggest.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

First Thessalonians 4:16-18

“For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the archangel’s call, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first; then we who are alive, who are left, shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we shall always be with the Lord. Therefore comfort one another with these words.”

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

From AS I LAY DYING
by William Faulkner

Addie, reflecting on her differences with her neighbor Cora, says: “One day I was talking to Cora. She prayed for me because she believed i was blind to sin, wanting me to kneel and pray too, because people to whom sin is just a matter of words, to them salvation is just words too.”

Sermon

Rev. Dr. Leona Stucky-Abbott is a Unitarian Universalist community minister and a member of our congregation. A mother and grandmother, she often says that lived experience has been her greatest teacher, shaping her theological and psychological insights. The Fog of Faith: Surviving My Impotent God is her memoir chronicling her first 23 years as a Mennonite – a compelling story of how life can irrevocably alter a faith journey.

Welcome. I’m so glad to be here speaking with you, as one of you. What a privilege. Thank you for sharing this time. Hopefully as an old and wise woman.

I’m a plain speaker. I tend to put things right out on the table, and that can unsettle some people. I don’t intend to be provocative for its own sake. While I’m a UU minister, I also carry 18 years of rural Kansas redneck in me and about 500 years of Mennonite coursing in my blood. That’s not an easy combo. Some sermons don’t require much self-care, but this one might. I trust you’ll be wise on your own behalf.

Preaching begins as a one-way conversation. The second half comes from you. I want to learn from you. I’ll be toasting your responses in Howson Hall with a cup of coffee after the service. Please share your thoughts and feelings. And if you’re watching online, feel free to respond digitally.

NOT JUST A MATTER OF WORDS

A couple of days before the Women’s March in January of 2017, I found myself protesting with thousands of others at Freedom Plaza in Washington, DC. Afterward – chilled to the bone – I ducked into a bar, ostensibly to warm up. Wine was elegantly priced. Beer would have to do.

The place filled quickly, and a young man – maybe in his early forties – took the seat beside me. We exchanged the usual small talk. I asked what brought him to DC.

He said he had pieced together a couple of extra days off and scraped the funds to attend the inauguration. He had to be there, he said. He had prayed for this day. He wasn’t going to miss the victory he believed would finally set things right. It was too important.

Perhaps my face betrayed my surprise, because he began to explain. He told me about his work back in Connecticut – how he picks up the bloody pieces after tragedy, how he must explain the inexplicable to families, how he must catch the culprits who rarely stay in custody long. The courts do little. The crimes go on and on. The cruelty continues.

He hears horrors every day – stories of what has happened and fears of what will – often from the very people who treat him as the enemy. “What the hell can I do?” he asked, shoulders sinking, voice wavering. He was sick of it all. I tried to take in, not just his words, but the whole of his experience.

He spoke of gruesome cases. He spoke of rage – rage at the “high and mighty liberals” who looked down on him. His body trembled when he described their children taunting him. But when he spoke of the promise of an authoritarian leader – someone who would uphold the law and demand obedience – his face lit up. For him, this was not rhetoric. Not slogans. This was real leadership.

Eventually, silence settled between us. We looked at each other, then down. I nodded in recognition of his predicaments. We both knew that in forty minutes, we had crossed a profound chasm. We shook hands, a gesture too small for the tenderness of that goodbye.

Later, I wondered if I had been too passive. Should I have said, “Let me tell you why I came to DC?”. But no. It was wiser to take in and hold. To let him touch my heart. I have often imagined his spirits soaring during the inauguration. And I still hope our meeting meant something to him. It did to me.

The Apostle Paul came to mind. You can guess I was once a seminary student (who else thinks of Paul at a bar?)

Paul, too, spoke of something that was not just words. He believed that Jesus’ resurrection was the final evidence that God’s power would radically transform life on earth. He proclaimed news that humble, hurting people longed to hear: that God would soon overturn the powers of the world and reveal ultimate justice. There would be care for ordinary human beings in this world after all.

Paul’s apocalyptic vision imagined God returning soon, within their lifetime, with unfathomable glory. The faithful rising to meet God in the sky. The dead lifted from their graves. Every cruel ruler destroyed. Every oppressive system dismantled. The world transformed.

Imagine it: despots gone. Oligarchs stripped of power. Bye-Bye! Every person long trapped in poverty suddenly free to live in peace. Life where love abounds. Death with no sting. However you picture it, Paul’s vision was astonishing. And for him, being a bit rambunctious and over-the-top, the way a Kansas Redneck might be, it was not metaphor. Not poetry. Not just words.

Of course, later interpreters tried to soften Paul’s claims – spiritualizing them, postponing them. But the longing behind Paul’s vision has not disappeared.

After World War I, soldiers returned home traumatized by trenches filled with rotting bodies – human and horses alike. They had been forced to shoot at people who looked and believed like they did. They came home saying, “This world is full of evil. God will not let this stand. The end must be near.” Perhaps that was easier than saying, “God, if he is there, let this happen.”

Biblical scholar, Walter Brueggemann, teaches that apocalyptic thought arises from people who have lived through too much hell on earth. It is the cry of those who long for decisive help. And he reminds us: if we have not yet experienced that kind of hell, we are no better than those who have.

William Faulkner’s character Addie Bundren, in As I Lay Dying, understood the need for visceral and real spiritual happenings. Addie, lying on her deathbed, reflects on her neighbor Cora’s desire to save her. Addie says: “One day I was talking to Cora. She prayed for me because she believed I was blind to sin, wanting me to kneel and pray too, because people to whom sin is just a matter of words, to them salvation is just words too.”

I have been reflecting on Addie’s thought for fifty years. I resisted it. I forgot it. It returned again and again. But now – at this moment in our history – I finally understand.

If we treat authoritarianism as just a matter of words…

If we treat money flowing to billionaires as just a matter of words…

If we treat a media unwilling to ask hard questions as just a matter of words…

If we treat bribery twisting foreign policy as just a matter of words…

If we treat the tackling, imprisoning, and renditioning of immigrants as just a matter of words…

If we treat corruption of the justice system as just a matter of words…

If we treat missiles fired into fishing boats and government agents shooting innocent victims as just a matter of words…

If we treat sending bombs and other resources that will be used to destroy a people and their homeland as just a matter of words…

If we treat breaking international law by violating the territory and resources of smaller nations, like Putin does against Ukraine, as just a matter of words…

Then we should not be surprised if our salvation turns out to be just words too.

Our Unitarian Universalist tradition rejected the idea that sin is inherited like a genetic trait. We became allergic to words like sin and salvation. But today, sin and salvation need not be abstractions because they are no longer just words.

Without democracy, oligarchy fills the vacuum. These are not just words. Those with power write laws that protect their power. Wealth concentrates. The poor, the unfree, the unheard multiply. The transfer of wealth accelerates – until the governed are governed no more, but ruled.

This now established sin, in our country, has been significantly aided by conservative Supreme Court decisions over the last fifteen years – decisions, like Citizens United, that opened the floodgates for money to buy legislation, later decisions removed caps on political spending, and finally in 2024 the conservative Supreme Court made bribery nearly impossible to prosecute unless a specific quid pro quo is spelled out in advance. Bribery is essentially legal now, another tool that escorts money and power to a select few.

These consequences are real. They are measurable. They devastate our democracy.

If I am wrong in what I have described, and you believe me, then – as Paul said of himself and his own followers – If we are wrong, we are, of all people, most to be pitied. So think hard about what you believe. It is dangerous to assume we know God. Dangerous even to assume God exists. Dangerous to think as Paul did, that God’s actions would save us. Dangerous to trust easy answers that remain just words.

But principles – principles are not doctrines. They are not screeds or creeds. They are not inherited. They are chosen. They are lived.

And our values – our Unitarian Universalist values – are not just a matter of words. They shape us. They guide us. They act in our actions, every day, when we are true to them.

  • We believe in the inherent worth and dignity of every person.
  • Justice, equity, and compassion in human relations.
  • Acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth.
  • A free and responsible search for truth and meaning.
  • The right of conscience and the democratic process.
  • The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all.
  • We respect the interdependent web of all existence.

 

Bribery is not in our lexicon. Cruelty is not in our lexicon. Authoritarianism is not in our lexicon. Our values make us capable of effective loving relationships – even when we fall short. They shape how we show up in the world. They are, quite simply, the way we roll.

They are not just words, if we live them.

Still, like humans everywhere, we live in the murky muddy miasma of daily choices and energy limitations. We can only do and understand so much. And sometimes we are surprised by the effect other people have on us and we on them.

I am surprised to hear myself sounding more and more like my policeman friend these days.

What happened to the law? I keep saying. Why don’t the courts do something that matters? How can we clean up crimes and cruelty when it seems to flow out in so many directions at once? Why do we become the enemy of the people we are trying to support? I can appreciate my policeman’s frustrations and his self-defeating mantras that seem to reflect reality. I feel them too.

Perhaps we are trapped in Paul’s predicament, where we simply misunderstand. Do we have a God? If so, what does that God do? Paul thought he knew, and for Paul, what he knew was not just a matter of words. We’ve waited 2000 years, and we wonder, what did Paul really know?

I admire Paul’s get-up-and-go spirit, his restlessness, and his way of putting out there what he thought was salvation for his whole world. His self-awareness made him openly admit that he couldn’t do the good he wanted but often did the opposite. He wasn’t one to fool himself. He didn’t want to be the one ‘most to be pitied.’ He was trying to track reality, a spirituality that would be reality. He didn’t want just a matter of words.

His assessment of his world is not that different from our own. We know our oligarchs will not create the world we need. We know we have the fight of our lives on our plate right now. Wouldn’t ultimate assistance be great? But we might have learned the lesson that Paul represents, not the lesson he tried to preach.

We know the struggle and the pace. We have many ways to approach it, and we can invent many more. One suggestion that comes to my mind is simply to gather all the phone numbers of our senators and representatives, our school board members, our state leaders, our city council members, mayors, and our national and international leaders.

Get those numbers and add them to your phone’s favorites list. Calling is said to be the most effective way to contact political leaders. It doesn’t matter what party they belong to or whether you resonate with their vision. Simply call and make yourself known. Not just your words, but make them deal with your whole self, the yearnings of your heart, your unswerving principles that must be honored. You can do that.

And one more thing. Try extending yourself to some people who are not saying the same things you say. Listen until you hear the true yearning of their hearts, and try a little tenderness. Listen until you hear more than just their words. Try it. You can do that too.

And another thing. Seek out the group support that is readily available here and beyond.

Sometimes it helps to do everything we know to do and something we have not yet dared to try. Think about it and do something that fits you. You likely already do.

So now we come back to Addie. She is lying there in that old trailer, longing to get back to her kinfolk, her home. To be buried in the ground she trod upon as a child. Her rough and tumble family don’t know how to make happen what they know should happen. They try, and they are trying, but every effort is weighed down, distress, dysfunction, and the general depravity of the human endeavor coalesce against Addie’s soul’s yearning. She is spent. She doesn’t have words, but her mind veers toward her neighbor Cora, who so wants to save her, to get her to pray, to relieve herself of her burdens and turn them over to God. Surely then happiness would follow her beyond the grave into the arms of God.

But Addie knows herself the way Paul knew himself when he said the Good that I would do, I do not do. Sin is not just words to her. Real life tore her from her ideals over and over again. She lived the anguish of the murky, muddy everyday. No longer in possession of the hopes that might have animated her younger self, she knows she is lost and is dying. Words cannot save her. What she needs from God now, is more than just words. A lot more. Perhaps she could be lifted up to the heavens, as Paul thought, or healed on the spot – not just words.

