Thank You For Your Service

© Hannah Wells

May 30, 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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PRAYER:

For the soldiers who are working so hard as we speak,

and for the soldiers who have already given their lives,

may our thoughts be with them, especially this Memorial Day.

May we wake up to the reality that we are not as separate from them as we think, just as we are not as separate from anyone else;

may we understand how deeply connected we all are.

May we remember how connected we are to generations past

and to the soldiers who gave their lives many decades ago;

they are standing close behind us and we give our deepest thanks.

May we come to understand that war is a part of who we are

regardless of how noble the cause. Our kind has been dying prematurely of wars and disease since the beginning of our time. May we always take time to remember those who left us too soon.

And may we extend our deepest warmth and support to those families who are left behind, whose long lives stand before them; young mothers and young children.

May we be aware of their sacrifice and pray for their strength.

May we pray for the leadership of our beloved country, and pray for an end to the chaos in Iraq so our troops can come home. May we be patient, may creative solutions be found to an unprecedented struggle, and may our support for our troops hold steadfast regardless.

May we let there be time for the most difficult emotions to unfold surrounding this war and more recent wars.

Dear spirit of life, please help us, as one nation, to take responsibility for our mistakes, to acknowledge the harm we inflict upon others and upon ourselves. Let us be that brave. Amen.

SERMON:

On “Washington Week In Review” on the TV PBS station early Friday evening, the anchor woman ended the program by saying, “and for those of you who are fighting in these wars that we only talk about, thank you for your service.” When she said that, on the one hand I was struck by the honesty of her statement, but on the other hand it seemed kind of cheap.

Every Memorial Day I’m aware of some kind of uneasiness that I can’t quite name, but this year I’ve gotten closer to putting a name on it, and I think it’s shame. Since Jr. High when I became a tune to the context of United States history, every Memorial Day I’ve had the vague awareness that there’s a debt I’ll never be able to repay. Around Memorial Day there’s a bit of a time warp, or perhaps several wrinkles in time that closely juxtapose every major war of this country – the Revolutionary War, the Civil War, WWI, WW2, the Korean War, the Vietnam War, and now the Iraq War. All these wars come to mind because we know in our hearts that several of these wars were worth fighting. And we wonder how the world would be different if the good wars hadn’t been won.

I know my life is what it is because the right side won those good wars. Reflecting on this is the stuff of a healthy kind of patriotism – this gratitude and humility – knowing I could never return the favor, so to speak. It’s this reverence for a kind of dedication and courage and violence that I’ll never have to experience. And maybe that’s where the vague feeling of shame comes from – that cheapness of “thank you for your service” seems to belie a sense of entitlement. A sense of entitlement to a service that not only equals the loss of human life, but some things that are worse than death.

Some of the men who came back from Vietnam would have preferred to come home in a box because their lives had been ruined. Losing your soul and your sanity can be worse than death. Discovering humanity’s capacity for evil with your own hands can be enough to ruin a life, even if the events took place in minutes. I bring this up because I think the country is still reverberating from the pictures of torture by our own soldiers’ hands. And yet it seems like a silent reverberation.

This country doesn’t do well with shame and remorse. Like a dysfunctional family, we pretend it isn’t there and so it festers harmfully in a state of non-recognition. If you consider the behavior of our foreign policy in the frame of a family system, the question comes up: are we repeating a mistake now because a generation ago we never acknowledged and mourned properly the mistake of Vietnam? We never, as a whole nation, took the time to ritualize an acknowledgement of the shame of that event, the remorse, the defeat, the waste.

In some ways, the Bush administration is a scapegoat. Sure, we’re in Iraq now because of Bush and Cheney and Rumsfeldt. But the fact is history is repeating itself in an effort to reach an opportunity of healing that never took place after Vietnam. That’s my theory. There are different actors now, there are different reasons, there are not as many casualties, thank God. But we’re about where we were 32 – 34 years ago. We’re scared, we’re worried, but most importantly, our country as a whole is in a state of denial of the shame and remorse we’re experiencing as a result of the atrocities taking place in Iraq. And not just to the Iraqis, but probably even more so the atrocities happening to us.

See, the thing is, we are so deeply connected to one another – that is a spiritual law I am certain of and I think we forget about 99% of the time – we are so deeply connected to each other that ALL of us are fighting the war in Iraq. And the reason I say this is because I believe that any of us, put in that situation as a soldier, would probably commit the same abuses, the same tortures. All of us possess the capacity to do evil, and under the precise conditions – when the enemy is invisible, when our friends are dying bloodily around us, when the level of frustration and anger are so high, and our supervision has effectively condoned it – all of us are prone to committing these kinds of acts as a group, or alone.

What I’m trying to get at here, is not only do we need to acknowledge that all of us as a nation have blood on our hands because it’s the truth. But we need to stand in solidarity and likeness with our soldiers ALSO for the sake of healing, for the sake of grieving as one nation, for the sake of saving the souls of these young soldiers who were put in that situation by their higher-ups; for the sake of acknowledging the shame as one nation.

How do we do this? I think by naming it, by talking about it, by acknowledging it. By honoring our soldiers who are suffering the worst of this useless sacrifice. For the sake of our soldiers we need to share the shame with them and not pin it on them. We need to experience a healthy kind of shame that recognizes there’s no way we can make up for this. We can’t make it up to the children who are losing their parents or the parents who are losing their children. The war will never be over for them – for the family members of fresh casualties, the war is just beginning.

Thank goodness for the arts – for books, for movies, for music, for sculpture – these seem to be the only mediums in which our culture has attempted to address the truth of Vietnam, to give ourselves opportunities to grieve. But these are only voluntary opportunities; eventually we’ll have the same kind of movies and books written about Iraq that we have about Vietnam. But those opportunities aren’t compelling enough to do the kind of grieving work this country desperately needs to cleanse itself as a whole. I know I’m fantasizing here, but wouldn’t it be great if our leadership – whether Republican or Democratic, it doesn’t matter – declared a holiday for the specific purpose of mourning the event of Vietnam? For the specific purpose of acknowledging we made a big mistake? The Wall of Names is great, but the Wall is very quiet.

The fact is Vietnam just wasn’t that long ago. Yesterday Davidson emailed me the interesting factoid that of the 16 million Americans who served in WWII, less than 1/4 are still alive, and about 1,100 are dying every day. So I’m surmising that means that of the Americans who survived serving in Vietnam, at least half are probably still alive. I doubt there’s many people in this room who would not say his or her life has somehow been affected by the Vietnam War. The point is that this recent history is still terribly relevant and for the health of the family history of this country, I think it still needs to be dealt with somehow.

I want to talk more about this war stuff in the context of a country family system history. I learned a lot about WWI and WW2 growing up, especially WW2. I remember that history was totally overwhelming. I don’t know a thing about the Korean War, except that it was Communist related (I think) and that *MASH* was based on it. And then there’s Vietnam which I learned the most about by watching the television series China Beach, which I think was around the late 80’s. I also read Johnny Get Your Gun. Saw Platoon. I loved that show China Beach and almost every week I cried when I watched it. It wasn’t a comedy like MASH; looking back, I’m surprised such honest television was aired for as long as it was.

When I began writing this sermon and the word shame popped up, at first I wondered if I should dismiss it as embarrassing “liberal guilt.” Liberal guilt because I know my Dad didn’t have to fight in Vietnam because at the time he was a member of the educated class – he was a Freshman in college at Duke University when he became subject to the draft. But the reason I know this is more than liberal guilt is because I have inherited from my father the shame he carries surrounding Vietnam. I know I have – otherwise watching those China Beach episodes never would have affected me the way that they did. I was born just around the time the war ended! I didn’t personally lose anyone in that war, as most of my peers didn’t. And yet I know that my generation has inherited the shame and the guilt of that war. What it amounts to is a lot of sadness and that nameless uneasiness around Memorial Day. I guess we’re still figuring out what to do with it. This is just another theory, but I wonder if the generations getting successively more self-destructive has something to do with this nameless shame we’ve inherited. I don’t know.

I’m a sensitive person, so maybe I’ve just paid more attention to it. But I’ll never forget the day when my father and I were canoeing in a pond up in Wisconsin, on a very quiet serene day with no one around. I think I was in High School. Somehow we got on the subject of Vietnam. My father’s shame around Vietnam was made concrete when his roommate in college flunked out of Duke, got drafted, and was killed in the war. So he knows that he escaped a similar fate by the savior of education and being able to succeed at it. Sure there’s some liberal guilt in there, but it’s so much more than that. It’s survivor guilt; this stuff goes way deep into the psyche. It’s the trauma of losing thousands of peers. It’s trauma that goes beyond my comprehension, and yet I’m getting a taste of it watching all these young people die in Iraq.

There’s this song that my father knew about Vietnam, an a capela folk song by the artist Steve Goodman. He started singing it to me that day in the canoe, but he couldn’t get through it all the way because he had to cry.

The song is sung in first person as a young widow of the war. And I want to share it with you because I think one of the best ways to honor our soldiers who have died is to also acknowledge the families that so many soldiers leave behind. Young, just getting started families, young mothers and children. Their sacrifice should also be honored.

This song is called “Penny Evans.”

Oh my name is Penny Evans and my age is 21.

 A young widow in the war that was fought in Vietnam.

 And I have two infant daughters, and I do the best I can –

 now they say the war is over, but I think it’s just begun.

I remember I was 17 when I met young Bill.

 On his father’s grand piano, we’d play good old Heart and Soul.

 And I only knew the left hand part, and he the right so well –

 he’s the only boy I slept with, and the only one I will.

And it’s first we had a baby girl, and we had two good years.

 And it’s next the one a notice came, and we parted without tears –

 it was 9 months from our last good night the second babe appeared.

 It was 10 months and this telegram, confirming all our fears.

Now every month I get a check, from an army bureaucrat.

 And it’s every month I tear it up, and I mail the damn thing back.

 Do you think that makes it alright? Do you think I’d fall for that?

 You can keep the bloody money and it won’t bring my Billy back.

I’ve never cared for politics, and speeches I don’t understand.

 And like wives took no charity from any living man

 But tonight there’s 50,000 gone in that unhappy land;

 50,000 heart and souls being played with just one hand.

And my name is Penny Evans, and my age is 21.

 A young widow in the war that was fought in Vietnam.

 And I have two infant daughters, and thank god I have no sons –

 now they say the war is over, but I think it’s just begun.

– Steve Goodman

I’ve been scouring the Internet the past couple days, looking for stories behind the faces of the American soldiers getting killed in Iraq. I didn’t find as many as I thought I would. And again, I think this is to keep us numb. If we knew too many of the stories of the fine young men and women this country is losing, we’d have to feel that shame head-on.

I think I’ve driven my point home about the suppressed shame that the country is suffering, and the need for it to be expressed on a larger scale so we can be free of its clutches, so we don’t keep passing it on to our children. But I realize that it’s also just plain and simple sorrow that I share with my parents’ generation. The kind of sorrow that will always be with us.

I want to try to end on a positive note; I know this sermon is not uplifting. There’s just no way to sugar-coat what’s going on. But I hope being honest with ourselves can be uplifting, and offer hope for healing, for a healthier future. It’s not “this too shall pass.” What we want to have and work towards are sharing scars from these wars – wounds that have healed but still hurt when we touch them. We can’t pretend they’re not there. These wars, whether we’ve participated in them or not, are a part of who we are, they are a part of our American psyche, they’re a big part of our story. We need to try to integrate this truth into our national identity as well as we can – grow with it – and not ignore it at our peril.

Our soldiers are not victims. If they’re victims, then we’re all victims, and we’re not all victims. They are literally our warriors, they are survivors, they are doing the hardest job in the world. I am very proud of them and I support them as we all must. We’re here because of them.

Those wrinkles in time I mentioned, juxtaposing all our major wars – they’re not so much wrinkles – all those wars stand very close behind us, without the help of a wrinkle in time. The past isn’t nearly as far behind as we think. Vietnam was like yesterday; World War II a short 50 years ago. We are such a young country – just a couple centuries old.

At this time, I’d like to ask anyone here today in church who has served in a war to please stand.

I know it doesn’t sound like much, but it’s the most I can offer and I really mean it,

“Thank you for your service.”

The Four Faces of Jesus

© Davidson Loehr

23 May 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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Prayer

We pray not to something, but from something, to which we must give voice;

not to escape from our life, but to focus it;

not to relinquish our mind, but to replenish our soul.

We pray that we may live with honesty:

that we can accept who we are,

and admit who we are not;

that we don’t become so deafened by pride and fear

that we ignore the still small voices within us,

that could lead us out of darkness.

We pray that we can live with trust and openness:

to those people, those experiences, and those transformations

that can save us from narrowness and despair.

And we pray on behalf of these hopes

with an open heart, an honest soul,

and a grateful reverence for the life which has been given to us.

AMEN.

SERMON: “The Four Faces of Jesus”

It was a time of terrible fighting. Everywhere people were divided into separate groups, like little clubs. And everywhere they fought against all the people who weren’t in their little club.

They all said they hated the fighting, of course. But they all knew that only the people in their little club were really right – and it is so important, being right. And as long as so many others were wrong – well, they all prayed that God would give them victory so the fighting could stop. But in the meantime, it was a time of terrible fighting.

One day a young magician came to the area. He didn’t belong to any of their clubs, but he was a wonderful magician who did some amazing tricks. And he had that kind of “star quality” about him that drew people to him. Many people loved watching him, though they didn’t much care for listening to him, because of the things he said to them.

What he said to them was that if they weren’t divided into so many little clubs, there wouldn’t be so much fighting. Their clubs, he told them, were the cause of their wars.

To the people, this was about the dumbest thing they had ever heard. Their little clubs gave them a tiny area of peace and friendship among people like themselves, in an otherwise hostile world. They liked their clubs. So they almost never listened when the magician tried to teach them. But they loved his magic, and so kept coming to watch him, and they started telling stories about what a great magician he was.

Years later, after the young magician died, a funny thing happened, though it wouldn’t have seemed funny to the magician. People formed a new club. And to be in this new club, you had to believe all the stories they told about the young magician. They even made pictures and statues of him, and put them up in their meeting-places, so people could remember how great he had been.

The club became very popular, and soon had thousands of members. Before long, they even had an army.

That’s when they finally decided that they could use their army to end the fighting once and for all. Their priests and generals went to their meeting-places – which had become churches – and sort of talked to the pictures and statues of the dead magician, as if to ask his blessing. After all, hadn’t the young magician always talked about bringing peace?

Then they went to war. It was a long war, and many people were killed or wounded. But their army was bigger, so they won. And they forced many, many people to come into their club, because they wanted them to be right – it is just so important to be right.

After the battles, their priests and generals went to church to give thanks. They stood before the pictures and statues of the dead magician, and told him their proud story of the victorious battle.

That’s when the miracle happened. Just as all the priests and all the generals were looking up at the statues telling them about their successful wars, it happened: all the pictures and all the statues began to cry.

The young magician, of course, was Jesus.

There are risks in stripping a man like Jesus of his halo and asking what kind of man he was, and how wise his teachings really were. It offends the popular romantic picture of Jesus as the Son of God and supernatural savior of humankind. Yet for over two centuries, scholars have known that those were mythic attributes invented by his followers long after he died, and that the real Jesus was 100% human – since that’s the only category there is for us. Calling him a “son of God” was poetry, not biology or genetics. We don’t like in a world constructed in such a way that people can receive half their chromosomes from a human and the other half from a sky-god – and neither did they.

I want to respect the truth without worshiping the myth this morning, by suggesting that this man Jesus had at least four different aspects, or “faces.” One aspect was useless, a second – the most “magical” – was real, but not supernatural. A third was just wrong. Then there is that fourth face of Jesus, which still seems to look into our souls with uncomfortable accuracy.

1. Jesus as an Itinerant Cynic Sage

The first face of Jesus concerns his life style, his personal values, the kind of role model he would have been. This is the dimension of Jesus that has hardly even been discussed, because it is so bizarre. For instance, see how many sermons you’ve ever heard preached on these quotations attributed to Jesus:

“Whoever does not hate father and mother cannot be a follower of me, and whoever does not hate brothers and sisters – will not be worthy of me.” (Gospel of Thomas 55) – Not the text for a “family values” sermon!

On another occasion, a woman from the crowd spoke up and said to Jesus, “How fortunate is the womb that bore you, and the breasts that you sucked!” It was a conventional way of handing a compliment to the mother through the son, like saying “your mother must be very proud of you.” But Jesus replied, “How fortunate, rather, are those who listen to God’s teaching and observe it!” (the Q Gospel, in Luke 11:27-28). – This one would be a bad Mother’s Day text!

And the last quotation is the most extreme and the most famous. It comes from the gospel of Luke, where Jesus says “Do you think that I have come to bring peace to the earth? No, I tell you, but rather division! From now on five in one household will be divided, three against two and two against three; they will be divided: father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” (Q Gospel in Luke 12: 51-53) – You seldom hear the Christian Right preaching on this one, either!

These sayings don’t fit the traditional picture of a sweet Jesus who preached family values. They show us some of Jesus’ personal values and lifestyle, and make him seem very strange and foreign, not to mention unappealing. For most of the styles of living that Jesus exemplified have never had many takers.

This is the profile of someone on the fringe of any culture at any time. Scholars recognize this profile, however. It was a marginal but well-known style of living in the ancient world. From about the fourth century BCE until the sixth century CE, there was a name for this style of living exemplified by Jesus. These were the people called cynics.

Some scholars describe Jesus as an “itinerant cynic sage.” The name itself is derogatory, given to the “cynics” by their detractors (the way most such names originate). It came from the Greek word for “dog,” and was meant to imply that cynics lived like dogs. They had no home, no property, no spouses, no fixed circle of friends, no jobs, and no love for the society in which they lived. Cynics didn’t offer a correction of society so much as they offered an alternative to society.

The best of the cynics were astute social critics: they were like secular versions of the Old Testament prophets, standing outside the accepted order of things, trying to subvert it.

Someone who could live a life in this manner had to be, among other things, extremely focused and dedicated to his particular vision. For history’s most famous cynic, Diogenes of Sinope, the vision was one of personal autonomy, freedom from the unnecessary demands of society. An old story makes the point:

The king’s messenger came to find Diogenes, who was squatting in the street, eating his simple meal of lentils. “The king invites you to come live in his castle,” said the messenger, “and be one of his court advisors.”

“Why should I?” asked Diogenes.

“Well for one thing,” said the messenger, “if you’d learn to curry favor with the king you wouldn’t have to eat lentils.”

“And if you would learn to like lentils,” replied Diogenes, “you wouldn’t have to curry favor with the king.”

The message of cynics was always extreme, and they were willing to sacrifice everything for it. Furthermore, they generally thought that everyone else would also be better off abandoning the society’s vision of life and adopting their cynic vision. Their message was to individuals. They didn’t belong to or care about a real community. They weren’t social reformers. They thought society was fundamentally wrong, and people should “tune in, turn on and drop out,” to recapture that slogan from the Hippie years.

Jesus fits very neatly into this conception of a cynic sage. He had no home, property or job. He didn’t respect the accepted images of “the good life” or the normal expectations made upon people in a civilized society – the religious and cultural rules that gave people their social identities, for example. His vision of the “Kingdom of God” was, for Jesus, the only thing worth living for. His parables presented the “Kingdom” in this extreme way over and over again: it was a “pearl of great price,” a “treasure buried in a field” for which the lucky finder would sell everything.

What must be noted about cynics, including Jesus, is that their message is never likely to be heard or followed except for the extremely marginal person – another cynic. Husbands, wives, children, the joy of working at a job, making a contribution to society, nationalism, ethnic or religious pride of identity – all these counted as nothing for cynics compared with their singular vision. In Jesus’ case, his entire family was treated as though they counted for nothing compared with his vision of the “Kingdom of God.” This doesn’t make Jesus exceptionally cold or uncaring, it just identifies him as one of history’s great cynics – and a sage whose vision was sometimes too extreme to be either useful or wise to the overwhelming majority of people who have ever lived, then or now.

And so the first face of Jesus was his cynic lifestyle. It was a huge part of who he was and what he valued. For nearly everyone in history except other cynics, however, it was not a wise road to follow, but a useless aberration.

2. Jesus the Faith-Healer

Virtually all biblical scholars agree that Jesus was a man with great charisma, and a remarkable ability for what we today call “faith healing.” While almost all scholars agree that the stories have been greatly exaggerated, and that scenes like”walking on water,” raising Lazarus from the dead or feeding 5,000 people from a few fish are all Christian mythmaking, the core fact remains that Jesus was primarily known in his time and in the early centuries as a gifted healer. It was this almost magical power that really attracted people to him, even if they didn’t understand, or didn’t want to hear, the things he wanted to teach. His followers also shared this healing power, though not to quite the same extent as did Jesus.

There is nothing here to debunk, except to note that this kind of charismatic power doesn’t necessarily imply that the healer is wise or good. There are still lots of faith healers today, from Oral Roberts to Bennie Han. Furthermore, the principle of faith healing is behind placebos — those sugar pills that can often make your symptoms disappear if you think they can. It is easy to think of other historical figures who also had immense charisma and personal power over other people, who were unwise or evil: Rasputin, Hitler, Jim Jones, Matthew Applewhite, and David Koresh come quickly to mind. Not all wise people are magicians, and not all magicians are wise. Still, Jesus was one of history’s gifted faith healers.

3. Young Idealist Without a Concept of the “Sangha”

The third face of Jesus shows a severe limit to his vision, one that would have almost undoubtedly relegated him to the dustbin of history without the contributions of St. Paul. That statement alone is enough to upset or enrage many who love Jesus and can’t stand Paul.

The ethical teaching most associated with Jesus is the Golden Rule. While he is reported to have said it means to “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,” it has also been equated for twenty centuries with another of Jesus’ sayings: “turn the other cheek.” Some radical Christian sects, like the 14th Century Cathari group in France or the 16th century Mennonites in Germany, took this literally and refused to resist the violence of others altogether. This led to the slaughter of thousands or tens of thousands of Cathari, and the slaughter of most of the first generation of Mennonites.

It wasn’t a new teaching. It had been around at least five hundred years before Jesus came along. We know this because we have the story of one of Confucius’ followers asking him five centuries earlier what he thought of the idea of repaying evil with forgiveness. Confucius thought it was a dumb idea. “With what, then,” he asked, “will you repay goodness?” Instead, Confucius taught that we should repay evil with justice and repay good with good. Confucius lived to be much older than Jesus did; perhaps this just shows the greater wisdom of a much older man.

Others have said that if you want to see a place where people have lived by the rule of turning the other cheek, go to a battered women’s shelter. It was a very idealistic teaching, but not a wise one, unless you are in a community where all are treated with respect.

And that’s the second and more important limitation on the teachings of Jesus. All of his teachings were directed to individuals. He did not come to reform Judaism; he didn’t come to start a new religion or found a new church. He had no home, no job, no community, and he never addressed the necessity for a healthy community in his teachings.

A quick look at Buddhism can help understand what Jesus omitted. Buddhists say you must have three things to become awake, enlightened. You must have Buddha, dharma, and sangha. Buddha means a center, a source of authority and inspiration. Dharma means the personal work that you must do. Jesus, you could say, taught that you must have God and dharma: you must live as God wants you to live. But he had nothing at all to say about the sangha. The sangha is the supportive community devoted to serving these high ideals, like a good church. And the Buddhists are right: we’re not likely to do the growth and awakening we need alone. We need a supportive community, a faith community, a church. Jesus never mentioned this.

It’s ironic – especially for people who like Jesus but dislike Paul – but the concern for community was what Paul contributed, making it possible to create a religion out of the memories, myths and teachings of Jesus. Without Paul, Jesus was just another teacher who stressed individual duties but neglected to address the necessity of being part of a community of faith.

4. Subverter of Artificial Identities

It’s hard to know what to call the fourth face of Jesus. As all biblical scholars know, Jesus’ primary concern was for what he called the Kingdom of God. What Jesus meant by this Kingdom of God was fundamentally different from what most Christians have meant by the phrase. Properly understood, it was Jesus’ most radical teaching. It was also his most profound and timeless, and his fourth “face.”

The phrase “the kingdom of God” wasn’t unique to Jesus. It was a popular phrase in the first two centuries, used by many people. It meant the ideal world, the kind of world that could have the most compassion and justice. John the Baptist, who had been Jesus’ teacher, said the world was too far gone to save, that we should wait for God to destroy it all and start over with the right kind of people — those who believed as John the Baptist did.

After John the Baptist was killed and the end of the world didn’t come, Jesus emerged as a charismatic leader, and many of John’s followers began following him. But Jesus’ message was very different. John’s “kingdom” was to be supernatural; for Jesus, the kingdom of God was existential, here and now, not in a world to come.

For Jesus, the Kingdom of God wasn’t coming. It was already here, at least potentially, within and among us. Or as he said in another place, the kingdom is spread out upon the earth, and people don’t see it.

How do you rejuvenate a hostile world? That has almost always been the question to which our greatest sages have offered their different prescriptions. For John the Baptist, as for many apocalyptic preachers today, we have to wait for God to act. For Jesus, God was waiting for us to act. And we act, we create the kingdom of God, or the best possible world, simply by treating all others as our brothers and sisters, as children of God. What Jesus was doing was attacking and subverting exclusive identities, identities that make us feel special or “chosen” at the price of casting others into a second-class status.

This sounds sweet and nice, but it’s a dangerous thing to teach. For instance, the food laws of the Jews set them apart from their neighbors. So Jesus’ instructions to his followers were to eat whatever was set before them: pork, shellfish, goat, whatever the host was serving. The Jews hated the Samaritans, who bordered them to the north, more than they hated almost anyone. So Jesus told a story about a beaten Jew lying by the side of the road, when priests passed him by and the only person who helped him was a Samaritan. During their high holy days, the Jews ate only unleavened bread. So Jesus said the kingdom of God is like leaven that you put in dough to make it rise. Over and over, he spurned the artificial identities that set us apart from others. There was only one identity possible for us in the Kingdom of God: to treat one another as brothers and sisters.

Do you see how subversive this is? This is a message that could threaten any form of government, all ideologies, and all religious or racial identities. The world is in chaos, we’ve lost a shared center, so we create a hundred little artificial centers, or “clubs,” from which we get our identities. The problem is, they’re all too small, all exclude those who believe or live differently than we do, and so they’re precisely the structures that keep the world hostile.

Today, his message might be Stop joining clubs! Stop identifying yourselves with your nation, your race, your religion, your political party or your sex. All of these are ultimately divisive identities that make a peaceful world impossible. You want the Kingdom of God? You want a world of peace and justice? It’s in your hands, and only in your hands. You’ve been given everything you need, now it’s time to act.

This is a message that would still get the messenger killed almost anywhere in the world. Imagine going into Northern Ireland a few years back, telling the fighters that neither side is Christian, both are agents of evil, and they need to stop thinking of themselves as Protestants and Catholics, because those identities are themselves the problem. The only thing the two sides would agree on would be lynching you from the nearest tree.

