The Holy Heretical Spirit

© Davidson Loehr

 19 October 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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PRAYER:

Let us trust in the Holy Spirit. That Holy Spirit within that implores us to seek life, truth and wholeness – let us trust that spirit.

When the voices within or around us say to do something wrong because everybody’s doing it and we can get away with it, let us answer that we can not get away with it, because the angels of our better nature are watching, and because we know better.

When we are in a moral dilemma and are urged to take the path of least resistance, let us remember that in the mor world and the world of character, resistance builds strength.

When tempted to cheat on life, or on those we love, let us remember that you can’t score points by cheating in life and love, because there is a spirit within us that knows better, and it may not give our soul back to us until we make it right.

And all of this is good news – the good news that we are more decent, more loving and more just than we often believe.

The saving truth is that we are being watched by something we can trust, and that something is the person we are meant to become. The person we are meant to become is inviting us into a larger life, a more healing truth, and a better world. That invitation may be our salvation. Let us take it.

Amen.

SERMON: The Holy Heretical Spirit

This morning, I’d like to talk about the meaning of life, honest religion, God, Jesus, the Bible, salvation, the Army, amoeba, the Holy Spirit, the Tao te Ching, the Marine Corps, and playing hide-and-seek. I’ll try to be brief.

I’m doing a series of sermons this fall on the three most significant Unitarian thinkers and preachers of the past 200 years. Almost everyone here will feel a deep kinship with them at that level, I think, whether you care about Unitarians or not.

Mostly today I want to talk about Ralph Waldo Emerson, easily the best known of the people we claim, rightly or wrongly, as Unitarian. He spoke to the general audience of inquiring liberal minds who wanted to know how to think about Jesus, God, the Bible, religion and salvation in the 19th century.

He also has a connection to this church. In 1892, the first incarnation of this church was founded by a student of Emerson’s. And when the church reformed in the 1950s, Rev. Wheelock’s granddaughter Emily Howson was a member, and donated the seed money to let us build our social hall, which is named after her.

We need to see this complex man Emerson against the background of his even more complex times, for they were times that shaped our world today in many ways.

When the seven-member graduating class of Harvard Divinity School invited Emerson to speak in 1838, Thomas Jefferson and John Adams, two of our country’s founding fathers, had been dead for 12 years, both dying on the 4th of July 1826, 50 years after they had signed our Declaration of Independence.

The scientific revolution was under way, and already threatening a view of the world that Christians had held for about 1800 years. Many people still believed the world was only six thousand years old, created by God in six days, and that – as Thomas Jefferson had also believed – no species had ever become extinct. But by 1803 – the year Emerson was born – a brilliant French paleontologist had assembled the skeletons of 23 extinct species of animals, and that collection had toured all over Europe, and then through the U.S. with P.T. Barnum’s circuses.

And two geologists had shown that the world was much, much older than six thousand years. Millions and millions of years, they thought, which we now believe to be billions of years. The most influential of these geologists, Charles Lyell, had just published his first volume eight years before Emerson’s address, and among the many who read it and had their worldview forever changed by it was a young naturalist named Charles Darwin. Darwin had the second volume shipped to him while he was on his voyage aboard The Beagle, where he made his detailed observations on the Galapagos Islands that led to the publication of his book Origin of the Species, 21 years after Emerson’s address.

This was the broader stage on which Emerson spoke on that hot July day. What were we to make of religion, or of Jesus, God, and all the stories in the Bible? Where were we to stand? Where was the new truth that could set us free and make us come more alive? These were Emerson’s questions, and they’re still our questions today, 170 years later.

The Unitarians of the 1830s – including William Ellery Channing, whom I talked about last month – still believed in a supernatural religion, a supernatural God and the literalness of the biblical miracles. Emerson didn’t. He took all of this psychologically. He saw religion as the development of our innate senses of the good, the true and the beautiful, and said that these senses were like a divine presence within us, or that we were all a part of God.

This is a lot like the Hindu notion that our individual soul, or atman, is part of the universal soul, or Brahman, and within a few years, the Bhagavad Gita would be the favorite religious scripture of both Emerson and his younger friend, Henry David Thoreau.

The way Emerson saw it, salvation would mean getting in touch with these deep sensitivities we have, and living out of them – living lives of truth, justice and compassion. Heaven and hell are here and now for Emerson, not elsewhere and later.

While his attacks were against Christianity, their arguments work against every Western religion. The capacity for a noble, even a holy life is born within us. It’s part of human nature, not something put in from elsewhere. That’s shown by the fact that we know the difference between good and evil, kindness and cruelty, truth and pretense, and we are, at our best, drawn to the better options. This shows the presence within us of what theologians like to call God. Emerson put it this way: “The notion of God is the individual’s own soul carried out to perfection (Gary Dorrien, The Making of American Liberal Theology: Imagining Progressive Religion, 1805 – 1900 [Westminster John Knox Press, 2001], p. 61).” “The highest revelation is that God is in every [one of us].” (Gary Dorrien, The Making of American Liberal Theology: Imagining Progressive Religion, 1805 – 1900 [Westminster John Knox Press, 2001]), p. 62)

But if that’s so, then what’s the use of figures like Jesus, Mohammad or Allah, or books like the Bible or the Koran? Well for Emerson, when these people or books can show us some wisdom that helps us come more alive, then they’re useful and probably even true for us for now. But not because Jesus or a holy scripture said them – only because these figures or books happened, in this case, to say something that also seems to be true.

It’s like saying that science books are only correct if what they say happens to be true – but it’s not true just because a science book says so. The books can be wrong. So can the prophets, so can all holy scriptures. And the way we check it out is in the real world, with our own mind and in our own heart.

In intellectual terms, what Emerson did was to convert theology into a kind of depth psychology. Religion is about our becoming all that we can be. All religions are about being all that we can be – it’s such a timeless religious truth, it’s really a pity that some advertising agency stole it for the Army. People like Jesus are examples of what all of us can become: they’re examples of our deepest human nature, not exceptions to it. Emerson said that Jesus was true to what is in you and me, and that if we are compassionate and just, then to that extent we are God. The gods are our best traits, writ large. We are the projector, they are the screen.

These were the sorts of things he said in that commencement address to the students, faculty and guest ministers at Harvard Divinity School when he was just 35 years old. He was attacked viciously for his remarks – especially by the Unitarians. The Unitarian paper called The Christian Examiner said that Emerson’s Divinity School address contained “neither good divinity nor good sense (Gary Dorrien, The Making of American Liberal Theology: Imagining Progressive Religion, 1805 – 1900 [Westminster John Knox Press, 2001], p. 75).” And a man named Andrews Norton, who was regarded as the most liberal Unitarian scholar alive at the time, said Emerson’s beliefs threatened civilization itself (Gary Dorrien, The Making of American Liberal Theology: Imagining Progressive Religion, 1805 – 1900 [Westminster John Knox Press, 2001], p. 75).

His address made him an outsider to the Unitarians. They denounced him, and closed ranks against him (Gary Dorrien, The Making of American Liberal Theology: Imagining Progressive Religion, 1805 – 1900 [Westminster John Knox Press, 2001], p. 74). It also set off a firestorm that lasted for decades. It was almost thirty years before he was invited to speak at Harvard again.

He was ordained and served as a Unitarian minister for about three years, but it didn’t agree with him, and he resigned from it. After that, he liked to say things like “Unitarianism is corpse-cold.”

He was a scathing critic of all the religion of his time. He said, “I think no [one] can go with his thoughts about him into one of our churches, without feeling, that what hold the public worship had on [people] is gone, or going.”

He puzzled over people who went to church, and said “It is already beginning to indicate character and religion to withdraw from the religious meetings. I have heard a devout person, who prized the Sabbath, say in bitterness of heart, ‘On Sundays, it seems wicked to go to church.'” (In fact, that person was him. It was something he wrote to his wife.)

Emerson’s vision carried him far beyond the boundaries not only of Christianity, but of theism and all religions. He had faith that we had a divine impulse within us that we could trust. He saw all gods and religions as projections of our own sense of being part of something larger than ourselves. Not all teachings of religions or about gods are good, of course. Some are foolish, or evil. But he trusted that we could generally tell the difference.

You can think of the Bible’s command, for example, that disobedient teen-agers or women who were not virgins when they married should be stoned to death.

You may have seen the YouTube videos of women being stoned to death by Muslim clerics, or read about fundamentalist cults in our country today where disobedient children were beaten to death. Jon Krakauer, the author of the book and movie Into the Wild, also wrote a powerful expose of fundamentalist Mormons called Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith (on which I preached here a few years ago), in which he recounted the story of a Mormon father murdering his daughter because she was disobedient. That father later died in a Mexican prison for other violent crimes he believed God commanded him to commit. I happen to know one of that man’s daughters, a sister of the girl who was murdered. She lives in Austin. These things aren’t just happening “elsewhere” – they’re right here among us, too.

All of these punitive teachings, Emerson believed, are evil. And I agree with him. There is nothing about any real God in any of them. And we can all see this. When we’re being honest with ourselves, we can and should trust our own heads and hearts more than we trust theologians, preachers, churches or scriptures.

All of this means that the role of churches and preachers is to offer us insights, stories and teachings that can help us become more alive and whole. And the churches and preachers are to be judged by how well they do that. If they don’t, we need to keep looking for a church and minister who meet our own deepest needs, which may not be quite the same as those of the person in the next row.

You have to take the best urgings of your head and heart seriously – what Abraham Lincoln called the angels of our better nature. Then you have to find people, places and experiences that also take you seriously – where you don’t have to check your head or your heart at the door. But don’t think the real authority lies with a church or a bible or a god. All those, including the gods, are human creations. The best of them are good, in the same way the best philosophies, psychologies or literature are. But the fundamental revelation for Emerson was that we already have the spirit – a spirit that even transcends God – within us, and need to live out of that.