Perhaps for her, like for Paul, God won’t do what must be done. What then? What then? Perhaps that experience of ineptitude, abandonment and death does not shock her the way it shocked Mark’s Jesus when he cried out on the cross, “My God, My God Why have you forsaken me?”. Perhaps Addie knew it all along. Salvation must not be just a matter of words, or death is an ultimate sting, is the final victor. As she lay dying, salvation needed to be More. In the teeth of death, Addie had the little life that was left to her, and she knew that something needed to be more than just words. A spiritual journey is life’s journey and that is a dangerous thing. It was for Paul, for Mark’s Jesus, and for Addie. Is it for us? Does the knowing kill the yearning inside us?

We live in tension. The knowing that often hits through news cycles wants to quell yearning. The yearning hits solidly against any truthful knowing that opposes it. It hits and it bounces off. What a dilemma – this being human.

The yearning in Addie’s heart, as she lay dying, that yearning for more than just words, may live, recognized or not, in our own hearts. The yearning and the knowing. May we hold in our hearts, Addie’s yearning and knowing, and our own yearning and knowing, and try a little tenderness.

Thank you so very much.

And the people say. Amen. Blessed Be.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

May we go forth from this place with these people and try a little tenderness with ourselves and others who have different answers but live in the same predicament.


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2026 Burning Bowl

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Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
January 4, 2026
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Annual Burning Bowl Service – As we enter a new year, we enter a liminal space. A time in which we are between the known and the unknown. All the joys and sorrows that we faced in 2025 have changed us. Sometimes those changes have been good or enriching, and sometimes they have not. During our burning bowl service, we contemplate what we would like to let go of so that we may more easily find our center as we move into the new year.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

My friend talked to me today about liminal spaces. She told me they are the in-between stages, when one era of your life is over, but the next hasn’t yet begun.

It’s a place of change, of uncertainty, of questions, of waiting. I thought of God for some reason. Maybe the absence of God is actually the presence of them.

Maybe it’s the spaces between words that matter the most. Maybe it’s the way the piano sounds when it’s not being played. Maybe truth only makes itself known in the absence of answers.

After all, plants do grow in sidewalk cracks.

– from a poet that goes by NB.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

NEW YEAR’S DAY
by Kathleen McTigue

The first of January is another day dawning, the sun rising as the sun always rises, the earth moving in its rhythms. With or without our calendars, to name a certain day as the day of new beginning, separating the old from the new.

So, it is, everything is the same, bound into its history as we ourselves are bound. Yet also, we stand at a threshold. The new year is something truly new, still unformed, leaving a stunning power in our hands.

What shall we do with this great gift of time this year? Let us begin by remembering that whatever justice, whatever peace and wholeness might bloom in our world this year, we are the hearts and minds, the hands and feet, the embodiment of all the best visions of our people. The new year can be new ground for the seeds of our dreams.

Let us take the step forward together onto new ground, planting our dreams well, faithfully, and in joy.

Sermon

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Please forgive any omissions or errors.

Today is our annual Burning Bull service. It’s a ritual of contemplation, of intention, of release. And if you are doing this from home with your piece of paper, you can use fire. If you’d like to, I’d like to encourage you to do that with safety. You can also dissolve your water in water or you can bury it. The point is to let the elements take from us what no longer serves us.

This ritual feels particularly important this year, because 2025, what a year. Am I right? Started out pretty awful.

And then, but like any old year, there were probably a mix of joys, personal joys too. It might have even been a pretty good year for you personally. That’s how I experienced it. I had some amazing experiences.

I get to be y’all’s minister. That was an amazing experience.

And I had challenging experiences. I had to learn how to live with long COVID. And I bet just like you, it came in the good and the bad.

But whatever we were experiencing it, our personal life could not be divorced from what we were experiencing out there in the world. We were doing all of that with the backdrop of some of the most awful atrocities. It’s been a lot.

I saw a bumper sticker the other day and it captured exactly how I was feeling. It says, “It is what it is. And it ain’t great.”

It ain’t great. It wasn’t great. I feel like I slid into 2026 all bruised up with a real raw heart.

And now we’re entering another year. And one that’s already started out pretty bumpy. If you’re feeling hesitation, if you are feeling trepidation, me too.

We are in a liminal space. We are right in the doorway of what was and what we do not know yet – and what we cannot predict. Liminal spaces are uncomfortable for that very reason.

We don’t know what will happen. Sometimes it’s easier to just start predicting what might happen, to project into the future by dragging along the past. But the truth is that not a word of the future has been written.

We write it. All of us, billions and billions of all of us on this planet, for better or worse, we’re co-creating the future. And that co-creation can be beautiful and it can be powerful.

I’ve seen that here. I’ve seen beautiful, powerful co-creation here in this community, especially with the last legislative session. But the thing about co-creation is that it reminds us that we actually don’t have that much control.

In fact, the control we have is pretty minuscule in the big scheme of things.

And so here we are, in a new unwritten chapter, stuck in what might feel like a lifetime group project. And who likes group projects? But here we are.

It is what it is. And our control is limited. But it’s not nothing.

We are limited to the actions we take, to how we spend our energy, to where we put our focus. It’s limited to how we want to show up in the world, in spite of the chaos and the storms around us. We get to choose how we will show up.

And we can choose to show up grounded. We can choose to slow down to the speed of our wisdom. That’s the control we have.

And so many things can get in the way and make us feel like we don’t have control to even do that. Making it so that instead of coming from a centered place, we move at the pace of our stress and our fear. Feeling pulled around from stressful situation to stressful situation, or from one awful headline to the next.

So as we enter this Burning Bowl Ritual, I want to take some time to think about what gets in our way. What makes it hard for you to choose to move through the world the way you like” What are those things that you have control over?

The habits or the thoughts that prevent you from showing up as you want to show up? What do you want to make a break from?What no longer serves you? What would be good to ritually release?

Maybe it’s old resentments or old hurts. Maybe it’s a pattern of self-sabotage, old stories that get in our way. Maybe it’s people who have hurt us over and over again without any hope of forgiveness or accountability.

Maybe it’s chronic and constant worry, outdated beliefs, lack of self-care. Maybe it’s something else entirely. Whatever it is, let’s take some deep breaths together and contemplate that.

You may wish to hold your flash paper to your heart, or you may whisper into it if you feel comfortable doing so.

In a moment, I will light the burning bowl, and I’ll invite you to please come down one line. This is my first year in Parish ministry, please don’t make me have a memorable burning bowl. And then if you will, please exit to your left.

And now, with deep breaths, with the ground underneath us, with the air above us. Let’s move with intention, as we whisper with what we no longer want into our paper, so that we can release it to the fire.

That was so beautiful. So liminal space. The time between what was and what we don’t know yet.

It’s uncomfortable. It’s uncomfortable because we don’t know what we’re headed for. But that’s every day, not just when the calendar tells us that 365 days have gone by.

Every day we face the unknown.

The only thing that we have is how we show up. I hope that what you released has made you feel lighter. I hope that it’s made you feel more grounded and more prepared for whatever it is that will come.

As we wind down our service today, I want us to pull to our mind that image or word or memory from our time in meditation, the one that made us feel strong or connected or grounded. Let’s take just two deep breaths together to fix that in our mind.

But what strengthens you may light a flame in the center of you, a flame to hold you, a flame to motivate you, and a flame to bring you to your deeper and higher self, even in the storm.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

As we leave this sacred time, as what is no longer yours has been transformed by the fire, as what strength in you is held in your heart, may you feel lighter and more grounded, and most importantly, may you feel held by this community and by love.

Go in peace.


SERMON INDEX

Most sermons during the past 26 years are available online through this website. Click on the index link above to find tables of all sermons for each year listed by date (newest to oldest) with topic and speaker. Click on a topic to go to that sermon.

PODCASTS

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2026 Sermon Indexes

2026 Sermons

 

Sermon Topic
Speaker
Date
 To What Ends  Rev Chris Jimmerson
 and Karen Kneeley
5-24-26
 Curiosity Uncaged the Cat   Rev Chris Jimmerson
5-17-26
 The Everyday Radicalization of Nurturing  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
5-10-26
 If…Then…  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
5-3-26
 A Theology of Limitless Possibilities  Rev Chris Jimmerson
4-26-26
 Our Mission is Powered by You  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
4-19-26
 A Faith that Dares a Radical Welcome  Dr Elías Ortega
4-12-26
 Of UU Easter Theology  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
 and Rev Chris Jimmerson
4-5-26
 Visibility Beyond Disparity  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
 and LB Lomeli
3-29-26
 Ceremony of Firsts  Rev Chris Jimmerson
 and Sol Cornell
3-22-26
 Mindfulness When the Present feels Overwhelming  Rev Chris Jimmerson
3-15-26
 Lousing My Religion  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
3-8-26
 Celebrating the Life of Meg Barnhouse  Rev Chris Jimmerson
 and many others
2-28-26
 You say you want a revolution  Rev Chris Jimmerson
3-1-26
 Unveiling the Mother behind God  Rev Leona Stucky-Abbott
2-22-26
 Blue Hats, Pink Hearts, and the Power of Love  Bis Thorton
2-15-26
 Fear…What is it good for?  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
2-8-26
 2026 Animal Blessing  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
2-1-26
 The Power of Utopian Thinking (Video service)  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
1-25-26
 Love Survives  Rev Erin Walter
1-18-26
 Not Just a Matter of Words  Rev Leona Stucky-Abbott
1-11-26
 2026 Burning Bowl  Rev Carrie Holley-Hurt
1-4-26

 

Sermon Archives Index

 

Sermon Indexes
by Year
Principal Speakers
2025 Sermon Index Chris Jimmerson, Michelle LaGrave, Erin Walter, Carrie Holley-Hurt
2024 Sermon Index Chris Jimmerson, Michelle LaGrave, Erin Walter
2023 Sermon Index Chris Jimmerson, Michelle LaGrave, Erin Walter, Jonalu Johnstone
2022 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson, Erin Walter, Jonalu Johnstone, Lee Legault, John Buehrens
 2021 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson
 2020 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson
 2019 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson, Lee Legault
 2018 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson
 2017 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson, Susan Yarbrough
 2016 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Chris Jimmerson, Marisol Caballero
 2015 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Marisol Caballero
 2014 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Marisol Caballero
 2013 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Marisol Caballero
 2012 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Marisol Caballero
 2011 Sermon Index Meg Barnhouse, Ed Brock
 2010 Sermon Index Janet Newman, Ed Brock,
 2009 Sermon Index Janet Newman
 2008 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Aaron White, Brian Ferguson
 2007 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Jack Harris Bonham
 2006 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Jack Harris Bonham
 2005 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Jack Harris Bonham
 2004 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Victoria Shepherd Rao
 The Jesus Seminar Davidson Loehr
 2003 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Hannah Wells
 2002 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr, Cathy Herrington
 2001 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr
 2000 Sermon Index Davidson Loehr

The Power of a Good Story

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Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
December 28, 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Storytelling is a powerful way to connect with one another, to understand ourselves and the world around us, and it just feels really good. Rev. Carrie explores the power of a good story.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

A story communicates fear, hope, and anxiety, and because we can feel it, we get the moral not just as a concept, but as a teaching of our hearts. That’s the power of story. That’s why most of our faith traditions interpret themselves as stories, because they are teaching our hearts how to live as choiceful human beings capable of embracing hope over fear, self-worth and self-love over self-doubt, and love over isolation and alienation.

– Marshall Ganz

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

Matthew 2:1-12

Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the East came to Jerusalem, saying, “Where is he who has been born king of the Jews? For we have seen his star in the East, and have come to worship him.” When Herod the king heard this, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him; and assembling all the chief priests and scribes of the people, he inquired of them where the Christ was to be born. They told him, “in Bethlehem of Judea; for so it is written by the prophet: And you, O Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for from you shall come a ruler who will govern my people Israel.”

Then Herod summoned the wise men secretly and ascertained from them what time the star appeared; and he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him bring me word, that I too may come and worship him.” When they had heard the king they went their way; and lo, the star which they had seen in the East went before them, till it came to rest over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy; and going into the house they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh. And being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed to their own country by another way.