Imagine trying to sell that message to the Jews and Palestinians, telling them the only way to stop the murderous fighting is to grow beyond thinking of themselves as merely Jews or Palestinians, and begin seeing each other as brothers and sisters, the children of God. You’d be shot!

I don’t want to imply that Jesus was the only person in history to see this vision of a world kept small and hostile by our artificial identities and our territorial impulses. You can find this idea that we are all brothers and sisters in many religions, many cultures. You also find it in cultures that never had contact with any Western civilization. Remember these lines from this morning’s responsive reading by the Lakota Sioux Medicine Man Black Elk:

And I saw that the sacred hoop of my people was one of many hoops that make one circle, wide as daylight and starlight. And in the center grew one mighty flowering tree to shelter all the children of one mother and one father. And I saw that it was holy.

These things aren’t true just because Jesus or Black Elk or the others said them. They are true because they have seen to the essence of what it means to be human, with a clarity few people in history have ever had. I don’t know of any way to argue against that insight. It seems deeply, profoundly, eternally correct. Our human or animal tendencies to create artificial identities for ourselves are the original sin of our species. We feel bigger and more worthwhile as parts of a family, a nation, a race, a culture. So naturally we join the little clubs and wave their flags, and we wait for Jesus’ second coming so there might be peace in the world.

The real tragedy of a man like Jesus isn’t that he has had so much silly hokum dumped on him through the ages – though God knows he has. The tragedy is that we elevated him into a man-God, then joined the religion of John the Baptist who expected this man-God to come save the world for us, as we sat silently by reciting whatever creeds our little religious or political or social cult has declared to be the current orthodoxy. We took the man who lived and died preaching against divisive identities, and created a club around his name. It is a cruel and ironic fate for the simple Jew from Galilee.

The tragedy is that this strange man, this marginal Jew without family, friends, property or job, really did have something to offer us, and nobody wants it. It’s too hard. It asks too much of us. So we found a simpler route. We made thousands of mental and physical pictures and statues of this man Jesus, whom we turned into a Son of God. And we pray that he, through his infinite power, will bring peace to this world in which we’re making war by identifying with our tiny religion, nation, party, race or territory. Then we say Amen, go outside, and prepare for the day’s battle against the infidels in the next church, next town, next nation.

And then I imagine the rest of the story. I imagine that all over the world, as people leave their churches, they turn their backs on the pictures and statues of Jesus they’ve made. And after they’ve gone, all over the world, in the cold darkness of the empty churches, all of the pictures and all of the statues begin to cry.

Mother's Day

© Davidson Loehr

9 May 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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READING: Mother’s Day Proclamation,

by Julia Ward Howe

Arise, then, women of this day!

Arise all women who have hearts, whether your baptism be that of water or of fears!

Say firmly: “We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies, our husbands shall not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy, and patience. We women of one country will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.”

From the bosom of the devastated earth a voice goes up with our own. It says, “Disarm, Disarm!”

The sword of murder is not the balance of justice! Blood does not wipe out dishonor nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead. Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, and each bearing after her own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar, but of God.

PRAYER:

It is Mothers’ Day: Let us give thanks:

For mothers, whether they gave birth to the children or adopted them,

For mothers who have lost a child, through miscarriage, abortion, adoption, or death, and who still feel the loss.

For those who have never had children but who miss being mothers, and who are mothers in their hearts who express their nurture in other ways;

For our own mothers, and theirs, as far back as our living memory will carry us,

And for all who have lost their mothers, and still feel that loss.

It is Mothers’ Day. Let us remember all the varieties of mothers in all of our lives in gratitude and prayer.

And let us remember in prayer those other names, which we now speak aloud or in the silence of our hearts.

Amen

SERMON: Mother’s Day 2004

Mother’s Day is an annual ritual when we expect images and words of peace, life, gentleness, and a well-deserved recognition for the many mothers of all kinds whose job, we say; it is to embody those things.

It’s worth wondering why we only give ourselves a couple days a year for these voices to be recognized, isn’t it? Christmas, Mother’s Day, Easter, and Valentine’s Day – there aren’t many days that we set aside to remind us of the gentler voices, the angels of our better nature.

It isn’t that Mothers’ Days are new inventions. In prehistory, the Greeks held festivals to honor Rhea, the mother of all the gods. And they honored Demeter, the earth mother. Egyptians made pictures and statues of their goddess Isis holding her god-son Horus, and those pictures became the models for nearly identical pictures and statues of Mary and Jesus, another mother of another god. In Hinduism too, there are similar appeals to great mother goddess figures. I found this short prayer to Mother Durga, a many-armed symbol of many-faceted powers:

May the All-Compassionate Mother

be a welcome guest in our hearts.

May she consent to carry us safely

across the ocean of life

to the shore of Liberation.

This could be a prayer to any of the great mothers, the mothers of gods and mothers of dreams, life and hope.

In Buddhism, the prayers are to Kwan Yin, the feminine counterpart of the Buddha. In Taoism, they are to Yin, the feminine principle associated with the moon, and with becomings, the vulnerable but necessary counterpart to the kind of male force represented by Yang.

So these voices arise from all times and places, and they say much the same things. They plead for life, love, peace, compassion, understanding, and comfort. They’re all variations on one voice coming up from the depths of the human soul, a voice that pleads for compassion to balance combativeness, love to balance lust, generosity to balance greed, the power to give life to balance the power to destroy life. All these are voices of mothers, of mothering, of mothers’ days, and they span all times and places, these voices.

But why are they so rare? Why do they speak out so seldom? Why do we have only a few days of the year when we’re supposed to trot these voices out and listen to sweet words of love and compassion?

They are like fragile little spring flowers, these voices, always having to break through the hard soil of harder attitudes – attitudes of greed, lust, power, destruction, war, imperialism, and domination. That hard soil seems to be the ground of history, the ground on which are built all our tragedies, on which we stage our battles, in which we dig our graveyards. That hard soil is made of the coarser and dirtier aspects of our human nature. To become fully human, to become whole or balanced, we have to educate these coarse voices, like we would educate a teen-aged boy who thought only in terms of joining gangs, fantasizing about violence, domination and war, a show you can watch kids playing in a thousand video games and half the top-selling movies.

We like to fool ourselves about this. We like to pretend that we are really just, honest and peace-loving, and seem to be more surprised when war breaks out than we are when peace breaks out, though peace doesn’t break out as often. It’s a kind of anesthetic that lets us make war, enslave third-world workers to make us cheap goods, and do all manner of unspeakable things.

I want to honor the spirit of Mother’s Day here by being blunt about the background noise, the hard soil, that motherly spirits always have to break through. I think we forget, at our peril, that the reason voices like those of Mother’s Day need special occasions is because those are not the voices that run our world or write our history.

The voices against arrogant violence don’t always come from women, but they do come from that feminine part of us, what Taoists call Yin. One of the most ancient and famous of these voices came from a man, the Athenian comic playwright Aristophanes. In 410 BC, he wrote his play “Lysistrata,” about a sex strike by the women, that is to continue until the men stop playing war. Yin has arisen to confront Yang here, to say you may not go destroy life then come to us to enjoy its sweet pleasures. If you would be served life at night, you must serve it in the daytime. That’s the spirit of Mother’s Day, in its ancient form. It is saying that the feminine force, the power of Yin, can be just as powerful as the testosterone-soaked power of Yang.

Buddhism has a wonderful story about the nature of true power. It is this same voice of Yin, this same feminine wisdom, attributed to the Buddha.

A powerful macho bandit comes up to inform the Buddha that he is a ferocious bandit, the mightiest in the world, and is going to kill the Buddha to demonstrate his great power. The Buddha says “Ah. Well, then surely you can first grant me two wishes.” The bandit says to get on with it. The Buddha points to a small sapling nearby and says, “cut off the smallest branch on that young tree.” The bandit laughs, waves his sword, it is done. “And what is your final wish?” The Buddha bends over, picks up the small branch and hands it to the bandit, then says, “Now put it back.” Legend says the bandit achieved enlightenment in that instant, as he finally understood the true meaning of power is to create life, not to destroy it.

That is the message of all Mothers’ Days, too, in all times and places: that we need to remember that honorable power is the power to create life, not destroy it. The spirit of Mothers’ Day is always this spirit of Yin, of the mother goddess, the earth mother, the fierce determination of the gentle sex in Aristophanes’ play, the overwhelming power of the Buddha’s gentle wisdom, breaking through the hard soil of our everyday minds, the hard soil of human history and human nature.

In England, they don’t celebrate our American Mother’s Day, but instead have a Mothering Day, in March. On the surface, it looks like hearts and flowers. It’s a day when children come home and bring their mothers flowers. But its history is darker. It came from the 19th century, when the wealthy had bought and owned the government, had looted all they money they could get, and reduced the masses to starvation levels, much as we find in many countries around the world today. Girls often left home at age ten to go find full-time work to stay alive, far from home. Mothering Day was the day when they were allowed to return home to see their mothers. Beneath the surface of hearts and flowers was a story of broken hearts and uprooted flowers.

Our official Mother’s Day here began by President Wilson’s proclamation in 1914, as mostly a hearts-and-flowers thing – a day on which florists and restaurants make small fortunes, which is why they buy most of the advertising to remind you of Mothers’ Day – but the original Mothers’ Day wasn’t.

That was the one you’ve already experienced, in the reading, the Mothers’ Day Proclamation written by Julia Ward Howe around 1872. She was quite aware that hers was a voice fighting up through the hard soil of greed, destruction and war, a voice fighting up through the forces that define history to oppose them. I want to read you some of what Julia wrote about the origin of her Mothers’ Day Proclamation, from her memoirs, so you can understand the manger in which it was born, the hard soil through which she was trying to speak:

“I had felt a great opposition to Louis Napoleon from the period of the infamous act of treachery and violence which made him emperor.

“As I was revolving these matters in my mind, while the [Franco-Prussian] war was still in progress, I was visited by a sudden feeling of the cruel and unnecessary character of the contest. It seemed to me a return to barbarism, the issue having been one which might easily have been settled without bloodshed. The question forced itself upon me, “Why do not the mothers of mankind interfere in these matters, to prevent the waste of that human life of which they alone bear and know the cost?” I had never thought of this before. The august dignity of motherhood and its terrible responsibilities now appeared to me in a new aspect, and I could think of no better way of expressing my sense of these than that of sending forth an appeal to womanhood throughout the world, which I then and there composed.

“The little document which I drew up in the heat of my enthusiasms implored women, all the world over, to awake to the knowledge of the sacred right vested in them as mothers to protect the human life which costs them so many pangs. I did not doubt but that my appeal would find a ready response in the hearts of great numbers of women throughout the limits of civilization. I invited these imagined helpers to assist me in calling and holding a congress of women in London, and at once began a wide task of correspondence for the realization of this plan. My first act was to have my appeal translated into various languages, to wit: French, Spanish, Italian, German, and Swedish, and to distribute copies of it as widely as possible. I devoted the next two years almost entirely to correspondence with leading women in various countries. I also had two important meetings in New York, at which the cause of peace and the ability of women to promote it were earnestly presented.” (Taken from online version of Julia Ward Howe’s memoirs.)

In the spring of the year 1872, Julia visited England, hoping by her personal presence to affect the holding of a Woman’s Peace Congress there. She noted, though, that as she put it, “The ladies who spoke in public in those days mostly confined their labors to the advocacy of woman suffrage, and were not much interested in my scheme of a world-wide protest of women against the cruelties of war.”

I don’t think the spirit of Mothers’ Day can have its true meaning or power without understanding the background against which it is taking place, the nature of the hard crust it’s always trying to break through, just as you can’t understand Yin without understanding Yang.

But we don’t want to acknowledge that. We don’t want to reveal our own dark sides, the untutored and murderous layer of our human nature. This week, for example, we’ve seen and heard testimony from Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld about the vicious and vulgar abuses of Iraqi prisoners in Abu Ghraib prison. That was the infamous prison that Saddam Hussein used for years as his center of torture and murder. That’s the prison we took over, closed and then re-opened. After these stories began to break, comedian Jon Stewart said it seemed that Abu Ghraib hadn’t actually been closed, it was just under new management.

You’ve seen or read about these vulgarities. A video showing American soldiers, including American women soldiers, laughing and giving thumbs-up signs as Iraqi prisoners are stripped naked and forced into humiliating positions. You’ve read about the U.S. soldiers riding a 70-year-old Iraqi woman on all fours, like a horse. These are despicable acts – and I expect that we or our soldiers will pay for them. Donald Rumsfeld, in what struck me as a disingenuous speech, characterized them as completely un-American.

But that’s not true. Unfortunately, they are completely American. The New York Times carried a short article yesterday claiming that “Physical and sexual abuse of prisoners, similar to what has been uncovered in Iraq, routinely takes place in American prisons with little public knowledge or concern.” (“Mistreatment of Prisoners is Called Routine in U.S.” by Fox Butterfield, New York Times, May 8, 2004)

“Some of the worst abuses have occurred in Texas, whose prisons were under a federal consent decree during much of the time President Bush was governor because of crowding and violence by guards against inmates. Judge William Wayne Justice of Federal District Court” – who sometimes attends this church, and is worth getting to know – “imposed the decree after finding that guards were allowing inmate gang leaders to buy and sell other inmates as slaves for sex.”

Yesterday’s New York Times also pointed out “that the man who directed the reopening of the Abu Ghraib prison in Iraq last year and trained the guards there resigned under pressure as director of the Utah Department of Corrections in 1997 after an inmate died while shackled to a restraining chair for 16 hours. The inmate, who suffered from schizophrenia, was kept naked the whole time.”

The Utah official, Lane McCotter, was handpicked by Attorney General John Ashcroft to rebuild Iraq’s criminal justice system. These behaviors weren’t un-American. They were both disgustingly American and completely predictable.

The behavior we saw in videos was distinctly, characteristically, behavior Americans practice and permit in our own prison systems right here. It may be the lowest and most despicable level of our American behavior, but it was American behavior nonetheless.

And while this administration – just as the administrations before it – tries to claim that our methods of war are humane and noble, the high activities of peace- and justice-loving people, this is no less a lie than it was 13 years ago in the first Gulf War or 35 years ago in the Vietnam War.

Remember that all over the television stations before we invaded Iraq – in a spectacle I hope none of us would have been willing to believe if we had not seen and heard it – our President, Secretary of Defense and Secretary of State actually referred to the invasion and slaughter of thousands of innocent Iraqi citizens under the proud title of “Shock and Awe.” No blood, no bodies blown apart, no crippled, orphaned children, just something really exciting and fun.

It wasn’t wholesale murder during the invasion of a country whose oil and strategic position we had lusted after for fifteen years. No, it was something exciting, like special effects from an Arnold Schwarzenneger film: Shock and Awe. You could try to imagine how whoever thought up that line might describe the vicious and vulgar tortures of Iraqi prisoners. But we don’t have to imagine it. You could have tuned into Rush Limbaugh this week, to hear him laugh it off as being just like fraternity hazing, and an understandable way for soldiers to let off steam. Is this the most we have come to expect of Americans? No higher values that that? This is part of the background against which today’s Mothers’ Day takes place. Those are the violent voices we need to counter; that is the hard soil through which messages of truth and responsibility must strain to break through.

We need to claim the power to describe events more truthfully, in order to retain our own integrity and sense of sanity. These were vicious, vulgar, disgusting actions. But they were not un-American. Nor were they subhuman. Humans are the only species that do things like this to one another. They were part of human nature: the vulgar, untutored, unevolved part of human nature.

The great tragedy of humanity is that the violent and vulgar behaviors write human history, while the truly noble and life-giving voices are relegated to occasional shouts from the back of the room, and sparse annual holidays.

And yet life is bursting up all around us. We are surrounded, embraced, cradled in the great power of life. Even here. This week, working on this sermon, I’ve been thinking of some of these things, and have felt positively engulfed by life.

Our last year’s intern, Cathy Harrington, is preaching her final Candidating sermon this morning up in Ludington, Michigan. I read her draft of it Friday; it’s a Mother’s Day sermon drawing a lot on her own experience as a single mother who raised three kids and sent them all through college. I served that church seven years ago as a half-time interim. And the other church I served at that time, also as a half-time interim, called their new minister last week. Her contract begins August 1st, though she won’t be doing full-time ministry until November 1st, because she is expecting her first baby in August, and will begin her ministry on paid maternity leave.

Hannah Wells, this year’s intern, is looking forward to marriage and to having children, and sometimes talks about it in our weekly private meetings. She’s bursting to burst forth. Vicki Rao, next year’s intern, will arrive here with her husband and their six-year-old son.

And Betty Skwarek, our Director of Religious Education, told me that last Sunday here in this church we had 39 kids in the pre-kindergarten classes. Thirty-nine kids age 4 and 5! You don’t think life is bursting up all around us? God, it’s everywhere! And it’s wonderful! That’s why the voices of Mothers’ Day and the spirit of Mothers’ Day is such an important spirit to honor, not only today but every day. These are the voices of life and love and compassion and nurture, without which we cease to exist as healthy, mature people.

There’s another problem with hearing these voices so seldom, and that is that we can under-rate them. It’s easy to value the voices of war, greed, piracy, or imperialism more because they get more headlines and write the scripts for more movies. And then we neglect or undervalue all the life-giving and life-serving voices that are our own lifeblood. We undervalue motherhood and parenting. Over 60% of women with children are also working outside the home. And when they come home to their “second shift,” they are doing an average of about two hours per day more work at home than their partners.

We hear these things, and it’s easy to get angry in all directions. The husbands feel they are overworked, and they are. The wives feel they are overworked, and they are. The kids, when polled, say the one thing they would most like to have, is more time with their parents. So then the parents feel guilty for being gone so much, in order to earn enough money to support their family in a good way. It’s like a trap with no exit, and I suspect all of us have felt some of these feelings.

Well, it would be so easy to let this become completely dark, especially if we reflect on the rest of the changes in our society that are likely to happen during President Bush’s almost-certain second term. We can’t fix history today. We can’t change the hard soil, or the fact that gentle voices of life, love and compassion must always struggle to fight their way through it. The forces that write history will continue to be the forces of Yang, not Yin, because Yang owns the guns and the politicians and makes the laws.

But we can try to give a little recognition to the voices of Yin, those who are doing their best to serve life, add love, and bring compassion to the world. And the good news is that this includes most of us.

It is Mothers’ Day. Let us give thanks for all the many kinds of mothers there are among us. Let us give thanks for that spirit of mothers and mothering, that spirit which knows that real power is the power to give life, not the power to destroy or demean it. Let us give thanks that these gentle voices of the angels of our better nature do speak up at least on these few days of the year we have allowed them, for when we listen to them, they have the power of making us all better people, partners, parents and citizens, making us all more whole and more holy, a credit to ourselves, our species, and to life itself.

Let us be raised to those higher aspirations today, and show it in higher behavior. And let us remember that what we are capable of some times we can also rise to most of the time, if only we will. It is Mothers’ Day, a day which holds sacred the tender mercies within all of our hearts. Let us give thanks.

Transcendentalism For Today

© Hanna Wells

May 2, 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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AFFIRMATION OF FAITH:

Don Smith

I remember well the first time I announced to a group of people that I considered myself to be a Transcendentalist. The words had barely crossed my lips when that small – and usually reticent – part of my brain that demands a higher degree of specificity asked “Whatever do you mean by that?”

Well, I wasn’t sure. Maybe I had just been reading too much Emerson, but I doubt it. I don’t believe the things I believe because Emerson also believed them. In fact, there’s a pretty wide gap between my beliefs and Emerson’s on a great many things. Emerson would, no-doubt, say to me “You are no Transcendentalist.” But I also think that if Emerson were alive today a good many of his beliefs would be different.

I read Emerson because I agree with most of what he says about the way we should live – the proper approach to life and nature – and I enjoy the way he expresses the ideas that we share. A lot of the Transcendentalists’ thinking came from the philosopher Immanuel Kant. One of the principle ideas that Kant put forth was that certain knowledge is intuitive – it’s built into the structure of our minds–and is not the result of experience. Knowledge that is of an intuitive nature he called transcendental, thus the term Transcendentalist.

Kant said that we cannot know the real world because we see and understand it through our own perceptions and concepts. Our view of the world is distorted by the way our minds work. From there he, or at least his followers, went on to say that we form our world, and not the other way around.

Ayn Rand once wrote that “Ever since Kant divorced reason from reality, his intellectual descendants have been diligently widening the breach.” This may be the case, but I find room in my rational worldview for a little mystery, and I celebrate that mystery as something that adds a wonderful dimension to my life.

If I’m designing a building that has an overhanging beam, I know that I must design for the inflection point – the point at which bending forces in the beam change direction and shear forces are greatest – and I know that I can employ the quadratic equation to find that point. But I never forget that the quadratic equation is no actual thing; it is merely a mental construct. To use Kantian language, there is no ‘thing in itself’ that exists outside our minds.

While I do not believe that the physical world is the product of my thought, I do believe that there is more to matter than it’s molecular and chemical composition. I believe that there are categories of knowledge that are outside the bounds of science, and that things have meanings beyond their physical reality, even if those meanings are created by us and are, therefore, somewhat arbitrary.

I’m comfortable knowing that there are bounds to human knowledge. Many of things that we would want to know are not knowable. I accept this and even embrace it. I choose to view life and the world we inhabit with a sense of mystery and wonder. I celebrate the transcendent things. That’s what I mean when I say that I am a Transcendentalist.

Beyond this way of viewing life – of celebrating the wondrous and the beautiful–I embrace the idea of self-culture as expounded by the New England Transcendentalists. Today we might say self-correction, rather than self-culture. This is a simple idea, really. I have ready work with the correction of my own faults and weaknesses, so I need not worry about yours. Surely there is nothing easier to do than to find fault with others, but easy tasks don’t provide much sense of accomplishment, no matter how well we carry them out.

Another point upon which I agree with the New England Transcendentalists is that we owe it to ourselves to go through life with our eyes wide open, alert to the world and to the ideas that are shaping it. A few weeks ago Dr. Loehr spoke from this pulpit of the concept of G’d as a man fully awake. Emerson lived a life of such mental intensity that Robert Richardson titled his excellent biography of him Emerson: The Mind on Fire. But Thoreau, who knew Emerson as well as any, and better than most, was still able to write in Walden that he had never known a man who was fully awake. “How”, he asked, “could I look him in the face?”

One could easily assume that these people we know as the New England Transcendentalists set the bar too high; that none could possibly reach it. But they were addressing the ideal, the fullest potential of humanity. Why should we not strive toward that goal? If we’re striving toward so high a goal – the goal of being fully awake to life – then it’s of less consequence if we fall short of our goal.

I enjoy living a simple life – a grounded life – even while dreaming of the infinite possibilities that we possess. If this sounds attractive to you, then there might be a little of the Transcendentalist in you too.

PRAYER:

Hannah Wells

As Spring hesitates before it turns into Summer,

let us consider our own hesitations.

Let us take time to confront our fears, and then discount them.

May we let our fears be washed away by a heavy Spring rain,

so we can wake up to a morning like this one, with our hearts calm,

our purpose clear, and the brilliant fire of our souls ready to work.

May we be washed of fears, anxieties, and self-concerns

because we wake up to a morning such as this and are certain that the world needs us.

For while we can notice the beauty that surrounds us,

the world is not only a beautiful place.

As wildflowers wilt in the sun, and bushes drop heavy blossoms,

so too are things falling apart in the fragile world we live in.

Rather than work to meet our needs, may we see that our own needs are met when we work for the needs of others.

May we enlarge ourselves to transcend the self.

May we become so big that our service in the world becomes

our center; our service becomes who we are.

On a morning such as this, after a much needed storm has replenished life, may we also be replenished so we can engage the beauty of the world, its poetry, its natural art.

May we be enchanted.

And may we see that the most poignant beauty of all lies in where the world is broken and hands are busy at its repair, many, many hands, quietly repairing what is broken.

May we find our hands among them, touching this beauty.

May our desire to improve the world and our desire to enjoy the world, become one.

May compassion become our rapture.

Amen.

SERMON:

Let’s begin this morning with a trip down memory lane. Do you remember that certain book you read, perhaps when you were 13, a senior in high school, in college, or early adulthood, that book that completely changed how you understood life and your place in the world? That book that you loved so much because you felt like it enlightened you, made you privy to important knowledge. What book from years ago do you still think about, refer back to, look at life through the lens of?

When I was 13, that book was J.D. Salinger’s Catcher In the Rye. It was so funny to me! Holden Caulfield, a young man, criticizes everything about society with sharp wit, particularly all the expectations of the upper middle class – doing well in college, social climbing, marriage. To him, everything and everyone was so phony. Yeah, I thought when I was 13, I agree. I didn’t want to have to work hard to be “popular” in school, I didn’t want to work hard to earn A’s in my classes either. Holden Caulfield was an awkward middle schooler’s HERO.

Holden Caulfield affirmed my teenage tendencies toward what sociologist Robert Bellah called “expressive individualism.” That was one of the other chunks of reading that left an indelible impression on me, which I read Spring semester of my Freshman year in college. I was a Sociology major, ready to learn how I could save the world, or at least look darn good trying to. Robert Bellah and his team of sociologists published Habits of the Heart in the mid 80’s, a reader-friendly book about how our American values of individualism are impeding on our sense of commitment to public life, to being responsible, civic-minded citizens, and how the kind of church we go to plays a role in this.

Bellah tore the Unitarians apart in this book, charging that there was nothing in this denomination that obligated one to serve the greater good with total commitment; there was nothing rooted in strong religious principles that instructed one to serve his or her community as equivalent to serving the ideals of one’s faith. I remember reading this, and thinking, “my God, he’s right! We Unitarians don’t hold each other to anything!” Bellah goes on to associate the Unitarians with the historical/cultural tradition of “expressive individualism,” and mentions figures like Emerson, Thoreau, and Hawthorne, who he said “put aside the search for wealth in favor of a deeper cultivation of the self.” But it was Walt Whitman, Bellah said, who most epitomized the American cultural tradition of “expressive individualism.”

Bellah wrote, “For [Walt] Whitman, success had little to do with material acquisition. A life rich in experience, open to all kinds of people, luxuriating in the sensual as well as the intellectual, above all a life of strong feeling, was what he perceived as a successful life.”

I have this quote hi-lited in the copy I still kept from college. In the margin, is an arrow pointing to it with the word, “Yeah!” I was all for Whitman when I first read this. I remember all the students in this class greatly resisted the ideas in this book, such as wanting a life rich in experience being questionable, as something to be reconsidered or discouraged altogether. We took it out on the professor, who we called a “stodgy nerd with bad breath.” I know that in those years, I wanted to do everything that reeked of Whitman’s definition of “rich experience.” I wanted to travel the world, learn about exotic cultures, back pack in the far reaches of the wild, fall madly in love, run in a field of wildflowers, swim naked in Lake Michigan – whatever was popularly qualified as romantic experience I went after, and did.