The Unitarians and others of the day called all this The Transcendentalist Revolt. Do you see how radical it is? Whether or not Emerson can be seen as a Unitarian – and the leading Unitarians of his time denied that he could be – he was definitely a religious liberal, and a courageous preacher of honest religion.

But honest religion is a style, not a position. When it becomes a position, a belief, a creed or orthodoxy, we need to hold lightly to it. Yesterday’s beliefs and other people’s creeds may not do it. Second-hand religion isn’t likely to give us a first-hand life. The spirit that honestly seeks truth can’t be fenced in. “Time makes ancient good uncouth,” as the poet says (James Russell Lowell) – not just out of date, but uncouth.

The movement Emerson started was called Transcendentalism. And for the Transcendentalists, time made the ancient teachings about Jesus, God and the Bible uncouth. Uncouth, because they no longer led reasonable and informed minds to truth that helped them come alive, no longer led to truth that could heal them or their world and help make them more authentic and whole.

When we look back to people like Ralph Waldo Emerson, it’s not too important to focus on their beliefs, because those may be out of date by now. But it is important to look back to that spirit that drove them beyond the comfort zone of those around them. St. Paul once said that “The letter kills, but the spirit gives life” (II Cor. 3:6), and this is what I think he was getting at. The spirit always moves on beyond all creeds and orthodoxies, beyond the beliefs of any person or any time and place.

This life-giving spirit is called many things. One name for it is the spirit of life; another is the spirit of heresy. People engaging in honest religion were, are and always will be heretics. Now don’t get queasy; that’s a good thing. The word heretic comes from a Greek verb meaning “to choose.” Heretics are those who choose when some small orthodoxy declares the choices closed because they – only they – have found the truth. So yet another name for the spirit of honest religion, the spirit of heresy, is the Holy Spirit. It is the Holy Spirit that may never be fenced in, the Holy Spirit that is larger than all creeds, all gods, and all religions. Emerson believed it is within us all, and I think he was right.

It’s that sense of being really alive that we’ve all felt. It drives us to seek more life, and to shun things that don’t give us life. And as Emerson saw and said, it is bigger than all our religions.

You can see this spirit at every level of life. It is what makes plants turn toward the sun. It is what makes kittens, puppies and children run toward things that welcome them and run away from things that frighten them. I once saw an amoeba through a microscope, and even it was moving into the open places, moving toward food, and moving away from impurities or negative things in its environment. That’s the same spirit of life we call the Holy Spirit, operating even in puppies, plants, and amoeba.

There is a famous passage from the ancient Chinese classic the Tao te Ching that says it this way:

The Tao is like a well:

used but never used up.

It is like the eternal void:

filled with infinite possibilities.

It is hidden but always present.

I don’t know who gave birth to it.

It is older than God.

And the reason it’s older than God is because it’s part of life, and part of us. It’s the energy that helps us come more alive. We want to be a part of that Tao, that way, to let it help us get around impurities and obstacles in our own lives. In our Western religions where time has indeed made much of their ancient good uncouth, many of the obstacles today are the very creeds and orthodoxies which theologians, priests and churches have frozen into little outdated idols. And the Holy Spirit hates those little linguistic idols, so it keeps bringing us these heretics, these prophets of honest religion, who will let the questions more profound than answers challenge and shatter those answers when they can no longer help us come alive.

Ralph Waldo Emerson was one of the servants of those questions more profound than answers, a servant of that spirit of life. I used the Army’s slogan earlier about being all that you can be. So I want to use the slogan from another branch of the service to close, so they won’t feel slighted. And that’s to say that this ancient and holy spirit, like a Marine Corps recruiter, is looking for a few good men and women – or a lot of them. It’s looking for us. And this is a kind of hide-and-seek where the best part of the game is definitely being found.

Atonement

© Davidson Loehr

and Rabbi Michael LeBurkien

12 October 2008

First UU Church of Austin

4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

www.austinuu.org

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Notes on this service:

This is a service borrowing from and centered in some of the Jewish tradition and thought about these topics of repentance and atonement that are the center of Judaism’s highest holy days. Rabbi LeBurkien is now a member of this church, and was gracious enough to provide many materials – and some basic education for me – on these two holidays. He also brought his shofar and played it at the beginning and end of the service. Most of the ritual words here were taken or adapted from Jewish materials, while the sermon was my attempt to incorporate some of the wisdom from these stories and traditions into our own tradition of doing honest religion in ordinary language. Since it’s an unusual service, I’ve included almost all spoken parts of the service, to give a more rounded feel for it.

– Davidson Loehr

BLOWING OF THE SHOFAR

Give heed to the sound of the shofar,

The sharp, piercing blasts of the shofar,

Splitting the air with its message,

Renouncing unworthy goals and selfish behaviors.

Instill in your hearts a new spirit.

Heed the sound of the shofar,

Sounding its message of warning,

Its cry of alarm and awakening –

Urging us to work with our brothers and sisters

To combat the ills that beset us all.

Accept the challenge to triumph

Over the forces of anger and destruction.

And all their poisonous fruit.

Heed the sound of the shofar,

Bringing bright hope to a people

Long scattered and stricken with sorrow.

Heed the sound of the shofar,

The blast that is blown within our spaces like the voice of God, O my people.

SOUNDING OF THE SHOFAR

According to some Jewish writers, the sound of the shofar is like a prayer, or even like the voice of God in our midst. We welcome both. Please join me in the responsive invocation written in your order of service.

RESPONSIVE INVOCATION

LEADER: We gather to seek, to find and to share the promise of honest religion:

PEOPLE: TO COME ALIVE, TO SEEK TRUTH, AND TO HEAL OUR WORLD.

LEADER: And so it is a sacred time, this, and a sacred place, this.

PEOPLE: A PLACE FOR QUESTIONS MORE PROFOUND THAN ANSWERS

LEADER: Vulnerability more powerful than strength

PEOPLE: AND A PEACE THAT CAN PASS UNDERSTANDING.

LEADER: It is a sacred time, this. Let us begin it together in song.

READING: THE STORY OF JOSEPH

The sons of Jacob were twelve in number, Now Jacob loved Joseph more than any of his other sons, so he made a coat of many colors for him. When his brothers saw the coat they believed that their father loved Joseph more than any of them, and began to hate their brother.

Joseph had a series of dreams which he told his brothers about. The first was of binding up of sheaves in the field., and Joseph’s sheaf rising and standing up, and the brothers’ sheaves gathered round and bowed to Joseph’s. This dream stirred the brothers’ hatred again. Joseph came to them again with another dream in which the sun, moon and 11 stars bowed down to him. His father scolded him “am I and your mother and brothers to bow down to you”? The father pondered his son’s dreams and wondered what these meant. And again his brothers increased their hatred of their brother Joseph who was unaware of their feelings against him. After his brothers left to pasture their father’s flocks at Shechem, Jacob spoke with Joseph about following them and bringing back word of their work with his flocks.

And so Joseph set off but his brothers saw him at a distance and began plotting the murder of their brother because of their hatred and jealousy. They wanted to kill Joseph and throw him into a pit but the oldest brother, Rueben, wanted Joseph to be saved from being murdered and said “do not shed any blood; throw him in the pit here in the wilderness, but do not lay hands on him.” When Joseph reached his brothers they took his coat of many colors and after stripping him of it they threw him into the pit. After these deeds, the brothers sat down to eat a meal and as they ate, they watched a caravan of Ishmaelites from and in doing so saved my life, Gilead coming with their spices, balm and laudanum bound for Egypt. Brother Judah went in another direction and said to his brothers “Instead of slaying Joseph and leaving him in the pit for wild animals, let us sell him to this caravan of Ishmaelites and not lay hands on him. After all he is our brother.” His brothers agreed and sold Joseph for 20 shekels of silver, and the Ismaelites took him to Egypt. They returned the bloody coat to their father and Joseph was believed to have died from animal attack.

Joseph did well in the land of Egypt. He worked very hard and bought himself out of slavery, and rose in importance to become close to the king or Pharaoh. Eventually drought and famine came to Canaan where Joseph’s family lived and his brothers had to come to Egypt to buy food. He had his brothers brought before him and contemplated taking revenge against them but could not. His brothers did not recognize him as a man but were fearful of his power and when they were again brought to the palace he began weeping and all heard him say, “I am your brother Joseph whom you sold into Egypt. Be not grieved nor angry but hurry back to my father and speak to him from his son Joseph: You will live near me, you, your sons, your grandsons, your flocks and herds and all that belongs to you and I will provide for you through the years of famine to come. You must tell my father who I am in Egypt, and all you have seen and bring him back here to me.” All the brothers, the 12 sons of Jacob, wept upon each other’s shoulders.

PRAYER: A RESPONSIVE LITANY OF ATONEMENT

Leader: For remaining silent when a single voice would have made a difference.

LEFT SIDE: WE FORGIVE OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER; WE BEGIN AGAIN IN LOVE.

RIGHT SIDE: FOR EACH TIME THAT OUR FEARS HAVE MADE US RIGID AND INACCESSIBLE

Leader: We forgive ourselves and each other; we begin again in love.

LEFT SIDE: FOR EACH TIME THAT WE HAVE STRUCK OUT IN ANGER WITHOUT JUST CAUSE

RIGHT SIDE: WE FORGIVE OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER; WE BEGIN AGAIN IN LOVE.

Leader: For each time that our greed has blinded us to the needs of others

LEFT SIDE: WE FORGIVE OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER; WE BEGIN AGAIN IN LOVE.

RIGHT SIDE: FOR THE SELFISHNESS WHICH SETS US APART AND ALONE

Leader: We forgive ourselves and each other; we begin again in love.

LEFT SIDE: FOR FORGETTING THAT WE ARE ALL PART OF ONE FAMILY

RIGHT SIDE: WE FORGIVE OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER; WE BEGIN AGAIN IN LOVE.

Leader: For those and for so many things big and small that make it seem we are separate.

ALL: WE FORGIVE OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER; WE BEGIN AGAIN IN LOVE.