Sermon

I love a good story, don’t you? Stories are fun and entertaining. And because they are fun and entertaining, they can be used as powerful tools.

Tools to help us connect to other people, other cultures, and other ways of understanding the world Because they help us to understand things from a different perspective And can help us to strengthen or even develop our values.

That is because stories engage our brains in a completely different way. When we hear stories, our thinking shifts from the amygdala to the prefrontal cortex.

Meaning stories make it possible for us to move out of the part of our brain that is mostly concerned about our survival, which tends to shrink our world into a part of our brain that is open and creative and empathetic.

From this place, when we hear or read about another being’s experience, our brains are flooded with feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine. Leading us to connect to them, even if they are fictional.

Does anyone have a favorite fiction character? Me too.

Storytelling is such a powerful tool because it expands our understanding of what it can look like to be a person on this planet. Which is why some people find them dangerous Dangerous enough to try to ban them.

Stories are just that powerful!

One person who saw the power of storytelling to connect us and develop life-changing empathy was the Unitarian writer Rod Sterling. Rod Sterling had seen and experienced a lot of horrible things during World War 2. When he left the military, he turned to writing to help him process his anger and all he was feeling. That got him into writing for television. When Emmitt Till, a black boy, was killed by white supremacists, he wanted to write TV scripts about racism and the atrocity of what happened to Emmitt Till.

The TV producers and censors did not like that.

So eventually he figured out that the way to do what he wanted, write TV shows that would tell a powerful story and make people think about big issues in our society, was to make it science fiction.

This is how he created the TV show The Twilight Zone, a popular, powerful, and often still relevant TV show. The beauty of the Twilight Zone is that both the oppressed and oppressors liked to watch it even though there were important messages about oppression. Because it was a story, it helped people enter a creative, empathetic space to examine larger issues, like prejudice. Even if they didn’t realize that was what was happening.

Stories are also way to communicate many important messages in an entertaining way. It’s often easier to grasp a big ideas through a story than through a list of facts because a story can squish in a bunch of concepts while you are in an open space.

For instance, the story that Margaret just read for us about the Magi is a pretty good one It’s a little weird.

Maybe it left you wanting to hear more or just left you confused. Maybe it was so familiar that you kind of tuned it out.

What if I told you that that story would have been way more powerful to you if you were a Jewish person who lived 2000 years ago?

The story of the Magi, sometimes called the three kings or the three Wise Men, was in a book in the Bible called Matthew. This book was about Jesus, and it was probably written about 50ish years after Jesus died.

The primary purpose of the book was to share Jesus teaching and to make an argument that Jesus was the rightful king, the Son of God, and that his death meant something.

The audience for this book were the Jewish people who were following the path of Jesus or who might come to follow it.

When this book was written, these people had been run out of their homeland by Rome, the empire who had been oppressing them for a long time had destroyed their temple and all of Jerusalem, and enslaved many people and other horrible things.

So if you are a Jewish person in the first century and you heard or read Matthew’s account of the Magi it would have probably been very exciting.

First of all, you would have grown up knowing about the Parthian Empire, and the religion Zoroastrianism. And you would have known that the Parthian empire was bigger and more powerful than Rome at the time.

So when the story says that the Magi come from the east, those early readers or hearers would have understood that Matthew was trying to say that an empire even more powerful than the Roman Empire saw the importance of Jesus.

And not only that, they would have understood that the magi were Zoroastrian priest, which meant they knew the truth, because their religion was about receiving the truth. The truth, they told Herod, that the King of the Jews had been born.

These important details mean that for these ancient readers and now us, these aren’t just men who seem vaguely important coming to give strange gifts to a baby.

Rather, they are symbols that say this baby is as important as Matthew says he is and he is bigger than Rome, and really any empire.

This would have been a powerful message to people who had endured the pain of living under an empire. And is still powerful for many people living under empire today.

Secondly, in the story we learn that the Magi are coming because of a star. If you were living in the 1st century you would have known that these men were coming from a part of the world that had the best astronomers. – People who watched and tracked the night sky and could interpret what they saw – and they could do it better than anyone… even the Romans. Having the star be a part of the story would have probably said to them two things.

First, it would have made you think of the story of the prophecy of Balaam, In that story it is said that the star would signal that the Messiah or Christ had come.

The Messiah is the person many Jewish people had been and still are waiting to come and bring salvation and liberation. And Matthew believed and wanted others to believe that Jesus was that Messiah.

But not only that, Matthew wanted people to believe that Jesus is the Son of God. Which was a title that the Roman Emperor Augusta had claimed for himself after seeing a comet. Augusta had a comet, but Jesus had a star, A star so powerful and steady that it could lead a group of important priest to his home….

And of course there are those weird gifts. I mean who brings myrrh to a baby. What is myrrh anyways?

If you lived in the ancient world those gifts would have signaled to you the whole of what Matthew was arguing.

Those ancient people would have associated Gold with Kingship Frankincense Gods and Goddess because that is what was burned in the temples.

And finally myrrh was to remind people of Jesus death. Myrrh is a very strong smelling oil that was used throughout that area on a body after someone had died.

There are tons and tons of thing that those early readers and hearers would have caught that we don’t catch, but when we give stories, especially stories that aren’t from our time or our culture the respect they deserve, we can get a greater insight than if we just insist on viewing things through our own lens. Because stories can expand our world.

When I try to look at this story through the lens of the people it was intended for I have a deeper understanding of the story and I understand why the story was told the way it was told. I don’t have to believe it as fact, but I do develop empathy for that ancient audience.

But we know that not all stories are meant for our good. For example, we know that the bible, where this story came from, has been used to do all sorts of harm.

The story of Noah in the Hebrew Bible was used my many Christian ministers to justify slavery in this country. It was used to justify colonization, misogyny, segregation, homophobia, and so much more.

Those things could be justified because there were already stories out there that said men were better than women, that Europeans were better than others, that Christians were better than others, that able-bodied people are better than disabled people and on and on.

These stories are old and have done so much damage and they are still around.

So what do we do when stories are such powerful tools AND can be used to do harm?

Well, I think we have to be wise when we listen to stories. For me this looks like holding my values close. Like the Equity value that we have in Unitarian Universalism, that says:

“every person has the right to flourish with inherent dignity and worthiness.”

So if I hear a story that pits one group against another, I can step back, apply my values to it, and see how it holds up.

 

Stories are such powerful tools that we need to make sure we use our wisdom when we hear them, and if something sits wrong with us, it’s a sign to investigate that.

It might be that you are picking up a lesson from a story that is harmful…. or it could be that you are having to evaluate your own values and beliefs.

Unlike those ancient people reading Matthew, we have access to so many stories… every single day. Often told in less than a minute.

We have to make sure that what we let in, helps us grow and live more deeply into our values.

Storytelling can expand our world by helping us to see outside our limited experience and understanding.

Stories allows us to literally let out brains relax making it easier for us to step into another person’s shoes, to experience things that we ourselves haven’t and might never will. It makes us more empathetic and more connected.

And when we listen with wisdom, it can help us to understand ourselves and our values in a deeper way. So this is your call to action:

  • Tell your stories
  • And ask each other for stories
  • Fill your world with stories from other people, other times, and other places So that you might be more connected
  • More empathetic
  • And have a more expansive life.

 

And make sure that whoever’s story you are listening to… even if they are the ones you tell yourself, that they are stories that are seeking the truth and beauty and wisdom of what it means to be a human on this planet.

Because storytelling is a powerful tool.

May we listen well.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

As we leave this sacred time of community,
of fun,
of comfy cozy togetherness,
May you feel inspired to tell your story,
May you feel eager to hear others,
with wisdom,
and may the telling and the hearing connect us.

Go with a good story!


SERMON INDEX

Most sermons during the past 25 years are available online through this website. Click on the index link above to find tables of all sermons for each year listed by date (newest to oldest) with topic and speaker. Click on a topic to go to that sermon.

PODCASTS

Podcasts of this and other sermons are also available for free on iTunes. You can find them by clicking on the podcast link above or copying and pasting this link. https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/first-unitarian-universalist/id372427776

2025 Christmas Pageant

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Rev. Chris Jimmerson & Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
December 21, 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

We join together for this annual tradition of song and holiday merriment.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

WHAT ARE YOU HERE FOR?
by Quinn G. Caldwell

If you came to this place expecting a tame story, you came to the wrong place.

If you came for a story that does not threaten you, you came for a different story than the one we tell.

If you came to hear of the coming of a God who only showed up so that you could have a nice day with your loved ones, then you came for a God whom we do not worship here.

For even a regular baby is not a tame thing. And goodness that cannot threaten complacency and evil is not much good at all, and a God who would choose to give up power and invincibility to become an infant for you, certainly didn’t do it just you could have dinner.

But.

If you came because you think that unwed teenage mothers are some of the strongest people in the world.

If you came because you think that the kind of people who work third shift doing stuff you’d rather not do might attract an angel’s attention before you, snoring comfortably in your bed, would.

If you came because you think there are wise men and women to be found among undocumented travelers from far lands and that they might be able to show you God.

If you came to hear a story of tyrants trembling while heaven comes to peasants.

If you came because you believe that God loves the animals as much as the people and so made them the first witnesses to the saving of the world.

If you came for a story of reversals that might end up reversing you.

If you came for a tale of adventure and bravery, where strong and gentle people win, and the powerful and violent go down to dust, where the rich lose their money but find their lives and the poor are raised up like kings.

If you came to be reminded that God loves you too much to leave you unchanged.

If you came to follow the light even if it blinds you.

If you came for salvation and not safety, then: ah, my friends, you are in the right place.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

THE INNKEEPER
by Anne Dilenschneider

The innkeeper isn’t part of most Nativity sets. No one sings carols about innkeepers. There don’t seem to be any paintings that include them. But we can imagine the scene:

Bethlehem is crowded with people coming home for the census. It’s late at night when the innkeeper responds to a knock on the door and finds a young couple standing there. The woman is very pregnant. She and her spouse look exhausted.They’ve walked a hundred miles over rough, rocky terrain to get here from Nazareth.

The innkeeper is confronted with a dilemma. The inn is full; there just isn’t any more room. At the same time, the innkeeper knows that offering hospitality is part of being God’s people, because they had been sojourners and strangers in Egypt. That’s why the innkeeper has always made sure there’s an empty chair for an unexpected guest at the annual seder meal celebrating Passover.

What to do?

As a child, the innkeeper had learned the story of Abraham and Sarah welcoming three strangers into their home. After they made the strangers a lavish feast, the couple discovered their guests were messengers (“angels”) sent to bring great news: as laughable as it seemed, the elderly Sarah was going to have a baby. So, the innkeeper knows the tradition of entertaining strangers; the innkeeper knows strangers are messengers (“angels”) from God. Tonight there is a bedraggled and weary couple on this very doorstep. What to do?

The innkeeper pulls the door to a bit, hastily assessing the situation. Is there any space, anywhere? The beds are all taken. There are even people sleeping on the floor. What to do? Is there any possible solution?

In a moment of inspiration, the innkeeper remembers the stable out behind the inn. It’s not much, but it’s some protection from the wind. No matter how bitter the weather may become, the heat from the animals will keep these guests warm.

The innkeeper flings open the door and welcomes the couple with a broad smile. There’s not much, but there’s a possibility. A stable. Will it suffice?

It does.

And the innkeeper saves the day.

Our Annual No Rehearsal Christmas Pageant

OPENING WORDS

The season of the winter solstice has been celebrated in one form or another for thousands of years.

A hundred different cultures have told stories about how the birth of their gods took place at this time of year.

In the Northern Hemisphere, we tell stories about how light, hope and life are returning to the world.