Thankfully, my sociology teacher was a gifted educator, and through his lecturing I finally got what the main meat of this book was trying to say: to be an “expressive individualist” is selfish! It’s self-serving, self-absorbed, but most importantly, it limits the actualization of the self since the self can only be actualized within community, within a broader mode of being and acting in larger society. What does this mean? It means that the smaller our scope of attention is in the world, the smaller our sense of connection to humanity becomes, and essentially the smaller we are. If I only focus on myself and what feels good, the less I actually participate in the world, in contributing to the common good, in serving what is larger than myself.

While all those things aren’t bad in and of themselves – the traveling, the hiking, smelling the flowers – I realized that this was only a small part of what life is supposed to be about, of what is truly challenging and enriching, of what is character-building. Those things are good for MY soul – but they have no connection to the WHOLE soul of humanity.

I didn’t figure this all out right away, but eventually in young adulthood I’ve come to realize that it’s only through serving the common good that my life becomes “rich in experience,” or “a life of strong feeling.” It’s only when I forget myself that I can finally become myself. We can only become our best selves in a community of people who know us and trust us and like us. We become known when we work with others toward the spirit of what is good for a shared community – I know now that this is the only way I can find authentic peace and wellness in my life.

If anything, we are the most miserable when we can’t see beyond our own wants and must-haves. People divorce as soon as they perceive that their “needs” aren’t being met. If you think about it, self-absorption is an evil force because it tends to break relationship. It pushes us into isolation. The only way to counter this isolation and separateness is to engage in my interpretation of Emerson’s “Oversoul,” which you read in the Responsive Reading this morning:

“Within us is the soul of the whole; the wise silence, the universal beauty, to which every part and particle is equally related; the eternal One.”

Unfortunately Emerson stops short of being explicit of HOW one can engage this luminous reverence of life. He seems to imply that it is an individual experience. While undoubtedly we’ve all experienced individual moments of grace that seemed rooted in the divine, I would argue with Emerson that such experiences only scratch the surface of engaging what is at the center of the sacred.

Perhaps what is at the center isn’t blissful at all; no rapture, no ecstasy, no enchantment. Perhaps experiencing the divine is only found through a culmination of hard, quiet effort to make the world a better place, to keep life safe and sacred.

This is why the sacred is so elusive! It cannot exist in immediate gratification, it’s impossible. The Transcendentalists of the 19th century seemed to make the mistake that it is easily accessible, if only we paid better attention to our senses, our thoughts, and feelings. But nowadays, that’s the way things are, that’s the entrenched status quo – we are paying too much attention to ourselves. For us living in the post-modern world, the real challenge is to get our minds off ourselves, off our personal stresses and concerns. All this self-improvement seems to have led to a neglected society.

So I propose that Transcendentalism for today is to transcend our selves. How can we act in and experience the world beyond the self? Imagine that who you are can be represented in con centric circles. The small circle in the middle is you. The first circle around you is your family, the next circle your friends, the next circle your church community, the next your local community, the next circle your state, then your country, then finally the biggest circle is the world. It’s like rings in a tree trunk. When our lives act in those bigger circles, we become bigger, stronger, more wise. If we only act in the first tiny circle of our selves, we stay small; we don’t grow.

The American Transcendentalists of the 19th century got one very important thing right. They had faith in the highest ideals of our human capacities; they truly believed that we could successfully serve those ideals. They believed that life could be rich in experience, in beauty. But the problem is that what they defined as beautiful and sublime tended to not go past their noses. It was too self-contained. They trusted in their intuition, but whether their hunches were good or bad, right or wrong, made no difference in the world around them.

The health of our individual mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual states are all very important – I’ve preached many times on how it is essential to heal our wounds in those areas with courage and perseverance. But our healing isn’t complete or as relevant until we are able to give back to the world, or learn how to give for the first time. We work to heal for the same reason we take time to grieve – so we can participate in the world again. That’s when life is beautiful, when we can overcome or transcend our personal struggles to a place where we can give of ourselves fully once more.

The people who are so good at giving have healthy relationships with their egos – that is, they don’t think about their ego that much. They know that caring for their own hearts and minds and souls is an indirect process that happens primarily when they focus on how they can serve others.

Personal healing is important, but we probably don’t need to worry about ourselves as much as we do. I know I’m still trying to learn this. There is a concept in Buddhism called “not-doing.” It means that we let things take care of themselves, we don’t try to over do it, or try too hard. It’s having faith that while we continue to focus on living the best lives we can and be the best people we can be, that our personal issues and problems have a way of solving themselves. Finally we get to a point where we realize we don’t need to be solved – we don’t need to be “fixed.” Things tend to work out when we simply continue to participate well in the world. Our flaws and our so called “personal growth issues” don’t seem to matter as much when we become good at helping others.

When the Trancendentalists talk about trusting their intuition in terms of possessing knowledge that precedes experience, I want to say, ‘yes, that unconditioned knowledge is there, but I can only trust it if it doesn’t have to do with myself. I can trust it and follow it if it points to the highest ideals that serve humanity as a whole.’ I like to think of this trustworthy knowledge that we’re all born with as the knowledge of the Kingdom of God. I believe we all possess it, deep within our psyches, and life is about doing all we can to uncover it, to actualize it. We can discover that the Kingdom has very little to do with the self – the self becomes only a vehicle, a conduit for doing good in the world.

The Kingdom of God not only transcends the self, it actually saves us from the prison of self-absorption,the constant clamor of the ego.

One of my friends is studying the Kabbalah, the teachings of Jewish mysticism. He told me that his teacher explained to him that the constant yammer in our minds that keeps all our attention on ourselves is actually the devil speaking. The voice of our ego is the voice of the devil. I know that sounds heavy-handed, so let’s just use it as a tool of metaphor. I think it’s comforting – because what it means is that that voice of anxiety in my self isn’t my true voice; it isn’t the voice I need to listen to or act on. According to my friend, the Kabbalah teaches that it’s the voices within ourselves that are faint, that are hard to hear that we should be trying to listen to. The quiet voice that says something like, “maybe I need to go over here and see how I can help someone.” That is our true nature, not this ego-driven one.

If we’re going to pay any attention to our intuitions at all, they need to be the intuitions that come from this center, from this sacred center. Not the center of the self, but within those larger circles. Transcendentalism for today ought to focus on attending to what our center is to be; what is the circle of the largest diameter within which we can define ourselves? To what degree shall we transcend ourselves?

When we realize the extent of our power as individuals to act in the world, we come to understand what the Kabbalah teaches, and what some wise philosopher also concluded: that every act we do is either an act of creation or an act of destruction. For the sacred is not only elusive, the sacred is fragile – the Kingdom of God is difficult to access, we know that true moments of grace between human beings are rare. If we are the spiders and the sacred is the web, which connections with the world are we going to extend to? Which parts of the web are we going to repair, slowly, meticulously, but with great intention and purpose?

Sure life is beautiful! The Transcendentalists of the 19th century perhaps served an important historical function of their time – to counter an increasingly industrial mindset, to try to preserve nature against production and development, to uphold a mind set that dismissed an agenda of ruthless progress. That’s still applicable in today’s world. But we need to take more steps outward.

Today we know life has beauty to offer us; that is a given. And it’s well advised that we do recharge our batteries every now and then in nature, that we do spend time just being with ourselves, star-gazing, watching the ants work. YES, there is so much beauty in the world and we are well advised to notice it – God does get mad if we walk by the color purple and don’t notice it.

But what is really going to drive you to act in the best ways possible in the world? To what ideals are you so accountable that they transcend the need to serve the self, that serving these higher ideals becomes a priority, perhaps even your life’s work?

In the Spring of my senior year of college I had to present a final project to the Sociology department. They had given me permission to spend an entire quarter writing poetry, rather than do some kind of social service internship, because I didn’t want to just serve the world, I wanted to be a poet in the world, too. I remember I began the presentation to all my professors and fellow students with a favorite quote from E.B. White. He said,

“It’s hard to know when to respond to the seductiveness of the world – and when to respond to the challenge. If the world were merely seductive, that would be easy. If it were merely challenging that would be no problem. But I arise in the morning torn between the desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world . . . this makes it hard to plan the day.”

May we transcend this quandary. May we discover that, after all – to improve the world and to enjoy the world are in fact the same thing.

May our joy be our service. May our service be our joy.

The Corporations Will Eat Your Soul

© Davidson Loehr

25 April 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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You may know the story of the frog and the scorpion. A scorpion wanted to cross a swift river, and asked a frog to carry him on his back. The frog asked “How do I know that you won’t sting and kill me as soon as you get on my back?” “Well,” answered the scorpion, who was good with words when he wanted something, “then I wouldn’t be able to get across the river.” “Well,” said the frog, “then how do I know that you won’t sting and kill me as soon as we’re across the river?” “Oh,” said the scorpion, “because I’ll be so grateful for the ride, why would I want to kill you then?”

This convinced the frog – apparently, frogs are easy to convince in stories – so he let the scorpion on his back, and began swimming across the river. They were about 2/3 of the way across the raging river, when, to his great surprise, the frog felt a painful sting and looked around to see the scorpion pulling his stinger out of the frog’s back. Very soon, the frog felt himself becoming numb. Just before he was completely paralyzed, the frog had the breath to ask “Why?” “It’s just my nature,” said the scorpion, as they both sank into the river and drowned. “It’s just my nature.”

Of course, the story was never really about scorpions. It was meant as a warning against certain rare but dangerous kinds of people whose nature, like that of scorpions, is to destroy others even if it destroys them too.

I think the reason this is such a frightening story is because a person like the scorpion, a person who lacked even basic compassion, isn’t quite human.

One of the scariest things we can imagine is a machine-like thing with a will, that seeks to harm us, and feels nothing when we suffer, cry, or die. Think of those android-type men in the “Matrix” movies, for instance. Or the Orcs and Sauron in “Lord of the Rings,” or the governor of California as The Terminator, that robot programmed only to destroy until it was destroyed.

I suppose the most famous story like this is still Mary Shelly’s 1818 tale of Dr. Frankenstein and the monster he created from spare parts. For nearly two centuries, the Frankenstein monster has been a symbol of creating something inhuman, giving it life and immense power without a soul, then living to see it turn on us, as the monster even killed Frankenstein in the end.

There have been a lot of movies on this theme in the past decades. The Terminator, Total Recall, Darth Vader in Star Wars, the casual indifference to life in “Pulp Fiction,” the powerful forces of greed and destruction in “Lord of the Rings” – you can probably each think of another half dozen.

When I was growing up, the most powerful movie like this was the original 1956 version of “Invasion of the Body-Snatchers.” For me, it was a movie about the difference between real people and pathological people. You probably know the story. A mindless life force from outer space drifted from a desolate, dead planet and wound up on this one.

It operated under a simple program. When a human fell asleep near it, it produced a giant pod that duplicated the sleeping person, taking their body, looks, even their memory, and draining their life, then destroying the original and taking their place. You could hardly tell the difference. They looked the same, had all the same memories. But they had no soul. They had no compassion, no feeling for anyone. The squeals of a dog getting hit and killed by a car in the road twenty feet away didn’t even make them care to look.

Life didn’t matter to them. Only reproducing their kind, to no other end than reproducing their kind. Eventually, like the frog and the scorpion, they kill everything. Then if the cosmic winds are right, they may blow across the galaxy and suck the life out of yet another planet. I’ve met a half dozen people who grew up when I did, saw that movie, and were similarly moved to think of real versus unreal people, the way kids 150 years ago probably thought in terms of real people versus Frankenstein monsters. In both cases, they were persons lacking humanity, lacking the concern for others that makes them frightening and dangerous persons.

When humans act like this, we think there’s something fundamentally wrong with them. Theologians call them evil, novelists call them monsters or body snatchers, and psychologists call them psychopaths. Since psyche means soul, the word really means people with sick souls. Here’s a list of psychopathic traits I recently read. Psychopaths are:

Irresponsible

Grandiose, self-absorbed

They lack empathy

They won’t accept responsibility for their destructive actions

They are unable to feel remorse

They’re finally quite superficial: all power, no depth; all manipulation, no connection

(Joel Bakan, The Corporation, p. 57)

I can see you making a mental list of some of your ex-friends .

Now what is this about? Why am I talking about persons who are not real persons, psychopaths and scorpions whose nature is to destroy, even if it also destroys them? What on earth does this have to do with a respectable church sermon?

It’s a way of introducing the business of trying to understand the powers that have largely taken over our American society and are on the verge of taking over the world. That sounds so dramatic it almost needs a science fiction movie with special effects to make it scary enough.

But I am talking about a person that we have created, a person that is not a real person, that has immense power, more money than God, and which, like the invasion of the body-snatchers, is seeking to, and succeeding in, destroying the compassionate qualities of both societies and real people.

You’ll think I’ve badly overstated the case when I say that this dangerous person who is not a real person is the corporation. So let me try and persuade you.

Only a very few of these insights are mine. I got the rest from a remarkable new book of only 167 pages by a Canadian law professor named Joel Bakan. The title of the book is The Corporation: The Pathological Pursuit of Profit and Power. He also made a movie of the interviews he conducted in writing the book, and that movie, called “The Corporation,” is playing to sold-out and standing-ovation crowds in theaters all across Canada right now, where it has become a national phenomenon. I spoke with the film’s promoters last week, who said they are now arranging a tour of more than 200 cities in the US for the movie, beginning on June 4th in San Francisco, with Austin tentatively scheduled for July 29th, at a location still to be determined

The author explains the nature, the character and the danger of large corporations in a few pages, and I’ll try to reduce it to a few minutes. But make no mistake: this is like a horror movie. Even though there is some hope at the end, I want to scare you.

Corporations formed in the late 17th and early 18th centuries, to pool the money of a large number of people in order to give the corporation more power than any single business could have. Very early, laws were passed saying investors had no real liability for whatever dastardly deeds the corporation did. This gave the corporation limited liability, but unlimited ability to make money. It’s something you can’t imagine ever wanting to do with a person, isn’t it?

And from the start, as a matter of structure and law, the only purpose of a corporation was to make as much money as possible for its stockholders.

By the late 19th century, the courts had transformed the corporation into a person, a legal person, and even spoke of it in that way. And in 1866, lawyers representing this newly-created “person” won a ruling from the Supreme Court saying that, as a legal person, corporations were entitled to be protected by the 14th amendment for “due process of law” and “equal protection of the laws.” These provisions of the 14th amendment, as you may remember, were written for the protection of freed slaves after the War Between the States. But since 1866, it has been used almost never by freed slaves, and almost exclusively to protect corporations – even when they make slaves of workers all over the third world and, some would argue, within our own country. I am betting that not many of you knew that. Until a few years ago, I didn’t know it either. Isn’t that odd, that we didn’t know that?

Since being christened as persons, corporations have done what any person would do: they have fought for both survival and dominance, lobbying for laws that favor their aims, and buying influence, lawyers, judges, politicians and presidents when they can. It isn’t seen as evil, just doing business, just their nature.

And what are their aims? You might say that it depends on the corporation, that they are free to do whatever they want. That’s not true. If the corporation sells stocks, its sole legal purpose, under U.S. laws, is to make as much money as possible for its stockholders. The corporation can pretend to care about society or the environment, as long as the money they spend makes more people want to buy their products and so increases profits for stockholders. But they may not, legally, spend money for social good unless they really aren’t interested in social good, but only in profits.

Milton Friedman, who had been regarded as a second- or third-rate economist until he was adopted as the official economist of the greediest kind of capitalism, calls making money the corporation’s only moral aim. He compares little acts of apparent social conscience to car manufacturers using pretty girls to sell cars. “That’s never really about the girls,” he points out, “it’s just a trick to sell cars.” Likewise, a corporation can donate to the special Olympics or civic projects, but only if it will sell more of their product. They can’t do social good for the sake of doing social good.

Peter Drucker, perhaps the oldest living guru of corporate character, says if you have a CEO who wants to do social good, fire him fast!

And there are laws supporting this perspective. Ninety years ago, when Henry Ford was becoming astoundingly rich from selling his Model T Fords, he decided that he was making too much money. So in 1916, Ford “cancelled the stock dividends to give customers price reductions because he felt it was wrong to make obscene profits.” (Bakan, p. 36)

Two of his major investors, the Dodge brothers, took him to court, arguing that profits belonged to the stockholders, not the company, and the court agreed with them, establishing a precedent that still rules. Corporations exist as persons only to do whatever is necessary to maximize profits for their stockholders. Even if it harms people. (Yes, the Dodge brothers then started their own car company.)

In a 1933 Supreme Court judgment, Justice Louis Brandeis finally made the obvious connection, when he stated that corporations were “Frankenstein monsters” capable of doing evil.

The author cites another famous case from 1994, in which General Motors was sued because on Christmas Day 1993 a mother with her four children in the car was hit from behind while stopped at a stop light, causing her gas tank of her 1979 Chevy Malibu to explode, burning and badly disfiguring all five of them. During the trial, a report was introduced showing that GM knew the gas tank was set so far back that it could explode on impact, killing the car’s occupants. In fact, about five hundred people were being killed this way at the time of the report in 1973 when the new Malibu style cars were being planned. He figured that each fatality could cost the company $200,000 in legal damages, then divided the figure by 41 million, the number of cars GM had on the road. The engineer concluded that each death cost GM only $2.40 per automobile. The cost of ensuring that fuel tanks did not explode in crashes was estimated to be $8.59 per car. That meant the company could save $6.19 per car if it let people die in fuel-fed fires rather than alter the design of vehicles to avoid such fires. (Bakan, pp. 61-63)

While the jury made a huge award, it was later reduced by 3/4, and GM appealed the case. In support of GM, the U.S. Chamber of Commerce filed a brief defending the practice of using this kind of “cost-benefit analysis in corporate decision making.” The jury’s decision, they said, was deeply troubling, because manufacturers should use cost-benefit analysis to make the most profitable decisions. (63) The corporation’s legal makeup, its nature, requires executives to make only those decisions that create greater benefits than costs for their stockholders. Executives have no authority to consider what harmful effects a decision might have on other people or upon the environment, unless those effects might have negative consequences for the corporation. (p. 64)

Do you see what has happened here? This person we created through our own laws, by following its legal nature, can and does endanger and kill human beings in the pursuit of profit.

Now let’s jump to a very different area of society, one you might not think is even related to corporations. It’s the subject of our armed forces, what they are really serving, and what our soldiers are really dying for.

Joel Bakan’s book tells of a chapter in American history I was never taught in school. It involves a Marine Corps General named Smedley Butler, one of WWI’s most heavily decorated soldiers. On August 21, 1931, Butler had stunned an audience at an American Legion convention in Connecticut when he had said:

“I spent 33 years being a high-class muscle man for Big Business, for Wall Street and the bankers. In short, I was a racketeer for capitalism.

“I helped purify Nicaragua for the international banking house of Brown Brothers in 1909-1912. I helped make Mexico and especially Tampico safe for American oil interests in 1916. I brought light to the Dominican Republic for American sugar interests in 1916. I helped make Haiti and Cuba a decent place for the National City [Bank] boys to collect revenue in. I helped in the rape of half a dozen Central American republics for the benefit of Wall Street.

“In China in 1927 I helped see to it that Standard Oil went its way unmolested . I had a swell racket. I was rewarded with honors, medals, promotions . I might have given Al Capone a few hints. The best he could do was to operate a racket in three cities. The Marines operated on three continents.” (p. 93)

Given that speech, and Butler’s disgust with the role the military played, not in serving democracy but in serving the greed of large corporations, what happened three years later is truly stunning.

Franklin Roosevelt was president, and he was bringing government regulations in to stop the disastrous greed of the wealthiest corporations and individuals. Big business hated him. In fact, big business was in love with fascism at the time. In 1934, Fortune magazine had a cover story extolling the virtues of fascism and the economic miracles Mussolini had achieved in lowering wages, crushing worker unions, and creating greater profits for the corporations.

On August 22nd of 1934, General Butler was approached in a hotel room in Philadelphia by a messenger of a group of wealthy businessmen, who opened a large suitcase of $1000 bills and dumped it on the bed, explaining that this was only a down payment. The business interests wanted General Butler to assemble a volunteer army, take over the White House, and install himself as the fascist dictator of the United States, with the financial support of big business. Some observers believe that if they had picked a different general, it may well have worked. Butler refused, and told the story.

In 1934, the business interests believed they would have to use military force to take over the government, dismantle democracy, and install a form of fascist government doing the will of the richest corporations and individuals in America, to the degradation or destruction of everyone else. This was the invasion of the body snatchers, coming closer than we can know to succeeding.

“Today, seventy years after the failed coup, a well-organized minority again threatens democracy. Corporate America’s long and patient campaign to gain control of government over the last few decades, much quieter and ultimately more effective than the plotters’ clumsy attempts, is now succeeding. Without bloodshed, armies, or fascist strongmen, and using dollars rather than bullets, corporations are now poised to win what the plotters so desperately wanted: freedom from democratic control.” (p. 95)

And their reach is now worldwide. The World Trade Organization, which Clinton had created in 1993, has already sued or threatened to sue nations, including ours, for safety or environmental laws that cut into the corporation’s profits. In 2005, their full power will come into effect, enabling them to prevent governments from enacting environmental or health regulations that would unduly impede their profits. (Bakan, p. 23)

NAFTA, another Clinton creation, was an investor protection plan enabling corporations to use cheap labor to force American wages down, break unions, and steal jobs from the U.S. society by the hundreds of thousands, “out-sourcing” them to cheap labor markets around the world in order to let rich corporations and individuals get richer by destroying the lives of American and other workers, gutting entire societies, then leaving their husk and blowing on to drain the life from another society, exactly like the invasion of the body snatchers.

There are many more details, and the picture is considerably worse, than I’ve had time to sketch for you. I don’t think there are many books that all Americans should read, but I think this is one of them.

Is there hope? Can anything be done? Yes, but only if we remember that we created this Frankenstein monster, and it is only a “person” because we said so, and we can change our views and change our laws and change the way in which corporations are allowed to do business in this country and in the world. You can find lists of cities and counties that have revoked the charters of corporations, and refused to let them operate unless they are reconstituted to serve the good of society, the common good, rather than just the greed of a few men and women.

And New York Attorney General Eliot Spitzer recently said that if “a corporation is convicted of repeated felonies that harm or endanger the lives of human beings or destroy our environment, the corporation should be put to death, its corporate existence ended, and its assets taken and sold at public auction.” (p. 157) Eliot Spitzer isn’t anti-government. He works for the government. The government isn’t bad, it’s a neutral but powerful tool that can be used to reclaim our nation and redefine the acceptable role of corporations in our world. We created corporations, we defined them, and we have the authority to redefine them, to insist that they may only operate in our society if they are organized to serve the greater good of the majority in our society, rather than simply the arrogant greed of a tiny percentage of us. They need to be taxed again, and taxed to pay a fair share of our economy’s expenses, just as the tax rates on rich individuals needs to be raised. In 1960, the tax rate was 91% for the richest Americans, and corporations paid fair taxes. That is why our middle class was empowered after WWII, because the money was being distributed fairly. Today, we have socialism for the rich, and a brutal kind of capitalism for everyone else. We can stop it.

And now we’re at war again, a war General Butler would recognize immediately. Haliburton, the company from which Vice President Cheney came back to Washington, has made billions of dollars from contracts they haven’t even had to bid on. Other large US corporations that contributed to the presidential campaign have also made hundreds of millions of dollars. Some of their civilian truck drivers are being paid $80,000 a year to risk getting killed making profits for the stockholders.

Meanwhile, many of our American soldiers, as you may have read, are getting paid $16,000 a year, a pay so low that they are being given food stamps with their pay, and many of their families back home are on welfare. The soldiers are not fighting and dying for democracy, freedom, or anything noble at all. They are dying, like General Butler’s soldiers died eighty years ago, as inconsequential drones whose only purpose in life is to help Haliburton, other major U.S. corporations and rich individuals make a lot of money. If they get killed, at least they’re cheap to replace. There’s cost-benefit analysis at work.

This is the story of the Frankenstein monster come full circle, to the point where it is succeeding in forcing its human creators to serve it, even if they become beggars or corpses by doing so. It is un-American. It is ungodly. It is inhuman and it is disgusting. And it is continuing. Only the American people are likely to stop it, and then only if they wake up, get informed, get angry, get organized and get going.

I can’t write an ending for this sermon. It would have to be written in the real world, in real time, by real people. But there is something riding on our backs that doesn’t belong there, and that does not have our best interests at heart. It will, if it is allowed to remain there, eat our soul and our society. Nor can it really stop itself. It has been programmed with a very simple program: it’s just its nature.

Easter 2004

© Rev. Davidson Loehr

and Hannah Wells

11 April 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

AFFIRMATION OF FAITH:

Sheri Goodwin

Good morning, my name is Sheri Goodwin and I consider myself a Contemplative Christian, otherwise known as a Christian that meditates. Like most of us, I have grown up a seeker, yearning to understand the Truths of this world. I grew up in a devout Christian family and have gone to church all of my life and I thank my parents for giving me that strong foundation.

Like many, I began to question my beliefs in college and thereafter. Most of my experiences with church were very positive, yet the religion was something that was given to me, not a discovery that I experienced on my own. So, I set out to get to some NOs as Davidson puts it, before I could get to some YESes.

Within the last several years, I have sought understanding through Buddhist teachings, esoteric Christian teachers, and other spiritual books. I have had two very special guides in my life, Pamela and Lisa, who are my teachers and spiritual supporters.

The Dalai Lama says that we can’t choose our religion. What I understand him to mean is that all major world religions have one common belief – that Love is the way to overcome our suffering and that sacred scriptures from different religions can lead us to discover God or that love or oneness or light that is in us all. I believe that, and have chosen to continue my understanding based on my Christian foundation.

I have also studied and been influenced by the Enneagram which is a study of nine personality types and how our personalities, when unhealthy, keep us from knowing that essence of God that is in us. Since I’ve discovered the Enneagram, there is literally not a day that goes by that I do not think about it. It’s not a religion, but it is a tool for transformation.

There are three triads of personalities based on body, mind and soul centers. My personality type, the Nine, is in the body triad and is known as the Peacemaker. I’m always searching for peace and comfort in my life. Sometimes that peace seeking is demonstrated in healthy ways and sometimes in ways that gives me just the opposite.

So, that summarizes my background, but why the topic of resurrection? When the worship associates met, I proposed the topic as a challenge to myself because it is central to Christianity.

As part of my preparation, I observed Lent. This year, I gave up the chief fixation of the nine: laziness. Nines are not lazy in the sense that we know it. In fact I’m quite active. Laziness in this sense is not engaging in life, kind of numbing out when things get stressful.

With Lent, I have gotten up earlier than usual in the mornings to do yoga, meditate and read. I’ve consciously tried to engage fully in life. Part of my reading included The Gospel of Luke who, among the four Gospels represents the body, the sacrifice.