SERMON: Atonement

We are reflecting on two of Judaism’s high holy days this morning, Rosh Hashanah, which was September 30-1 October, is their spiritual New Year. And Yom Kippur, which ended the ten days of repentance and atonement this past Thursday.

Rosh Hashanah is a time of repenting for bad actions toward other people, a time for looking inside, asking what kind of people our actions have shown us to be in the past year. Before forgiveness can happen, we have to confess to the people we believe we have wronged.

Yom Kippur, the end of this ten days, is called the Day of Atonement. “Atonement” is a wonderful theological term, and its spelling is its meaning: at-one-ment. Being at one with yourself and your highest and most life-giving values – or in theological language, with your God. To do this, you first have to be at one with your neighbors, so it’s really a complete kind of at-one-ment. We’d all be happier if we had it.

Most of Judaism is for Jews, just as most of Christianity is for Christians. But there are parts of all religions that are ours for the taking, and we want to learn from them if we can. Those parts are the insights into the human condition, and the wisdom for living more wisely and well. That’s part of what theologians call the Wisdom Tradition, and wisdom is always free, offered to all who are willing to hear it and take it to heart.

As we sometimes do on New Year’s Eve, Jews also make resolutions for the new year. And like the rest of us, they usually fail to keep many of them. The world seldom cooperates with all of our resolutions, and then what do we do? They’re harder than we hoped they would be when we made them. Life can put us in a hole or back us into a corner or frighten us, and we lower our expectations and our standards.

This is part of the religious lesson of that story of Joseph that Rabbi LeBurkien told you earlier. It’s a wonderful story, and I want to visit it from a different angle this morning. Joseph’s brothers were horrible to him. If you looked in the Hall of Fame for Dysfunctional Families, their group photo would be there. Some wanted to kill him, others to throw him into a deep hole so the wild animals would eat him, and the kindest of them decided simply to sell him into slavery. If you got to choose your brothers, nobody would choose them.

Years later, Joseph has risen to power through the strength of his own character and the luck of life. His brothers – due to bad luck, which in this story is also meant as a judgment on their character – are brought before him. Joseph can take all the vengeance he wants now. He can get even with them in spades for everything they did to him and everything they thought about doing to him.

But what would he gain? Sure, it would give him a wonderful cheap thrill, getting even. And you know how good that feels, don’t you? But then he would have stooped to their level. He would be showing that he was their brother in the worst way rather than in the best way. It wouldn’t be anything you could be proud of if you thought God was watching – and in these stories, God is usually watching.

What Joseph did in this ancient myth by acting out of love, out of his highest and proudest ideals, is more than most of us might do. That’s why the story has remained so powerful all these centuries. It calls us to a higher plane of being, to live out of only our proudest ideals. That’s important because life can still frighten us away from those high ideals if we let it.

Unless we can forgive a past that cannot be changed, we will carry anger, resentment and the hope for vengeance or anger or a paralyzing fear into the future. Then we won’t be starting a new year after all, but repeating some of the poisonous parts of the one we just had – like the movie “Groundhog Day,” reliving the same sorry situation again and again. So instead, we forgive ourselves and each other and begin again in love.

Joseph forgave his brothers, redefined them as brothers rather than enemies, they embraced and went into the future together, and into our common mythology as one of the most challenging and inspiring stories we’ve ever told. This isn’t just about forgiving some awful brothers. It’s really about forgiving life for not pleasing us. This makes it easy to see that this old story isn’t really about Joseph. It’s really about us, and about life. What do we do when we’re scared, angry or resentful? Because the world really isn’t made in the image of our desires. And every once in awhile, it rises up to remind us of that, and to say, “Now what will you do?”

Think of the current economic mess our country and growing parts of the world are in. It isn’t fair. You’ve read the same stories I have. The whole situation is more complex than I understand, and maybe there’s a lot more to it than we’re being told right now, I don’t know. But stocks have fallen, some people have lost thousands from their retirement funds, and other countries are panicked as well.

Nonprofits and churches are also worried because right now, in this panic, charitable giving is slowing down. People are afraid want to put their money under their pillow, or under a rock. And under the heading of Really Interesting Timing, we’re in the middle of our own annual pledge drive just as this whole subject of money has become one people don’t want to talk about. We don’t have anywhere near enough people on our stewardship committee to share the tasks without burning out. It’s hard to talk about money because people are afraid and don’t want to hear about it or think about it. A lot of people are afraid that the light at the end of the tunnel might be an oncoming train. This shows us once again that Denial isn’t a river in Egypt – the river runs right through us.

We are Joseph, thrown into a hole. Not by this or that Republican or Democrat or Congress, but by Life. Sometimes, it favors us, sometimes it doesn’t, because life isn’t created in the image of our own wishes or needs.

We are Joseph. Do we allow ourselves to be ruled by fear and anger? People could understand if we did, because it’s what many of them are doing. So many strong winds blowing us in so many directions right now. Which winds do we let blow us around?

Should we give up on the pledge drive, cancel the wonderful building campaign we have planned for our children, our programs, our future, cancel all two dozen of our split-the-plate recipients and sell the church for spare parts?

Now when we start thinking this way, we know we’re wrong, because this is a church where we are here because we want to learn how to serve high and brave and life-giving ideals, not fears that make us shrink back from life. We will not be frightened away from life.

We need to back off a little to ask whether it’s realistic to stay in a hole of doom and gloom, whether the sky is really falling as Chicken Little always, always believes, or whether there are life-giving and healing insights that are also true. They can come from folk wisdom and stories, but also from straight facts, so let’s start with some of those.

I read an article from a company called Resource Services Inc. this week that our new executive director Sean Hale passed around, and then went online to learn more about this company. It was founded in 1972 by two evangelical classmates from Baylor University, to help churches plan successful capital campaigns, and at one point, of the 25 largest successful church capital campaigns in history, all but one of them was planned by this company. So they have learned a lot about the vicissitudes of economics and economic history.

Here are just a few facts from a paper they published six years ago, during the panic after 9-11 (“Christian Giving in Uncertain Times” from the NACBA Seminar, a Presentation of Bill Wilson of RWI, July 9, 2002):

o The total amount of giving in the U.S. has increased every year but one for the past 40 years, including through wars, recessions and other crises. Each year we have given more than the previous year.

— These crises do tend to paralyze us for a short time, but in the calendar year following crises, the giving grew at a greater rate than it did during the crisis year.

— The larger a church is, the more likely their members are to support it. About 70% supported churches under 100 members, while about 87% supported churches of 500 or more.

— People in the South and West give more per capita than those in the Midwest and Northeast.

— “People with the strongest convictions are the most likely to support their worldview financially….” (from George Barna)

— Commitments to capital campaigns aren’t usually affected much by economic crises, partly because they’re received over a three-year period.

They suggest thinking about it this way: everything we give, Life gave to us first. It isn’t so much a giving as it is a giving-back.

The economy always recovers. Even if this is going to be compared to the great scares like the 1987 stock market crash, or the one way back in 1929, the economy is now far more global. As we’re seeing, economies all over the world are affected and working on it. Too much is at stake for too many people to let everything slide off a cliff.

In other words, it is safe to act as though our highest values are still our best guides to living now. We don’t cancel our split-the-plate practice, because we want to heal our world, not withdraw from it. We want to be people, and a church, that are conspicuous because we choose to serve life, to come alive, not to stay in the hole we’ve been thrown into.

As the preacher Robert Schuler once put it, “Tough times never last; tough people do.” We don’t get to choose our crises, but we do get to choose how we will act in them.

The next year or two may well be tough. Tough times are a part of living. They are the times that show us what we’re made of when we’re in that hole.

I can tell you that I’d rather be representing a church right now than any other kind of business. Because we’re not defined by productivity or the bottom line, and we don’t outsource your souls to another country. We’re defined by the power of the ideals we serve, and their ability to steer us through even – and especially – these wonderfully challenging times.

This past Wednesday I attended the Kol Nidre service at Congregation Agudis Achim, a local conservative congregation, and heard a new version of an old story. I want to share it with you.

An older man was out walking on the beach one day when he noticed, far ahead of him, a young woman who would bend down, pick something up, throw it into the ocean, then walk on until she stopped and did it again. Curious, he walked toward her, and as he got closer he saw she was picking up starfish, one at a time, and throwing them back into the ocean.

He walked up to her and said, “Why are you doing that?” “I’m saving starfish,” she answered. “The ocean washes them up onto the beach where they’ll die. I throw them back to their home.”

He laughed. “Why are you wasting your time? The ocean has been doing this for millions of years. Millions of starfish have died on the beach, and always will. Do you honestly think you can make any difference?”

She walked over to another starfish, picked it up, and threw it back into the ocean. She turned to the man and said, “It made a difference to that one.”

The man hadn’t expected this, because as you know, negativity and cynicism can usually silence most arguments, even when it’s wrong. But it forced him to think, and to act. As she walked on, he joined her, and before long he bent over, picked up a starfish, threw it back to the sea, and a big smile broke out on his face.

Some other people on the beach who had been watching this interchange began getting up and walking toward the ocean, picking up starfish and tossing them into the sea. Soon nearly everyone was doing it, and kept doing it until they had covered the whole beach. When the last starfish had been thrown back to its home in the ocean, the people all cheered and hugged one another.

Like the story of Joseph, that beach is a metaphor for life. Bad stuff is part of life, and sometimes we actually come to believe that we’re powerless – what difference could we possibly make? But the real truth about us is just how powerful we really are if we will act on our highest values, no matter what life brings us. Because people are watching. We are watching. We’re watching each other, and the courage of a few people can have an amazing effect in giving others the courage of their own convictions. Then before you know it, we’ve cleaned up the beach, kept this exciting and life-giving liberal church on its healthy path, and built a lovely new building for our children, our programs and our future. Then comes the laughing and cheering. Cheering ourselves, for having the courage of our deepest convictions, the courage to come alive, embrace our most life-giving truths, and begin healing ourselves and our world.