Darkness is good for rest and for root growth, but we also need light for growth and setting a direction, so, while we revere darkness, we humans also celebrate light.

Today we will present the Christian faith story, as Christianity is one of the sources of our UU faith.

It is the story of a special baby, a child of God as all babies are, a child called Jesus who became one of humanity’s great teachers.

As UUs, we know that we do not have to believe that the stories of our sacred texts are literally true to embrace the metaphorical wisdom that may be found within them.

In this way, we are able to reclaim such stories and retell them in ways that reflect our living tradition, for which revelation is not sealed.

Today this story is wrapped not only in swaddling clothes, but also in wonderful carols, which also contain some Earth-based Solstice elements.

THE CHRISTMAS STORY

Here is the Christmas story. It happened a very long time ago in a land far away. A couple named Joseph and Mary had to make a journey to the city of Bethlehem, because there was a new law that said everyone had to return to the city of their birth in order to pay their taxes.

Joseph was worried about Mary taking this trip as she was going to have a baby very soon, but Mary wanted to be with her husband for the birth of their first child. It was a long trip to Bethlehem, three full days of walking. Mary was glad when they could see the rooftops of Bethlehem in the distance.

“Joseph,” she said, “Let’s stay at the first inn we come to. I think our baby is almost ready to be born.”

But when they got to Bethlehem, they found the little town crowded with people. They stopped at the first inn they came to and knocked on the door. But the innkeeper told them, “I’m sorry, there is no more room here.” At the next inn the innkeeper said, “We’re full. Try the place three streets over. It’s bigger.” Joseph tried another place and another place, but everywhere it was the same story: “Sorry, no room for you here.”

Finally, when it was almost night, they saw a house at the edge of town with a light in the window. Joseph knocked at the door, and told the innkeeper, “Please help us. We need a place for the night. My wife is going to have a baby soon and I don’t think she can travel any farther.”

And the innkeeper said, “There’s no room in the inn, but don’t worry, we’ll find someplace for you.” The innkeeper showed Mary and Joseph to a quiet little barn where the animals were. It was clean and warm and smelled like sweet hay.

And on that very night in that barn in Bethlehem, their little baby was born. They named him Jesus. Mary and Joseph wrapped him in the soft swaddling cloth and made a little bed for him in the hay. That night, like every night, there were shepherds in the fields outside Bethlehem, watching the flocks of sheep. The shepherds were surprised and amazed by a very bright light in the sky and a strange song coming from nowhere and everywhere, all at once. It was angels and they were glorious!

After sharing the joyous news, the angels went to see the baby born in a stable in the city of Bethlehem to tell him hello. What a beautiful baby!

After the angels had gone away, the shepherds remembered what they had said, that a wonderful baby had been born and that they could find him by following the brightest star in the sky. So the shepherds all said to each other, “Let’s go look for that baby.” They had no trouble finding the stable, because of the bright star, and sure enough, there inside were Mary and Joseph, watching over their little baby, Jesus. And the shepherds saw that Jesus was just stunning. “Oh! What a beautiful baby!” Then the shepherds went away and told everyone what they had seen.

On this same night, three wise ones saw the bright star and said to each other, “Look at the amazing star! It must be shining for something very special!” The wise ones loaded up their camels with treasures and traveling supplies and followed the star all the way to Bethlehem. Jesus was very young when the wise ones found him, but they knew he was special. “What a wonderful child. This child will be our teacher.” And they gave their gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh, and other gifts useful for babies.

Mary and Joseph wondered for a long time about all of these things that happened when their child was born. “lt’s astonishing that all these people would come to see our baby and give us presents for him. They don’t even know him.”

When Jesus grew up, he was a courageous teacher, just like the wise ones said. And one of the most important things he tried to teach people was to love each other and to treat all people, even strangers, with kindness and care. And people who have tried to follow his best teachings have become better people, and have spread light through their world, which is what we are here to do.

Tonight we shared the Christmas Story about one special baby. But this baby isn’t the only special one. Every child is a treasure, a wonder and a miracle. And as they grow up, they are always and forever a treasure, a wonder and a miracle.

READING

“EACH NIGHT A CHILD IS BORN”
by Sophia Lyon Fahs, Excerpted and adapted

For so the children come
and so they have been coming.
Always in the same way they came-
Born of the seed of man and woman.

No angels herald their beginnings.
No prophets predict their future courses.
no wise man see a star to show where to find
The babe that will save humankind.
Yet each night a child is born is a holy night.
Fathers and mothers
Sitting beside their children’s cribs-
Feel glory in the sight of a new beginning.
They ask “Where and how will this new life end?
Or will it ever end?”

Each night a child is born is a holy night
A time for singing-
A time for wondering
A time for worshipping.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

As we leave this sacred time of holding
in this season of the most, may we remember that
We can choose joy
We can make hope a discipline
And we can find our peace
And we can practice faith
In one another
And in ourselves
And may we remember that we have this community and
love to hold us through it all.

Go in peace.


SERMON INDEX

Most sermons during the past 25 years are available online through this website. Click on the index link above to find tables of all sermons for each year listed by date (newest to oldest) with topic and speaker. Click on a topic to go to that sermon.

PODCASTS

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Peace in the Chaos

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Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
December 14, 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

It’s the season of peace or so they say. What does peace mean when there is so little of it in the world? Where do we find our peace? Rev. Carrie explores peace and how we might think about it in times of chaos.


Prelude

“Cantata 140: Wenn Kommst Du, Mein Heil & Zion Hort Die Wachter Singen” (J.S. Bach) – Jihee Han (soprano), Robert Harlan (bass & Beth Blackerby (violin); The First UU Adult Vocal Ensemble & Orchestra; Brent Baldwin, conductor

Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

RIVER CALL
by Rev. Manish K. Mishra-Marzetti

Between rocking the boat
and sitting down;
between stirring things up,
and peaceably going along, We find ourselves here,
in community.

Each called
from many different journeys,
Many different life paths,
onto this river road.

Some are here because the rocking of the boat has been too much: too much tumult,
too much uncertainty,
too much pain.

Some are here with questions about where the boat is going;
how best to steer it;
where this journey ends.
Others are here,
as lovers of the journey, lovers of life itself.

Here in front
beside,
Behind each a passenger;
each a captain;
doing the best we can.

“Rest here, in your boat,
with me,” the river calls;
“Listen to how I flow,
the sound of life coursing all around you.” Let the current hold you,
let the current guide you;
the river that gently flows through your soul,
Whispers:

“Come, let us worship.”

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Music

“Cantata 140: Mein Freund ist Mein” (J.S. Bach) – Jihee Han (soprano), Kelan Latimer (bass) & Julianne Webner (oboe)

Reading

THIS HOLIDAY SEASON
by Rev. Addae A. Kraba

Let this holiday season be a time for engaging heart to heart.
For those who, like the innkeeper, turned us away;
For holidays that didn’t live up to our expectations.
For ghosts of Christmas past that haunt us;
For those who gave us gifts, but never their presence.
For gifts we yearned for, but did not receive;
For things we received, but never wanted.
For those who offered us cheer when we needed comfort;
For those who offered us love that we could not accept.
For those we rejected, offering no room in our homes or hearts;
For ourselves, who could not give through fear.
For the times we saw a star in the East. but failed to follow it;
For times we followed the star, but it did not lead where we hoped.
For miracles gone unnoticed,
For wise men and women, whose gifts we rejected.
All these we remember, we forgive, we love.
In doing so, may we be granted an abiding peace.

Meditation Music

“Sunrise on the Hills” (Brent Baldwin) – The First UU Orchestra & Brent Baldwin (pedal steel)

Sermon

Peace, peace; when there is no peace. We are in the season of advent, which invites us to spend time thinking about hope, faith. joy, and PEACE.

Which is why back in September I picked peace to preach on today. Honestly, at the time it seemed like an easy lift.

“But, NO!” the universe said.

You see every time I’ve thought about this sermon my brain went right to this scripture from the Hebrew Bible:

“Peace, peace; when there is no peace.”

This is from the book of Jeremiah. You see Poor Jeremiah has the misfortune of being the prophet who has to tell Judah “Change your ways, or the Babylonians are coming for ya”…Which does end up happening.. For 70 years there is an exile, The temple is destroyed.

Of course because Jeremiah is a prophet no one is listening to him which makes him cranky. Or maybe he is cranky so no one is listening to him. I love prophets but they do have a reputation.

But, of course, we can’t really blame him for his crankiness. A prophet is just someone who is standing around observing the world, Putting two and two together and speaking the uncomfortable truths.

So I totally get cranky.

I think a lot of us are watching Project 2025 roll out when they said it never would… are feeling pretty cranky. So, here I am cranky and having to preach about peace!

My cranky is heightened by the holiday, because of the whiplash of the season. One minute I’m reading and seeing images of violence and destruction, of people being stolen off our streets by the government and the next moment Mariah Carey is crooning her Christmas list at me.

She wants you, by the way.

There is tinsel and holiday ads and the state is kidnapping people and separating families, at such a rate that they have had to create three “tender age” detention centers in South Texas alone. Those are detention centers for babies and children under 13.

Peace, peace; when there is no peace.

Now I do have a part of me that has gladly taken on my annual, seasonal, part-time job of creating Christmas magic for my children. The same part that is getting giddy about our no-reversal christmas pageant next week.

And There is a part of me that wants to have a full on melt down and scream back at Mariah “stop gaslighting me.”

“All is not holy and jolly, in fact.”

It’s the disconnect between the reality of what is happening to people and the yearly pressure to perform the trappings of the holidays.

It is whiplash and it makes me cranky.

And maybe I think that must nave been now Henry Wadsworth Longfellow felt when he wrote this poem we sang- “I heard the belis on Christmas day.” He wrote that poem on Christmas day 1863. He was grieving his wife who died horribly. He was worried about his son who had been horribly wounded in battle. And he was living in a country that was two years into a brutal and bloody civil war.

And so when he heard those bells, ringing like they always rang before he had his own melt down. “There is no peace on earth, hate is strong and mocks the notion of peace.” He calls it out. He was lamenting. He is pointing out that things are not okay and pretending otherwise is wild.

Yes, Longfellow and I am with you! I feel that lament. I feel the urge to call it all out. And am thankful my faith and my religion supports me in that.

One of the most beautiful and humanizing aspect of Unitarian Universalism is our ability to be human and the encouragement to do so with eyes wide open. Our religion encourages us, to look past the illusion and delusion of the times we live in look past our own limited experience of the world so that we can understand what is happening. So that we can fully embody what it means to be interdependent. So that we can embody transformative justice. So that we can lament the pain, the violence, and the hurt. And by doing that we might build our hope on the vision of the world we are working towards. Not the one we are being sold.

i love that about us. I can’t imagine being more aligned to stay awake to all the world, to have empathy for those suffering, and then to allow our values to flow into action in response.

But lets be honest, that’s hard.

To open ourselves up to the pain of the world. To open ourselves up to caring about others. It’s hard.

And in a society so tailored to individualism it can be isolating.

For some of us, we feel attacked by pop stars.

But I think it is in this struggle, this struggle to stay aware that inevitably leads to lament, which allows us to move more deeply into our own spirituality, and to the peace it brings.

In Longfellow’s poem, we see a condensed version of this moving from lament to peace. First, he allows himself the lament. To say, “No, christmas you will not gaslight me I know things are bad. The world is on fire and your bells are ringing.”

But then, as the 19th Century Unitarian that he was, he finds peace in his faith. He asserts his belief that the “wrong shall fail, the right prevail. That peace will come.” For him this hope is that God is acting in this world.

Some of you might really resonate with that sentiment. Its the perfect time of year for it.

When I put my UU translator on, I resonate with it.

Part of the connective tissue that ties our pluralist community together, is that there is something. And that something holds us, guides us and is a source of our peace.