I hadn’t really been back to the Bible in many years and this was a truly wonderful experience for me. In Luke, there are three passages that jumped out to me; all things that Jesus said:

1) The Kingdom of God is not coming with things that can be observed; nor will they say, “Look, here it is!” or “There it is!” For, in fact, the kingdom of God is within you. – Luke 17:21

2) Those who seek to save their life, will loose it; and those who lose their life will keep it. – Luke 17:33

3) For he is not a God of the dead, but of the living: for to him all of them are alive. – Luke 20:38

To paraphrase, God is within me. I have to lose my life to have life. It is not a God of the dead, but of the living. God, to me, is a force, energy, the good virtues that can be found in us. Simply, God is Love.

I found those words in Luke especially important because I believe that I can choose a resurrection. It’s an internal choice. To me, suffering or non-life, is all the things in our human condition that aren’t Love – like anger, resentment, not forgiving, fear – all those things that cause me to churn. The things that make me lose sleep. Going through the process of dying to those things, is as Jesus says, losing MY life and seeking God within me in order to have a better life. One that is truly alive! To me, that is choosing resurrection. That is choosing Love.

Making that choice moment by moment is not easy and I fail more than not. I think it involves a conscious choice of forgiveness. Forgiveness of ourselves and forgiveness of others. I find the Enneagram a helpful tool in guiding me to this forgiveness. The Enneagram sheds light on the essence that we really are, not the personality that drives us. It helps me identify what to die to to create a transformation. It’s in our everyday life that we are given the opportunity to resurrect.

Jesus’ teachings and his resurrection are about choosing Life. Choosing the Love that I have in me if can die to the things that keep me from it. That’s when I experience resurrection. That’s when I experience God within me.

PRAYER:

We pray for the spiritual resurrection of ourselves and those we love.

To be born again, born of a Spirit that can be called Holy – we pray for that.

If the glory of God is a human being fully alive, then we pray this Easter that the glory of God may become incarnate in all those people who are open to and eager for it, all those people with “eyes to see and ears to hear” this good news. And we pray that we may be one of those people.

It does us no good if Jesus was the son of God, unless we also may become the sons and daughters of God.

It is Easter, the time of becomings, the springtime season of hope, of life, and of all things filled with light, wonder and trust.

Let us be creatures of Easter, hosts of the new birth and new life sung by all the bright, greenly spirits of things.

Let us become co-conspirators in this vast cosmic plan to replace death with life, fear with trust, and despair with hope.

It is Easter. Let us prepare for our resurrection: here and now. Let us welcome into our hearts the exuberant gifts of another spiritual springtime, another precious resurrection of the spirit.

Amen.

HOMILY: The Easter of Nature: Life Over Death

Hannah Wells

Among my colleagues in Seminary school, it is in vogue to criticize the popular method of celebrating Easter in the UU faith. They lament, “Easter is about MORE than bunnies!” Or as one told me recently, “I am SO disappointed that my church is having a FLOWER communion for Easter AGAIN this year.” Apparently talking about Jesus on Easter has become much more cool.

One of the best stories from my UU upbringing that my parents like to tell was when my Mother prepared a very nice meal for Easter one year, I looked at all the food and asked my parents with genuine curiosity, “Is Easter some kind of religious holiday?” I was about 10. They were amused, but my Mother also said, “thank God she didn’t ask us that question in front of my Mother.”

It’s true that when I went to Seminary I had a Jesus Renaissance – mostly because I didn’t know a thing about him. Meeting Jesus late in the game has its perks; I got to know him with no beef against him. I love referring to Jesus in my sermons now and I consider his teachings an important influence on who I try to be. However, the popular UU interpretation of Easter has always held a great deal of meaning for me, too.

I grew up in a part of the country where it is cold and mostly gray for at least 7 months out of the year. Chicago-land, that is. Usually toward the end of every winter, I was depressed and suffering from seasonal affective disorder from not getting enough sunshine. So when the first crocuses poked their little green heads out among the snow patches, it was cause for great excitement. All the signs of Spring were a great relief . . . The pink cherry blossoms on the trees that reminded me of fluffy scoops of raspberry frozen yogurt. The tulips and snap dragons in my Mother’s garden. The first murmurs of cicadas and crickets through the screens of open windows at night. The first hints of humidity and warmth in the air. It really felt like a process of something frozen in me thawing out each year.

Easter was always around this time, and so it came to symbolize the survival of another winter. Longer days, even the buzz of a lawn mower was a welcome sign of Spring. Soon I could walk barefoot around the yard, ride my bike to the public pool, collect bugs and fire flies with my neighborhood friends.

I remember I tried to start a “nature club” once in my basement. I instructed my friends to draw pictures of trees, flowers, and rainbows to hang on the walls, and the pinnacle of excitement would be to catch a butterfly or a fat shiny beetle. One year we had a flood and there were thousands of centipedes we saved and put into a plastic box. Anything we ever caught died the next day – which taught me that in order to live, things in nature had to be free.

Perhaps I was destined to have an appreciation for nature and the outdoors as an adult, regardless. But I think an emphasis on revering nature in the UU church I grew up in played a role. Every year we had a flower communion for Easter. It took me a while to understand that the flowers represented the ecological resurrection we were paying homage to. As simple or even as clumsy such a ritual is, it always struck me as a beautiful and passionate expression of gratitude for the coming of Spring.

The minister instructed the church to smell deeply of the blossoms’ scent. Even if the aroma wasn’t strong, it still smelled like the earth. Smelling fresh flowers was as good as drinking the blood of Jesus to me; it was a communion – because the flowers symbolized Spring and Spring always saved me.

When framed well, the message of Jesus and the metaphor of his resurrection is very powerful. But I think the flowers and bunnies approach to Easter can be powerful too. Because it’s about taking note of what we seem to take for granted – that every year Spring faithfully returns. If we had to choose between photosynthesis and theology, I think the trees would win – that’s how we breathe. The miracle of life on this planet! Being just the right distance from just the right-sized star, a planet that has just the right balance of gases and elements to support such a variety of life forms. Isn’t that story rather marvelous? And true beyond a doubt?

What’s important is that we take time to be dazzled by the arrival of Spring, the turning of the seasons, by life’s constant surge forward. Everything in nature – including us – goes through cycles. If parts of us didn’t die, new parts of us couldn’t be born. A year is a long time – it takes that long for a typical tree to bear fruit. All the important things we cultivate in our lives take a long time, too.

And then there are the flowers and the bugs – they don’t live very long at all. There are many spectacular things about life that happen very quickly, and if we don’t take time to see them, we miss the small ways that life moves forward.

I was reminded of this yesterday when I got to visit with my youngest niece who is still a toddler. I hadn’t seen her since Thanksgiving, and in these few months she has learned how to walk. In this time, she has also become her own little person with her own personality! She’s not even quite two years old, and I couldn’t believe how feisty and tough she was. As I was spinning her and her big sister in circles on their tire swing in the back yard, she’s so little I was afraid she might fly off. But she just held on tight, closed her eyes, and squealed with delight. I spinned the tire faster and faster and the expression of joy on her face just deepened. She held on, no problem. I had to squeal with delight myself because there is nothing like watching a young child discover joy, discover LIFE.

That’s what Easter can be about – noticing how life moves forward. Gratitude in the form of delight, just for the blossoms, just for the light, just for joy.

What would Jesus do? I think he’d smile to see God’s children delight in the Kingdom.

SO enjoy the Easter egg hunt! Enjoy the chocolate bunnies! Hippity, hoppity, these symbols are sacred. Happy Easter

 

 

HOMILY: The Nature of Easter: Choosing Resurrection

 Davidson Loehr

I don’t think of Easter as a Christian holiday, but as the Christian variation on themes older than recorded history. There is a whole range of ideas that have clustered around the vernal equinox, the beginning of spring, the start of the planting season for agricultural societies. It’s always been about the victory of life over death, light over darkness, spring over winter, hope over despair. Those are the themes that arise from the human soul, turning the change of seasons into a metaphor for hoped-for psychological changes – just as Christmas is another “cover” of the winter solstice, the rebirth of the sun.

Then I’m interested in how the different traditions handle these timeless themes, and how useful their efforts are for us today.

In looking at the messages of Jesus and Paul on the subject of resurrection, there is really a quite surprising lesson to be learned. This might be the first time you’ve heard it, even if you grew up in a Christian church. (If it is the first time you’ve heard it, shame on your ministers!) The lesson is that both Jesus and Paul are quite clear that nothing about their message involves the bodily resurrection of Jesus or anyone else.

Both Jesus and Paul taught on two different levels. They said things that sounded literal and supernatural, but also said the deeper meanings were hidden from the simple or unworthy, and were available only to those with “eyes to see and ears to hear” as Jesus liked to put it.

People asked Jesus when the kingdom of God was coming – they understood it as a supernatural thing, like special effects in a movie where a large powerful creature changes the world around right before your eyes. His answer could hardly have been more clear. He said No; this kingdom isn’t something you can point to, it is not coming; it is within or among you, or it’s nowhere. The kingdom of God and the point of religion, to Jesus, were not supernatural, and not postponed until somewhere else and later. They were spiritual, psychological, and were available here and now or nowhere and never.

In the Gospel of Thomas, he said the kingdom of God is already spread out on the earth, and people don’t see it. It is not supernatural. We have everything we need, and only we can bring about the kingdom of God, through our actions. He thought we should know that we are loved, that all others are equally loved, even those we can’t stand, and that when we treat ourselves and others like brothers, sisters and children of God, the kingdom of God will be here, because that is what the kingdom of God is. Period, Amen, end of sermon, end of religion.

Also in the Gospel of Thomas, Jesus said that whoever drank from his mouth became like him: in other words, anyone who understood what he said had everything he had. He was no more or less a son of God than we were, if only we would open our eyes.

In another saying from the Gospel of Thomas – one of my very favorites from any time or place – Jesus said “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” (#70) This is good modern depth psychology, and great ancient wisdom. Salvation, wholeness, being “born again, born of the Spirit,” is a spiritual – what today we would call psychological – reality that happens here and now or nowhere and never, if we are to believe Jesus.

And while St. Paul has earned a lot of bad press, sometimes he too was pretty clear about this fact that salvation and resurrection were spiritual or psychological, but never physical, never involving bodies, either ours or Jesus’s. I’ve picked a few passages from his letter to the Corinthians – a small contentious church of about 65 members that he founded. In the third chapter (I Cor. 3: 1-3a) Paul explains that he could not address them as “spiritual” people, but as men of the flesh, as what he called “babes in Christ.” “I fed you with milk, not solid food;” he wrote, “for you were not ready for it; and even yet you are not ready?.” So he’s warning them before he begins that he’s only given them pap, not the deeper and harder religious lessons for which they are not ready.

The difference between “people of the flesh” and “spiritual people” for Paul is the difference between literalists who can only understand things magically, supernaturally, and those who understand that the riches of religion are spiritual or psychological, riches of personal transformation.

In I Corinthians 2:14-16, Paul writes “The unspiritual man does not receive the gifts of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned. The spiritual man [on the other hand] judges all things, but is himself to be judged by no one. “For who has known the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we, Paul said, have the mind of Christ.

Paul echoes Jesus’ teaching that those who understand him become like him, and gain “the mind of Christ.” This isn’t blasphemy, it’s St. Paul. It can’t be blasphemy if Paul said it: it’s a sort of rule.

And “so it is,” he says, “with the resurrection of the dead. What is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable. It is sown a physical body, it is raised a spiritual body?. (50): I tell you this, brethren: flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable. (I Cor. 15:42ff)

Reading Paul, like reading the New Testament, is frustrating because he does write on two levels. He is writing to the “babes in Christ,” and has already told them he is feeding them milk rather than solid food. So yes, you can make either a literal or a spiritual, psychological, interpretation of Paul’s writings. And since he wrote it for the “babes in Christ,” it’s not surprising that it has been read literally. But he, like Jesus, gives enough hints that resurrection can not involve anyone’s body, that it is a kind of spiritual thing, a kind of persistence of the spirit of this powerful man Jesus.

This notion of a “spiritual persistence,” the sense that someone who has died is still powerfully “present,” is neither supernatural nor unusual. We still react this way to powerful and charismatic people; maybe you have, too. The last count I saw said that Elvis Presley has been “sighted” since his death over 250,000 times by people who won’t believe he isn’t still here in some way. Martin Luther King Jr’s spirit have remained powerful for many of us, 36 after his murder. Marilyn Monroe still lives as a cultural icon, people still buy photos and poster of her and put them in their rooms.

I saw an example of this that took my breath away a few years ago, and heard of another one after the first service this morning.

A few years ago, I was driving north through Indiana on Interstate 69 when I saw a billboard advertising the town of Fairmount, hometown of the 1950s movie actor James Dean. Dean made only three movies, all of which became classics (Giant, East of Eden, Rebel Without a Cause) and became a kind of cult figure after his tragic death in a 1955 highway accident.

I went to the museum and souvenir shop devoted entirely to James Dean, where the owner discovered – to his disgust, I thought – that I really didn’t know a lot about Dean. At one point, he said in a very serious voice “You must go up the hill and see his grave!” This wasn’t high on my list of things I’d like to do, so I asked him why. “To understand,” he said, “to understand his power!”

OK, I was hooked. I drove to the cemetery to look for the grave – people kept stealing his gravestone, I’d been told, but they’d just replaced it again a month or so ago. Up at the top of the hill, I found it. It was small, a regular dark red granite grave stone maybe a foot high and two feet wide. Then I saw what the man at the museum and gift shop had meant: the entire grave stone was covered in lipstick kisses! I imagine most of them had been planted there, and recently, by young women who hadn’t even been born in 1955. That’s spiritual persistence, the feeling that someone long dead is still very much here.

And this morning a church member said he visited Paris again a few weeks ago, and finally decided to find rock guitarist Jim Morrison’s grave there. It was nearly a shrine, covered with personal notes written to Morrison’s spirit, covered with burning candles and burned-out candles. To a lot of people, something about Jim Morrison is very much alive, thirty three years after his death in 1971.

It isn’t unusual. It seems to be how we react to the loss of powerful people, and Jesus would have fit into this category. So it’s no wonder that the sense of his “persistence” would have been described in supernatural or quasi-supernatural terms. But there was nothing supernatural in that sense, as Jesus preached and Paul indicated in his coded introduction to his church at Corinth.

Christianity has continued to be taught to the babes in Christ, as supernatural, magical, involving a resurrection of the body. But from the very beginning, its most powerful teachers said otherwise.

Much of this is would take too long to go into here, which is why I’m leading an eight-hour Jesus Seminar program here May 14th and 15th. I strongly urge you to make a place for this Friday night and Saturday program in your calendar. We need to understand what the man Jesus was really about, especially since Christianity is the dominant religion of our culture, and it is almost always taught at the level of “babes in Christ” rather than as Jesus taught it.

For here, I’ll stick to what the Easter message really is. Finding it is like an Easter egg hunt. You have to look through history for those few great Christian writers who did have the eyes to see and ears to hear. There, you’ll hear the same kind of message that Jesus delivered, and that Paul alluded to when he said those who understand have the mind of Christ.

Irenaeus, a 2nd century Christian was one of these. One of the things he wrote was this remarkable and wonderful statement: “The glory of God is a human being fully alive.” “The glory of God is a human being fully alive.” Here was a 2nd century Christian who thought the real message of Christianity is not about supernatural magic, but about becoming fully alive.

And in the 16th century, another great Christian writer named Meister Eckhart, whose books are still available wrote of the incarnation of God in Jesus, that “God became man, so that man might become God.”

“It would be of little value for me,” he wrote, “that ‘the Word was made flesh’ for man in Christ as a person distinct from me unless he was also made flesh in me personally so that I too might be God’s son.”

Jesus would have said “Amen.” This was not a “babe in Christ,” but a mature believer writing about a mature belief grounded in the empowering teachings of Jesus. He wanted to become like Jesus, as Jesus intended.

And this Easter, I want to add my voice to these other voices and say that the Easter message for “babes” is not worth giving, neither now nor then. There is nothing supernatural going on, either in the 21st century or in the 1st century, because the world isn’t built that way. Jesus made this clear. Paul tried to say it in his coded way, as have first-rate Christian thinkers like Irenaeus in the 2nd century, Eckhart in the 16th century, and many others in all centuries.

Nor do you have to plow through dusty libraries for seldom-read words of some of the geniuses of Christian history. In all times and places, there are people who get it and who say so. I’m reminded of a passage from Alice Walker’s book The Color Purple, where she writes, “Here’s the thing, say Shug. The thing I believe. God is inside you and inside everybody else. You come into the world with God. But only them that search for it inside find it. And sometimes it just manifest itself even if you not looking, or don’t know what you’re looking for.” There was a modern woman with eyes to see and ears to hear the real Easter message.

The supernatural religion for Paul’s “babes in Christ” is a religion of fear, trying to make believers feel safe. Jesus’ religion was a religion of trust, trying to help us come alive. Jesus taught that, as Shug put it, God is inside of us and everybody else. “The glory of God is a human being fully alive.” But first, we must choose to become fully alive.

It’s Easter, so in the most ancient traditions of this vernal equinox, Passover, beginning of spring and Easter, we have put brightly colored clues, symbols of life – locally known as Easter eggs – all over the place outside, which the children will be hunting for in a few minutes.

And for you, the clues are, I hope, just as brightly colored, scattered around in the air, in your imaginations, in the words of this morning’s service, and in the depths where you too seek new life for old. That’s the free gift of Easter, and it is available any day, any day at all. Because any day we choose resurrection is Easter. Today is Easter; let’s choose resurrection.

Where Do We Find Absolution?

© Hannah Wells

4 April 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

Listen to the sermon by clicking the play button.

AFFIRMATION OF FAITH:

Bill Reid

My name is Bill Reid. I have been a member of this church since 1973. For certain periods during this time I was very inactive. I have enjoyed being more involved over the last three or four years. I have become a member of the Worship Associate Program. In this program we suggest topics for the worship services and we participate in the worship services. I posed the topic for today: Where do Unitarian Universalists find absolution? What I mean by absolution is from my dictionary – it is to set free, or release as from some obligation, debt, or responsibility or from the consequences of guilt, sin, or penalty. It is forgiveness for an offense or shortcoming.

In posing the question, I am reminded of the Peanuts cartoon: Linus asks questions like: what is the meaning of life? Why are we here? What is truth? Lucy turns to Charlie Brown and says, “There are more questions than answers, so it’s better to be the one asking the questions.”

How this question arose. I was raised a Southern Baptist. I have since learned that not all Southern Baptists are fundamentalists and believe in the literal interpretation of the Bible. However, the branch I was in was fundamentalist, and I was an enthusiastic and unquestioning Baptist through high school.

Baptists believe that religion is a personal relationship between the human soul and God. The grace of Christ and the mercy of God are available without mediation of any priest or minister. For Baptists, the formal act of baptism is the closest thing they have to absolution. Baptists believe in Baptism by full immersion the way John the Baptist did it in the Bible. It is a public demonstration of faith. The old life of sin is washed away and a new life of faith emerges. Baptism was limited to adults, those mature enough to understand the meaning of baptism. I was baptized when I was about 11 years old. In the Baptist view, I guess I am carrying around all my sins since that time.

Baptists believe that each believer has a duty to proclaim his faith and urge others to accept Christ. This was one of the beliefs that first got me to thinking and doubting. I was supposed to bring others to Christ and the Baptist church, and if I (or some other Baptist) did not make that effort, then the poor unfortunate soul who had never heard of Jesus would die and and go to hell. This seemed like an overwhelming responsibility to me, and it made me feel guilty. Sometimes I would wonder about the Catholic Church and what it would be like to be able to go to confession on a regular basis and be relieved of all my sins by the priest. I did not pursue this.

In any event, I graduated from high school and left home for college and also left the Baptist church behind me.

I had nothing to do with churches for the next 14 years. Then in 1970, I was married, had two young children, had finished law school, and was working in Washington D.C. My wife and I joined a wonderful Episcopal Church and got involved in it. In that church, there are prayers of confession and absolution in the communion service. However, I do not recall a specific ceremony for absolution.

When we returned to Austin in 1973, we joined this church. Our own ceremonies do not include an express confession and absolution, although I have attended ceremonies in this building, such as the winter solstice celebration, in which letting go of old burdens was part of the ritual.

I suspect that nearly all of the world’s religions deal with this problem of how to obtain forgiveness or relief from our shortcomings.

The Lord’s Prayer from the New Testament includes the request for God to “forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” I have found this prayer to be a very helpful mantra when I am seeking calm or relief from stress. Often when I am going to sleep, I just repeat the Lord’s Prayer. Whoever wrote it was very wise. I realize that it is in language that many here do not feel comfortable with, but I feel free to use my own definitions and it lets me remind myself that there is somebody or something–other than me–running the world, and that my part in it is relatively minor. It reminds me that I only have to deal with each day as it comes and “our daily bread” is all we really have to have. It reminds me that I have to acknowledge my own shortcomings before I can do anything about them or get help in dealing with them. The prayer helps me remember that it is just as important to be willing to forgive others as it is to ask for forgiveness. This very common and well known prayer helps me find some relief, or absolution. At least it is a start.

The question remains – How do Unitarian Universalists obtain Absolution? I am looking forward to hearing the sermon on this subject.

PRAYER:

God of many names, spirit of life, great mysterious:

 Forgive us our trespasses,

 as we forgive those who trespass against us.

 May we keep it that simple.

May we see that often our greatest sin is to not let our hearts

 receive the blessings that surround us;

 may we wake up to the present moment.

May we see that the more we give, the more we can receive, that to forgive ourselves is to enable us to give more freely to the world.

 In order to give, we must learn how to receive, first.

May we find the courage to distinguish our own sins from the sins of others. May we admit that sometimes it is easier to focus on the shortcomings of others, rather than our own.

May we recognize that our greatest peace lies in acceptance, that it is great wisdom to absolve ourselves of false power. May we recognize how little control we have over so much of what happens.

And yet, may we connect with the source of our true power, may we take action and make use of our greatest strengths.

 May we see the places in our lives where we can choose.

May we keep close to our hearts and our minds that forgiveness is a prime messenger of love, and that it requires no special occasion.

On a daily level, amongst our relationships both precious and incidental, may we contribute to the spirit of a more forgiving world by seeing past the faults of others to their beauty, instead.

Rather than listen for the judgements, we can listen for the beauty.

May we listen for the goodness in others, as others listen for the goodness in us. 

Amen.

SERMON:

I began one of my last sermons by talking about the psychic I saw last June. That seemed to work so I’m going to try it again. I felt like this woman gave me a lot of helpful information about my family. She said that people tend to inherit their parents’ battles, who inherited the same kinds of battles from their parents and so on. Certain subconscious beliefs are passed down through the generations. She told me about one that my family had, that she thought went back many generations, and was on both sides of my family, both my mother’s and my father’s.

She said that we harbor a very, very subconscious belief – deep within ourselves – that we cannot be forgiven. This rang true to me as soon as she said it. Of course the question arises, what do we think it is about ourselves that is unforgiveable? But that doesn’t matter. All of us do things time and again that we’re not proud of, that we experience shame over. If we believe we CAN be forgiven, over time we let go of those negative feelings about ourselves and are free to grow in character. But in my family’s case, according to the psychic and for whatever reason, we believe somewhere down deep within ourselves that we cannot be forgiven. And regardless of why this belief exists, what’s important to understand is what effect this belief can have on how we live our lives.

The reason I bring up this personal family business is because it’s a good way to frame what the heart of the matter is when we talk about absolution. Because I think that this subconscious belief that one can’t be forgiven is probably not unique. Perhaps I’m projecting here, but to be hard on oneself seems to be an archetypal American trait, going back to the stringent standards of the Protestant work ethic that this country was built on, that still runs it. Our earliest ancestors on American soil had to work very hard – and to this day, I think we hold ourselves to very high standards of hard work and accomplishment. It’s a very prominent source of our identity; many of us depend on it to tell us who we are. I know I do.

But what if you think you aren’t who you ought to be? What if you don’t think you measure up to the high standards you set for yourself? I suppose this might lead you to think that there’s something wrong with you, that you’re not good enough; that there’s something about you that can’t be forgiven.

So when we talk about absolution, we’re not just talking about forgiveness. Forgiveness is one of those loaded terms that can lose its integrity if it’s given or received too easily. Before we can be forgiven, what is at stake is whether or not we believe we are WORTHY of that forgiveness. We can throw the word forgiveness around all we want, but what’s really in question is whether or not we believe we DESERVE it. Underneath the fancy theological word absolution, and even underneath the more user-friendly word of forgiveness, is the very plain matter of self-worth.

Because we can’t receive anything that we don’t allow ourselves to receive. We are the gate-keepers of our own hearts. Things like love, compassion, and forgiveness – we only get as much of these things as we allow ourselves to, no matter how much is freely offered to us. Whatever we believe is true about ourselves has a tremendous effect on who in fact we are. Luckily we seem to have more control over the beliefs we are conscious of. But what about the beliefs we don’t even know we’ve already convinced ourselves of?

From thinking a lot about this matter of unforgiveableness in my own family, I’ve come up with some observations of the consequences of it. The effect of this subconscious belief seems to go one of two ways. The first is that you try to make up for it. You go through life with this deep dent in your self-worth and are constantly trying to compensate. You over-achieve, you work too hard, you’re rarely satisfied with what you do accomplish. You notice the flaws more than the victories. And what ends up happening is you do indeed accomplish a lot, and while you gain the respect and admiration of those around you, you have a hard time giving yourself the same credit. You think, well, I could have done this better . . . you end up doing so many different things all the time that there’s never really a chance to breathe and just be. You’re constantly on the go, and to sit idle becomes so foreign to you that it’s actually uncomfortable.

The second set of tendencies you have if you subconsciously believe you can’t be forgiven is to live life in fear. A self-fulfilling prophecy of penance unravels. You don’t try for fear of failure. You get stuck in places you’re unhappy in, but don’t have the courage to get out of. Of course the resentment and anger builds up over time where you forget you’re the person who made yourself angry in the first place – the anger spills over to those around you.

Perhaps what is most damaging about both of these mind-sets is that we are cut off from our spiritual selves. What is true for both of these is that we never believe we are good enough just as we are. Just as I am without one plea . . . there’s a reason that song is so powerful when Christians are called to the alter at revivals. What is damaging about being cut off from our spiritual selves is that we cannot think of ourselves apart from the outside factors that define us – factors like career success, material wealth, our reputation, our family’s reputation. We cannot think of ourselves beyond these things because WE DON’T KNOW WHO THAT PERSON IS. We are estranged from the part of us that makes us whole. Do you know who your spiritual self is?

There are lots of metaphors to describe the spiritual self. I’ve always been fond of thinking of my spiritual self as the child within me – that little girl who I think is good no matter what. It’s the part of you that you can just be with and not judge – not hate and maybe not even love – but just know is good.