If you have hesitated to come into our pledge drive, or have entered it hesitantly and would be prouder to invest more of your money, time and spirit here, I advise you to come in boldly. Come join us on this wonderful and challenging beach of life. Help us clean the fearful and paralyzing debris off of it. Help us return everything to life.

Make the kind of strong and confident pledge you’d really like to for next year. If it takes us all a little longer than we think to restore health to our economy and you need to adjust your pledge next spring or summer, of course you can do that. But for now, be hopeful and bold because that gives life both to us and to you.

This isn’t an economic matter; it’s a religious mission. It is a mission of at-one-ment, coming to be at one with our proudest ideals and highest values. So come join us on this beach, and help us maintain it and ourselves as beacons of light, life and hope. The work together is inspiring and fun. And afterwards, there will be this party and this cheering that you don’t want to miss. Join us!

BLOWING OF THE SHOFAR

Now once more, hear the sound of the shofar,

Splitting the air, reminding us to let go of unworthy goals and selfish behaviors, and instill in our hearts a new spirit.

Heed the sound of the shofar,

Sounding its cry of awakening –

Urging us to accept the challenge to triumph

Over the forces of anger and fear.

And all of their many poisonous fruits.

Let us heed the sound of the shofar, O my people.

SOUNDING OF THE SHOFAR

Together we have celebrated the creation of the universe, the creations of nature, and the power of creation which is within each one of us. We are the creators and co-creators of our lives, our world, and our future. We have, each of us, a small power of creation like unto that of God. Let us go forth from here reclaiming our ability to know good from evil. We go forth as creative and powerful people, called again to serve only our highest callings, to come alive, to seek truth and to heal our world. Please join me in our responsive benediction.

RESPONSIVE BENEDICTION:

PREACHER: We leave this sacred time and place,

PEOPLE: But we carry its promise with us.

PREACHER: The world needs the spirit that we can carry forth.

PEOPLE: Let us become the life, the truth and the healing that we seek.

PREACHER: Amen.

PEOPLE: Amen.

Universalism is dead: long live Universalism?

© Brian Ferguson

 October 5, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

Listen to the sermon by clicking the play button.

Reading:

The author of the reading is Robert Bellah, the sociologist and author of Habits of the Heart. The reading is an excerpt from the speech he gave at the 1998 Unitarian Universalist General Assembly.

So, it is no accident, as they say, that the United States, with its high evaluation of the individual person, is nonetheless alone among North Atlantic societies in the percentage of our population who live in poverty and that we are dismantling what was already the weakest welfare state of any North Atlantic nation. Just when we are moving to an ever greater validation of the sacredness of the individual person, our capacity to imagine a social fabric that would hold individuals together is vanishing. And this is in no small part due to the fact that our religious individualism is linked to an economic individualism which, though it makes no distinctions between persons except monetary ones, ultimately knows nothing of the sacredness of the individual. If the only standard is money, then all other distinctions are undermined.

What economic individualism destroys and what our kind of religious individualism cannot restore, is solidarity, a sense of being members of the same body. In most other North Atlantic societies a tradition of an established church, however secularized, provides some notion that we are in this thing together, that we need each other, that our precious and unique selves aren’t going to make it all alone. That is a tradition singularly weak in our country, though Catholics and some high church Protestants have tried to provide it. Nor do we have a tradition of democratic socialism such as is common in Europe-again, I would argue, linked to an established church culture-a tradition that believes the state has some responsibility for the well-being of its citizens.

So, alas, perhaps Mark Lilla is right: the 1960’s cultural revolution and the 1980’s Reagan revolution are two sides of the same coin. Radical religio-cultural individualism opens the door to radical economic individualism. The former provides inadequate resources to moderate the latter. Here I return to the paradox from which I started, the contradiction between Unitarian Universalist’s social witness and your religious tradition: in your social witness we are dissenters; in your religious beliefs you are mainstream in a culture whose majority is dissenters. How can you possibly gain the religious and cultural leverage to overcome this contradiction?

Prayer:

When the uncertainty of life threatens to overwhelm us, may we find comfort.

When the grief for loss of loved ones feels too much, may we find strength.

When isolation in our lives seems impenetrable, may we find connection.

When our brokenness seems irreparable, may we find healing.

When we find happiness and hope, may we spread them to others.

May we find the meaning, inspiration and wholeness in our life.

May others join us in our work with toward the common good.

When we stumble may they support us, when we doubt may they reassure us, and when we stray may they guide us.

Life is too large and too precious to journey alone, may we find the solidarity of others when needed and may we be the strength needed by others.

Amen.

Sermon:

We seem to have been hearing for many years now that we live in a time of uncertainty. Recent events seem to be only increasing that uncertainty. The financial meltdown is the latest in a series of unpredictable events that we hear about not knowing the outcome or how they will affect us. The roller coaster of the Presidential election creates an uncertainty about our political futures, worries about our jobs or retirement creates uncertainty about our economic futures, the threat of unexpected illness and violence creates uncertainty about the lives of our friends and loved ones. Climate change raises questions about our very existence. We most certainly do live in a time of uncertainty. Yet I suspect people have always felt that way.

A common response for many people is to turn to religion at such times. Sometimes looking for answers, other times an explanation, and often just for comfort. The old saying goes that the only certainties in life are death and taxes. While a religious response on the subject of taxes sounds really interesting, I’ll leave that for another sermon – perhaps around April 15th. Religion has had a lot to say about death and in Christianity particularity life after death. While life on this earth was uncertain, life after death was about certainty. You were going to hell if you were bad and heaven if you were good. The threat of hell was the motivation to live a good life. Our Liberal religious tradition has moved away from such thinking. We are not concerned much with what happens beyond death and more interested in the responsible search for truth and meaning in this life. To ensure a responsible search for truth and meaning then it is best that we do this search in a community. At least that is the theory.

Many of us today feel lonely or isolated as our sense of community subsides and we have less contact with our families or friends. Work absorbs much of our time and energy such that our community ties become frayed. In the reading we heard earlier, Robert Bellah was discussing the decline of community in the United States due to the emphasis on the individual. He says “our capacity to imagine a social fabric that would hold individuals together is vanishing?” He blames economic individualism in partnership with religious individualism as the culprit for destroying much of our sense of community. He said these words at the 1998 Unitarian Universalist General Assembly. He knew his audience. Our Unitarian ancestors in the 19th century put great emphasis on the individual religious experience and the individual’s use of reason to interpret those experiences. This emphasis on the individual continues to strongly influence our movement.

Many people come into our congregations because they feel our communities support their own individual values. I know I did. Yet the choosing of a community to support my values still has a focus on the individual. Having a community support my values is comforting but are we challenged to grow as people? Does having our values supported help us find greater truth and meaning? This focus on the individual within our Unitarian tradition is similar to many other mainstream Christian religions in the U.S. This is why Robert Bellah places the Unitarian Universalist movement as part of the religious mainstream. This conclusion may be surprising to many of us, it certainly was for me. He acknowledges that our social justice work is in the dissenting tradition often against the dominant thoughts of the time.

While I really value Bellah’s critique regarding religious individualism in relation to our movement I think he is only dealing with half of our tradition, the Unitarians. Like many he seems to have forgotten about the Universalist side of the movement. You know that part of our name where people’s eyes start to glaze over when you tell them what religion you are – “I’m a Unitarian Universa-whatever.” I noticed that it is around the second or third syllable of Universalist where people stop pretending to be interested. I believe Universalism is an important part of our tradition because, while the thinking is still liberal, the center is not grounded in religious individualism. This can help provide a balance to the individual emphasis of Unitarian thinking. Opinions regarding the importance of our Universalist belief varies widely. Some leaders in our movement would dismiss it as irrelevant and answering a question no-one has been asking for over a hundred years. This does not sound very promising. Other leaders in our movement see Universalism as a vibrant path forward for our movement in the 21st century. At the risk of appearing completely spineless on the matter, I agree with both perspectives. Let me try to explain.

Regarding why Universalism is answering a question that no-one has been asking for 100 years we actually have to go back 200 years. In the late 18th/early 19th century the dominant Christian view was that due to sin then all people were destined to hell in the afterlife and only because of the death of Jesus would a small elect few be saved and go to heaven. This is a difficult perspective for many of us to accept today but this thinking was the dominant religious view in the U.S. at the time. Universalism disagreed with this view and asserted that all people would be saved and no-one would suffer endless punishment in hell.

This idea is known as Universal Salvation. Hosea Ballou was one of the most profound thinkers and leaders of Universalism in the 19th century and is quite a character. He was from a farming background, had little formal education and is described as “rustic” in both dress and diction. I suspect “rustic” was not a compliment. In his early days Ballou was a circuit riding preacher who had no church of his own but rode around preaching in small towns and often debating other preachers. Ballou’s character, thinking and evangelism really defined the Universalist movement of the 19th century.

There is a story that shows the type of character Ballou was and his – shall we call them – persuasive tactics. He was riding the circuit when he stopped for the night at a New England farmhouse. The farmer was upset and confided to Ballou that his son was a terror who got drunk in the village every night causing lots of trouble. The farmer was afraid the son would go to hell. “All right,” said Ballou with a serious face. “We’ll find a place on the path where your son will be coming home drunk, and we’ll build a big fire, and when he comes home, we’ll grab him and throw him into it.” Remember this is one of the most influential thinkers in our history. The farmer was shocked: “That’s my son and I love him!” Ballou said, “If you, a human and imperfect father, love your son so much that you wouldn’t throw him in the fire, then how can you possibly believe that God, the perfect father, would do so!” I think Ballou would be a fun person to have over for dinner. Just don’t get close to the fire.

Ballou’s basic premise for Universal Salvation was that our human failings were finite therefore it is unjust for an infinite, all-powerful God to condemn us to eternal punishment. He actually holds God to a moral standard. He no longer views God as a punisher of human failings and believes people are trying to be in relationship with a loving God. For Ballou, God was about love not punishment. This salvation of all people was a radical idea because it destroyed the idea of only a few people being saved from God’s punishment and has a profoundly egalitarian emphasis. This gave all humanity a common destiny as opposed to the separation of a small elect to heaven and a majority damned to misery in hell. We all had equal worth in the eyes of God, not divided into the damned and the saved but one group: “The Beloved of God.”