For Christians this peace in the salvation that Jesus brings. For me it is the message that is told over and over again and contained in this story of Jesus that gives me this peace. That love cannot be killed, and that when we act out of love, that when we are in solidarity, we can move mountains.

It is the peace that the beloved community is something that we work, because it is the way forward and when we work for it we bring it into the lives of each other in the here and the now.

Maybe that’s orchestrated by a God or Goddess, The Universe Spirit Or maybe it just us. Maybe its the assurance that comes because of the prayers we make with our own hands and our own feet. The prayers we make with our action.

The beautiful and sometimes baffling thing about our religion is that we don’t have to agree on the force behind it, but it is a part of our DNA to believe that there is something. And that something will enable us to bend that arch towards justice. Something that tells us that evil will not long endure. It is something that gives us this knowing and that is what helps to bring us peace. A peace that can and does exist, even in the chaos, even when “there is no peace.” It is the peace in the center of us. So deep that the storms can’t touch it. But close enough to our heart to guide us and move us to action. To make us brave enough to keep our eyes open to the suffering.

What is that something for you? And how does it hold you to both be awaken to the world And have the peaceful assurance, the hope that we do not work or hold our values in vain? What gives you peace, even when “there is no peace”?

For me there is peace in living in alignment with my values. There is peace in staying aware of what is happening. There is even peace in the lament because it means I am connected. And my peace comes from an assurance that the arch will bend. And It will bend towards justice.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

– Rev. Abhi Jamamanchi:

May all beings be safe and free from harm.
May all live in peace and in wholeness of body, mind, and spirit.
May courage arise where there is fear,
and compassion where there is pain,
May those behind walls know they are not forgotten,
and may the work of justice be guided by love.
Peace within, peace among us, peace for all,
Peace within, peace among us, peace for all,

Go in peace

Postlude

“Cantata 140: Gloria sei dir Gesungen” (J.S. Bach) – The First UU Adult Vocal Ensemble & Orchestra; Brent Baldwin, conductor; Orchestra: Julianne Webner, oboe; Suzanne Segredo, oboe; Jennifer Bernard, English Horn; Beth Blackerby, violin; Christabel Lin, violin; Ames Asbell. viola: Anna Park, cello: Andrew Potter, bass: Valeria Diaz. organ & harpsichord


SERMON INDEX

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PODCASTS

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Hopeful Heretics

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Rev. Chris Jimmerson
December 7. 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Transcendence and Transformation are two of our religious values at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin. We’ll explore how our experiences of transcendence can lead to personal growth and transformation, and paradoxically, how working to transform ourselves and our world can lead us into transcendence.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

From PERSPECTIVES AND POSSIBILITIES
by Psychologist and Author Rick Bellingham

Transcendence can be described as elevating perspective, while transformation is a process of integrating new awareness back into everyday life. Practices like meditation, yoga, or spiritual experiences can lead to a feeling of connectedness to something greater which can facilitate transformation.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

THAT WHICH HOLDS ALL
by Nancy Shaffer

Because she wanted everyone to feel included in her prayer,
she said right at the beginning
several names for the Holy:
Spirit, she said, Holy One, Mystery, God

but then thinking these weren’t enough ways of addressing
that which cannot be fully addressed,
she added particularities, saying,
Spirit of Life, Spirit of Love,
Ancient Holy One,
Mystery We Will Not Ever Fully Know,
Gracious God
and also Spirit of This Earth,
God of Sarah, Gaia, Thou

and then, tongue loosened, she fell to naming superlatives as well:
Most Creative One, Greatest Source, Closest Hope-
even though superlatives for the Sacred seemed to her probably redundant, but then she couldn’t stop:
One Who Made the Stars, she said,
although she knew technically a number of those present
didn’t believe the stars had been made by anyone or thing
but just luckily happened.

One Who Is an Entire Ocean of Compassion, she said,
and no one laughed.

That Which Has Been Present Since Before the Beginning, she said,
and the room was silent.

Then, although she hadn’t imagined it this way, others began to offer names:

Peace, said one.
One My Mother Knew, said another.
Ancestor, said a third.
Wind.
Rain.
Breath, said one near the back.
Refuge.
That Which Holds All.
A child said, Water.
Someone said, Kuan Yin.
Then: Womb.
Witness.
Great Kindness.
Great Eagle.
Eternal Stillness.

And then, there wasn’t any need to say the things
she’d thought would be important to say,
and everyone sat hushed, until someone said

Amen.

Meditation

We shift now into a meditation on the experience of transcendence.

I invite you now, whether you are here in person at the church, joining us online or over public access television, to settle into as comfortable a position as you can.

Feel the ground underneath you, holding you up, supporting you.

And as you find that place of as much comfort as possible, join me in taking a few deep breaths, pausing briefly at the end of each inhale and exhale.

Now, I invite you to reflect on a time when you have experienced a connection with something larger than yourself.

An experience that moved you beyond yourself. When you felt your heart and consciousness expand.

Perhaps you experienced awe and wonder that brought you outside of your ordinary mind and beyond ordinary, everyday experience.

Maybe you had a sense of timelessness and interconnection with all of creation. Maybe even a boundless love.

An experience that moved your heart and spirit in profound ways that might be difficult to express in words – a stillness and a soaring at the same time.

Let’s take a few more breaths together as we hold in our minds and hearts such experiences.

If you haven’t been able to recall such an experience, that’s OK, please feel free to continue with deep, meditative breathing. In fact, meditating on, contemplating transcendence has been shown to actually make us more likely to experience it!

If you have brought a transcendent experience to mind, dwell for a moment in how it felt.

What does remembering it feel like in your body? Where were you? When was it?

Who else, if anyone, was there?

What happened?

What made the experience beyond the ordinary for you?

Where there ways in which you felt you were different afterward?

Now, let’s share a couple of more deep breaths.

Sermon

FIRST UU VALUES

    • TRANSCENDENCE – To connect with wonder and awe of the unity of life

    • COMMUNITY – To connect with joy, sorrow, and service with those whose lives we touch

    • COMPASSION – To treat ourselves and others with love

    • COURAGE – To live lives of honesty, vulnerability, and beauty

  • TRANSFORMATION – To pursue the growth that changes our lives and heals our world

This morning, we are exploring two of our religious values here at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin, the first of which is transcendence.

We describe transcendence as “To connect with wonder and awe of the unity of life”.

Studies show that most of us have had some version of these transcendent experiences, and that they can effect us in ways that can lead to transformation, the second of our religious values we will reflect on today.

Now, over the past weeks, we have explored what I call our “C Values” that you can see on the slide here – Community, Courage, and Compassion.

So today, we’ll switch to our “T Values” – Transcendence and Transformation.

Wow. Transcendence. Transformation. We sound just like a church, don’t we?

Our experiences of transcendence are understood in a variety of ways. Some call them experiences of the holy; some use the term flow experiences, humanist psychologist Abraham Maslow called them peak experiences.

They can be brought on by spiritual practices such as prayer and meditation, communal religious practices like worship or rituals – also though, music, art, nature…psychedelic drugs and more.

Maslow described these experiences like this,

“feelings of limitless horizons opening up to the vision, the feeling of being simultaneously more powerful and also more helpless than one ever was before, the feeling of great ecstasy and wonder and awe, the loss of placing in time and space with, finally, the conviction that something extremely important and valuable had happened, so that the subject is to some extent transformed and strengthened…”

 

It turns out that Maslow’s description was largely correct.

Science is finding that while the exact nature and intensity of individual personal experiences of them vary, these transcendent or Peak experiences do share common characteristics:

    • A sense of belonging and connectedness with others and with all of creation

 

    • Closely related to this, a sense of both dissolution of self and a flowing or expansion outward toward a sense of unity with all that is

 

    • Being an an infinitesimal yet intrinsic part of something much greater than one’s self

 

    • An altering of one’s normal sense of space and time

 

  • Acceptance of paradox; a sense of finding a stillness even as one’s spirit is set in flight.

Perhaps even more importantly, our transcendent experiences have been found to often lead to an altered perspective that can give us a greater sense of purpose, self-contentment and a drive toward more prosocial, compassionate, loving behavior.

The sense of interconnectedness, unity, and being a part of something larger can become how an omnipresent, universal, fierce love finds us within these experiences,

or maybe it is the other way around – maybe our experience of transcendence is how we find our way to fierce love and then bring it back into our world.

Abrahan Maslow thought Peak experiences as he call them could lead us toward becoming our fullest, most creative self as an individual (what he called self-actualization).

He also believed though that they could move us even beyond that, toward living our lives for something greater, which he called self-transcendence.

Here is a brief summary of these terms.

(Video)

So, you may have heard of Maslow’s Heirarchy of Needs. Maslow views self-actualization as the capacity to really come into your full potential, express who you were meant to be. But he also saw that as a Right of Passage that allows us to go beyond the single self into what he referred to as self-transcendence. So self-actualization is about fulfilling our potential. Self-transcendence is about furthering a cause beyond the self and maybe we sense it as this profound desire to protect the welfare of all people or to give back to our community.

So, our experiences of transcendence can transform us.

Neuroscientists have even discovered that during transcendent experiences changes occur in our brainwave patterns and our neurochemistry and that this can begin to permanently change our cognitive processing and thus our perspectives and behavior.

Transcendence creates transformation, not merely metaphorically, but physiologically – psychologically – spiritually.

Now, that raises the question though of what we mean by “transformation”.

I think in the context of religion and church, and as it relates to this sense of transcendence, we are talking about spiritual transformation.

Abraham Maslow thought Peak experiences as he called them could lead The kind of change that Maslow talked about that moves us to self-actualization, but then that leads us toward self-transcendence – toward manifesting a fierce love that does justice in our world and strives to build a better and better world.

At First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin, we define this type of transformation like this: “To pursue the growth that changes our lives and heals our world.”

Self-actualization and self-transcendence.

Spiritual transformation.

Now here’s an interesting thing, almost a paradox about spiritual transformation – while experiences of transcendence can move us toward spiritual transformation, it is also true that living out this kind of metamorphosis in our lives and our world can lift us in to a state of transcendence.

It becomes a self-reinforcing cycle – transcendent experience creates transformation begets further transcendence and so on and so on.

When I was in seminary, I did my internship in a church where I witnessed transformation catalyze transcendence like this, which then lead to the potential for further transformation.

Early in my time with them, the church discovered that their much-loved prior lead minister who had only recently left, had committed sexual misconduct within the church.

It was heartbreaking to witness how harmful and extraordinarily painful this was for a religious community.

I can’t really adequately express the pain that had been caused.

By the way, I am not breaking any confidentiality by sharing this story. Both our Unitarian Universalist Association and the church made these circumstances public.

Transparency about such misconduct is a vital part of how a church heals and helps to make such misconduct less likely to happen again.

As the church dealt with the painful aftermath of the misconduct, they brought in an outside minister who has extensively studied and written about it and helped many churches work to heal from such circumstances.

One Sunday afternoon after the worship service, we gathered in the fellowship hall with this minister they had brought in. Almost the entire church membership was there.

She had brought slides and prepared an agenda that would help educate the church about ministerial misconduct, what to expect in its wake, and next steps the church might take.

As she began the discussion though, individual church members began sharing their perceptions and feelings about what had happened.

The differences in their perspectives where sometimes stark.

Yet, the hurt and the vulnerability each of them shared was powerful.

And this minister, this “expert”, laid her plans aside, put away her agenda and let healing begin to emerge.

She transformed what had begun as an educational workshop into a healing circle.

And from that change, this sense of transcendence settled over the room, as one by one folks began sharing their truths, their pain, their love for their church and religious community that now seemed threatened.

I have rarely been so moved.

I don’t have any other way to adequately express what happened that Sunday afternoon than to say that it felt like God had entered that room.

And from that transformative change she made, a communal, transcendent experience emerged on that Sunday afternoon in the fellowship hall of the church, through which transformational healing became possible.