I’ve always loved the beginning of Genesis – it’s probably my favorite part of the Bible. “And God said, ‘Let there be light,’ and there was light. God saw that the light was good . . . And God said, ‘let the water under the sky be gathered to one place, and let dry ground appear’ . . . and God saw that it was good . . . Then God said ‘let the land produce vegetation’ . . . And God saw that it was good . . . And God said ‘let there be lights in the expanse of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as signs to mark seasons and days and years’ . . . And God saw that it was good . . . And God saw that it was good” and on down through creation.

It’s a beautiful beginning to the Bible because it says that life is from goodness. After 7 days of making everything, including humans, “God saw all that he had made, and it was VERY good.” This story doesn’t have to be true for it to be true – in the same way that there doesn’t have to be a God to believe in God. All of us come from this – from this beginning, from this goodness.

I’m pretty sure this is close to what the early Universalists had in mind when they reclaimed the notion of universal salvation, the belief that everyone – no matter what – is saved. The modern translation is that we are held in love, and we return to love. AND – the reason this is so is because we are forgiveable.

But what if being forgiven by God has no meaning for us? I think this is what Bill had in mind when he came up with this topic. Confession seems like such an easy out; you can even do “virtual confession” on-line nowadays at www.confession-online.com. Baptism might also seem like play-acting and superstitious. But I have to admit when I read Bill’s affirmation of faith, his description of the ritual really struck me: “For Baptists, the formal act of baptism is the closest thing they have to absolution. Baptists believe in Baptism by full immersion the way John the Baptist did it in the Bible. It is a public demonstration of faith. The old life of sin is washed away and a new life of faith emerges.” I looked at Bill and I said, “Wow. What if it really was that simple?”

Again, it makes me wonder that such a ritual doesn’t have to be true for it to be true. That’s the power of ritual – we make a public statement, or perform a ritual in community with others, in order to affirm: this is who I am. This is what I believe is true about myself. If what we believe about ourselves becomes in large part who in fact we are, then again, it is this matter of self regard that we really need to hone in on.

Perhaps religious liberals such as ourselves have a hard time with simple rituals because we don’t want to admit that in fact it is that simple; it doesn’t need to be complicated. Maybe all our high brow talk and intellectualism is preventing us from admitting what is just simple and always true: that we’re all children of God, children of the universe. That in the beginning it was good, and it’s STILL good. That for all our faults, screw-ups, and shortcomings, nothing can change this and we will never lose the capacity to be forgiven.

Like the Baptists, the early Unitarians believed that the grace and mercy of God was available to us without the mediation of a priest or minister, and eventually we felt that it was available to us without the need of a God. We trusted that we ourselves could choose the correct path in life because humanity was endowed with free moral agency. In other words, we can empower ourselves “to do the right thing.” There’s a phrase that sums up the early theology of our forebears pretty well: ‘the Universalists believed God was too good to damn them, and the Unitarians believed they were too good to be damned.’

I think there are three things that need to be in place in order for us to find absolution. The first is what I’ve been talking about already, this business of making sure we are ready to receive it, that we really believe we are worthy of it. I guess this will come easier to some than others.

I think that when each of us reach a certain point of maturity, we can become aware of what the recurring theme is of our life. It’s like an entrenched script written on our souls that we find ourselves reading again and again. It creates the subconscious beliefs we don’t even know we are convinced of. Likely it does go back many generations. Do you know what yours is? Because that seems to be the first step and only way to ensure that we get to write our OWN scripts, and not the scripts that were passed down to us.

We have a choice in life – we can think of ourselves as warriors or as victims. As a warrior we know we have to take action. No one’s going to do it for us. We acknowledge our free will, that we get to choose, and we take advantage of it. So it is this first step of absolution that is up to us, that essentially we do have to do on our own, which can involve the support of others, but in essence begins only with ourselves. We have so much power! I don’t agree with the early Unitarians, that we can be trusted to act out of a self-initiated morality – that doesn’t ring true to me. I think we are too self-indulgent for that. I do, however, think that we constantly underestimate the extent of our own power to dictate the direction our lives take. As soon as we fall into victim mode, we give up this power.

The second thing we have to do toward absolution is make sure we understand what we need to be forgiven for. This is about boundaries. Often we take on guilt and remorse that isn’t really ours. We blame ourselves for the mistakes and shortcomings of someone else. We let our sense of responsibility for ourselves spill over to others where it doesn’t belong. The operative psych. jargon here is co-dependency. Sometimes we think it’s easier to take on the faults of others than to face our own. It does take courage to figure out whose sins are whose. In close relationships, we sometimes think we’re the ones who are doing something wrong, when actually we haven’t done ANYTHING wrong. Sometimes instead of seeking absolution we need to instead identify what could be emotional abuse. Sometimes we need disillusionment more than absolution. It’s interesting that both words share the same Latin root of the verb, lucere, to shine, be light, be clear, to be apparent. In both disillusionment and absolution, we are being led toward the light, toward the safety of awareness.

I think it goes without saying that, when we do really make a mistake, we must have willingness to admit to our wrong-doing, to seek amends. Anyone who seeks absolution has probably gotten that far. The third and final thing that has to be in place is very important, and it’s what saves us from our isolation and reintroduces us to our spiritual selves. As powerful as we can be as individuals, no absolution can take place without the aid of another human being. Our self-sufficiency has its limits. It doesn’t need to be a priest or a minister, but it can be. Whether it’s to make amends to another person, or to admit to another human being the nature of our wrongs, this exchange between yourself and another has to take place.

It’s an incredibly important part of the 12 step program of Alcoholics Anonymous, because it’s believed that if you don’t find the peace absolution offers, you will not be able to stay sober for any considerable length of time. Alcoholics can’t afford to have things like guilt, remorse, anger, and resentment troubling us because it will lead back to drinking. That’s why we learn to be more forgiving and let things go more easily, and make more amends than is probably necessary. “And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Like Bill, that’s also my favorite part of the Lord’s prayer. It’s simple and uncomplicated. It’s a good way to live. And it’s not about the “Lord.” It’s just about being able to let go.

We can’t repair the relationship to our spiritual self alone – we need the help of others to do it. It’s give and take. It is just as important to forgive as it is to be forgiven.

So this is where we find absolution – when we reunite with the spiritual part of our world that makes us whole. This healing of relationship can only be done in community because the spiritual self does not exist in isolation – it is the part of us that connects to all of humanity – and it is “good.” It’s remembering this that reminds me that I am good – good enough, as I am.

I come from love, I am held in love, and I return to love. That’s the script I’m learning to follow. My soul re-writes and re-reads it all the time so I don’t forget.

What re-writing do you need to do? Re-writing our scripts in life is how we let go, it’s how we forgive. It’s learning to love. We cannot love unless we have accepted forgiveness, and the deeper our experience of forgiveness is, the greater is our love.

So let us go seeking peace, and offering love.

Amen.

Spiritual Aeronautics, Part 2

© Davidson Loehr

28 March 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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AFFIRMATION OF FAITH: Theological Mistakes

Henry Hug

Those of us raised in a Judeo-Christian household were told at an early age that God created the universe, including the earth and all its beings. We had no concept of the Big Bang when I was a young boy, but it occurred to me and many of my friends and classmates; then who created God? Well, we were told that God existed forever. I think that was the origin of what came first, the chicken or the egg.

Let me give you a little of my background so you know where I am coming from. I was born and raised in Argentina, where there was no separation of Church and State. The Constitution required that the President be Catholic, if only nominally. There was no divorce; abortion was illegal, but widely practiced in private hospitals for middle class people and back alleys for those not so fortunate.

But worst of all, religion, Catholic religion was taught in all public schools. 5 to 10% of our classmates who were Jewish, Protestant or from atheist families were herded to another classroom where they were taught “Ethics”. A course taught by Catholic teachers in a course heavily tainted with Catholic dogma. If that doesn’t make you detest the clergy, nothing else will. (Present Company excepted)

Having lived under the dictatorship of Juan Peron in the 40’s and 50’s I saw firsthand the pernicious effects of an unholy alliance of church and state can do. The same could be said for Spain’s Franco, Portugal’s Salazar, Italy’s Mussolini and even Germany’s Hitler.

My mother was a very devout Catholic and my father was an agnostic or at least a non-practicing Protestant, his parents being French Calvinists. I seem to have inherited my father’s genes rather than my mother’s teachings.

As I went on to college I remember talking with two of my classmates about something more elaborate than the chicken and the egg argument. This time it was about all the “Omni’s” that God was, omnipotent, omniscient, omni benevolent, etc and more absurdities came to view.

If God was omni benevolent, why was there war and famine? Why were children born with severe congenital defects? Why did a young mother die of cancer or a young father die in an accident leaving their children orphaned? That list could go on and on.

Then came this “omniscient” thing. That was supposed to mean that God knew what everyone was doing, because, as Catholic dogma taught, everything was in the present for Him. That of course would mean that He (Or She as the case may be) knew what we would do, the next minute, the next day or the next year. That was another conundrum. If She knew what we would do, then there was no free will, our entire future was preordained, just as the past could not be changed, neither could the future.

Well, it turns out that we were not wrong, or at least someone with far more knowledge of these things came to our rescue.

This book (“Omnipotence and Other Theological Mistakes”) explains it in much better detail than I can in the few minutes allotted. It was written by Charles Hartshorn.

How many of you knew Charles Hartshorn? He was a member of our church; he always sat there in the fourth row. That is hallowed ground (Sir or Madam). At 5 foot 2 tall, he was a giant of a man.

Harvard educated, professor of Philosophy at the University of Chicago, Emory University and finally at UT. Also visiting professor at the Sorbonne in Paris and Oxford in England. He died in October of 2000 at the age of 103. If you joined the church in 1999 or later you would not have met him because he was very frail and unable to attend church services.

He used to say that he wanted to be the first philosopher to live in two millennia and three centuries.

By less than three months he missed this one of his ambitions.

He wrote or co-authored 20 books and more than 100 articles, the last one when he was 99 years old.

His obituaries occupied about a quarter of a page in The New York Times, San Francisco Chronicle, Chicago Tribune and Washington Post among others.

Most of his writings were well over my head, but this one; “Omnipotence and Other Theological Mistakes” was written for the layman such as myself and explains these contradictions much better than I have today. I feel vindicated after all these years.

Finally, I would like to quote from another centenarian who was a bit of a philosopher, Nathan Birnbaum… He was better known as George Burns the comedian, who once listed the attributes of a good sermon. He said: “A good sermon should have a good beginning and a good ending. And the two should be as close to each other as possible.”

PRAYER:

In so many ways, our world seems divided between those who are alive and those who are afraid.

We know those styles, of being afraid and being alive. And we know how the first suffocates the second. We know well, even intimately.

Let us remember that persistent optimism can break through the most rigid obstacles, just as tender green blades of grass will eventually crumble even concrete.

Let us remember that trust is more empowering than suspicion, and that almost all people can be trusted, if we will see them as our brothers and sisters rather than as disposable people to be dominated.

Let us be witnesses and workers for a world in which fear’s insidiousness is overcome by the persistent optimism of faith, hope, love and work, given force by people who have come alive.

Amen.

SERMON: Spiritual Aeronautics, Part 2

A sermon title like “Spiritual Aeronautics” is such an ambitious name. It could almost cover a year’s worth of classes in religion. I was thinking what a very small part of that I’m really trying to work with in these two weeks, and thought that maybe borrowing some concepts from Hinduism might clarify what I can and can’t hope to do here.

Hinduism has four different paths, or disciplines, or yogas, to fit four very different kinds of people, because we have different styles of being spiritual. Jnana yoga is salvation or wholeness through understanding, insight. That’s closest to our Western intellectual religious traditions, including Unitarians. Bhakti yoga is the path of devotion and love, and we have tried to include a bit of that path with the many candles in the windows. Karma yoga is the path of action or works, like the people here who are more interested in social action than sermons. And Raja yoga is the meditative path of insights into your own soul’s divine nature, which we don’t really do here as a group.

But of the four paths, the first one is the one most characteristic of Unitarians. Salvation, wholeness, through understanding, through a more complete kind of knowledge. What do we think we believe and what kind of coherence do those beliefs have in our life and the world we’re living in? Those are the kinds of questions behind what I’m trying to do with you this morning.

One bold rule in the study of religion I learned a couple decades ago comes from this approach to religion. The rule is that the first word in religion should always be No! No to the nonsense, the superstition, the empty jargon, the idiosyncratic beliefs we tend to exalt as though they had an authority from beyond us.

And when I hear stories like Henry told about his school experiences in Argentina, I always think he was more serious about religion by saying No than the pious priests were by chanting old statements whose meaning and relevance to real life they couldn’t have explained.

In terms from last week, they were giving the students a set of fully packed luggage, packed for a trip in which Henry was not interested. Many of you can probably relate to this business of having been given fully packed religious luggage for a trip you weren’t interested in taking.

Those stories always irritate me because the best religious teachers in any tradition always said No to this kind of nonsense, no matter how often it is packaged for take-out by the masses of that religion. It’s like the Greek image I used last week of spiritual growth as the metamorphosis from a caterpillar to a butterfly.

I really like that image. So I was momentarily disturbed when, after the service last Sunday, Hannah came out to the line. She was nearly cackling with glee as she told me “I hate to burst your bubble, but only 2% of caterpillars become butterflies. All the rest get eaten!”

OK, I hadn’t thought of that. I figured some of the caterpillars must get eaten, but not 49 out of 50! Still, I’m not giving up a favorite metaphor that easily. In fact, this new information just makes the metaphor that much better. For significant spiritual growth is hard, and not many want to do it.

And one reason that so many spiritual caterpillars never become butterflies is because they are eaten by doubt, fear, or intimidation.

Henry’s concern with theological mistakes (literalisms in a field that can only be done symbolically) has happened in all ages.

A second century Christian thinker named Tertullian once said that people hated Christianity because they were ignorant of it, and once they stopped being ignorant, they would stop hating it. But he is also famous for asking, “what has Athens to do with Jerusalem?” Athens meant the philosophy, culture and education of the Greeks; Jerusalem meant Christian faith. And he said faith and intelligence can and should be separated. It’s hard to combine those two statements, and what Tertullian was really demanding was not understanding but obedience. But religion has mostly been taught so poorly, especially in church-sponsored schools, that it has kept people ignorant.

Almost every great religious thinker has written against the dumbing down of religion, the fact that it is treated like caterpillar food when it’s meant to help people learn spiritual flight. Many early Church fathers protested, and throughout the centuries the best religious thinkers have attacked the versions of Christianity that were like religion for caterpillars.

In the 19th century, the Danish existentialist and Christian thinker, Soren Kierkegaard, wrote a wonderful piece on this, not using the image of caterpillars, but using the image of geese.

The Tame Geese: A Revivalistic Meditation,

by Soren Kierkegaard

Suppose it was so that the geese could talk – then they had so arranged it that they also could have their religious worship, their divine service.

Every Sunday they came together, and once of the ganders preached.

The essential content of the sermon was: what a lofty destiny the geese had, what a high goal the Creator (and every time this word was mentioned the geese curtsied and the ganders bowed the head) had set before the geese; by the aid of wings they could fly away to distant regions, blessed climes, where properly they were at home, for here they were only strangers.

So it was every Sunday. And as soon as the assembly broke up each waddled home to his own affairs. And then the next Sunday again to divine worship and then again home – and that was the end of it.

That was the end of it. For though the discourse sounded so lofty on Sunday, the geese on Monday were ready to recount to one another what befell a goose that had wanted to make serious use of the wings the Creator had given him, designed for the high goal that was proposed to him – what befell him, what a terrible death he encountered. This the geese could talk about knowingly among themselves. But, naturally, to speak about it on Sundays was unseemly; for, said they, it would then become evident that our divine worship is really only making a fool of God and of ourselves.

Among the geese there were, however, some individuals which seemed suffering and grew thin. About them it was currently said among the geese: There you see what it leads to when flying is taken seriously. For because their hearts are occupied with the thought of wanting to fly, therefore they become thin, do not thrive, do not have the grace of God as we have who therefore become plump and delicate.

And so the next Sunday they went again to divine worship, and the old gander preached about the high goal the Creator (here again the geese curtsied and the ganders bowed the head) had set before the geese, whereto the wings were designed.

So with the divine worship of Christendom. Man also has wings, he has imagination… (Soren Kierkegaard, from A Kierkegaard Anthology, edited by Robert Bretall, p. 433)

Both Kierkegaard’s geese and the ancient Greek caterpillars were creatures that clung to the ground rather than rising to their high calling of spiritual flight.

In some ways, this clinging to the ground could come from one of the foundational metaphors of Christianity. In the Bible, there is a passage that has Jesus saying to Peter that he was the “rock” on which Jesus would build his church That was a pun, for in Greek, and especially in Aramaic, the words for “Peter” and “rock” are the same. Jesus never said such a thing, for several reasons. One was that he did not come to build a church. Another was that, of all the disciples, Peter was the one who didn’t get it at all.

Nearly all of the better thinkers have always spoken against low-level or literal religion, in favor of the higher kind. Still, that picture of faith as a rock – the “Rock of Ages” – has been a central part of literal versions of Christianity ever since. It’s the image of adding creeds and other beliefs to that “rock,” building a kind of “mountain,” and the idea is that if you stand firm on that mountain you will be secure.

There have always been those who used the concept of God to empower the church and the rulers and to frighten the people into obedience rather than empowerment. It’s telling and typical that as soon as Jesus was dead, Peter won a vicious power struggle with Mary Magdalen over whether the religion built on the name of Jesus should make people empowered or obedient, fearful or alive. Like Kierkegaard’s geese, they seemed afraid of those who actually lived with courage and trust. Those who founded the religion about Jesus founded it for the 98% who get eaten alive by doubt and fear. I think this was a move of profound faithlessness, a faithlessness that Jesus never showed. For he believed the power, the acceptance, the wisdom we need is available equally to all of us here and now.

But any religion based in fear, trying to save you, give you a rock to stand on, is a religion made to empower the leaders of the church and the empire at the expense of ordinary believers. Jesus would have hated it.

Since the discovery of the Gnostic Gospels sixty years ago, we have many more gospels and writings from the first centuries, which give us a much different understanding of Jesus’s teachings than traditional Christianity has taught.

One of the most pointed and revealing comes from the Gospel of Thomas, probably written in the 50s, a couple decades before the New Testament gospels. Here, Jesus said, “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.”

(Gospel of Thomas, #70, translated by Elaine Pagels).

The real Jesus never spoke of sin and repentance; he spoke of illusion and enlightenment, of growing from simple to mature awareness. That’s what honest religion is about: awareness and enlightenment, not memorization or obedience.

In graduate school, I got to work with some very good theologians who were also honest, and who used their faith to fly rather than to crawl. It was a revelation to me. I remember talking with one of my teachers, a Catholic theologian named David Tracy, still one of the leading Catholic thinkers. He once defined Christianity as his myth. I asked him what he meant by that; I said it sounded like he was saying he knew Christianity was a fiction. Of course it is a fiction, he said: a profound and useful fiction, for him even a necessary or ultimate fiction. It contained the myths and stories within which he chose to live, and those stories let him rise above where he would be without such imaginative myths.

I remember being surprised, as though there must be some kind of a law against theologians being allowed to be this honest. But almost all the good ones have been that honest in their own ways.

This may be the turning point that marks a caterpillar becoming a butterfly or a goose taking flight: the ability to hold lightly to one’s beliefs, to understand that they are not truths like rocks are truths, but are truths the way really good stories are truths. But doubt, fear and intimidation from family or friends can eat you alive here, can pick you off like a caterpillar.

Many beliefs can be adequate, but only if you own them rather than being owned by them.

Maybe “flying” is rising above beliefs, knowing they’re useful fictions, holding lightly to them. Like theologians who call Christianity their necessary fiction, useful fiction, even the ultimate fiction.

Buddhists sometimes speak of beliefs as a raft you used to cross over a difficult transition in your life. But it would be a mistake, they say, to then pick up the raft and carry it on your back forevermore just because it was once useful. No, put down the raft and go on. Likewise with beliefs. It is wiser to see them as rafts that might help you cross rivers but not mountains, so to speak.

Others speak of beliefs as a ladder that gets you to a certain height, so you can see better. But once you’ve seen more clearly, remember not to worship the ladder, but to set it aside and go on to your next challenge, where you might need a raft instead, or a still different kind of belief.

Maybe fixed dogmatic beliefs are the caterpillar stage of religion, and the butterfly stage is the ability to hold lightly to them, knowing that life itself sustains us, that life is bigger than beliefs, and that “all will be well.”

Or remembering that wonderful saying from Jesus in the Gospel of Thomas, that “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.”

See how this comes together? Both the Greeks and Kierkegaard are mocking the religion of superstition and fear that Henry had taught to him in Argentina and so many others have had taught here.

Orthodoxy is like a religion of rocks, piled on each other to make a mountain on which to stand to feel safe. That’s a religion for caterpillars, and it’s a terrible misuse of a good mountain.

I can imagine what Kierkegaard would do with the image of his geese on top of a mountain, just standing there. How he’d be saying, “Look, you’re already in the sky! Now all you have to do is hold out your wings, the wings the creator gave you, and let the wind lift you up.”

One of the most important of religious lessons is that the highest religious faculty is not memorization, but imagination, not obedience but awareness. We must help shape the gods we will serve, must help provide nuance for the myths out of which we will live.

I think again of my teacher David Tracy’s wonderful definition of Christianity as his myth, his ultimate fiction. That is using beliefs in the right way, as imaginative tools to help you bring forth what is within you rather than not bringing forth what is inside of you and being eaten alive by fear. It is using beliefs as a launching pad for your spiritual growth and flight, rather than treating beliefs like a pile of rocks to stand on.

I am going to end with a story. I’ve told you several stories so far, about religions of piles of rocks, about geese who refuse to fly, about caterpillars and butterflies. So I’ll end with a story I won’t bother to interpret for you. You’ll get it.

It’s adapted from a story I read in Rachel Naomi Remen’s book My Grandfather’s Blessings. This story came from one of Remen’s patients, who had spent her life striving for success, building a career that never fed her, and creating levels of stress that may have led to the cancer she had. During treatments for the cancer, she re-examined her life, saw it in a new way, and had a kind of revelation, which came to her in an odd dream.

I dreamed, she said, that I saw a woman building a mountain. Rock by rock, she was building a mountain, piling innumerable heavy rocks on top of each other, climbing to the top and piling more rocks as her mountain grew bigger and bigger and she ascended higher and higher. At last it was a truly magnificent mountain, rising high into the sky covered in snow-capped peaks, impressive from any angle. And she stood there, on top of her mountain of rocks, triumphant and alone.

I marveled, she said, at what an amazing accomplishment it was, building a whole mountain and then ascending it, standing there on top with your arms stretched up to the sky. The woman, of course, was me, so I also felt great pride at the scene.

But then something frightening and terrible happened. As I stood there atop the huge mountain, there suddenly appeared a large crack near the mountain’s base. The mountain shook. The crack grew bigger, shot upward, and the whole mountain began collapsing in on itself. My feet slipped off the rock, and the rocks all began turning to dust and falling to earth.

Then, she said, just as the whole irrelevant thing crumbled beneath me, I suddenly discovered that I could fly.

The DaVinci Code, Part 2

© Davidson Loehr

28 March 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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Prayer

How deeply has the fearful and suspicious spirit of the times we’re living in invaded our own hearts and minds? The distressed spirit of our times makes its presence felt everywhere.

– Consider the invasion of Iraq, with its hundreds of American deaths and thousands of Iraqi deaths.

– Or the outright deceptions of our government to justify the invasion of Iraq.

– Or the rise of a vicious underbelly of religious fervor, with its hatred of gays and lesbians, its vendetta against women’s rights, its indifference to the poor.

– Or the establishment of an economy so greedy and brutal that this proud nation now boasts the highest percentage of old people in poverty, the highest murder and youth suicide rates in the developed world, with public monies given to the rich at the greatest rate in the past century.

All those troubling and uncivil spirits of our times – how much have they taken possession of our thoughts, our feelings, and our dreams?

Let us pray for the exorcism of these dark spirits from our hearts and minds.

Let us pray for their exorcism from the hearts and minds of those leading our nation.

Let us pray for their exorcism from the spirit of America, even from the face of the earth.

Let us pray for the exorcism of these spirits. Let us pray.

But not only pray.

Amen.

SERMON: The DaVinci Code, Part 2

It has been months since I did the first sermon on Dan Brown’s book The DaVinci Code. Since then, I’ve read some more in some of the many areas of study involved in the many theories he weaves together. I’ve also read several critiques of his book, mostly by religion scholars trying to protect orthodoxy from this sudden public interest in what Dan Brown presents as twenty centuries of schemes and lies by the churches to keep believers from understanding the real message of the man Jesus.

There is a whole industry around some of these theories, with books of all kinds appearing. The industry began over twenty years ago with the book Holy Blood, Holy Grail, but there are wild and wooly theories on every aspect of this complex story.

I want to grant the critics their due, and identify some other theories which, though very intriguing, simply cannot be proven either way.

But even after eliminating all these things, including some fascinating theories which may well be true but can’t be proven, enough remains to justify a best-selling book. So I’ll want to talk about those things which are clearly true, are the real center of Brown’s message, and which all by themselves justify the charges of two thousand years of misleading and flat-out dishonest misrepresentation of the religion of the man Jesus.

Theories that can’t be proven

Probably the most colorful of the theories that can’t be proven even though they may be true are those saying that a child of Jesus and Mary Magdalen survived in France where Mary came around the year 44, and that their bloodline continues to this day. A lot has been written about this. The stories are wonderful and intricate. But there is no way ever to prove this. So we’ll set it aside here.

Another colorful story, closely related, is that Mary Magdalen was the wife of Jesus, and the mother of two or three of his children, including the one brought to France. I know the scholar who has championed this theory. She is a world-renowned biblical scholar in her 70s who has read nearly everything there is on the subjects, and I think she is probably right. Still, it can’t be proven, so we’ll let that go too.

Still related is the weaker claim that Jesus and Mary had at least a sexual relationship. This was believed well into the middle ages, and resulted in the Catholic Church slaughtering thousands and thousands of Cathari in the Albigensian Crusades. So the fact of the belief is well established. But again, it seems impossible to prove the truth of the belief.

Then there is the theory of all those secret societies, committed to preserving these secrets through the centuries. These include the Priory of Sion, the Knights Templar, Freemasons, Rosicrucians and a small slew of others. It includes the theory that Leonardo DaVinci was among the enlightened members of this conspiracy, as were Isaac Newton, Claude Debussy and Jean Cocteau. DaVinci, this theory says, included coded clues in some of his most famous paintings, including The Last Supper, portraying himself as a non-believer, and picturing Mary to the right of Jesus as that extremely feminine-looking person in the Last Supper, wearing clothing with a complementary color scheme to Jesus’ clothing. Personally, I like a lot of this, and think there is enough information to insist that there is something to it, and that the theory must at least be left on the table for further discussion. But for here, that too can be left aside.