To religious liberals like ourselves the notions of heaven and hell seem like obscure remnants from the past and have no significance for us today. Who cares about heaven and hell when we have the uncertainty and problems of this world to deal with? A reasonable question hence the earlier opinion that Universalism is answering a question that no one has been asking for 100 years. Certainly most religious liberals stopped asking that question over 100 years ago. Ballou’s insistence on a supernatural, otherworldly salvation is not the important part of Universalism for me but the consequences of his answer seem important and revolutionary.

For our religious ancestors notions of heaven and hell were part of their framework for making meaning in their lives and deaths. Through this framework the Universalists found a common human destiny therefore a belief in equality for all people. This message had great appeal especially to the less wealthy and less powerful. In the strict hierarchy of 19th century society, I would imagine that the religious elect were often seen as the elite in society. The Universalist message had a strong appeal to the non-elite, who flocked to the Universalist movement making it the six largest denomination in the country by 1840 with about 700,000 members. For comparison, today Unitarian Universalism has about 200,000 members.

The message of radical equality of all people gave the Universalist movement a strong religious motivation for social justice work in the 19th century. Universalists were at the forefront of movements to abolish slavery, promote equality of women, establishing public education, and working to change prisons from places of punishment to places for reforming criminals. Humanitarian concerns were foremost amongst Universalists such as Clara Barton who was the founder of the American Red Cross. Universalist members were primarily in rural communities and relatively poor financially. They rarely saw a conflict of interest between their religious principles of caring for others and their economic self-interest. This is in contrast to the Unitarians, who were primarily wealthy and amongst the elite of society. Some Unitarians took a strong abolitionist stance against slavery but many Unitarians accepted slavery because much of their money was made as a result of it. Their economic self-interests conflicted with their religious principles and guess which lost? While the 19th century Universalist movement was still Christian their uniqueness was the love for all humanity at the center of their beliefs. This was not an individualistic religion which put humanity at the center of religion, they put love of humanity at the center. An important difference.

While Ballou’s religious ideas had a profound impact on Universalism in the 19th century his personality also left an indelible mark on the character of the Universalist movement. While he often disagreed with others, he also tolerated a range of opinions. There is a wonderful example of this when Ballou was preaching at a church of another prominent Universalist leader. The wife of the church’s regular minister so strongly disagreed with Ballou’s sermon that she sent a message to the choir master expressing her displeasure. Ballou finished his sermon and was about to announce the hymn, the choir master arose and announced to the congregation: “I wish to give notice that the doctrine which has been preached here this afternoon is not the doctrine that is usually preached in this house.” Ballou listened attentively to the announcement and then said simply, “The audience will please to take notice of what our brother has said.” He then proceeded to the hymn.

So if any of you are unhappy with this sermon then please just let Brent our musical director know and he’ll announce it when I’m finished. I do not guarantee such a dignified response as Ballou’s. I feel this story is very telling about Ballou’s character. He was opinionated but he created a tolerance for differing opinions that influences our movement to this day. He exemplifies the phrase “We do not need to think alike to love alike.” Religion was about high ideals and not his own ego. He engaged in his own responsible search for truth in his Universalist community and I believe our movement is the better for it.

Universalism had a strong sense of human solidarity – people sharing a common purpose and responsibility. Solidarity is not a word you hear in religion very much but it is a good word. There seems to be a greater intimacy about being in solidarity with another rather than just supporting them. Solidarity has a sense of working together for the common good. Support has a sense that you are doing something as an individual that others agree with but are not engaged with themselves. For example, when you are in jail – for some non-violent protest of course – and someone comes to visit you, that is support. Solidarity is when the person is in jail with you. Perhaps this is not the best example of a common destiny.

A relationship of solidarity means a passionate and intimate concern for the welfare of another. Think in our own lives – which relationships do you have with others would you describe as relationships of solidarity? Which are relationships of support? Where do we as a religious community take a stand of solidarity with others? Our work on marriage equality? Our anti-racist work that is done in many of our congregations? These are important questions to consider.

The deep-rooted concern for others in Universalism comes from the sense of a universal love of others. I believe Universalism with its concern for others is a powerful corrective to the religious individualism of which we are often accused. Some people within the Unitarian Universalist movement say that Universalism leads with the heart and Unitarianism leads with the mind. I see this tension between the passion of our hearts and the reasoning of our minds as healthy. The passion of the heart can help us reach beyond our own self-interest and emotional detachment to engage passionately for the welfare of others. Reason can prevent our passion from being misplaced, naive, or ineffective. We should not see the choice of our Universalist or Unitarian heritages, as an either-or choice. We can and do engage both traditions – our hearts and our minds.

What brought the Unitarian and Universalist movements together were the causes we cared about, not shared religious doctrines. On many social justice issues the Unitarians and the Universalists found ourselves working together, on issues such as civil rights, public education, and women’s suffrage. It was our actions not our beliefs that brought us together. Robert Bellah acknowledges that it is in our social justice work where we have been dissenting from mainstream religion. As I look today the only area I see us showing religious leadership on social issues is on marriage equality for gays and lesbians. We do not seem be showing leadership in other areas such as environmental concerns, health care, economic justice, and immigrant rights. We are doing work in these areas but I do not believe we have a leadership role in them. I am not sure we even work in partnership with other religious denominations which are showing leadership in these areas. We are a small religion therefore working with others even those we disagree with on some issues, makes sense on many issues. Do we as a religious movement, play well with others? I wonder if our individualism has been institutionalized even in our social justice work. I am reminded of Denise Levertov’s earlier words “We have only begun to know, the power that is in us if we would join our solitudes in the communion of struggle.”

The common thrust of both the Unitarian and Universalist movements was in the changes they wished to see in society. For the Universalists, this work was driven by a radical view of human equality and the faith in a loving presence for all people in the universe which they call God. The idea that a loving presence cares for us, all of us, helps many to get through times of uncertainty. Sometimes that loving presence is family, other times a friend, often it is a religious community, and sometimes a presence that one can’t explain. Universalism placed that loving presence and love of humanity at the center of their theology. That was an act of faith and hope. It is also a challenge to us.

Can we rise up to that challenge by loving others, not just those who are easy to love, but also those where it is difficult? Loving those who disagree with us and loving those who show us no love in return. That is the Universalist notion of love so challenging. Perhaps to guide us we need to remember Francis David’s famous statement “We need not think alike, to love alike.” If we believe that and embrace its meaning then we might be able to care for each other a little better today than we did yesterday – and care for each other a little better tomorrow than we did today. This might be transformational for us, our religion, and even our world.

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The full speech can be found at http://www.robertbellah.com/lectures_7.htm

Bellah, Robert N. Unitarian Universalism in Societal Perspective Lecture given at the UUA General Assembly on June 27, 1998 http://www.robertbellah.com/lectures_7.htm (accessed September 30th, 2008)

Reich, David and Stowell, Linda. Of Sand Bars and Circuit Riders http://www.uuworld.org/ideas/articles/2745.shtml (accessed September 30th, 2008)

Bumbaugh, David E. Unitarian Universalism: a narrative history (Chicago, Il: Meadville Lombard Press, 2000) p.161

Sewell, Marilyn ed. Cries of the Spirit (Boston, Ma: Beacon Press, 1991) p.182

2008 Sermon Index

 

Sermon Topic Author Date
Time to change again Brian Ferguson 12-28-08
Can Christmas have meaning for us? Brian Ferguson 12-21-08
Now what? Rev. Susan Smith 12-14-08
Is courage ever enough? Davidson Loehr 12-07-08
Religion and Economics Brian Ferguson 11-30-08
Harvesting Thanksgiving Davidson Loehr & Brian Ferguson 11-23-08
The transcient and the permanent in religion Davidson Loehr 11-16-08
The Audicity of Hope Davidson Loehr 11-09-08
What the dead can tell us about coming alive Brian Ferguson 11-02-08
How you should vote Davidson Loehr 10-26-08
The holy heretical spirit Davidson Loehr 10-19-08
Atonement Davidson Loehr 10-12-08
Universalism is dead: Long live Universalism? Brian Ferguson 10-05-08
What Do You People Believe, Anyway? Davidson Loehr 09-28-08
Unitarian Christianity Davidson Loehr 09-21-08
Stereotypes Brian Ferguson 09-14-08
Covenants Davidson Loehr 09-07-08
To come alive Davidson Loehr 08-31-08
To love alike Aaron White 08-17-08
Something, Anything More Aaron White 08-10-08
Doubt is not our product Aaron White 08-03-08
The Sometimes Strange Science of Us Jim Checkley 07-27-08
Responsibility and “Easy Religion” Aaron White 07-20-08
Honest Religion: One More Honest Adult Aaron White 07-13-08
A Prophet’s Authority Aaron White 07-06-08
Should I? Emily Tietz 06-29-08
Life Passed Through the Fire of Thought Aaron White 06-22-08
Brokenness Davidson Loehr 06-15-08
Annual Youth Sermon FUUCA Youth 06-08-08
Can Evangelicalism be (Gasp!) Dying? Davidson Loehr 06-01-08
Understanding Evangelical Christianity Eric Hepburn 05-25-08
Life as a Work of Art Davidson Loehr 05-18-08
Forgiveness Davidson Loehr 05-11-08
The Rapture in America Rev. Meg Barnhouse 05-04-08
Salvation Davidson Loehr 04-27-08
The Ancient Roots of the Liberal Spirit Davidson Loehr 04-26-08
What the world needs from Liberal Religion Rev. David E. Bumbaugh 04-26-08
Who Are We? Davidson Loehr 04-25-08
Churches With Souls Michael Durall 04-20-08
The Most Dangerous Fundamentalism in the World, Part 5 Davidson Loehr 04-13-08
The Most Dangerous Fundamentalism on Earth, Part 4 Davidson Loehr 04-06-08
Learning to Die Nathan L. Stone 03-30-08
The Most Dangerous Fundamentalism on Earth, Part 3 Davidson Loehr 03-23-08
Living by Covenants Rev. Eric Posa 03-16-08
The Most Dangerous Fundamentalism on Earth, Part 2 Davidson Loehr 03-09-08
The Most Dangerous Fundamentalism on Earth, Part 1 Davidson Loehr 03-02-08
A Theological Argument for Abortion Davidson Loehr 02-24-08
On becoming more awake Patti Henry 02-17-08
The Parable of the Vineyard Workers Davidson Loehr 02-10-08
The Kingdom of God is Like… Davidson Loehr 02-03-08
Best Kept Secrets Aaron White 01-27-08
On Feeding the Hungry Ghosts Rev. Diana Heath 01-20-08
Thank God for Evolution! Rev. Michael Dowd 01-13-08
Graceful Stories Davidson Loehr 01-06-08

What Do You People Believe, Anyway?