This is the power of living our values.

Just as that guest minister they had invited lived out our Unitarian Universalist faith values of community and covenantal relationship by setting aside her own agenda, living our values here at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin has the power to actualize our highest potential selves and to channel our self-aspirations toward building the Beloved Community.

Our values are the ground from which our purpose arises, as a church community the source of our shared mission.

Our religious values are why First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin exists – they are the reason we do church.

Transcendence. Community. Compassion. Courage. Transformation.

Transcendence is where we encounter the holy.

And out of that sacred stillness, our spirits take flight, compassion and courage arise in us, calling us to build the Beloved Community, thereby creating more holiness in our world.

Transformation is what doing so makes possible.

May this church be the center of our quest for transcendence together.

May transformation then be our work in the world.

Amen. Blessed be.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

FOR A NEW BEGINNING
John O’Donohue

In out-of-the-way places of the heart,
Where your thoughts never think to wander,
This beginning has been quietly forming,
Waiting until you were ready to emerge…

Awaken your spirit to adventure;
Hold nothing back, learn to find ease in risk;

Soon you will home in a new rhythm,
For your soul senses the world that awaits you.

I send you much love, Go in peace.


SERMON INDEX

Most sermons during the past 25 years are available online through this website. Click on the index link above to find tables of all sermons for each year listed by date (newest to oldest) with topic and speaker. Click on a topic to go to that sermon.

PODCASTS

Podcasts of this and other sermons are also available for free on iTunes. You can find them by clicking on the podcast link above or copying and pasting this link. https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/first-unitarian-universalist/id372427776

Transcendence ans Transformation

Listen to the sermon by clicking the play button above.

Rev. Chris Jimmerson
November 30 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Transcendence and Transformation are two of our religious values at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin. We’ll explore how our experiences of transcendence can lead to personal growth and transformation, and paradoxically, how working to transform ourselves and our world can lead us into transcendence.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

From PERSPECTIVES AND POSSIBILITIES
by Psychologist and Author Rick Bellingham

Transcendence can be described as elevating perspective, while transformation is a process of integrating new awareness back into everyday life. Practices like meditation, yoga, or spiritual experiences can lead to a feeling of connectedness to something greater which can facilitate transformation.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

THAT WHICH HOLDS ALL
by Nancy Shaffer

Because she wanted everyone to feel included in her prayer,
she said right at the beginning
several names for the Holy:
Spirit, she said, Holy One, Mystery, God

but then thinking these weren’t enough ways of addressing
that which cannot be fully addressed,
she added particularities, saying,
Spirit of Life, Spirit of Love,
Ancient Holy One,
Mystery We Will Not Ever Fully Know,
Gracious God
and also Spirit of This Earth,
God of Sarah, Gaia, Thou

and then, tongue loosened, she fell to naming superlatives as well:
Most Creative One, Greatest Source, Closest Hope-
even though superlatives for the Sacred seemed to her probably redundant, but then she couldn’t stop:
One Who Made the Stars, she said,
although she knew technically a number of those present
didn’t believe the stars had been made by anyone or thing
but just luckily happened.

One Who Is an Entire Ocean of Compassion, she said,
and no one laughed.

That Which Has Been Present Since Before the Beginning, she said,
and the room was silent.

Then, although she hadn’t imagined it this way, others began to offer names:

Peace, said one.
One My Mother Knew, said another.
Ancestor, said a third.
Wind.
Rain.
Breath, said one near the back.
Refuge.
That Which Holds All.
A child said, Water.
Someone said, Kuan Yin.
Then: Womb.
Witness.
Great Kindness.
Great Eagle.
Eternal Stillness.

And then, there wasn’t any need to say the things
she’d thought would be important to say,
and everyone sat hushed, until someone said

Amen.

Meditation

We shift now into a meditation on the experience of transcendence.

I invite you now, whether you are here in person at the church, joining us online or over public access television, to settle into as comfortable a position as you can.

Feel the ground underneath you, holding you up, supporting you.

And as you find that place of as much comfort as possible, join me in taking a few deep breaths, pausing briefly at the end of each inhale and exhale.

Now, I invite you to reflect on a time when you have experienced a connection with something larger than yourself.

An experience that moved you beyond yourself. When you felt your heart and consciousness expand.

Perhaps you experienced awe and wonder that brought you outside of your ordinary mind and beyond ordinary, everyday experience.

Maybe you had a sense of timelessness and interconnection with all of creation. Maybe even a boundless love.

An experience that moved your heart and spirit in profound ways that might be difficult to express in words – a stillness and a soaring at the same time.

Let’s take a few more breaths together as we hold in our minds and hearts such experiences.

If you haven’t been able to recall such an experience, that’s OK, please feel free to continue with deep, meditative breathing. In fact, meditating on, contemplating transcendence has been shown to actually make us more likely to experience it!

If you have brought a transcendent experience to mind, dwell for a moment in how it felt.

What does remembering it feel like in your body? Where were you? When was it?

Who else, if anyone, was there?

What happened?

What made the experience beyond the ordinary for you?

Where there ways in which you felt you were different afterward?

Now, let’s share a couple of more deep breaths.

Sermon

FIRST UU VALUES

    • TRANSCENDENCE – To connect with wonder and awe of the unity of life

    • COMMUNITY – To connect with joy, sorrow, and service with those whose lives we touch

    • COMPASSION – To treat ourselves and others with love

    • COURAGE – To live lives of honesty, vulnerability, and beauty

  • TRANSFORMATION – To pursue the growth that changes our lives and heals our world

This morning, we are exploring two of our religious values here at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin, the first of which is transcendence.

We describe transcendence as “To connect with wonder and awe of the unity of life”.

Studies show that most of us have had some version of these transcendent experiences, and that they can effect us in ways that can lead to transformation, the second of our religious values we will reflect on today.

Now, over the past weeks, we have explored what I call our “C Values” that you can see on the slide here – Community, Courage, and Compassion.

So today, we’ll switch to our “T Values” – Transcendence and Transformation.

Wow. Transcendence. Transformation. We sound just like a church, don’t we?

Our experiences of transcendence are understood in a variety of ways. Some call them experiences of the holy; some use the term flow experiences, humanist psychologist Abraham Maslow called them peak experiences.

They can be brought on by spiritual practices such as prayer and meditation, communal religious practices like worship or rituals – also though, music, art, nature…psychedelic drugs and more.

Maslow described these experiences like this,

“feelings of limitless horizons opening up to the vision, the feeling of being simultaneously more powerful and also more helpless than one ever was before, the feeling of great ecstasy and wonder and awe, the loss of placing in time and space with, finally, the conviction that something extremely important and valuable had happened, so that the subject is to some extent transformed and strengthened…”

 

It turns out that Maslow’s description was largely correct.

Science is finding that while the exact nature and intensity of individual personal experiences of them vary, these transcendent or Peak experiences do share common characteristics:

    • A sense of belonging and connectedness with others and with all of creation

 

    • Closely related to this, a sense of both dissolution of self and a flowing or expansion outward toward a sense of unity with all that is

 

    • Being an an infinitesimal yet intrinsic part of something much greater than one’s self

 

    • An altering of one’s normal sense of space and time

 

  • Acceptance of paradox; a sense of finding a stillness even as one’s spirit is set in flight.

Perhaps even more importantly, our transcendent experiences have been found to often lead to an altered perspective that can give us a greater sense of purpose, self-contentment and a drive toward more prosocial, compassionate, loving behavior.

The sense of interconnectedness, unity, and being a part of something larger can become how an omnipresent, universal, fierce love finds us within these experiences,

or maybe it is the other way around – maybe our experience of transcendence is how we find our way to fierce love and then bring it back into our world.

Abrahan Maslow thought Peak experiences as he call them could lead us toward becoming our fullest, most creative self as an individual (what he called self-actualization).

He also believed though that they could move us even beyond that, toward living our lives for something greater, which he called self-transcendence.

Here is a brief summary of these terms.

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So, you may have heard of Maslow’s Heirarchy of Needs. Maslow views self-actualization as the capacity to really come into your full potential, express who you were meant to be. But he also saw that as a Right of Passage that allows us to go beyond the single self into what he referred to as self-transcendence. So self-actualization is about fulfilling our potential. Self-transcendence is about furthering a cause beyond the self and maybe we sense it as this profound desire to protect the welfare of all people or to give back to our community.

So, our experiences of transcendence can transform us.

Neuroscientists have even discovered that during transcendent experiences changes occur in our brainwave patterns and our neurochemistry and that this can begin to permanently change our cognitive processing and thus our perspectives and behavior.

Transcendence creates transformation, not merely metaphorically, but physiologically – psychologically – spiritually.

Now, that raises the question though of what we mean by “transformation”.

I think in the context of religion and church, and as it relates to this sense of transcendence, we are talking about spiritual transformation.

Abraham Maslow thought Peak experiences as he called them could lead The kind of change that Maslow talked about that moves us to self-actualization, but then that leads us toward self-transcendence – toward manifesting a fierce love that does justice in our world and strives to build a better and better world.

At First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin, we define this type of transformation like this: “To pursue the growth that changes our lives and heals our world.”

Self-actualization and self-transcendence.

Spiritual transformation.

Now here’s an interesting thing, almost a paradox about spiritual transformation – while experiences of transcendence can move us toward spiritual transformation, it is also true that living out this kind of metamorphosis in our lives and our world can lift us in to a state of transcendence.

It becomes a self-reinforcing cycle – transcendent experience creates transformation begets further transcendence and so on and so on.

When I was in seminary, I did my internship in a church where I witnessed transformation catalyze transcendence like this, which then lead to the potential for further transformation.

Early in my time with them, the church discovered that their much-loved prior lead minister who had only recently left, had committed sexual misconduct within the church.

It was heartbreaking to witness how harmful and extraordinarily painful this was for a religious community.

I can’t really adequately express the pain that had been caused.

By the way, I am not breaking any confidentiality by sharing this story. Both our Unitarian Universalist Association and the church made these circumstances public.

Transparency about such misconduct is a vital part of how a church heals and helps to make such misconduct less likely to happen again.

As the church dealt with the painful aftermath of the misconduct, they brought in an outside minister who has extensively studied and written about it and helped many churches work to heal from such circumstances.

One Sunday afternoon after the worship service, we gathered in the fellowship hall with this minister they had brought in. Almost the entire church membership was there.

She had brought slides and prepared an agenda that would help educate the church about ministerial misconduct, what to expect in its wake, and next steps the church might take.

As she began the discussion though, individual church members began sharing their perceptions and feelings about what had happened.

The differences in their perspectives where sometimes stark.

Yet, the hurt and the vulnerability each of them shared was powerful.

And this minister, this “expert”, laid her plans aside, put away her agenda and let healing begin to emerge.

She transformed what had begun as an educational workshop into a healing circle.

And from that change, this sense of transcendence settled over the room, as one by one folks began sharing their truths, their pain, their love for their church and religious community that now seemed threatened.

I have rarely been so moved.

I don’t have any other way to adequately express what happened that Sunday afternoon than to say that it felt like God had entered that room.

And from that transformative change she made, a communal, transcendent experience emerged on that Sunday afternoon in the fellowship hall of the church, through which transformational healing became possible.

This is the power of living our values.

Just as that guest minister they had invited lived out our Unitarian Universalist faith values of community and covenantal relationship by setting aside her own agenda, living our values here at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin has the power to actualize our highest potential selves and to channel our self-aspirations toward building the Beloved Community.

Our values are the ground from which our purpose arises, as a church community the source of our shared mission.

Our religious values are why First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin exists – they are the reason we do church.

Transcendence. Community. Compassion. Courage. Transformation.

Transcendence is where we encounter the holy.

And out of that sacred stillness, our spirits take flight, compassion and courage arise in us, calling us to build the Beloved Community, thereby creating more holiness in our world.