That is most of the major sensational theories in Dan Brown’s book, and I’m willing to let them all go for now, because what is left is really more important, and much easier to prove. These theories include the following:

– That Mary Magdalen was Jesus’ favorite; he ranked her above the other apostles, and trusted her more. Some of the Gnostic Gospels discovered in 1945 show this clearly. The Gospel of Philip says Jesus loved Mary the best, and was often seen kissing her on the mouth. The Gospel of Mary relates a bitter power struggle between Mary and Peter, a power struggle that Peter won. It shows the hatred Peter had for her, indeed for all women, and that the other apostles were clear that Mary understood Jesus’ intended message better than they did, and that he ranked her above them. She was called the Apostle of the Apostles. All of this is well enough documented that I think it has to stand.

– A second is that many or most of the Cathedrals of Notre Dame in France, including the most famous Cathedral at Chartres, were dedicated not to the Virgin Mary, but to Mary Magdalen. This alone is enough to support the claim that Mary was far more important than history has allowed. And its truth seems well established.

– A third, an odd one, is that in many of these cathedrals in Southern France, a cult of Mary Magdalen is mixed, oddly, with cults of the Egyptian goddess Isis and cults of the Black Madonna. I think the theory tying these three together is one of the most fascinating of all, though probably impossible to prove.

– Finally, and most importantly, it is absolutely true and easy to show that the religion of Jesus is diametrically opposed to the religion about Jesus that became Christianity. That alone justifies a best-selling book and a serious and widespread investigation into the teachings of Jesus and the origins of Christianity.

There are still some parts of these theories that are very complicated and vague, especially the odd coincidence of the cults of Mary, Isis and the Black Madonna. But let’s start just with the last point, which is that the religion Jesus taught is diametrically opposed to the religion Peter began as Christianity.

The evidence for this comes directly from Jesus’ teachings in the gospels, and also from many of the Gnostic Gospels. In sayings from some of the other gospels found in 1945, his message is very clearly about as far as you can get from traditional Christian teachings.

Take the Gospel of Thomas, for instance, which is the best known and most highly regarded of the additional gospels. Many scholars believe it was written down in the 50s, about twenty years before the first gospel appeared. In it, Jesus says some very surprising things. For instance, he says, “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” (Gospel of Thomas #70, translated by Elaine Pagels). As the scholar Elaine Pagels puts it, the Jesus of these texts “speaks of illusion and enlightenment, not of sin and repentance. Instead of coming to save us from sin, he comes as a guide who opens access to spiritual understanding. But when the disciple attains enlightenment, Jesus no longer serves as his spiritual master: the two have become equal – even identical.” (Pagels, The Gnostic Gospels).

Jesus says, for instance, “Whoever drinks from my mouth will become like me; I myself shall become that person, and the hidden things will be revealed to him.” (Thomas #108). Jesus’ teachings were about becoming aware and enlightened, and showing it through the way in which we treat others. It wasn’t about belief. He never threatened with hell or promised heaven. He never talked about another world at all, just this one, though those who wrote the gospels added those other supernatural parts in changing the religion of Jesus into the religion about Jesus.

Biblical scholars have known and said for centuries that the religion of Jesus was very different from the religion about Jesus. A Roman Catholic scholar I know wrote all this up in thorough detail back in 1986, in what is still one of the best books on the subject. The book is called The First Coming, by Thomas Sheehan. Thomas taught at DePaul University in Chicago for years, a Catholic university. Now he is at Stanford.

He shows how throughout the gospels, Jesus is complaining that his own disciples don’t get it, don’t understand what he is saying. And none of them seemed duller than Peter. Remember, it was Peter to whom Jesus said, “Get behind me, Satan.” He said it when Peter kept completely misunderstanding Jesus’ teachings. Peter kept wanting to make Jesus a kind of supernatural savior. Peter, you may remember, was a simple fisherman, not a philosopher, and he just didn’t understand.

Peter was also not courageous. He is the one who denied Jesus three times after his arrest, to save his own skin. And in one of Thomas Sheehan’s most memorable lines, he added that “Peter continued his denial of Jesus by inventing Christianity.” That’s a first-rate Roman Catholic scholar, not a religion-hating atheist.

This is really a key part of Dan Brown’s book The DaVinci Code, that Jesus’ real message has been distorted and hidden by the Church. I think it is true and clear that Jesus preached a religion of self-awareness, of understanding our own direct relationship to God, saying the kingdom of God was within and among us, or that it was “spread out upon the earth, and people don’t see it.” (Gospel of Thomas, #113) There was no sin or repentance in his teachings, no priests or popes, no sacraments, no creeds, no required beliefs, none of the things that have been used to empower the officials of the churches and set them above ordinary believers. Jesus spoke to ordinary believers and had no mediator in his religion. Christianity has insisted that the priests, the churches and the creeds are the mediators that define people’s relation to God and state of salvation, and that all those things are controlled by, as they were invented by, the churches. Jesus would have detested that.

Another book you can read on this is Elaine Pagels’ newest book. She describes herself as a religion scholar who long ago lost any belief in the religion as it has been taught, and she has devoted her career to showing how the teachings that won, that became Christianity, were victories of politics and power, but not truth.

This was the sub-theme of her monumental 1979 book, The Gnostic Gospels. It is also the theme of her newest book Beyond Belief, the account of the political fights to put the Gospel of John into the New Testament canon, and keep the Gospel of Thomas out. The reason is because these two books show a completely different religion. The Jesus in the Gospel of Thomas teaches to empower people, to tell them that the salvation they need is available to any of them, unmediated, as soon as they are ready to do the work of gaining insight into themselves: to bring forth what is within them, which can save them.

The Gospel of John, on the other hand, is completely authoritarian and hierarchical, with Jesus no longer as teacher but as supernatural savior and son of God, whose authority comes only through the one Church. As civil and military leaders throughout history have also found, it fits well with the idea of one king, one ruler, and gives rulers a bible that can easily be used, and has continuously been used, to keep people obedient to their ruler. Even St. Paul taught this religion of obedience, writing that the civil authorities have been placed over people by God. Nothing could be farther from the teachings of the man Jesus. Again, he would have detested them.

These findings are easy to establish, I think, in any open scholarly debate, and they undermine the religion about Jesus taught by the churches for twenty centuries. That’s enough to justify a best seller, and to get millions of people interested in saying No to the nonsense and finding out the truth for themselves.

I want to back way off and ask a very different kind of question about Dan Brown’s book and the interest in the real teachings of Jesus in a few minutes. But first, in order to offer you some of the lascivious titillation I know you came for, I want to tell you about some other theories connecting the odd coincidence that in southern France, the cult of Mary Magdalen overlaps with a cult of the Egyptian goddess Isis and cults of the Black Madonna. I don’t think this can be definitively proven, but I think there may eventually be enough information to make it at least plausible if not likely. At any rate, it is intricate and interesting, and reads like The DaVinci Code.

One criticism of Dan Brown’s book concerns his linking Mary Magdalene with Jesus in southern France, even though the Magdalen cults don’t mention Jesus at all. Instead, they link Mary with John the Baptist. There were religious groups in the first century who regarded John the Baptist as their teacher, and regarded Jesus as the Man of Lies, even accusing Jesus’ people of having John the Baptist murdered.

In fact, the only remaining Gnostic sect today, the Mandeans, still teach these things: that John was the Teacher of Righteousness and Jesus was the Man of Lies, whose people murdered John.

So after John’s murder, this theory goes, Mary then took up with Jesus and had at least a sexual relationship with him, if they weren’t in fact married.

Now the obvious objection to all this is to ask what possible sense it makes to say that Mary would take up with the man who had had her man killed.

Good question, you think. But ah, no, say others, it makes perfect sense. For remember the guiding story of the Isis cult. I’m sure you’re all up on your ancient Egyptian mythology. Isis was married to her brother Osiris. The evil Set murdered Osiris. And Isis later took up a sexual liaison with Set, in order to destroy him. So this, they say, is why Mary, as a priestess in the Isis cult, was also paired with Jesus – and, perhaps, why she was so close to him at his crucifixion.

Oh yes, and some scholars say that Mary Magdalen was also Egyptian, and also black. That she came from the town of Magdala, in Egypt.

This might explain another odd thing about the Magdalen cults in southern France: the fact that these cults seem to overlap not only with Isis cults, but also with cults of the Black Madonna. If Mary Magdalen was a priestess in the Isis cult and a black Egyptian, it would explain the existence of all three religious cults existing together: Mary Magdalen, the Isis priestess, and the Black Madonna were all the same person.

So far, I don’t think these theories can be either proven or disproven. They lie in that area of interesting possibilities to keep you awake at night.

What is still near the center of all these stories is the idea that the goal of spirituality was a union of opposites, a combination of male and female, perhaps symbolized or enacted through a rite of sexual union, which was a common feature of the Isis cults of the time.

The notion of uniting male and female also harmonizes with a saying of Jesus (Thomas 106): “When you make the two into one you will become children of Adam and when you say “Mountain, move from here, it will move.”

There is your dose of titillation.

Now finally, I want to leave you with a quite different question that takes all these stories out of novels, and into current events and our daily lives in the year 2004. In its own way, it’s as intriguing as Dan Brown’s book, though it’s not as complex. The question is a very simple one: Why is this particular fight surfacing so much and so often since 1980? So much that one list of the 100 most influential books of the 20th century listed Elaine Pagels’ 1979 book The Gnostic Gospels as #2? Why would a country like the United States, especially since 1980, want a close tie to a religion of obedience like the repressive versions of Christianity that came into office with the Bush administration?

Perhaps it’s because a religion of empowerment like the religion of Jesus may be the spiritual voice most desperately needed now as a corrective to the spirit of our times, the strident religious voices that want to disempower women, gays and lesbians, and a government declaring unending war, removing civil liberties, and working to turn America into a country of desperate, poor and obedient serfs rather than an educated and empowered citizenry.

It’s just a thought. I could be wrong.

Spiritual Aeronautics, Part I

© Davidson Loehr

March 21, 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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AFFIRMATION OF FAITH: Writing Your Creed

Jonobie Ford

My topic has undergone a metamorphosis since I first proposed it for a service. When I suggested the topic of writing a creed, I was planning to tell you about the intellectual and technical aspects of writing, how I thought the attempt was an empowering exercise, my suggestions for structure, and so forth. And while trying to write that, I ran up against my old nemesis of writer’s block. I realized, after pushing at the block for a while, that the problem was that the topic I was “trying” to write about had somehow turned too heady and intellectual to really be appropriate as an affirmation of faith. The problem is that although I think that figuring out what you believe by writing it out is important, I don’t think my talking about it in the way I had planned does justice to this podium.

A couple of weeks ago, I shared with you a neat and tidy view of my religious beliefs, by sharing my creed and explaining what it means to me. Today, I’m going to show you the less orderly side of my beliefs.

I started thinking about my creed and its relation to my daily life. When I think about what keeps me on the treadmill even though I’m exhausted and don’t feel like running another step, and when I think about what sends me to work each day, I can’t point to any part of my written creed and say, “That’s the principle at work here.”

I think that means that there’s something rather important missing. My creed contains an important statement of my beliefs, but if it’s not capturing what’s driving me each and every day, it’s definitely missing something. I wish I could share advice on how I fixed that, but honestly, I haven’t, and I’m hoping that I’ll figure out how to by listening to more of Davidson’s sermons, reading more books that speak to me, and just by going out and living some more to try to further my understanding.

A large part of my current creed’s purpose is to point to the transcendent and wondrous in the world. One of the things I’ve noticed is that I always try to put religious sentiments in poetic language; not to obscure the meanings, I think, but because it seems to me that poetic language is the most appropriate language for handling religious ideas. It imbues them with a sense of beauty and importance.

Sometimes, it feels as if modern life has lost much of this beauty and sense of wonder. As Karen Armstrong says in her book A History of God, “One of the reasons why religion seems irrelevant today is that many of us no longer have the sense that we are surrounded by the unseen. Our scientific culture educates us to focus our attention on the physical and material world in front of us. One of its consequences is that we have edited out the sense of the “spiritual” or the “holy” which was once an essential component of our human experience of the world.” My current creed reflects this desire to imbue life with a sense of spiritual or holiness.

Keeping the transcendent and wondrous in mind is important while thinking about religion, but it’s equally important to stay grounded in what it is that drives me, day in and day out, to live, to work, and to play. That’s the part I think I’ve left out of my creed, and that’s the part that’s the hardest for me to compose. I don’t yet know the answer to that piece; and even though I believe it’s somewhere inside me, I haven’t yet figured out how to write it down.

I’m left suspecting, and hoping, that, like my creed, I’m still a work in progress.

PRAYER

The theologian Howard Thurman once said, “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go and do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

It sounds so easy, but often seems so hard. Let us focus today on what makes us come alive, that we may go and do it.

Let us seek those things that know our true name and make them our friends. And those places where we feel safe, real and cherished: let us seek them as well, and learn to dwell near them.

Let us muster the courage to listen for those voices that demand only the best from us, and let us grow comfortable in their company. For they are angels of our better nature, and we need their hard, honest, faithful voices in our ears.

Of the paths ahead of us, let us choose the most true path, even though it be a demanding one. For our calling is a high one. We are made, as scientists and poets have told us, entirely of stardust; of the stuff of gods are we made. And that noble origin grants us much honor, and a task.

The task begins with asking what makes us come alive and going to do it. Because more than anything, the world needs people who have come alive. Let us seek that which makes us come alive, nothing less. Amen.

SERMON: Spiritual Aeronautics, Part I

It isn’t easy writing a statement of what you believe, as Jonobie found. Then when you’ve written one, then look at how you’re living, it seems to leave out so much of what really drives you. It isn’t easy.

And one reason it isn’t easy, as ironic as this sounds, is because we have already inherited the words and the styles in which we’re supposed to be thinking of our beliefs. In our culture, beliefs are supposed to involve God, sin, and salvation, even if we don’t think of our lives that way. And not any god, either. Just that one taken from the religious scriptures of Jews and Christians.

If we say “Well, I don’t think God is a useful concept, I think in terms of trying to be awake rather than living in illusions” – if we say that, we’ll be made to feel that we haven’t done it right, that we didn’t use the right materials, even though it would be a perfectly good Buddhist statement.

We’ve inherited this set of religious luggage we’re supposed to use. One suitcase says “God” and is filled with over 25 centuries of traditions, poetry, fantasy, feeling, wisdom and nonsense, all packed in that suitcase under the word “God.”

Another suitcase may be called Sin, and it too is loaded with centuries’ worth of stories, a lifetime of personal experiences, the teachings of our childhood church, our classmates, and the low-level religion we see in the media. It isn’t a neutral word; it comes to us already packed with other peoples’ meanings.

And there are more suitcases in this set of spiritual luggage. Salvation, Redemption, Heaven, Hell, Jesus, angels, demons and the whole array of fanciful and metaphysical concoctions of millions of believers over dozens of centuries.

All that luggage is really a kind of partial do-it-yourself kit, a set of materials or recommendations, for us to use or reject in building our own adult faith, though we’re not taught to think of it that way.

But if we just use the luggage we’ve been given, without ever unpacking it, we will never grow up spiritually. Rather than owning our beliefs, we’ll be owned by them. When we repeat beliefs we’ve learned from others, we’re using words with meanings given to them by others. And to live others’ beliefs in others’ terms is in a sense to live someone else’s life.

So in thinking about how to unpack all this luggage, and how to prepare for the kind of personal spiritual trip that might be a whole lot more honest and relevant for us, I decided to try something a little heady to shed a certain kind of light on all of this.

My focus in graduate school was in what’s called language philosophy, and my dissertation was on the philosopher who was the giant behind language philosophy. (My dissertation title: The Legitimate Heir to Theology: A Study of Ludwig Wittgenstein, University of Chicago 1988.) I’ve never preached on his complex thoughts or that kind of philosophy, but a little of it might be a useful way to think about this.

Language philosophers say that most of our confusions come from putting things in the wrong way. Don’t let that sound too abstract. It is very close to the Buddhist teaching that we live in illusions we have created by our ways of thinking, so the freedom we need comes from changing the way we think about the problems.

That’s why, whenever we’re dealing with powerful words, and all kinds of jargon, we always need to ask what we think we mean by words like Truth, love, justice, America or God. Without knowing what we mean by these things in plain ordinary language, we literally don’t know what we believe. And if we follow, or swallow, the word when someone else is using it, we may be following something really untrue, unjust, un-American or ungodly. I’ll give you a real-world example, from a House Bill now before the U.S. Congress that most of you may not have heard of.

It’s called the Constitution Restoration Act of 2004 also known as H. R. 3799, introduced into the House of Representatives in Washington last month by Representative Aderholt, R-Alabama, to limit the jurisdiction of Federal courts in certain cases involving the invocation of God as the supreme authority of the United States. It would amend the United States Code to prohibit the Supreme Court from reviewing cases in which federal or state officers have used God’s rule “as the sovereign source of law, liberty, or government.”

What this says is that those in power may define God in their own way, use their allegiance to their God to trump every law or restraint in the country, and that their behaviors may not even be reviewed by the Supreme Court.

This bill comes with a very specific definition of God in mind, one that Pat Robertson has been advocating openly since at least 1978, when he wanted the Supreme Court prohibited from questioning or overriding his concept of God.

I’ve checked with the Washington office of the UUA, and nobody thinks this bill has a chance of getting anywhere, though they think it is a scary sign that it was even introduced.

You know the concept of the word “God” packed in the luggage of this bill – as well as the implicit concepts of truth, justice and America – is a narrow and brutal concept that would discriminate against women, gays and lesbians, Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, and anyone else who didn’t fit the shallow and finally vicious mold of the worst kind of fundamentalism.

That’s why it is so important to understand that God isn’t a being, a critter, anything that exists in time and space, but is a concept, an idea. If it’s a critter, than we don’t get to vote about what the critter is like. But it’s a concept, like Justice and America are concepts. So it is terribly important that we do accept our creative role in defining that word, or rejecting it as just not being language that is useful to us.

Many people here lost all interest in God when they thought he was a Guy in the Sky, and knew that the idea of a supernatural being was useless, if not just insulting.

And this loss of faith doesn’t only happen in religion. It can happen with all our most powerful concepts. For some, it happened a generation ago to the word “America.” I remember vividly when radicals in the Vietnam War era burned American flags because they accepted the administration’s definition of America as an invading warrior nation, rather than accepting their role in challenging and changing that definition of the concept of America to something nobler.

And for many poor people in our society, the word “Justice” has mostly died as a useful concept, because the kind of justice they see is designed to exclude them.

Most of our really powerful concepts have been defined down, dumbed down, to levels too low to be either admirable or useful – words like Truth, Justice, America or God, for instance. It’s as though someone held a contest to define these words, and the dumbest answers won.

I have a refrigerator magnet given to me by the president of a church I once served that says “It’s hard to soar like an eagle when you’re surrounded by turkeys.” As you might imagine, that was a church with some colorful problems!

I do like that refrigerator magnet, but there is a more elegant way of putting this. It comes, as so many of my favorite images come, from the Greeks.

I talked a couple weeks ago about the Greek image of the human soul as a spider sitting in the middle of a web, feeling and attending to all her connections to the world around her.

But they also had other images and stories. For their word psyche meant both “soul” and “butterfly.” They’re saying that growing a soul is like the metamorphosis from something that crawls along the ground like a caterpillar, to something that flies, that soars.

And it can happen, they say, only by changing from one thing into another. It makes it sound natural, automatic. How hard could it be when even caterpillars can do it?

Still, if you have had gods die, or if you’ve lost faith in America, Truth, Justice, Love or the rest of those powerful words, you know there is nothing easy about it. It can feel awful, and cosmic. Because those most powerful abstractions are like guiding stars that we follow. We hitch our wagon to the star. And when a star like a concept of God or America or Justice dies, it can feel like, “Well, there was just that one star and it went dim, so the heavens must be dark now.”

But what language philosophy – or Buddhism – would say is that what really died was a word, a way of talking about something important to us, so we need to grow into other ways of thinking about those things. We need to find a structure of thinking, a grammar of ultimacy that is useful to us and worthy of those things that are most sacred to us.

For me – as our ministerial interns and worship associates have learned, sometimes to their dismay – it must be done in ordinary language, because that’s where meaning is really located, I think. Jonobie spoke of going to poetry to preserve the feeling dimension of her beliefs, and that’s important too. But first, I think, we need to know what on earth we actually believe, before we augment it with poetic and metaphorical images.

So instead of using jargon like saying “I try to live as God wants me to live,” I think things like “I try to live by the highest values I can find.” Instead of the poetic statement that “I know God loves me,” I think less poetic things, like “I’m all right. In the grand scheme of things, I believe I can be a valuable part of all this.” I don’t say, “I want to work for social justice” – since “justice” is a word like God, that is defined differently by every ideology. I say I want to work toward a society in which individual rights are balanced by individual responsibilities, where we accept our freedoms at the price of being equally committed to the freedoms of all others. It lacks poetry. I could make it more poetic by saying “The whole human sound goes up only from the full choir,” though that still doesn’t make a good bumper sticker. But I know what I mean by it, and so do you when you hear it. So for me the clarity of thought and expression are more than worth the loss of poetry or easy jargon.

I’ll admit that putting beliefs in ordinary language takes away some of their magic and their sparkle. They suddenly sound very down-to-earth, not quite as grand as thinking we are serving “the truth that passeth all understanding.” But we know who we are and what we believe, in ways others can also understand. There is a kind of integrity there that we lose when we don’t understand or own our beliefs. Ordinary language can still express truth that passes understanding; it just won’t allow truth that bypasses it.

Think of that House Bill 3799 again. If I got to define the word “God” there, got to determine what it meant and how it was to be used, I’d be happy with it. But I don’t, and neither do you. An immensely powerful word has been put in a political bill, carrying with it a terribly narrow, ignorant and bigoted meaning and hiding an equally dangerous and bigoted agenda. All those things are hiding inside that three-letter word. God may not be like a being, but it is like a Trojan Horse; an immense amount can be loaded inside that single syllable. That’s why loaded language, like a loaded gun, is potentially so dangerous, why it’s worth asking just what we mean by words like God, justice, America and truth.

Buddhists say that powerful words and symbols are like fingers pointing at the moon, so a word like “God” would need to point toward an ideal world in which all were accepted as children of God, in which women, gays and lesbians, Muslims, Buddhists, atheists and others were all equally embraced as citizens. But you know, as I do, that’s not what the framers of this bill have in mind. They’re not using the finger to point at the moon. They’re not giving us the moon, they’re giving us – well, you can finish that sentence.

When we accept the prepackaged meanings of powerful words like Justice, America or God, we are like caterpillars gnawing on the leaves in our small part of the garden, inside a fenced yard whose boundaries are no bigger than the vision of those who have given our powerful words their meanings.

This is the caterpillar stage: not looking up, no concept of the great amount of space there is to live in, because we’ve accepted a definition of life, Justice, America or God that is too small to allow life that grows beyond narrow limits. And when we do grow beyond them, and oppose them, that narrow world often grows quite mean.

You know this, if you’ve ever been part of a community – religious, political or social – where you outgrew the group’s notion of truth, justice, God or America. You can lose friends, relatives, and relationships by outgrowing their vision. Once you can see beyond their horizons, for you they become terribly earthbound, limiting, too small to contain the life you are growing into. Everyone here has probably experienced some form of this.

Then what do you do? Do you go back where it’s safe, ignoring the little voice that says you don’t really believe this stuff? Or do you listen to the voice saying you are somehow commanded to become more, bigger, healthier than your group will endorse?

Yes, sometimes the little voices telling you to ignore the rules of others are the wrong voices, and may even be dangerous. I mentioned people like Curt Cobain, Janis Joplin, Jimi Hendrix, or Charlie Parker and Billie Holliday a few weeks ago, as people who listened to the wrong voices and lost their lives. Sometimes, we need to listen. But sometimes, those little voices are the angels of our better nature, and we need to heed them.

That’s the need for metamorphosis. It’s when a turkey decides it’s not really a turkey but is an eagle. Or, for a better biological metaphor, it’s like when a caterpillar grows into its true calling as a butterfly. It requires a metamorphosis. Changing gods, changing centers, probably changing communities and losing some friends.

If I lived in the community that had produced House Bill #3799, it would make my skin crawl. No matter how much I might love those people, I couldn’t be around them, couldn’t live in their world or with their notions of Truth, God, Justice or America. To me, they would be as caterpillars, and I would have to leave them or die.

They wouldn’t support my growing away from them. And they wouldn’t think I was becoming a butterfly, either. They would see me as deluded or damned, would threaten me with their hell and withdraw the protection of their community.

To grow away, to grow up spiritually, sometimes we have to leave a whole world, a whole way of being. It can be one of the noblest things we ever do, but it isn’t quick and it isn’t easy.

And it’s a transformation we usually have to do out of sight, tucked away inside something like a cocoon. That’s the next part of spiritual aeronautics: the cocoon.

Like so much in spiritual growth, it is seldom clear just how to do it. We have teachings like that Buddhist insight that the great teachers and teachings of the world are like fingers pointing at the moon. But it’s hard to see the moon, especially when it feels like the sun has gone out.

Still, there are clues. And I will leave you until next week with one that you heard earlier. It comes from the theologian Howard Thurman, who said: “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go and do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

We weren’t meant to be caterpillars. Or turkeys.

One is Silver and the Other's Gold

© Hannah Wells

March 14, 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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Two Poems By Herman Nelson:

Hold to that Breed (Kyrielle)

For all who hiked life’s rugged trail

to find new paths, triumph or fail.

A search for Truth, their only creed.

Hold firmly to that precious breed.

To those who bartered all to teach,

and sow their Truths in hope to reach

some mind to nourish fertile seed.

Hold firmly to that precious breed.

Those friends whom you can count in strife,

remain steadfast throughout your life,

such loyalty is rare indeed!

Hold firmly to such precious breed.

Our 49th

“Till death us do part!”

When young, in love,

those are only words.

It is not until they act,

you learn their meaning.

This 49th anniversary

of our wedding day,

without you,

I ruminate this knowledge.

I chew it up

unable to spit it out.

It is bittersweet

with the joy of you in memory,

the despair of living on and on

without your light to guide me.

I find solace in our children.

We mingle in their blood – ever –

and the blood of their children

and their children’s children

to the end of all eternity.

Sleep, now, my love, my lover,

and do not dream,

for dreams, spawn pain,

however pleasant.

You are eternal as atoms.

Wait for me.

Let us ride the stars together.

PRAYER:

The Ides of March are upon us, “beware the Ides of March!”

What have we to fear?

May we seek the wisdom of confronting our fears within ourselves, and not without. May we see that the fear we give permission to, can be asked to leave. May we not betray ourselves.

May we see that we can change our minds. That, even our most prized notions of integrity and self-reliance may in fact be the enemies of pride and separation, disguised.