Davidson Loehr

28 September 2008

PRAYER:

Let us be pulled into spiritual paths that leave us with a good aftertaste. There is so much religious advice around telling us how we had better get in line with this or that set of beliefs being hawked by churches and preachers who sometimes just feel too slick or mean. But their certainty is too simple, doesn?t have a good smell to it and leaves a bad aftertaste.

Let us instead be lured into paths of loving others as we love ourselves, and loving ourselves as children of God, the sons and daughters of Life?s longing for itself, stewards of only the highest ideals. Such spiritual paths are very simple, but they have an aroma and an aftertaste that is still pleasing even years later.

So much in life can be identified by the lasting taste, smell and feel it leaves with us. Let us learn to be drawn to the places that smell good – that smell like ambrosia, or the subtle scent of those angels of our better nature.

Amen.

READING:

The Friar Bernard lamented in his cell on Mount Cenis the crimes of mankind, and rising one morning before day from his bed of moss and dry leaves, he gnawed his roots and berries, drank of the spring, and set forth to go to Rome to reform the corruption of mankind. On his way he encountered many travellers who greeted him courteously; and the cabins of the peasants and the castles of the lords supplied his few wants. When he came at last to Rome, his piety and good will easily introduced him to many families of the rich, and on the first day he saw and talked with gentle mothers with their babes at their breasts, who told him how much love they bore their children, and how they were perplexed in their daily walk lest they should fail in their duty to them. “What!” he said, “and this on rich embroidered carpets, on marble floors, with cunning sculpture, and carved wood, and rich pictures, and piles of books about you?” “Look at our pictures, and books,? they said, “and we will tell you, good Father, how we spent the last evening. These are stories of godly children and holy families and romantic sacrifices made in old or in recent times by great and not mean persons; and last evening, our family was collected, and our husbands and brothers discoursed sadly on what we could save and give in the hard times.” Then came in the men, and they said, “What cheer, brother? Does thy convent want gifts?” Then the Friar Bernard went home swiftly with other thoughts than he brought, saying, “This way of life is wrong, yet these Romans, whom I prayed God to destroy, are lovers, they are lovers; what can I do?” (Emerson, “The Conservative,” in The Oxford Book of Essays, p. 181)

SERMON: What Do You People Believe, Anyway?

Every religious liberal has heard some version of this question from their family or friends. It?s hard to answer questions of belief in ways that are both honest and interesting. Maybe all I can do here is let you hear how I grapple with this, hoping it might help you grapple with it too.

One way of getting into the complexities of belief today is through understanding the complexities of families today. For a couple decades at least, we’ve been used to the phrase “His, hers and ours” to describe what we learned to call “blended families.” Other siblings, parents or other relatives often become at least temporary parts of our families too, as with the family who lit our candles this morning, and as with some of your families.

And what is true of our blended families is also true of the blend of beliefs we each have. Honest religious belief can never again be the simplistic kind of white-bread thing we thought it was fifty years ago.

The things we cling to today are blended families of beliefs, borrowing from all over the world map.

In old-time religion, it might have seemed enough to recite a creed cobbled together many centuries earlier by people living in a very different world, as though that could do more than make us uncritical members of a very old club with no necessary wisdom for the modern world.

Now the lights from which we find enlightenment come in many different sizes, shapes and genders, like the lights upon our altar. Men, women, children, experiences we never expected to change our life, but did. Wisdom we’ve read in self-help books, business books, snippets of Buddhist or Christian or philosophical thought, lines from movies or songs, readings from astrology, things we heard on Oprah, comments from family, friends, therapists or preachers that stick with us – all these things are blended together into our traveling carnival family of practical wisdom, using this bit today, another tomorrow, seldom noticing that this bit and that bit may even contradict each other.

We’ve been trained to think that religion is primarily about what we believe, but defining ourselves by beliefs really doesn’t work well today.

In this more complex world of spirituality, orthodoxy is always too small for real life. It creates too many theological fights, some of them deadly, that amount to a church or preacher restricting God and life to the limits of their tastes and biases, exalting a creed written centuries ago, and sometimes getting hateful toward those in the church across the street, who don’t share the beliefs.

To exalt beliefs is to give way too much credit to theologians! I’m a theologian – I got my Ph.D. in theology – and I can tell you as an insider that you don’t want to invest too much in the spoutings of theologians. You might think that there must be some secret knowledge that theologians learn, that gives them a special kind of authority not available to normal people. But I spent seven years in graduate school, and if there had been that kind of secret knowledge, I would have found it. The truth is, theologians have no secret knowledge about life, because their courses aren’t about life. Theologians are academics, and their courses are restricted to thinking about life from the perspective of their religion. But wisdom comes from living through life experiences and being able to reflect on them in ways that shed light – and that’s not what theologians do.

Here’s an analogy. Talking to a theologian is like talking to a Buick salesman. He can tell you a lot about Buicks, but don’t trust him to tell you what the best car is, because he may not know much more about that than you do. And don’t trust him to tell you whether you need a Buick, some other kind of car, or no car at all, because he has a conflict of interest. The same is true with theologians. They can tell you about their personal religion, but not whether you need it, or whether it’s better for you than other religions or no religion. They also have a conflict of interest.

So as a theologian, I want to tell you not to worry too much about gods you can’t see, and don’t trust theologians trying to tell you about those invisible gods they can’t see either. If we live like that Roman family in the reading, we’ll have a pretty sweet-smelling religion and life.

Orthodoxies and polished belief statements are mostly like advertising brochures that often have very little to do with the lives led by the believers.

Think of the Roman family in that reading by Ralph Waldo Emerson. They were completely outside the acceptable boundaries of belief that Friar Bernard had learned, so he prayed for his God to destroy these Romans. Now that alone is incredible, disgusting, and not terribly surprising. His beliefs were making him small and dangerous, in a world that went way beyond them, the way the world usually goes way beyond the boundaries of beliefs. He was just one priest, so he didn’t have much power. But if he’d had much power, he could have been very dangerous. As we heard his disgust beginning to unfold for this generous family, he was starting to smell bad. But then his humanity trumped his theology, he realized these were cultured and caring people – lovers, even! – and his comfortable little world of beliefs was thrown out of order.

His beliefs no longer seemed so valid, because life had trumped belief. That’s how it should work. Life should always be able to trump beliefs. The Romans had a saying that we should behave as though all the truly decent people who had ever lived were watching us, and then do only what we could proudly do in front of that audience. And in this story they certainly behaved that way. Their beliefs served them and others because their religion wasn’t about beliefs – it was about behavior. If Friar Bernard’s god was watching him as the Romans believed their gods were watching them, he would have been pleased at Friar Bernard’s final frustrated wail, but not at his early arrogance of wanting those whose beliefs were outside his understanding to be destroyed.

So what do we believe, anyway? Usually when we are asked what we believe, we try to think of some polished belief statements somebody taught us, because they sound more impressive than something we could just make up. If we just make up our own words for what we believe, it seldom sounds very dramatic.

When conservatives do it, we liberals often love to pick them apart. It’s one of our favorite sports.

Someone says, “I believe in this God who created the whole universe and who loves little old me!” That’s dramatic, but pretty easy to pick apart. We can’t even imagine how vast the universe is. Billions of galaxies. We probably can’t even imagine what a billion would look like. And three thousand years ago, when the god of the Bible was first exalted by a small tribe of Hebrew people in the Middle East, they thought the whole universe was smaller than the state of Texas. I think some Texans still do.

So it’s easy fun, showing that the most dramatic conservative beliefs fall apart at second glance. On the other hand, if we try to use our own words, or slogans we hear in our highly evolved liberal groups to define ourselves by beliefs, it can get just as arrogant, and may not be very truthful. If we say we believe in deeds not creeds – what deeds can we point to that we’ve actually done, that aren’t really kind of ho-hum in the grand scheme of things?

If we say we celebrate freedom of belief – and we love the sound of that one! – how many examples can we think of involving our children, family or partner choosing beliefs that contradict ours, and actually celebrating that rather than just tolerating it? If we say we believe in fighting for justice, what examples can we think of that we’ve done that don’t just sound trivial – and justice, not just the biases of generic social or political liberals?

The trouble with using polished and rehearsed little bromides is that they will usually sound more impressive than our lives look. And religion isn’t about putting on a pious front or trying to impress anyone with our purity and righteousness. That doesnt really fool anybody, and it has a bad aroma.

When I hold myself against the highest ideals, I have to admit that I don’t look very good. I’m not out there saving the world. I don’t give a lot of time or money to really noble causes, I haven’t risked my life like soldiers have, at least not since I was a soldier many years ago. I haven’t sold everything I own and given it to the poor as Jesus asked. I can resonate with platitudes like “As long as one person isn’t free, no one is free.” They feel stirring, but I can’t think of anything I’m really doing to walk that talk that costs me much – and when I actually think about it, I don’t even agree with the statement.