Transformation is what doing so makes possible.

May this church be the center of our quest for transcendence together.

May transformation then be our work in the world.

Amen. Blessed be.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

FOR A NEW BEGINNING
John O’Donohue

In out-of-the-way places of the heart,
Where your thoughts never think to wander,
This beginning has been quietly forming,
Waiting until you were ready to emerge…

Awaken your spirit to adventure;
Hold nothing back, learn to find ease in risk;

Soon you will home in a new rhythm,
For your soul senses the world that awaits you.

I send you much love, Go in peace.


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Not Just Counting Our Blessings

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Rev. Chris Jimmerson
November 23, 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

We know that gratitude can lead to a wealth of psychological, spiritual, and even physical health benefits. Yet, how do we truly cultivate gratitude? If it is as simple as expressing thanks for the good things in our lives, what happens when life seems just mundane or when things get really hard? What happens when folks with power and privilege demand gratitude from those over whom they hold power? How do we make sure our “thanks giving” is an authentic spiritual practice?


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

GRATITUDE
by Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer

Gratitude, it happens,
needs less room to grow
than one might think-
is able to find purchase
on even the slenderest
of ledges,
is able to seed itself
in even the poorest of soils.

Just today, I marveled
as a small gratitude
took root
in the desert of me-
like a juniper tree
growing out of red rock.

If I hadn’t felt it myself,
I might not
have believed it-
but it’s true,
one small thankfulness
can slip into an arid despair
and with it comes
a change in the inner landscape,
the scent of evergreen.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

THE FOUNTAIN
by Denise Levertov

Don’t say, don’t say there is no water
to solace the dryness at our hearts.
I have seen
the fountain springing out of the rock wall
and you drinking there. And I too
before your eyes
found footholds and climbed
to drink the cool water.
The woman of that place, shading her eyes,
frowned as she watched-but not because
she grudged the water,
only because she was waiting
to see we drank our fill and were
refreshed.
Don’t say, don’t say there is no water.
The fountain is there among it’s scalloped
grey and green stones,
it is still there and always there
with it’s quiet song and strange power
to spring in us,
up and out through the rock.

Sermon

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“Conventional gratitude is based on distinguishing what we like from what we do not, good fortune from bad fortune, success from failure, opportunities from obstacles… But what about all the obstacles, unpleasant people, and difficulties in our life? …we should be especially grateful for having to deal with annoying people and difficult situations, because without them we would have nothing to work with. Without them, how could we practice patience, exertion, mindfulness, loving-kindness or compassion? It is by dealing with such challenges that we grow and develop. So we should be very grateful to have them.”

 

So says Buddhist teacher and author, Judy Lief.

The spiritual topic we’re exploring this month in our religious education classes and spirituality groups is “Nurturing Gratitude”

And, indeed, a wealth of research has shown that gratitude is one the most powerful spiritual practices in which we can engage.

It benefits us in a multitude of ways psychologically, physically, and spiritually.

Practicing gratitude is even associated with increased life satisfaction and extended lifespan.

Turns out, the age old words of wisdom about counting our blessings may well be sound advice.

So why then does that pesky Buddhist Judy Lief insist that I have to be grateful for people who annoy me?

Well, it turns out that counting our blessings, practicing gratitude only for the good things in our life is necessary but not sufficient.

Studies show that even simple gratitude practices like writing down three to five things each day for which we are thankful can benefit us greatly and that, in fact, we can’t just sort of automatically adopt an “attitude of gratitude” We need an actual practice such as this to kind of bring the gratitude into our spiritual sensibility.

This practice of listing 3 to 5 gratitudes each day has been one of my spiritual practices for many years.

The thing is, for a long time, I only listed good things that had happened to me, things that brought me happiness, my pets, the comforts in my life, people I loved who brought me joy.

I left out the annoying people and the difficulties in life.

But this counting only my blessings came to feel harder to do and to feel incomplete, when, for instance, my stepfather died only shortly after I was ordained here at this church.

When a pandemic hit, and I was stuck at home all of the time.

When my spouse became very ill during a challenging time for doing ministry, and then entered hospice and eventually died.

The research shows, and I certainly experienced, that we have to learn to appreciate all of life as a gift, even during those terribly difficult times.

Living and loving fully means we will endure sorrow.

If we can only find thankfulness for the things that happen in life that we like, our spiritual wells can easily run dry when the hard times hit, which they inevitably will.

I want to share with you what late night host Stephen Colbert had to say about this, in part because I am so grateful for how much he annoys Donald Trump.

Colbert Video

“It’s a gift to a gift. It’s a gift to exist. And with existence comes suffering. There’s no escaping that. But if you are grateful for your life, which I think is a positive thing to do, and Not everybody is, and I’m not always, but it’s the most positive thing to do, then you have to be grateful for all of it. You can’t pick and choose what you’re grateful for.

So what do you get from loss? You get awareness of other people’s loss. Well, that’s true. Which allows you to connect with that other person, which allows you to love more deeply and understand what it’s like to be a human being, and to connect with them and to love them in a deep way that not only accepts that all of us suffer, but also then makes you grateful for the fact that you have suffered so that you can know that about other people. It’s about the fullness of your humanity. What’s the point of being here in human if you can’t be the most human you can be?”

Now, I want to be careful here to mention that what he says, while beautiful and valid, also comes close to a theology that I reject called “redemptive suffering”.

The theology of redemptive suffering has been used to keep oppressed folks in positions of pain and suffering far too often, such as when a religious leader tells women to stay in an abusive relationship and just be grateful for the reward they will receive in heaven.

Yes, that still really happens.

“Just bare your cross like Jesus did” is not a a valid theological stance.

I think what we’re learning is not so much that we need to be grateful for the bad things that happen to us, but for having been able to move through them and having learned and grown along the way, for, as Colbert notes, how experiencing our own fragility can help us recognize the fragility of others and thereby love them even more deeply.

What we’re learning is: Be grateful for the gift of life. Live fully. Embrace all of life.

There is this irony that it can be the most difficult to access gratitude during these difficult times, and yet these are the times when we may most need it.

Author Sarah Ban Breathnach captures this as follows.

“Gratitude holds us together even as we’re falling apart. Ironically, gratitude’s most powerful mysteries are often revealed when we are struggling in the midst of personal turmoil. When we stumble in the darkness, rage in anger, hurl faith across the room… While we cry ourselves to sleep, gratitude waits patiently to console and reassure us; there is a landscape larger than the one we can see.”

 

I want to share a story from poet and spiritual advisor Mark Nepo that I think captures this idea so movingly. I give you his words, because I don’t want to do them injustice by paraphrasing. He writes:

 

“When my father was dying, I was alone with him in the hospital and found myself feeding him applesauce. The moment opened and my whole being, my whole life, was suddenly concentrating on slipping the spoon with the utmost care into his mouth, waiting for him to swallow, and then sliding the spoon slowly from his lips, so as not to disturb his labored breathing.

 

We repeated this ritual tenderly, spoonful after spoonful. And in the rare quiet of a January afternoon, wonder began to fill the room. I began to cry softly. There seemed to be a glow about us.

Through my thoroughness of care, I’d found a transparent instant in the middle of all our trouble, in the middle of his dying. And in this moment of tenderness, all of life opened. We had fallen into the center, which felt like the dot of clarity cleared in a lake by one drop of rain from which the water ripples in every direction. My father and I were in that still dot of clearness…

As I slipped the spoon from his mouth one last time, I felt that I was in the moment of every child who ever fed their dying parent. I kissed his forehead and held his hand, both of us more alive than we could remember, completely covered in inexplicable wonder.”

This burst of gratitude for the sacred blessing of caring for a loved one we will soon lose is a powerful way that people are able to move through grief.

 

Now, many of life’s challenges are not this intense though. Sometimes, the challenge is just that things are not quite living up to our perhaps sometimes unrealistic expectations.

One of our wonderful church members, Angela Smith posted on Facebook the other day about something from the letters her terrific husband Charles writes to her each day.

With their permission, I share it with you now

“My hubby’s letter this morning reflected on the fact that life sometimes doesn’t meet our expectations, but still what happens may be good enough. So today I invite you to join me in sharing his intention to be “grateful for the good enough!”

Amen, Mrs. and Mr. Smith.

 

Somewhat related to this, I will also quickly add that much of life is neither the extremes of unadulterated joy nor times of sorrow, suffering or disappointment.

Much of life is more ordinary or mundane.

So, we must also embrace the more common aspects of life too.

Perhaps a result of losing a spouse of 33 years, I find myself extraordinarily thankful for some of the more ordinary moments within the fierce and wonderful love I share with my fiance, Woodrow – just coming to the art gallery opening here at the church together or grocery shopping with each other.

OK, I want to shift gears a bit now, and explore a potential downside to gratitude or at least the imposition of it, with thanks, actually to Woodrow, who brought this to my attention.

That’s not the downside. That’s very much an upside.

A number of recent studies have found that expectations of gratitude by folks in groups with greater power – professors with students, whites with BIPOC folks, men with women, cis-heterosexual with LGTBTQI+ folks for instance – this expectation can result in the pacification of folks in the group with less power.

When gratitude comes to be seen as obligatory in such conditions of inequality, folks can be less likely to work for their own liberation.

Even more insidious, during longterm and/or extreme periods of inequality or abuse, folks who are being oppressed can develop an almost “Stockholm Syndrome” kind of gratitude, a survival instinct that comes from being so dependent for so long on whatever crumbs those in power choose to dole out.

I think we see this expectation all the time.

The calls by some recently for LGBTQI+ folks to feel grateful that the Supreme Court didn’t take up a case that could have revoked the right to marry the person we love – a right we fought so hard to gain only a few years ago.

“Be grateful that we didn’t take away this basic human right.”

BIPOC folks are repeatedly admonished to give thanks for all the “progress” that has been made.

Again, “be thankful for those rights we have chosen too give you and could decide to refuse again.”

Our President and Vice-President chiding the President of Ukraine over not expressing enough gratitude to the U.S. for protecting our international commitments and own national interests.

The list could go on.

Perhaps the lesson for those of us who have sometimes experienced oppression is that we don’t owe thanks to anyone else for them doing the right thing or allowing us the basic human rights they enjoy.

And for those of us who sometimes find ourselves in a position of privilege and power, if we give to others with an expectation of gratitude, we’re not being generous, we are being transactional and, in fact are acting to maintain our own privilege.

Especially when what we are, quotation marks, “Giving”, is that which was already their fundamental rights as human beings. And I thought I was going to make it through a whole sermon without a social justice rant.

Perhaps I should be grateful that our right to rant still exists.

My beloveds, despite these challenging times in which so many of those basic human rights we cherish are being threatened, we still have so much for which we can still be grateful.

We don’t have to give thanks for whatever crumbs are doled out.

We have the spiritual resilience to resist and to refuse to be pacified.

We have been given the gift of life, and a fierce love that dwells within us and within all of our days, from the mundane to the heartbreaking to the ecstatic.

A fierce love that guides us and leads us to justice and the Beloved Community if only we listen to its call.

And for that, we MUST be grateful.

Amen. Thanks be

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

For our benediction today, I leave with you the words of botanist, environmentalist author, and the director of the Center for Native Peoples and the Environment, Robin Wall Kimmerer, abbreviated from “The Honorable Harvest”

Know the ways of the ones who take care of you,
so that you may take care of them.
Never take more than half. Leave some for others.
Give thanks for what you have been given
Give a gift, in reciprocity for what you have taken.
Sustain the ones who sustain you

Amen Blessed be. Go in peace.