May we know who our true friends are. May we know that humility and gratitude for life can be embodied in reaching out to these friends in our times of need.

May we see that the power to nurture what we choose to is in our own hands. We can nurture our fears, or we can nurture health and wholeness through actions, through initiative, through allowing ourselves to be known.

And may we see that it is in our power to ensure what is most important of all: that we do not have to be alone, that there are friends to make in unlikely places.

In a world that demands our attention, that demands our allegiance to icons that can seem hollow and distant, may we put our faith in what is in us and among us, and is most easily seen and touched:

Our intimacy and affection for each other – may we give it more freely, and when we are given it,

may we receive it.

Amen.

SERMON:

When I was very depressed at the beginning of last summer, I decided to go see a psychic who had been referred to me by a friend with very high recommendations. When you’re depressed enough, you’ll try anything! I thought she might be able to provide me with some hope and direction for the future – I figured even if she was a crackpot, I could still use the placebo effect!

I went to her house and we sat in her garden. She began by asking me questions “to get a feel for me,” she said. She asked me who were the dead people hanging around me, and I said I didn’t know, perhaps my grandmother. Already I eyed her suspiciously. She asked me why I was carrying so much pain in my body and I explained about the surgery on my left shoulder, and the slipped disk in my lower back. Then she asked me a question that absolutely knocked the breath out of me. She asked, “who sees you?”

Three simple words. It took my breath away because it got right down to the bottom of my loneliness. Who sees me? Meaning, who understands me? Who sees the REAL me? Not the me who tries to look good in front of others, or tries to please whoever I think needs pleasing, but sees me inside and out, all my passions, all my secret fears, all the bare, honest parts of me that show who I really am?

At first, because of the sadness and self-pity I was feeling at the time, I drew a blank. My god, I wondered, does anybody really see me? Am I really this alone? But then I smiled with relief because I remembered. Of course. I answered the psychic’s question, “my friends see me.” And then I added, “my friends keep me sane.” She laughed and said, “yes, that’s what friends are for.”

And so I want to begin this morning by posing the same question to you: “WHO SEES YOU?” Who is there in your life that you can let every single guard down for, with whom you can let your super-ego take a rest. Who sees the parts of you that so often seem to go unnoticed? And these don’t have to be the wounded parts of you – perhaps they’re the sides of you that you absolutely love but one would have to know you pretty well to see them. Maybe it’s the side of you who is sensitive to beauty, has a sly sense of humor, or cares very, very deeply about something. Who sees and understands where you are vulnerable? The parts of you where you lose your adultness, and become like a child again? Who can see all these things about you?

It is often not our parents or our children who can see these things. It’s because we can never be quite on the same level with them. We can never have the shared experience of living in the same generation. Have you ever imagined what it would be like to meet one of your parents as a peer, as the same age you are now? I’ll never forget my father’s reaction to the last scene of the Kevin Costner movie, Field of Dreams. In this scene, through a magical baseball field, a father comes back from the dead as the same age of his son, who is living. They are both in early adulthood, and the father is even a little younger than the son. Imagine meeting your parents even younger than yourself!

There had been ill will between the father and son, and it truly was a dream – to get a chance to reconcile this relationship with a simple game of catch. But what was truly dreamlike about this meeting was juxtaposing a father and son as peers. As two peers who could easily be friends. It was like Kevin Costner’s character couldn’t see the vulnerability in his father and have compassion and forgiveness for him until he saw him as he was as a young man.

I had never seen my father cry and I was in High School. He cried the whole way home in the car and my mother had to drive. I know that my father didn’t feel like he ever had much of a father-son relationship with his dad, let alone a friendship with him. My grandfather was still alive at the time, too, but it was obvious my father was mourning for what was irretrievably lost: to do the things that so many boys do with their fathers as they grow up. Just playing catch.

It’s important to make distinctions about age differences when we talk about friendship. At a senior lunch I attended recently at the church, Stan Hutchison and some others got on the subject of friendship. Stan said there’s a difference between the friends you make before you’re forty and the friends you make after you’re forty. I asked him later why he thought this was?

“Because when you’re younger,” he said, “there’s more energy for friendships, there’s more time and energy to get out and do stuff. There’s a bond in those older friendships. Those are the kinds of friends that you could drop in from out of town anytime without warning and knock on their door. But when you get older, you become more consumed by the relationships in your family.”

Many of us long to be friends with our parents and our children, and we are lucky when there is that semblance of friendship. But even when that is true, they are not the same as the friendships we have with our peers. It has something to do with what Jesus once said: “A prophet is not rejected except in his own town and in his own family and in his own house.”

What does that mean exactly? No, we are not prophets, but each one of us has a ‘prophet-part.’ Basically what this means is that there are parts of us that our families of origin will never “get,” because there are parts of us that have to grow away from them. Try as they might, our parents and our children will never see exactly who we are. The gulf of difference between children and parents is actually supposed to be a kind of soaring grace, and Kahlil Gibran picked the perfect metaphor to describe it in his poem of The Prophet. He talks about not being able to understand your children because they belong to the future “which you can never visit, not even in your dreams.” Then he compares parents to the bow and children to the arrows. He says to the parents, “The Archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and bends you with might that the arrows may go swift and far. Let you bending in the Archer’s hand be for gladness.”

What an image! That the effort of parenthood produces a soaring arrow! It is this prophet-part of us that is one of the greatest distinctions between childhood and adulthood. It is the part of us that, once actualized and known to ourselves, marks a milestone of differentiation from our parents. No matter how much love there is between children and parents, there’s always going to be parts we don’t see. And this goes both ways – our children will never see us completely, either. As human beings, each one of us could not possess such a unique spark if we were so easily understood by our families.

To me, this is the absolute spice of life, this is humanity’s most enchanting quality – that we are each so different. What this means is that one of life’s greatest challenges is to understand others and to be understood. I don’t think we can overestimate the importance of being understood.

In a sermon about friendship, it’s important to talk about loneliness. It is strange how, as the population grows bigger, more people live alone and feel isolated. And when family life fails us, we can feel isolated in a home full of people. I am convinced that the number one ill effect of modernity is isolation. So much of modernity contains this dehumanizing side effect, whether it’s technology or increased competition in a market society – it is all compounded by one of the most foundational American values: self-reliance. Emerson meant well, but it is an inflated emphasis on self-reliance that can serve to keep us isolated from one another. There are times when we can’t and shouldn’t rely on ourselves alone. When you’re feeling bad, how good are you at asking others for support? Do you hesitate and try to figure it out by yourself, first?

They say that’s what friends are for, and that is absolutely true. We cannot be understood unless we allow ourselves to succumb to times of weakness in our lives. Times when we need to confide in another and say, “I don’t know.” Whether it’s with partners or friends, we need this intimacy in our lives to come to our full humanity, to understand and to be understood. Paula Weisner, a member of this church who has been a mentor to me, has a certain way of describing intimacy: intimacy, means ‘in-to-me-see.’ It’s only when you allow others to ‘in-to-me-see’ that this very human emotional need can be met.

There are many different kinds of friendships with different levels of intimacy – but what’s more interesting from a spiritual point of view is how friendship functions as nourishment for the soul.

One thing I’ve noticed in my studies for ministry is that friendship seems to be overlooked as an essential part of our spiritual lives. Where in the Bible does it talk about friendship? There are not too many places. Did Jesus have friends? Followers are not friends. Did Jesus ever talk about the human need for friendships? Not according to the authors of the gospels. One thing that is quite overlooked when people talk about Jesus is the fact that Jesus himself needed salvation, that he himself was in search of it, and that much of his teachings come out of a deep drive to be loved himself, to be understood. I believe this is true because I believe he was merely a human, like you and me.

In liberal religion, we tend to speak of salvation as worldly, and I believe very strongly that one place we find this salvation is in our friendships – to be profoundly understood is a kind of salvation. Salvation in friendship can come about in two important ways:

The first is what I have been speaking of – to be seen, to be known, to be understood in all our complexity and vulnerability and beauty. The second has very much to do with the conventional theology of salvation: to be forgiven. To be forgiven, despite our faults and our mistakes, despite our ‘sins.’ I don’t think most of us buy into the traditional theology of absolution – that Jesus died for our sins. I don’t think most of us are consciously concerned with whether or not God forgives us. But we do care that our loved ones forgive us, we do care that our friends forgive us for our mistakes, we do care that our friends accept us as we are.

Because as you know, friendships can have as many ups and downs as any other kind of close relationship. All of the aspects of love – passion, tenderness, separation, anxiety, anger, disillusionment, even triangles and unrequited affections – essentially all the emotions that render us human – emerge in friendship.

I know who my best friends are – they’re the ones that no matter how badly I screw up they’re not going anywhere. There’s nothing I could do that would make them stop loving me. It is a lot like ‘God’s love’ that traditional Christianity speaks of. It’s unconditional. Personally, I can find salvation in God’s love. However, quite frankly, I prefer the love of my friends over the love of a God who can seem abstract and distant. I know God is in me and loves me and has much to offer and teach me – but I need the down-to-earth, laughing, crying, hugging love of a friend more. It means more to me to talk with my close friends than to talk with God.

That has a classic heretical ring to it, doesn’t it? But it’s because life is for the living! For now! On this earth, in this present moment! It’s the people we can touch with our hands, hear with our ears, and see with our eyes that matter the most. I’m a Universalist – I already know God forgives me, that’s a done deal! But it is in and among the living where I seek unconditional love. It is within human relationship where true salvation comes to pass in this life. That is the Kingdom of God Jesus spoke of.

It is the kind of salvation Frodo experiences when Sam Wise doesn’t give up on him, even though Frodo cast him away toward the end of his dangerous journey. Sam Wise knows that his friend is going through a rough time, a rough patch – and he knows his friend well enough that he didn’t really mean what he said – he knows his friend still needs him and he stands by, and forgives Frodo without a thought. And quite literally, he saves him. I realize that’s not how it was written in the book, but nevertheless it’s comforting that these kinds of friendships are being modeled in our mainstream media.

And what about the unlikely friendships in our lives that turn out to be some of our greatest blessings? There is a story in the Bible that speaks of this well. The Book of Ruth. Ruth, who is of a different ethnic background than her mother-in-law Naomi, and has no incentive to follow her back to Judah, where people of Ruth’s kind are hated, says this: “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.” It’s amazing what good can come when we don’t burn bridges! There is a definition of evil that says evil is the rupturing of relationship. So the opposite must be to salvage relationship. Perhaps the opposite of evil is not “good” – which is such a subjective term, but simply ‘relationship.’

I interviewed Herman Nelson for this sermon because I wanted to hear about his wife Helen, who died just over a year ago. Davidson remembers vividly the memorial service held for Helen at the church. “There were droves of people!” he said, and with some reflection he said, “I think it was because Helen was a good friend. She had many, many friends.”

Herman confirmed this and said Helen was always honest, straight-forward with everyone, and that she cared about people. He could not stress that point enough, how much she really cared about others. When she was ill, some women at the church here made her a lap blanket, and when she received it, the first thing she did was make a list of other people in the church who could use a lap blanket. She really paid attention to the needs of others.

She was a good listener, “which was lucky for me!” Herman said. Helen was good at keeping in touch with people – she loved to write very newsy letters to her friends who were far away from her. But perhaps the quality that attracted friends to her most was this: she could overlook their faults. And as Herman put it, “you dismiss the faults of others because you know you have your own.” Forgiveness is a natural, mutual extension of friendship, and Helen seemed to know this. When she heard the news that she had pancreatic cancer, the first thing she said was, “It’s been a good life.”

Talking about Helen brought up many memories for Herman. But it wasn’t until we’d already been talking for a half an hour that he paused, and held tears at bay to say, “it wasn’t just love! We were friends.” I asked him what he thought the difference was between love and friendship, and while sometimes there can be differences, after a few minutes we concluded that there can’t be true love without friendship. So it is friendship that is the foundation love is built on.

I would like to share a friendship story of my own. It’s my favorite one. When I was a freshman in High School, I met Erin, who had just moved to Illinois from Texas. Erin was different – she dressed different, she was a bit rebellious, and I thought she was very cool. We had lots of fun together. But Sophomore year brought personal crisis into Erin’s life and one of the results was dropping me as a friend. I was devastated! It was my first broken heart. I was sad for months about it, but slowly it turned into an uneasy hatred, and even though we had classes and worked as waitresses at the same retirement village together, we did not speak to each other.

The last thing we did together as friends was go to the local aquarium to buy fish for our fresh water fish tanks at home. That day I bought a beautiful creme colored Angel fish, that when the sun light shone on its scales, they turned iridescent colors. I LOVED that fish, and I let this fish have the whole fish tank to itself, because that’s what Angel fish prefer, anyway. Whenever I entered my bedroom the fish would greet me by coming up to the corner of the fish tank. That fish stayed alive almost throughout the rest of High School, well into the Spring of my Senior year. One day I noticed the fish tank’s heater had become unplugged, but for some reason, I didn’t plug it back in. I was too distracted by senior year.

A day or two later the fish died. And I held myself responsible for not plugging the heater back in. How could I? I felt terrible. I remembered I had bought that fish with Erin and I thought the only way I could feel better was if I called her up, even though our estrangement had gone on for two whole years. I guess I figured I had nothing to lose.

We talked for two hours. And toward the end of the conversation, Erin told me that she was a lesbian. It was the first time anyone had ever come out to me. It made sense, then – she had figured it out around our Sophomore year and didn’t know how to handle feelings she was having for me, for other girls in our group of friends she had abandoned.

We graduated a few weeks later after that telephone conversation, and it didn’t happen right away, but eventually we became very close friends again. She was just here with her partner and their new baby at Christmastime – they listened to me preach in the cry room. And you may have seen them recently on the News Hour with Jim Lehrer, as they just got married in San Francisco and have received a lot of media attention with a very cute 8 month old baby.

Erin and I often wonder if we would still have become friends again if I hadn’t called the night my fish died. How else could she have safely come out to me, how else could we have begun to build our trust in each other anew? I realize now that in the same way I gave the fish space to herself, that was what Erin had needed too – she had needed space for herself. And even though I loved that fish, I am so glad that it died!

There’s a song I learned in Girl Scouts that is sung in a round: Make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and the other’s gold. Stan is probably right – that the friends we make before we’re forty are different from the friends we make after we’re forty. Even at 30, I’m finding fewer opportunities to make the kinds of friends I have from High School and College. But this is a product of what kind of lives we have – we can choose to reach out more. We are never too old to make new friends.

And no matter how many years have passed – I assure you this never matters – we can track someone down and rebuild. Or we can rebuild the broken friendships that are nearer to us. It’s never too late to make the ‘dead fish call.’ When we give a friend who has hurt us another chance, we are doing sacred work because we are giving permission for relationship to bloom once more.

If it is true, as I believe, that the Kingdom of God Jesus spoke of as among us and in us is the salvation we find in human relationship, then to heal and nurture our friendships is sacred work. And to make an unlikely friendship possible is radical sacred work – when we choose to make the conditions possible for such an unlikely friendship to sprout in. We are surrounded by seeds of potential friendships!

I need to help the good seeds grow, until they’re close enough to “in-to-me-see.” Because I need that “in-to-me-see.” I’m betting that you do, too.

Oh, Gods!

© Davidson Loehr

7 March 2004

Worship Associate: Jonobie Ford

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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AFFIRMATION OF FAITH:

Jonobie Ford

Working on distilling some of my religious beliefs into a short segment to share with a large group of people has been interesting, emotional, challenging, and, a little intimidating. Oddly, the end product of having a several-minute written description makes it sound rather more tidy than it feels in real life. That said, I’d like to share with you what I consider to be the central parts of my religious belief.

My religion helps me to interact with others, with myself, and with the Divine.

The first component — the one that’s about my interaction with others — is based upon my more expansive version of the golden rule. It’s more than just treating people well. It’s the idea that other things in this world and I are similar in some way, and that I should treat all parts of Nature respectfully. I’m not exactly like my cats, but I recognize that they and I share something — what some might call a soul, what I usually term the “breath of life”. But regardless, something that deserves my respect. A mountain and I are even more different, but there’s still something there that should be respected.

The second component — the one about my interaction with myself — is how I gain perspective on life. In particular I celebrate cycles in my life and in Nature. Spring turns to summer to fall and to winter, repeating in sequence year after year. Children are born, grow up, and have children of their own. I recognize my place in these universal patterns. I am also reminded that my life has cycles, including a physical process that repeats each month, and an emotional range from high to low and back again in a more irregular pattern. My current condition is impermanent, and I am prepared for changes.

The third component — the one about my interaction with the Divine – is about the honoring of my Gods. I take a polytheistic view, that there are many Gods that watch over different spheres of life. Gods aren’t all-seeing or all-powerful, but rather act within their limited spheres of influence. Interacting with one is akin to what happens when I call my mother in law to ask for her advice about a meal I want to prepare. She can give me encouragement and suggestions, since she’s an excellent cook, but in the end, it’s up to me to cook the dish. Who I call up on a particular day depends on what I’m doing and who is good at it.

For example, my main passion is writing. I’m a technical writer by trade, and write a fair amount of nonfiction on the side. Because of that, and because of religious experiences I had while exploring my faith, the main part of my worship is devoted to Brighid, a Celtic Goddess whose spheres of influence are, loosely, writing, healing and crafting. Historical writings about Brighid talk about the “fire in the head” that She brings to people — the inspiration or creative spark that strikes while trying to write or speak. Honoring that creative spark is important to me. In turn, there are times that I’ve felt blessed by Brighid’s fire of inspiration.

I do hang a lot of concepts on the word “God”. It is a complex word that simultaneously means different things to me. I consider myself a theist, believe that my Gods exist in some manner, but I also view them as archetypes and ideals to aspire to — somewhat like heroes. I honor Them by striving toward excellence at the activities within Their spheres of influence. For example, when I trained for and ran in a race for the first time, I considered that to be an act of devotion to Lugh, a storm God with strong sport associations. The preparation on the morning of my race included a short devotion to Him. By choosing which Gods to honor at a particular time, I can concentrate my focus on different areas of my life.

I’ve tried to talk about my beliefs in a way that you can connect with and understand, but when I step down and return to my life, where my beliefs are alive and real, I express these ideas in the shorthand of a creed that I wrote for myself. My creed has these three statements:

First, that I should recognize and honor the breath of life within all things.

Second, that just as cycles repeat in Nature, they also repeat in my life. As such, I celebrate the changing of the seasons and cultural holidays as my holy days.

And finally, that it is important to honor my Gods. My Gods are mentors to learn from, archetypal ideals to strive toward, and symbols of the great unknown.

Regardless of whether you view Gods as real or as archetypes, or both, I hope you’ll consider the value of occasionally viewing the world through a polytheistic framework.

PRAYER:

Let us attend to our sacred connections. We live suspended in a web that bind us to all the people, relationships and beliefs that can give and sustain life, and we must attend to those connections.

Who are the people who cherish us, who see what is sacred in us and affirm it? They are among the angels of our better nature; let us attend to our connections with them.

Who are the people who empower us, who urge us to sing our special songs and offer our unique gifts? They help attach us to our task in life. Let us attend to our connections with them.

Where are those rare and sacred places in our life where we find power, purpose and a mission capable of granting us both honor and a task? Let us accept them both: both the honor and the task. Because there are so many others who also need to attend to their connections, and sometimes we are the only help they have at hand. And so let us attend both to the connections coming to us and those going forth from us. Let us attend to our connections.

Amen.

SERMON: Oh, Gods!

When I was 21, trying to sort things out, I went to see my minister. I told him I was seeing a psychologist, but wanted to talk to him too. I asked what the difference was between what he did and what my psychologist was trying to do. “All I can do,” he said, “is try to help you understand the gods you are serving, and whether they are worth serving.” All these years later, I’m not sure that what we do can be put any better than that.

Years later, in Divinity School, I learned how hollow the traditional God-language of Western religion has become even among people who know it well, and how incapable it is of truly binding together our whole pluralistic world. The students who clung most tightly to the old language formulas could not explain what they meant by any of them. They were saying what they had been told to say, going through the motions as though it were still, perhaps, the 18th century. But when they got clearer about what they actually believed, it was never traditional, seldom systematic or very cosmic. A few stories here and there that they used to get them through. They planned to take the old stories to their parishioners in the faith that somehow they might work better for them than they did for their minister. And stories do have that power; they can awaken hope and meaning sometimes.

But mostly, we have no deep or nuanced knowledge of even our own Western religious stories. Mostly today, we have lost the names and stories of our gods. We aren’t sure what to call the forces of life within and around us: those forces, which sustain us.

Jonobie spoke of the inspiration she sometimes feels, which she associates with the stories of the Celtic goddess Brigit, because she knows those stories and has found connections in them to her own life. But few people have heard of Brigit or many of the Celtic deities; few even know much about the Greek gods, or those of Egypt or the Norse bunch.

And in our critical and often cynical age we are more aware, perhaps, that both gifts and seductive words come without patterns or guarantees. Not all gifts are useful; not all powerful words are wise.

Think of just some of the famous people who have great gifts and great demons, and can’t seem to sort them out:

– Curt Cobain heard the sounds of music and the sounds of madness, and finally listened most to the madness that drove him to suicide.

– Robert Downey, Jr. is an immensely gifted actor who can’t seem to stop listening to the Siren songs of his cocaine habit.

– Wynona Ryder has immense gifts from what the Greeks would call the Muses as an actress, but can’t seem to stop the voices that lead her to shoplifting.

A generation ago, it was Janis Joplin and Jimi Hendrix; and before that Billie Holliday and Charlie Parker, geniuses with gifts from the gods and addictions from demons, and the demons won.

I like Jonobie’s way of thinking of her writing as a gift from a goddess. I think there is something both humble and honest about seeing some of our abilities as gifts rather than achievements. The first time I really understood gifts was over thirty-five years ago when I began doing photography. I had never done it, never owned a camera, but I was in Vietnam and wanted to see more of the war, so interviewed to be a press officer and combat photographer in the Vietnam War.

After the interview, another lieutenant said, as I was being shown the way to my new tent, “I didn’t know you were a photographer.” “How hard can it be?” I answered. During the next couple weeks I had to buy a camera, film, and spend time figuring out how to load the film, focus, and set exposures. It is literally true that I shot my first combat operation holding a Nikon in one hand, and that little slip of paper that comes with film, trying to figure out whether the light was “hazy” or “cloudy bright” so I’d know what exposure to set – I knew so little about cameras, I had neglected to buy one with a light meter. You know, those little slips of paper are remarkably accurate. I shot the whole war that way. And I discovered, quite by happy accident, that I had a natural gift for photography.

I shot only one roll of film on my first operation, 36 pictures. I only saw 36 things that looked like good war pictures, so that’s all I took. Of those 36 photos, 21 were released to the media, and all were picked up by UPI, AP, Reuters, and a dozen other media outlets. It was kind of an amazing surprise, but this really was about as easy as I’d thought it would be.

I did have a chance to work with Co Reentmeister during that year. Co was the 26-year-old photographer who shot all the pictures and cover shots for LIFE Magazine, and was clearly a photographic genius. I wasn’t a genius, but I was good, and I couldn’t understand it.

I never felt like that gift was a part of me. It always felt like something that somehow came through me but didn’t have much of anything to do with me. I even opened a photography studio after the war, and did some expensive and award-winning portraiture and wedding photography for several years. One year, at the urging of some customers, I entered some outdoor portraits in the statewide professional photography exhibition at Cobo Hall in Detroit, and won First Place, over 900 other professional entries. I was so detached from photography that I could be as objective about my pictures as I was about others. I remember walking through the exhibits looking at the other entries, and thinking, “Well, I’d have voted for mine too – it is the best here!”

And, odd as it sounds, I had no ego connection with it. It just didn’t seem like anything of which I had any ownership. The Gift had done it. Usually, we think if we have a gift, it’s a kind of Calling, a clue to what we should do in life. But I never liked photography. It was a gift that gave nothing to me. And a gift that doesn’t give anything to you is like a god that’s not worth serving. It isn’t a gift, it’s a trap. I sold the studio, all the equipment, didn’t take pictures for 25 years and never missed it.

I never thought of it as the gift of a god, just a talent life had dealt me that would have been better off given to someone else.

Maybe we should have a word about this word “gods” before going on. There are thousands of gods in the religions of the world, and thousands of more that have died and faded from history. And most of the religions have always said that their god was here from the very beginning. You need to understand that it is not the case that, fifteen billion years ago, there were these thousands of gods sort of hovering in between time and space. The, billions of years later, human evolved, and some of them wound up living in the territories of some of these gods. This crew lived in the land of Brahman and his many imaginative representations; this other bunch wound up in the land of Mithras, Jahweh, Odin, Zeus, Brigit and the rest. That’s not how it happens.

First, humans evolved and separated into many different cultures. Then, within each culture, the more religiously creative humans concocted their gods as local deities arising from their interactions with the forces and powers they experienced in their culture. And then – as a sort of brand-name campaign – they all claimed these gods had been there from the get-go. Gods represent imaginative concretions of the experience of mystery and power, fear and trust. They’re our children, created in the image of our experiences and biases. Then they and their institutions return the favor by shaping the people of a particular culture in “their” image. There are more gods than you can count, most of them long dead.

But my minister’s words from forty years ago still ring true: about searching for the gods we’re serving and whether they’re worth serving. There are so many examples of people serving gods, living out gifts, that give them everything but a life worth living – which it’s a god’s job to help bestow.

When I was in the fourth grade, one of my friends’ fathers was some kind of an accountant who must have been pretty good at it. They had a nice house, two cars before everyone had two cars, nice things, belonged to the classy clubs, and his kids had a lot nicer toys than I did. He apparently had some gifts that most accountants apparently didn’t have. I couldn’t imagine why on earth anyone would want to spend their life looking at numbers. I’m one of the Damned in that theology: someone destined to wind up in Accountant God Hell because I can’t balance my checkbook. Ok, I’ve never actually tried, but I can’t imagine it.

So one day I asked my friend’s father why he did that work. He stopped to think about it, and then said he said he didn’t know; it just seemed so easy he didn’t feel he had a choice in the matter. At the time I chalked it up to Confusing Adult-Speak. Years later, after I sold my studio, I looked back on that conversation, and my heart went out to him.

Because that fourth-grade year of mine was the year my friend’s father was arrested in a city park, where he used to go at night and expose himself to strangers. His gifts gave him a good living but not a good life, and he felt so invisible he resorted to sad and furtive activities in dark parks just so he could feel that somehow, somewhere, someone actually saw him.

It sounds kind of funny to speak of these things as involving gods today. In our daily lives, few of us associate these things with gods.

Today, I’m not sure it’s really the gods we need to get in touch with, as much as we need to get in touch with the creative powers that create the gods, to reconnect with that power within and around us. For those powers, and their connections to sacred and powerful constellations, are all still here.