You can say things like “I believe in Reason, Science, Justice, Truth, Goodness, America, Mom and apple pie,” and that sounds pretty darned swell. But how much of this has been evident in the way you lived your life during the last couple weeks?

And it gets worse. When we do something really charitable, we usually want credit for it. So then were our motives altruistic, or mostly self-centered? Jesus said to give in secret, not to let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, and we probably all admire that degree of humility, but we seldom have it. We hope somebody notices what we’ve done, and are not above finding some sneaky way to tell them. Now maybe I’m the only one here who’s like this, but I don’t think so.

I think there may be a lot of people here who feel that it’s about all you can do to do your work, try your best to raise your children well, and have more than a few minutes a day for quality time with your partner while keeping in touch with the people you love. You might like high-sounding rhetoric, like hearing good sermons that lift up really noble aspirations, and somewhere in both your head and heart you really mean all this as much as you know how to mean anything. But your life doesn’t look like the picture of the perfect life from a spiritual advertising brochure any more than the lives of religious conservatives do.

So maybe the question is, how do you express yourself in an authentic way?

One answer is to define ourselves not by beliefs but by behaviors, and to try and act like all the most decent people in the world were watching us.

There’s a big difference between identifying ourselves with beliefs and identifying ourselves by our behaviors. The history of religions has plenty of both, and almost all the really bad ones were those who exalted rigid beliefs above decent behavior toward those who didn’t share their beliefs, as Friar Bernard did at first.

I’ll just pick two famous examples from history, from two different religions. John Calvin was the 16th century theologian who preached the gospel of original sin and human depravity, and taught it to tens of millions of Christians who followed his Calvinist theology. It’s a horrid doctrine and terrible theology, but if anything, he was a living example of moral depravity in some of his behavior. When a brilliant and impertinent Spanish physician named Michael Servetus – this was the physician who first discovered the circulation of blood – wrote an essay on the errors of the Trinity, and sent a copy to Calvin, Calvin seethed. When Servetus then had the nerve – and bad judgment – to show up one Sunday in Calvin’s church in Geneva, Calvin had him arrested, and burned alive. Worse than that, Calvin instructed the executioners to tie Servetus in a chair, lower him into the flames, then raise him up, lower him again, so in all it took half an hour before Servetus died.

And the Ayatollah Khomeini, among other hateful acts, ordered the murder of the novelist Salman Rushdie because one of Rushdie’s novels made fun of a fundamentalist Islamic belief. These were both powerful and charismatic men, regarded by their followers as God’s agents – though not, I think, regarded so by any God worthy of the name. But their behavior put the lie to their professed beliefs, and left a terrible stench in the annals of history. There was nothing of God about either of them in these actions. Genuine gods don’t care whether people buy the stories of this or that church or charismatic preacher. They care whether you are coming more alive, finding the kind of truth that makes you more whole, how you treat others, whether you’re a blessing or a curse to the world.

The goal is authenticity, not orthodoxy. And orthodoxies often offer little more than an anesthetic for those who are afraid or unsure how to be authentic.

It’s worth believing not in slick-sounding creeds but in a sweet-smelling life. And the clues to this are all around us:

1. They’re in that Roman story. The priest defined himself by beliefs and we all knew he was too small. The Romans never even mentioned beliefs, and even in the story they smelled sweet.

2. A bigger clue, and better news, is the fact that we all knew that. We could all tell the difference between the feel and the smell of Friar Bernard’s smallness and the largesse of the Roman family as soon as we heard the story.

3. And the best news is that we act on it, and act on it naturally, easily, and often. We just ordained Jack Harris-Bonham here this morning. We didn’t do it because of his beliefs. I’m not sure what they all are, and I don’t much care. We did it because he was here for two years, as an intern then as the contract minister during my sabbatical, and we came to know his heart and mind through his actions toward others. And like the Roman family, we knew this was a decent person and a blessing to the world, whatever beliefs get him there.

So what can we say about honest religion that might be useful? One thing is that there is no secret knowledge: nothing that is necessary to us is really hidden. We can hear stories like the reading by Emerson, awful stories of arrogant men like John Calvin and the Ayatollah Khomeini, we can delight in recognizing the promise of someone like Jack Harris-Bonham and ordain him to whatever kinds of ministry his heart and the whims of the world may lead him to, and we have already shown that we have almost all the spiritual knowledge we need to be saved, and to help heal the world around us. We know the difference between the stench of bad faith inflicted on ourselves and others, and the sweet smell of a life lived pretty fully and well here and now, among one another.

Religious instruction is important, to help train the moral sense that is already a part of us. But by the time we’re in our teens or earlier, the question of what’s really worth believing and how we should behave toward one another can be distilled into one very simple piece of advice: just follow your nose.

Unitarian Christianity

Davidson Loehr

21 September 2008

PRAYER:

When people or experiences become doorways or windows, let us learn to look through them.

When someone or something in life opens us to the possibility of a life with more understanding, compassion or wholeness, let us gather our courage and step through that opening, from a world of the habitual into a world of the possible.

When we feel the pull of authenticity, let us bend toward it, that it may draw us into lives of greater integrity, love and joy.

Life is a series of pushes and pulls, too many trying to push us toward selling out, settling for too little from ourselves, pushing us toward the dissipation of our spirits.

But not all of life is against us. If we live among angels and demons, and have been frightened by the demons, let us remember there are angels as well: messengers from Life, from places of trust and empowerment, from a healing kind of truth and hope.

Those angels. Let us walk with those angels, in whatever guise they appear. Sometimes they even appear among those who love us. We hunger for messages of wholeness and hope. Let us listen for them, answer them, and be prepared to be transformed.

Amen.

SERMON: Unitarian Christianity

I want to spend some time this fall making us more aware of the rich history of honest religion. By “honest religion” I mean a religion that is open to all critical questions and doubts, and whose truths must be grounded in life itself, not merely the dogmas and ideologies of this or that church or cult. Last month, I talked about that spirit in the story of Gilgamesh, which is the world’s oldest story, going back 4700 years. Today I want to jump 4500 years and talk about Rev. William Ellery Channing. Most of you may never have heard of him, but he was the man most responsible for making Unitarianism into a separate American faith, nearly two hundred years ago. He did it through a very influential sermon delivered in 1819 called “Unitarian Christianity.” It’s ironic that the seeds he planted were neither Unitarian nor Christian, and would eat away at the foundation of theism and Biblical religions.

It’s a little tricky when we look back to an outstanding person who happens to have some connection with a label we also claim. Is it just mindless hero-worship? Worse, is it a kind of slobbering narcissism? “Well, they were spectacular and Unitarian. And I’m a Unitarian, so I must also be spectacular!”? That’s kind of like wearing a Longhorns t-shirt and thinking we must therefore be a nationally-ranked athlete. I have a Longhorns t-shirt that I wear to the gym, but I’m a rank athlete, not a ranked one. It’s a big difference.

Another approach to history’s gifted thinkers is to say, “Here was someone faced with the same kinds of life questions that face me, who found a way to look beyond the habits of their time, and respond to them by tapping into something timeless and life-giving. I want that too; maybe I can learn something here!” That’s what I want to do this morning.

So I want to start by backing off and describing what the spirit of honest religion is about, so we can see this William Ellery Channing fellow in the right context, so we can see how any of this might be useful in our own search for honest religion. Some historians have said it’s too bad that American Unitarianism was ever called Unitarian because it’s the wrong name – and I agree with them. “Unitarian” was the insult name assigned it by those who hated it two hundred years ago. But it was never about how many gods we should count. It was about a style of seeking honest religion, and it was the same style that has been there in all times and places, whenever the spirit of honest religion appears.

There are many ways to put this primal spirit of honest religion. One is that it is about coming alive, seeking the truth and healing our world. Another is summed up in ten magnificent words from the Christian scriptures: “Examine everything carefully, hold fast to that which is good.” (I Thessalonians 5:21, NASB). Those ten words are also a pretty good summary of the scientific method, and of how we all try to make sense of things in our lives. We all try to examine everything carefully, holding fast only to what looks good, don’t we? We could say it’s just about waking up, as the Buddhists do: that we are mostly trapped within illusions we create through our odd ways of putting things, and there is a freedom in facing ourselves and our world as we really are, and finding the kind of real-world happiness that is there only for those awake enough to see it.

In every flowering of the spirit of honest religion, there is a kind of trinity that underlies their faith. And that trinity is there in the Unitarianism of William Ellery Channing as well, which is another reason it’s too bad what he was doing was called Unitarian. This trinity isn’t about gods, and it can’t be fit inside of Christianity or any other religion. It’s much bigger. It’s the enduring method of doing honest religion, a kind of three-legged stool on which the business of trying to take ourselves and life seriously always stands.

1. The first leg is grounded in our experience here and now. Religion has to relate to you and your actual life, or it can’t be your religion. And we’re seldom served very well by living someone else’s religion. Religion isn’t top-down. We don’t learn the truths we need from someone with a loud voice and a lot of arrogance. We learn it from the inside out. Our inside out.

2. The second part of honest religion’s trinity is that our reason and intuition are to be trusted, and no religious teaching should ever be accepted if it doesn’t make sense to us. There is a kind of mysticism about this, because we believe that the reality inside our hearts and minds can be trusted to have something to do with the reality outside of us. When you think about it, if that weren’t true, all our knowledge would be useless in the real world.

3. The third leg of this method is the belief that we need to find a center, a focus, that we believe can guide us toward living more wisely and well, because this is about the quality of our life. We want a way to live that will let us look in the mirror in five or fifty years and be able at least to say, “You know, if I only get one shot at this, I’m glad I lived the way I did.” If you can say that, you have won. It can take many forms, this center. It can be gods and saviors, rituals and civic duties, relationships, the psychological experience of conversion, or just waking up, as the Buddhists say. But we will worship something, and we will tend to take the shape of what we worship, so what we put at the center of our lives is most important.