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The Spiritual Practice of Solidarity

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Rev. Carrie Holley-Hurt
November 16, 2025
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

We are people who have beautifully joined ourselves to the work of building the Beloved Community, but what does that look like in a fractured world where some have more than they will ever need and some will never have enough? Rev. Carrie explores the role of solidarity in our work and in our lives.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

Let me tell you why I come to church. I come to church and would, whether I was a preacher or not, because I fall below my own standards and need to be constantly brought back to them. I’m afraid of becoming selfish and indulgent, and my church, my church of the free spirit, brings me back to what I want to be. I could easily despair. Doubt and dismay could overwhelm me.

My church renews my courage and my hope. It is not enough that I should think about the world and its problems at the level of a newspaper report or magazine discussion. It could too soon become too low a level. I must have my conscience sharpened, sharpened until it goads me to the most thorough and responsible thinking of which I am capable. I must feel again the love I owe to others. I must not only hear about it, but feel it. In church, I do. I am brought toward my best in every way toward my best.

– A. Powell Davies.

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Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Reading

If you deny any affinity with another person or kind of person, if you declare it to be wholly different from yourself as men have done to women, and class has done to class, and nation has done to nation, you may hate it or defy it. But in either case, you have denied its spiritual equality and its human reality. You have made it into a thing to which the only possible relationship is a power relationship and thus you have fatally impoverished your own reality.

– Ursula K. Le Guin

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NOTE: This is an edited ai generated transcript.
Please forgive any omissions or errors.

You may have noticed that on my forearm, I have this hormone neuropeptide, it’s oxytocin. I find it fascinating because it helps me to think about love.

Oxytocin plays many roles in our body and in our relationship. It’s released when we hug or when we’re intimate. It’s released when you stare into your dog’s eyes. It’s released in both of you when you stare into your dog’s eyes. It is about bonding and building trust. It even helps to lessen pain. It’s called the cuddle hormone, which is adorable.

But the best example of love for me is when it does its job at birth. Oxytocin is what causes contractions. Now, if you’ve ever experienced those, or have you ever seen someone experience those, you know that this is not feel-good times. This is not cuddle time. The role of oxytocin at that point is taking you into a place that you’re not sure you want to go, quite honestly. And that’s what love does. It pushes us to do things that we are scared to do. Love makes us brave. And because it bonds us, love makes us brave in community, which is exactly what Reverend Chris preached about last week. Bravery comes from community.

Love is powerful and it is actionable, and it is only right and good that we have now articulated it as what is at the center of our work and our faith. It’s the only thing that’s going to get us to beloved community, because it’s the only thing that’s going to make us brave enough to do that work, which is to love the hell out of this world, as Reverend Joanne Fontaine Crawford told us.

The hells of racism and sexism and ableism and all those other horrible isms, the hells of hunger and war and constant fear, the hells of disconnection and marginalization and incarceration.

If the beloved community is the mission of our church, then love must be what we rely on to do the work. And that’s good because love is powerful stuff. Love is what can meet this time of so much cruelty and so much violence. And honestly, it’s what keeps me coming back, even if I wasn’t preaching.

Just as A. Powell Davies told us:

The church is where I come to remind myself to be centered in love. It’s where I come to sharpen my own conscious and redouble my commitment to the collective liberation.

 

It’s beautiful because there’s so many wonderful things that we can do in community. And systems of supremacy have gotten us so messed up. Just as I can get motivated at what we can do together, I can also get really overwhelmed at the vast gulf that exists between where we are and where love calls us to be.

As we’ve heard over the last four or a few weeks, over 40 million Americans are on food assistance, a program that has recently been used as a cruel political tool, as if people don’t need to eat, as if food isn’t a basic human right, as if we aren’t all just spinning on the same blue planet with the same basic needs.

But instead of remembering that, that we do live on the same planet with the same needs, we have a system that allows people to go unhoused and unsheltered. 18 out of every 10,000 people in the U.S. go unhoused. And to add insult to injury in Texas, that can become a crime, and it has the full backing of the Supreme Court. We have the most medical debt. We have the highest maturnal mortality rate, we have the highest incarceration rate compared to other rich nations. I could go on and on, but y ‘all, y ‘all know this. You all know that the state of things is far from love. The gulf between where we are and love is huge. It’s huge.

And yet it’s that brave making love that calls us to do the work, calls us to narrow that gulf until it doesn’t exist anymore. That’s the beloved community.

Let’s ask us to stop participating in hierarchies that keep systems in place. And one way to do that is to unlearn our charity mindset and move to a solidarity mindset.

Charity mindset is how we’ve been taught to address unmet needs. Now meeting unmet needs is a really good thing. I would never say to stop doing that. But if we’re doing it with a charity mindset, the problem is that that mindset perpetuates the status quo. Because it is designed to exist within systems that perpetuate the problem without critically addressing the reasons those problems exist in the first place.

Matthew Desmond in his book, Poverty by America, writes:

When we don’t own property, or we can’t access credit, we become dependent on people who do and can, which in turn invites exploitation because, hey, it’s capitalism and in capitalism, a bad deal for you is a good deal for me.

 

This comes, has come into sharp relief this last few weeks as the nation has been talking about SNAP and how we have learned that the majority, three quarters of the people who receive SNAP, are in full-time employment.

Now, I don’t think that you should have to work to be worthy of food. You are worthy for food because you are living. But what the statistic tells us is that our system is about exploitation. That big corporations can hire people and become incomprehensibly rich, while the people whose labor is making them rich are struggling to meet their most basic human needs.

When we have a charity mindset, we don’t do that drilling down. We don’t look at the systems of exploitation, but rather we do what we’ve been taught to do, which is to put the focus on the individual. And they’re pitiful or tragic reasons that they are the way they are. We’ve taught to see them as the problem.

But if we unlearn this, if we take a solidarity approach, we look past the individual into the larger systems.

This is captured so beautifully by Bishop Desmond Tutu when he said there comes a point when you need to stop pulling people out of the river and you need to go upstream and find out why they are falling in in the first place.

Now it is a good point in the sermon to say. I am not saying to stop providing for people’s basic needs. We must go upstream and find out while people are falling into the river and we must challenge those systems and change those systems to stop the problem from even happening.

And in the meantime, we also need to keep pulling those people out of the river. Because people still need safety. People still need warm clothes, people still need to eat. Please continue to donate to the Capital Food Bank and your local free fridge and or your neighborhood buy nothing group. And if you’re someone that needs food, rely on your neighbors for it.

While we are working to tear down these systems so that beloved community can be built, we need to join with each other and take care of each other. This is mutual aid. This is us in solidarity. A shift to a solidarity mindset that says, I am not beholden to systems, I’m beholden to you.

And it breaks down those hierarchies and inequalities because solidarity operates on the same premise that we do, which is the inherent worth and dignity of all people.

A charity mindset is intertwined with systems of supremacy, which mean that it gives more weight to those that systems of supremacy say are most important, are deemed most worthy.

A solidarity mindset breaks those hierarchies down and says
Everybody should eat.
Everyone should have access to shelter.
Everybody should be safe.

It also says that those are most impacted are the ones that know best how to change those systems. A very powerful example of this are the 12 black women who created the reproductive justice framework back in 1994. They were fed up with how the issue of reproductive rights was framed. They said that black women in this country had never since 1619 had a real choice about when it came to and if and how they were going to bring children into this world.

With this shift, they gave us a deeper and more beautiful framework in which we could think about bodily autonomy and child bearing and child rearing. And up until then, reproductive rights have been framed mostly by financially secure, able-bodied, white women who assumed that everyone else had the same choice. They weren’t wrong, they were only operating in their narrow lens. But it ignored the systemic issues that made real choice for so many people impossible.

Moving from a charity mindset to a solidarity mindset is critical to the work of liberation because it gets more people involved. And when we get more people involved, we can have a fuller understanding of what we need to do to change. What we are growing towards.

Solidarity is centered in love, and it is the foundation of liberation. It is the foundation of the Beloved Community. And we get there by shifting. We get there by shifting away from seeing our work as charity to one of solidarity.

But to do it, we must believe that change is possible. We must stop accepting defeatist attitudes that tell us stupid things like the poor will always be with us. I hate that saying so much. Rather, we must believe that another world is possible and work like it is. And we have to examine the way that we are contributing to exploitation. Poverty benefits most of us.

Matthew Desmond writes:

The duality of American life can make it difficult for some of us who benefit from the current arrangement to remember that the poor are exploited laborers, exploited consumers, and exploited borrowers precisely because we are not. After all, how do we get filthy rich corporations that can pass down low, low prices if that’s not the arrangement?

 

But these things are sneaky, because we are not usually having a nationwide conversation about SNAP, because we usually are not looking at images of genocide in the Congo, a genocide that is directly related to the cobalt in our phones and in our electric cars.

And we don’t have to feel shame about that. We do not have to get defensive about that. Shame is a massive impediment to our growth. But if you’re feeling uncomfortable, believe me, I feel uncomfortable too. But you know what? That’s okay. Love’s goddess.

Like our living tradition, we are allowed to grow and change. We are allowed to unlearn and do better going forward.

This afternoon, we have the opportunity to learn about the boycott, divest, and sanction movement that allows us to stand in solidarity with Palestinians who are being crushed under the weight of apartheid. I hope you’ll join me. It’s actionable, just like love. When we center solidarity, we have to tear down the false walls between us and them.

And it’s a very human thing to build those walls in the first place. Just try to say, you know, we’re not like them. That would never happen to me. I would never be in that situation because, you know, just never could.

How many have you all done that thing where you hear about someone’s horrible tragedy and you almost immediately start asking questions to try to distance yourself from them? I’ve done it. I’m very guilty of it. Like, what piece of information am I going to receive that’s going to allow me to feel safe from what they’re experiencing?

It’s such a human thing to do. Many of us have never learned to be comfortable with other people’s pain or suffering. And many of us have taught rugged individualism. And so we rush to distance ourselves from the other person. It’s completely understandable. We’re trying to conjure up a sense of security. But y ‘all, it’s an illusion. There is no difference from the person with the tragedy than me. There is no difference.

In 1886, Tolstoy wrote: We imagine that their suffering are one thing and our life another.

The truth is that we are part of the web of existence, that our lives, whether lived in comfort or a war zone or under a highway, are all woven together, which means that our lives and our liberations are completely interlocked. There is nothing. There is nothing that separates me from the person holding a sign on the side of the road. There is nothing that separates me from the person going bankrupt or going hungry or unhoused or running from bombs. There is nothing, but maybe, therefore the luck of the draw, go I, that separates me from another human being on this planet.

We shift into a solidarity mindset when we break down those false walls that separate us.

When those walls start to break, we can act. We act with the convention that things can be different. We believe people and we start to act on what they are telling us. We begin to live in community with all sorts of people, relying on them.

We work hard to break our addiction to individualism and start to see what we do as mutual aid, breathing into our bones that it is okay and right and absolutely necessary to ask for help. In a healthy community, we ask and we ask for help and we give help. Because we are all spinning on the same blue planet with the same basic needs. We give and we receive.

Next Sunday, at 2:00, we’re going to do what we can to figure out how to work more in solidarity. We’re going to do some asset mapping so that we can be a part of building the beloved community in a more actionable way. It’s going to be revolutionary work, and only the coolest revolutionary people will be there.

Can’t wait to see you all.

Y’all love is not being centered in our world. Cruelty is, supremacy is, and the gulf between the beloved community and where we are right now, it is huge.

We know this, but that powerful, brave-making love calls us. It calls us out of our comfort. It calls us out of our fear, and it calls us into the work. It calls us into solidarity. It points us to one another. It bonds us and builds trust and puts us together so that we can build something more beautiful.

May we let her in.

Extinguishing the Chalice

We extinguish this flame, but not the light of truth, the warmth of community, or the fire of commitment. These we hold in our hearts until we are together again.

Benediction

As we leave the sacred time of holding and being in community, I want to leave you with a blessing of sorts from adrian marie brown.

You aren’t the first,
You won’t be the last,
and you are not alone.

Go in love.
Thank you.


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