So I’ve thought of two stories about how these nexes of power and potential, these proto-gods, are formed in our lives today.

The first is a 2002 novel I just finished a couple weeks ago, an odd and remarkable book called Life of Pi (by Yann Martel). It has the most surprising and transformative ending I’ve ever read, one that makes you realize you’ve just finished a book that wasn’t about what you thought it was about. I won’t spoil the ending, but can tell you that this unlikely book is about a long ocean voyage in a 26-foot lifeboat occupied by a 16-year-old Indian boy named Pi, and a 450 lb. Bengal tiger named Richard Parker – and that the tiger turned out to be a kind of god, a manifestation of power, survival, transformation, a fierce and fearsome will to live, who both saved and transformed the boy’s life.

The second story is more down-to-earth, and quite true. It’s by a remarkable physician in the San Francisco area named Rachel Naomi Remen. She is a woman gifted in understanding deeply and wisely, whose gifts have caused many doctors and psychiatrists to refer difficult and complex patients to her. Mostly, she works with terminal patients with AIDS, cancer, and so on.

She tells a wonderful story about creating gods, creating small sacred centers that are both life-giving and life-saving, though it’s not quite how she worded it. For over twenty years she has offered a very simple but powerful ritual to some of her patients before their radiation, chemotherapy, or surgery.

She suggests they meet together with some of their closest friends and family the day before their procedure. It is important that the group be made up of those who are connected to them through a bond of the heart. She suggests that they find an ordinary stone, big enough to fit in the palm of their hand, and bring it to the meeting with them.

The ritual begins by having everyone sit in a circle. In any order they wish to speak, each person tells the story of a time when they too faced a crisis. People may talk about the death of important persons, the loss of jobs or of relationships, or even about their own illnesses. The person who is speaking holds the stone the patient has brought.

When they finish telling their story of survival, they take a moment to reflect on the personal quality that they feel helped them come through that difficult time. People will say such things as, “What brought me through was determination,” “What brought me through was faith,” “What brought me through was humor.” When they have named the quality of their strength, they speak directly to the person preparing for surgery or treatment, saying, “I put determination into this stone for you,” or, “I put faith into this stone for you.”

Often what people say is surprising. Sometimes they tell of crises that occurred when they were young or in wartime that others, even family members, may not have known before, or they attribute their survival to qualities that are not ordinarily seen as strengths. It is usually a moving and intimate meeting and often all the people who participate say that they feel strengthened and inspired by it. After everyone has spoken the stone is given back to the patient, who takes it with them to the hospital, to keep nearby and hold in their hand when things get hard.

Dr. Remen has had several patients go to their chemotherapy, their radiation, or even their surgery with their stones strapped with adhesive tape to the palm of one of their hands or the bottom of their foot.

Over the years, many of the oncologists and surgeons in her community have learned about these stones from their patients and are very careful about them. One surgeon even had the staff go through the hospital laundry in search of a stone that was accidentally thrown away with the sheets in the recovery room. She asked him why he had done this and he laughed and said, “Listen, I have seen people do badly after surgery and even die when there was no reason for it other than the fact that they believed they wouldn’t make it. I need all the help I can get.” (pp. 151-153, Kitchen Table Wisdom by Rachel Naomi Remen)

That’s a story about how gods are created, and about the kind of power and the kind of connections that can create them. Neutral things, stones, get loaded with powerful stories, meanings, wishes, and carry them for those who carry the stones. Those stones become invested with so much power they literally can hold the power of life or death over patients who have them taped to their hands or feet before a scary surgery. That’s how gods are created. Names and stories of gods get loaded with messages of power and hope and passed on. Messages, hopes, dreams, powerful stories and experiences connect with our own hopes and fears and become almost supernatural for us. The patient in the next bed wouldn’t get a thing out of your stone. You may get courage from it, even life. Those stories are like portable altars, so people can carry the reminder that they were touched and blessed by life.

There’s a passage in the Bible that says, “Build altars in the places where I have reminded you who I am, and I will come and bless you there.”

We do need to mark the places where we felt power and connection. Remember that religion means reconnection. It’s like an ancient picture the Greeks had, of our soul, Psyche. They sometimes pictured her as a spider in the center of a web connected by its radials to all the points that held it up, where the spider’s job was to attend to the connections, to keep them in good repair. That’s our job, attending to those connections. It’s a way of setting up altars where we feel touched by life.

Don’t let this sound spooky or supernatural. It’s very down-to-earth. There’s an example of this kind of altar here in our sanctuary. It is our side windows, with their recessed racks containing 150 votive candles in their red or blue glass holders. Before and during every service, we make time for people to light candles, and to give the candles they have lit their own meaning, to let them mark sacred or perhaps scary parts of their own lives.

On average, more than a hundred of you light one or more candles each week here, sometimes many more. This year, it looks like we will use over 3,000 of these 4-1/2 hour tea lights in them, which is about 12,000 hours of candles burning for memories, hopes, markers that become bright little altars of places where many of you have found connections. That window may be one of the strings in your web, a kind of connection. Like the stones, the candles can become connected with your own private associations and thoughts.

Think of the other times and places in your life where you have felt that power, where you have felt called out, empowered, connected. It doesn’t have to have happened a lot of times, though we need to be able to call those times forth, to reconnect with their power.

One reason we have so much freedom of belief in liberal religion is precisely because we each need a different combination of gods, voices and gifts, who are for us worth serving, who give us life. If yours don’t work for me, there’s a fair chance mine won’t work for you either. We are all here to try and become better people, partners, parents and citizens, but no two people will take the journey accompanied by exactly the same gods.

Stories, stones, candles are like little seeds of meaning and empowerment – little God-seeds that might, with our care, blossom into centers capable of reconnecting us with ourselves and the best parts of our world.

We are all in the position of that old Greek picture of the soul as a spider in the center of its web attending to all its connections. Those are the ties that bind us to one another and to the amazing powers of life, those powers that are the stuff of which the gods are made. Let us attend to our connections.

The Danger in Handling Sacred Things

© Davidson Loehr

29 February 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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AFFIRMATION OF FAITH:

Don Smith

The theme for today’s service was generated from an idea that I have pondered for a long time now. Being aware that the history of our religious tradition is one that has had a series of orthodoxies, and that those orthodoxies have always excluded certain persons or views, I wondered whether there could be an orthodoxy that is more inclusive and, if so, what form that orthodoxy would take. By that I mean to say “Around what center could all of humanity gather, and agree that the center is more important than any one radius that might extend from it.”

I believe that it’s important to identify what it is that brings us together and keeps us together. I believe that if we remain focused on that, then we can deal openly and honestly with each other–even when we disagree. Many ideas are tossed about that can be both attractive and seductive, but are not, in the long run, healthful or life giving. They do nothing to build one up, to make one a better person, or add to one’s life.

In fact they can drain our energy and leave us more cynical. We may exercise freedom of belief, but we are not protected against the negative impact of bad belief systems. And so we need to be very critical of what things we believe; to demand that the beliefs and ideas serve us, and not just that we serve them.

I’ll be speaking to you again in a month or so, during a service on Transcendentalism, and will try to express something more of my personal religious beliefs at that time. But today I wish to speak about what I would have our community be, and the best way I can think of to do that is to tell a little of my own history with this church; from what tradition I came, why I left that tradition, and what I found here. It will probably be a familiar story to most of you.

I was brought up in the Church of Christ. For those of you who aren’t familiar with the Church of Christ I would only say this: it is as fundamental as fundamentalism can be, and as narrow in its teachings as any church could ever be. It is a church that insists on both orthopraxy and orthodoxy. One must do what is right and one must do it for the right reasons. My parents are both simple, loving, G’d-fearing people who believe with complete earnestness all the things that they taught me. I respect them more than I can say, even though I disagree with them totally when it comes to matters of theology. I know that their love and respect for me is equally strong, even though they no doubt wonder how this tree-hugging, gay, agnostic could be the product of the upbringing they provided.

It was at about the age of twelve that I began to think that I didn’t believe the theology that I had been spoon-fed from the cradle onward, and by the time I left for college I was certain of the fact. I never rejected or abandoned the orthopraxy that I had been taught, but only the orthodoxy. I rejected all Religion – with a capital R, meaning organized religion – but I don’t guess I ever lost sight of the values that my religious upbringing had instilled in me. Those values have served me well in life and I embrace them wholeheartedly.

I know that many of you have heard this more times than you care to remember, but when I came to this church it was for one reason and one reason only: to do t’ai chi. But once I got here I began to get to know the people, and I began to read the postings on the bulletin board-became aware of the diversity of thought and beliefs that were embraced here. I attended a class on Sunday mornings for ten weeks that compared Taoism with UUism, and I became curious to know what a service here would be like. I attended a service and was moved in a way that’s hard for me to explain, but the feeling produced was one of keen awareness. Awareness of the organic whole of which we are all a part, and a feeling of belonging. I continued to come and to explore what this church has to offer. The more I explored the more deeply I was drawn into this community.

A community of tolerance and acceptance, of support and encouragement, of thoughts that challenge, and challenges to thought. This is the community of which I partake, and this is the community that I wish to help build up, maintain, and see flourish.

PRAYER

Let us pray that the prayers of those who love us best will be answered.

Out best friends pray that we will be people of good character. They hope we will hold ourselves to high standards, and welcome constructive criticism when we stray.

Let us hope their prayers are answered.

Those who care about what is best in us pray that we will honor what is best in us. They hope we will listen to the angels of our better nature, not the angels of our lesser selves.

Let us hope their prayers are answered.

And those close to us know, as we know, that what we really believe, the gods we really serve, will be judged by our actions – not our words, but our actions, whether noble or ignoble, loving or mean. And they hope and pray, those who love us best, that we will serve, and be defined by, those angels of our better nature. That’s how we know they love us best. Let us pray that their prayers are answered.

Amen.

SERMON: The Danger in Handling Sacred Things

My favorite philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein once cautioned a student not to get too familiar with sacred things, to grant them a respectful distance. In part, it’s because of the great power of sacred things, the great spirit in them – and the fact that while you think you’re playing with them, they may take your measure.

I was reminded of this again by this sermon topic, combined with two events in the news the past weeks. Sermon topics can be planned carefully in advance, but then sometimes current events will intervene, which must be addressed. Then the sermon topic modulates to a key in which thought about the topic and the current events can both be addressed. That’s what happened this week.

The first was the super-hyped release of Mel Gibson’s move on his peculiar version of the Passion. The second was President Bush’s equally embarrassing move to write discrimination and bigotry into an American Constitution revered the world over for its inclusive freedoms. And all these things have to do with the high cost of using sacred and noble words, words like God, country, justice, truth and love, in low, mean or inadequate ways.

As several movie reviewers have observed, Mel Gibson has made a movie about his own personal obsession with suffering. Most of his most famous roles – Braveheart, Payback, Lethal Weapon – are obsessed with Mel Gibson’s suffering in order to save people. His other obsession is with his very idiosyncratic version of Christianity. He’s described kindly as a “traditional” Catholic. That means he rejects Vatican II and all advances in Catholic thinking of the past forty years: like the kinder and more inclusive attitude toward Jews and people of other religions, or translating the Mass into English so believers could understand it. He is against all of that, and I understand he has built a church near his home where he has hired a minister to preach religion the way he likes it.

In a way, his movie raises him to the height of what must be his greatest fantasy, for he has now cast Jesus Christ to play Mel Gibson. But as more and more religious writers are beginning to note, it is a willfully ignorant and embarrassingly narrow vision of Christianity. He is very obsessed with picturing the goriest details of a torture that did not come from the bible but from a secular book by a Catholic mystic, where she described the awful Jews and the horrendous wounds inflicted on Jesus.

He has his right to play with religious symbols and religious stories. But he doesn’t have a right to have his playing respected. That depends on how well he handles the religious symbols and stories he plays with, whether he gives them a high or a low meaning. And like Wittgenstein said, it’s dangerous to get too close to sacred things.

Because picking up religious symbols is a little like a violinist picking up a Stradivarius: the instrument will take the measure of you, will let all with ears to hear know that you had no business handling something this fine.

New York Times columnist Maureen Dowd saw the movie in a theater not even one-quarter full, and wrote an over-the-top review of this over-the-top movie. She said it was like one of the “spaghetti westerns” directed by Sergio Leone in the 1960s and 70s that made Clint Eastwood famous. She described Gibson’s film as a “spaghetti crucifixion,” and suggested its name could have been “A Fistful of Nails.”

I suspect, when the dust created by Gibson’s own PR crew to stir up controversy around the movie settles, it will disappear quickly from memory, as a very bad movie with an embarrassing, even silly, reduction of Christianity to his own fascination with physical suffering – suffering he has endured only as a movie actor, with lots of special effect and make-up teams so he would feel no pain.

Mel Gibson’s simplistic and sensationalistic treatment of Christianity is of the same kind as President Bush’s treatment of America in his new political move toward a constitutional amendment to prohibit gay marriages. It is also, like Gibson’s, an act showing no awareness of any advances in thinking over the past forty years. Though, unlike Gibson’s, it’s a thoroughly political move.

Then to see and hear Christians, and Christian ministers, coming forward to say their God hates gays and lesbians – that is even lower than a spaghetti crucifixion. It’s a betrayal, even a crucifixion, of the spirit of Jesus, and the highest spirit that has been served by the best Christians of history. It is a pornographic insult to the spirit of Jesus, and to the compassionate spirits of millions of good Christians.

Some people don’t like to hear things like this in church. They just want uppers, happy pills. Some think that being religious means always saying only nice things about even very bad behaviors and the people who do them. Some think being religious means never judging anyone.

That’s not how it is in the Bible. The prophets in the Hebrew scriptures were always angry. They saw the rich selling the poor for a pair of shoes, and they were outraged and said that God was outraged. They were angry whenever one kind of person thought his kind was superior to other kinds.

Orthodoxy means right beliefs. To claim to have right religious or patriotic belief, we have to let the high symbols of religion or nationalism raise our sights to their level, not drag them down to ours.

America has gone through low points in our history where many citizens – perhaps even a majority – have discriminated against blacks, women, Irish, Italians, Catholics, Jews, gays, lesbians and others. We have often taken the counsel of the angels of our lesser natures. We look back on these times with some shame because they degraded our high ideals, and the spirit of those high ideals judged our behaviors as low and mean. We played with high ideals in low and mean ways, and took our measure in ways we cannot, in retrospect, be proud of.

We’re talking about character. That’s what the word “orthopraxy” really means: behaving in ways worthy of people of character. And when we speak about character, we value the same things humans in all times and places have cared about: honesty, integrity, responsibility, authenticity, and moral courage. We don’t approve of those who side with the stronger against the weaker, or who use others as “things” to serve their own personal hungers or ideological agendas.

Questions of character aren’t fancy. They’re very ordinary sorts of questions that extend our horizons beyond the biases of our little in-groups to reconnect us, through our common humanity, with all people. And in our efforts to live like people of character, some of the best teachers we have are our highest ideals, whether religious, civic or personal. Words like God, country, love, justice, and truth – these are the words that can both take our measure and build our character.

In the 3rd century, there was a brilliant Christian thinker, and some of the things he said remain among my very favorites. One was his instruction in how to read a religious scripture – how to handle sacred objects. We must search for two things at the same time, he said. We must seek for what is useful to us, and worthy of God. Nothing less.

That is the cost of using holy words. It is like picking up a Stradivarius: it will take the measure of us.

This isn’t the way much nationalistic or religious language is really used, though, is it? Mostly it’s dragged down to the level of spaghetti crucifixions or a fistful of bigots. It has always happened that way. It made the prophets in the Hebrew scriptures angry. It made Jesus angry. Now it’s our turn to deal with it in our own time. In every time and place, people of character must rise to protest the dirtying and demeaning of our highest ideals. Those ideals are the most sacred property of our culture. They’re the angels of our better natures, the tools we need to help mold people of high character.

I don’t think Jesus would take Mel Gibson’s picture seriously enough to get angry. But I do agree that it might make him throw up. And if you’re going to be a Christian, I don’t think you should behave in ways that would make Jesus throw up.

Being religious isn’t just about being sweet and forgiving, any more than being a responsible citizen is about waving a flag or supporting highly questionable wars or policies.

Religion, citizenship and love aren’t about making it easier on ourselves. They’re about raising the standards, playing by more demanding rules than we had to when we weren’t claiming to be religious, loving or patriotic.

In the Hebrew scriptures, all Jews were the sons and daughters of God. He was their father, they were his children. It was their covenant with God. They would be his chosen people and he would be their God. But if you read the Bible, you see this did not mean God let them off the hook. It meant he held them to higher standards than he held anyone else.

When you pick up sacred teachings, they take your measure. You may think you can make a movie like a spaghetti crucifixion to reduce a noble and complex religion to your private obsessions, but you can’t. You’ve violated something sacred, and you’ll eventually be exposed for it, because it is our job, the job of all believers, all citizens, all who believe in justice, truth and love to expose those who degrade our noblest ideals.

Wittgenstein was right, I think. We should be very careful of claiming too much familiarity with sacred things. Because they are not trinkets, and we may not use them however we please. They have a kind of spirit about them, and when we dishonor that spirit, others who see and understand it judge us for demeaning something we didn’t have the right to demean.

Don’t get me wrong. I think we should try to define ourselves by the light of our highest ideals, our noblest words: God, country, truth, justice, love and the rest of them. Holding a religious belief means we want to be judged by the highest standards, nothing less.

The poet Rilke once said that we are blessed by the ideals we pursue with a good heart. We become what we worship, which is both the hope of following high ideals, and the danger of worshiping unworthy ideals or simplistic religious or national identities.

And if orthodoxy means holding the right beliefs, we should want to be orthodox in the highest sense. We just have to be sure they are the highest beliefs, not the lowest. We need to keep asking, when we find something that suits us, whether it is also worthy of God.

For that is what is demanded of those who would handle sacred things. Nothing less.

Watertight Integrity

© Matt Tittle

22 February 2004

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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READING

As we embark on the subject of integrity this morning, I’d like to start with a reading from early 19th century Universalist minister Hosea Ballou, which I believe, illustrates a liberal religious understanding of integrity:

“I know it is frequently contended that we ought to love God for what God is, and not for what we receive from God; that we ought to love holiness for holiness’s sake, and not for any advantage such a principle is to us. This is what I have often been told, but what I never could see any reason for, or propriety in. I am asked if I love an orange; I answer I never tasted of one; but then I am told I must love the orange for what it is! Now I ask, is it possible for me either to like or dislike the orange, in reality, until I taste it? Well, I taste of it and I like it. Do you like it? says my friend. Yes I reply, its flavor is exquisitely agreeable. But that will not do, says my friend; you must not like it because its taste is agreeable, but you must like it because it is an orange. If there be any propriety in what my friend says, it is out of my sight.”

SERMON

This subject of integrity is a complex one, but at the same time, quite simple. Everyone is FOR integrity, everyone wants to HAVE integrity, everyone demands integrity from others.

When something big is at stake or of ultimate importance, then we insist on integrity. We want our leaders to have impeccable character, we want corporations, and government, and schools, and the church to be institutions that are beyond reproach. But when it comes to the small things, well, then it might be ok to stretch the rules. We learn to fib rather than hold fast to our principles if we believe their might be some benefit, or we don’t think anyone else will suffer. The old adage of “what they don’t know won’t hurt them” is a familiar one. So what if I stretch the truth a little on my income taxes. So what if I was undercharged. So what if they gave me back too much change. So what if I speed a little. Nobody is getting hurt, are they?? Integrity is easy to think about, but I believe it is more difficult in practice. Maybe we don’t spend enough time figuring out HOW to have integrity.

So, today I will talk about several aspects of living a life of integrity. These are maintaining wholeness, freedom as a fundamental value, acting on the courage of our convictions, and the willingness to take risks. Wholeness, freedom, courage, and risk. These are all central to integrity in our spiritual and personal lives.

First, we will deal with wholeness. By definition, integrity is the act of maintaining wholeness. Integrity shares the same Latin root as the word integer, or whole number. A person of integrity is a whole person. There’s an interesting 19th century form of the word that illustrates this point. It is “Integralism,” which means “the belief that one’s religious convictions ought to dictate their social and political actions.” – Integrating the religious, social and political aspects of our lives. This is maintaining wholeness.

While we are thinking about definitions . . . I’ve often used the word integrous as an adjective to describe the quality of having integrity. But I’ve noticed that no one else ever uses this form.

Being the educational product of the South Carolina public school system, I often question my own grasp of the English language. You won’t find “integrous” in any American dictionary. But, it is in the Oxford English Dictionary – as an obsolete and rare form. How ironic, or how unfortunate, that we don’t have a commonly used adjectival form of integrity in English. So I will continue to use integrous, in my own hope that it comes back into to our common vocabulary.

So, we have the first concept of wholeness. The second aspect of integrity, especially in liberal religion, is the concept of freedom. Freedom is at the core of Unitarian Universalism. We have emerged from the free church tradition — rejecting prescribed doctrines and creeds, while simultaneously affirming freedom of belief and freedom of association. In 1960, on the eve of the consolidation of Unitarianism and Universalism in the U.S., Rev. David Parke, Unitarian historian and then minister of the Unitarian Church of Peterborough, New Hampshire, addressed the issue of integrity in Unitarian Universalism in a series of sermons. He noted that some of us find fulfillment in the fact that we are free. Others of us find fulfillment not in freedom, but in faith. For the first group, faith is the means to a life of integrity, freedom is the end. For the second group, freedom is the means, faith is the end. Parke said in 1960 that humanists fell into the first category, while Unitarian Christians fell in the second category. He said that Unitarian Universalists – then a new breed – fell somewhere in between. Faith, freedom, and fulfillment — three aspects of integrity for a liberal religious faith; not unlike “Integralism” and integrating the religious, social, and political aspects of our lives. The elegance of Unitarian Universalism is that we are not boxed into absolute categories when it comes to freedom, faith, and fulfillment.

This brings me to the third primary element of integrity – the courage of our convictions. We have addressed the essence of integrity -which is wholeness. We have addressed core of integrity in liberal religion, which is freedom. The courage of our convictions addresses the question of HOW we live integrous lives.

In his book, titled Integrity, Stephen Carter explains that living an integrous life requires discerning what we believe is right and what we believe is wrong. At the foundation of integrity is our values system. Values systems are represented by our emphasis on freedom, by our seven Unitarian Universalist principles, by the Torah and the Talmud of Judaism, by the gospel teachings of Jesus for the Christian and so on, as each religious tradition has tried to discern that which is of utmost importance.

Beyond knowing what we believe, integrity includes acting on our convictions, even at personal risk. Our own UU principles are a covenant to affirm and promote – these are actions which we agree in principle to take on.

The courage of our convictions also includes articulating our faith — openly saying that we are acting on our understanding of right and wrong. Even if our saying so is unpopular. We must be willing to tie our actions to our principles and say “I’m doing X because I believe Z.” This is what Hosea Ballou was trying to illustrate in his example of loving an orange. We don’t do things because we are told to, or for the sake of doing them. Living with integrity means that we understand what we believe, have the courage to act on our beliefs, and are able to articulate our convictions even in the face of criticism and disagreement with others.

I spent many years being openly critical of Christianity because I felt that its foundation was weak. But when I truly came to understand what I believed as a Unitarian Universalist, I realized that I could not, with integrity, dismiss Christianity or any other belief system that has as its basic assumption the goodwill of everyone. I recognized that Christianity was central to the lives of my mother and father in law, and that they are the most integrous and most service oriented people I know. I know what I believe and why. I act on my convictions. I let others know why I am doing so, but I must also hear and accept the differences and whys of others’ beliefs.

So, now we have expanded our definition of integrity beyond the idea of wholeness, beyond seeing integrity in our value of freedom, to conviction in understanding right and wrong, acting on those convictions, and being able to articulate our faith.

But we are not finished yet. I’d like to add the idea of risk-taking to our understanding of integrity, especially as it relates to liberal religion. My experience with risk-taking comes from an unlikely source, but I find a certain synchronicity it all of it.

I’ve been keeping you in suspense with the title of this sermon – Watertight Integrity. I learned about risk taking as a component of integrity in the Navy. I spent 11 years as an active duty Naval Officer, and recently retired from the Naval Reserve. Four and a half of my 20 years of service were aboard ships. In ships and submarines, WATERTIGHT integrity is essential. Without it, the ship risks sinking. Each door and hatch is lined with a rubber seal, treated with petroleum jelly and tested periodically for its integrity. This ensures that there won’t be any leaks into the next compartment in the event that one side is flooded. Some compartments are called voids and they stay constantly sealed, so that the ship can float. In a submarine it is a little trickier, because they purposely fill these voids with water, and then expel it so that the sub can surface or dive.

We constantly trained in the Navy to ensure that our watertight integrity remained intact. During General Quarters, the level of alert that we go to when danger is imminent, all doors and hatches are closed and sealed. No one is allowed to move around the ship and open any of these doors. We would time how long it took to report “Condition Zebra,” Meaning that everyone had reached their station and all watertight hatches and doors had been secured! There is a Navy ship somewhere right now who is going through this drill, I am certain. They are testing their integrity.

But, Condition Zebra is an extreme condition in which we take no risks. Everything is locked tight. We don’t go to that condition of watertight integrity very often and don’t stay in it for very long. So, we also had condition Yoke, Xray, and modified Zebra – all different degrees of watertight integrity. Each hatch was marked with an X, Y or Z and allowed to be open at certain times and not at others. Just like in life. Sometimes we open doors and take a calculated risk, sometimes we don’t.

Fundamentalist or conservative faiths might be considered to be more often in condition Zebra, relying more on certainty and allowing for very little risk. But they deny their wholeness in the very act of trying to maintain it – People don’t function as well if they are constantly locked down. As believers in a liberal tradition we allow for less rigidity in our knowledge and beliefs, and are more affirming of others’ beliefs. We take calculated risks, but need to have a keen understanding of why we are doing so, and a plan for when we might tighten up a little.

We often TALK about integrity in terms of honesty, of right and wrong. We THINK of it in terms of shoulds and should nots, cans and cannots – but we PRACTICE integrity in degrees. It isn’t PRACTICAL to stay in Condition Zebra all of the time.

Part of integrity is attending to life and to being whole, knowing what is going on around us and what watertight condition we are in at any given time!

Integrity isn’t a question of either/or, it isn’t a question of should or shouldn’t, can or cannot. Integrity is more complex than that. Critics might say this is a slippery slope – .that it is moral relativism to explain away integrity as other than pure and certain. To them I say, we can lock down every door. Or we can live our lives paying attention to our wholeness, maintaining our commitment to freedom, having courage in our convictions, and knowing when to take risks.

Know what you believe. Act courageously on your beliefs. Say publicly and without shame why you are doing so. Have the sense of awareness to know when to take calculated risks, all the while maintaining your wholeness. If we do these things perhaps we will be more integrous people.

May it be so.

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Copyright © 2003 – Dr. Matthew D. Tittle, Ph.D.

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