The timeless quality of this spirit of honest religion is what’s behind the experience of so many visitors to churches like this. People will come for the first time and say, “My God, I’m home! This is what I was before I knew it existed. It’s what I’ve been looking for all my life. I didn’t know churches like this existed! My head and heart are at home here.” That powerful thing you’re relating to is not Unitarian Universalism, which was only turned into a religion during the 1980s – and what a sad mistake that was! It is also not Unitarianism (which is less than 200 years old in the U.S., and less than 500 years old in any form). It is not Christianity or even theism, but something far deeper and older: something primal. It’s that primal power, that primal and honest connection between ourselves and the world around us that life-giving religion is about.

Now I don’t want to get too spiritually precious about this, because you can find this spirit lots of places besides religion – there are plenty of people who’ll say you’re only likely to find it places other than religion. It comes from our yearnings, just as our gods and religions do.

I just finished reading a trilogy called His Dark Materials by Philip Pullman, the British writer who wrote these teen fantasies for an audience of young people from maybe age 12-18 or so. When the first volume, “The Golden Compass,” was made into a high-budget movie last year, I read about some evangelical groups protesting because he was an atheist. At the time, I thought, “Oh, evangelical groups are always saying things like that!” But after reading the books, I think they grossly understated the power of his assault on religion. It is subtle, brilliant, deep and complete. I think the books can plant seeds of healthy skepticism about religion in many of the young people who read them – in older people, too. It’s an attack on authoritarian religion in the name of our deep human need to seek the kind of truth that makes us come more alive and become more whole.

Now this garden of the spirit of life is the garden from which the spirit of William Ellery Channing grew. His vision was not as deep or broad or ambitious as that of Philip Pullman, who had the advantage of writing a century and a half later. And Channing was no revolutionary; he disliked controversy, though he was drawn into much of it through his writing and preaching. But Channing was brilliant. He graduated from Harvard at the top of his class at age 18, in 1798. In the early 1800s, he was regarded as the best preacher in America, and was one of the people interviewed by Alexis de Tocqueville for his classic work on Democracy in America.

Channing was not a pioneer. He followed several generations of American Congregationalist preachers who taught that Jesus was just a human, that we all had a “likeness to God,” and that the creeds and rigid beliefs of the churches distracted us from the deeper message that was concerned with changing our lives here and now.

And Channing, no less than the Christians, had a trinity. But his trinity was that trinity of honest religion in all times and places:

1. He had faith in our dignity rather than our damnation. That faith in our inherent goodness rather than a crippling sinfulness is at the heart of the impulse toward honest religion in all times and places.

2. He trusted Reason, and exalted it above scriptures and religious teachings. He said if we couldn’t trust reason, then we also couldn’t trust the reason of those who try to teach us what is true.

You can shatter the creeds and orthodoxies of every religion in the world just through these first two methods.

Here are some of his words on this, so you can get a feel for his style:

“It is always best to think first for ourselves on any subject, and then [to look] to others for the correction or improvement of our own sentiments. . . . The quantity of knowledge thus gained may be less, but the quality will be superior. Truth received on authority, or acquired without labor, makes but a feeble impression.”

“Our leading principle in interpreting Scripture is this, that the Bible is a book written for men, in the language of men, and that its meaning is to be sought in the same manner as that of other books.”

“And we therefore distrust every interpretation, which, after deliberate attention, seems repugnant to any established truth.”

He objected to the Christian trinity both because it was irrational and because it never appeared in the Bible. Like Jesus, he said, he worshiped only God.

He also found irrational and insulting the idea that Jesus came to save us from God’s wrath, or that his death would somehow change God’s mind. No, he said, Jesus didn’t come to change God’s mind – think what a juvenile concept of God that involves – Jesus came to change our minds.

He granted that reason can be used badly in religion as in all other areas, but asked people to look back through history and decide whether more harm has been done by trusting reason, or by forbidding it. The historical record is dramatic and clear on this point.

3. The third part of his trinity was God, but even here he meant something very different from orthodox Christians. Here are some of his words. You can hear that spirit of honest and timeless religious inquiry coming through, and that he’s talking about something much more primal than any god:

“We cannot bow before a being, however great and powerful, who governs tyrannically. We respect nothing but excellence, whether on earth or in heaven. We venerate not the loftiness of God’s throne, but the equity and goodness in which it is established.”

“By these remarks, we do not mean to deny the importance of God’s aid or Spirit; but by his Spirit, we mean a moral, illuminating, and persuasive influence, not physical, not compulsory?.”

Can you hear that these words take him completely beyond the God of the Bible? He’s talking about high ideals and noble moral qualities, and his ideal version of them is called, by habit and convention, “God.” That’s fundamentally different from “believing in God,” as you can feel.

He spoke of a “zeal for truth,” but didn’t think it showed up often enough in religion, and wrote that “On no subject have people injected so many strange conceits, wild theories, and fictions of fancy, as on religion.” The kind of truth he sought was what he called “purifying truth” that could make us more godlike.

He also said, “In my view, religion is another name for happiness, and I am most cheerful when I am most religious.” (Gary Dorrien, The Making of American Liberal Theology: Imagining Progressive Religion, 1805-1900 [Wesminister John Knox Press, 2001], p. 15) He is not speaking as a Unitarian or a liberal Christian here. He is speaking from a far deeper and more primal place, as you can feel.

Was Channing a Unitarian? That’s hard to answer. He called his sermon “Unitarian Christianity,” though what he really brought to his liberal Christians on that 5th of May in 1819 was a kind of Trojan Horse: a gift containing forces that would eventually destroy the foundations of Christianity, theism, and Biblical religion for many. His sermon contained ideas whose logical implications would lead beyond Unitarian Christianity, the Bible and theism. That’s the sermon that all students for the UU ministry are required to read. And he later wrote other pieces defending his Unitarian Christianity against the orthodox versions, saying it was more honest, and helped form better people. But what he meant was the method of honoring reason and experience, examing everything carefully, discarding what doesn’t hold up, and holding fast only to what is good. And then, when the American Unitarian Association first began in 1825, he would not join it, and never supported it. He thought people should seek to develop themselves within local churches, but that an organization like the Unitarian Association would probably just be an agent of unneeded mischief. He said there is “no moral worth in being swept away by a crowd, even towards the best objects.”

(http://www25.uua.org/uuhs/duub/articles/williamellerychanning.html) “An established church,” he said, “is the grave of intellect.” (Dorrien, p. 17)

When he used the word “God”, it meant excellence that made rational and moral sense – anyone must believe in that! To put it in his language, he believed we were created in the image of God, that God gave us reason and expected us to use it, and that any faith that denied this, or that could not stand up to the critiques of informed reason, was unworthy of us, and of God. In the language of our time, he was very close to what we would call religious humanism, as all varieties of liberal religion through the ages have been.

I’ve always identified with a lot about Channing, including his deep distrust and rejection of any national organization that was bound to become a kind of club, offering a kind of second-hand religion, as our modern UUA does. But I like him mostly because he was one of the people whose vision transcended the beliefs of his time and place, of the vast majority of his colleagues and parishioners, and caught a glimpse of the kind of honest religion that really does seem to be timeless.

The insights of honest religion transcend all the gods and religions. Not because we’re bigger than the gods, but because Life is, and it is Life’s longing for itself that comes alive in us and drives us to examine everything carefully and hold fast only to that which is good.

If you’ve never heard of this preacher from the early 19th century and wonder if you should be writing his name down in case there’s a test, don’t worry about it. You don’t have to care about William Ellery Channing. And while we’re at it, you don’t have to care about Jesus or the Buddha, either. Don’t let mean and arrogant preachers scare you: religion isn’t about the gods, the teachers or the preachers. The best of them are all windows opening us to visions of life so honest and big that they might beckon to us, might lure us into following them down a richer path. To use one metaphor, they are like rainbows, suggesting that if we could only follow them, there could be a pot of gold at their end. Or in another metaphor, they’re like recipes, saying if we can add our ingredients, figure out the missing instructions and imagine how to cook them up about right, they could help us make a better life. It shouldn’t be so hard. There are just the three known ingredients, at least they don’t change much. First, we must bring our life and our experiences, the happy ones, the proud ones, the raw ones, and those times we went off the road. All of them. They’re the stuff we need to wrap into our life. Then we need to trust our reason and intuition, how it sounds and feels, whether it feels like there’s a harmony of thought and action. And then the Center. What do we tune to? What will we serve? Where’s the focus around which we want to be in a kind of orbit; the kind of center that gives us a calling and an integrity that keep life from just becom-ing one damned thing after another?

We’re going to end here before it’s cooked, because finishing the recipe is our job in our own lives. And so we leave here, as we often do, half-baked. We leave carrying some of our parts in bags or buckets, still unassembled. But we kind of know how they should go, how they need to be put together to make a whole being, our whole being.

Wouldn’t it be nice to be that? A whole being? The essential parts put together with integrity and feeling, serving a Center of Life that gives us life, learning how to walk, to dance, maybe to sing?

That wild, enticing, nearly impossible-feeling task is what we’ve always been about in honest religion. There are no secrets, we have good materials to work with in ourselves, and it can be done, step by step by step. But it can’t be done in just one week. That’s why we meet like this, every Sunday.

Stereotypes

© Brian Ferguson

 September 14, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

Listen to the sermon by clicking the play button.

Prayer

I invite you to join me now into a time of prayer.

Spirit of this Community, in which we find strength and common purpose,

we turn our minds and hearts toward one another

seeking to bring into our circle of concern

all who need our love and support:

those who are ill,

those who are in pain, whether in body or in spirit,

those who are lonely,

those who have been wronged.

Our thoughts go to those living lives of hardship throughout our world, we think especially today of

Our neighbors on the Texas coast and the Caribbean Islands who have suffered due to the recent Hurricane.

May they all find the strength to rebuild their lives.

We think of all in our world who live with violence as part of their everyday lives:

we pray that they may find peace soon.

We are part of a web of life that makes us one with all humanity,

one with all the universe.

We are grateful for the miracle of consciousness which we share,

the consciousness that gives us the power to remember,

to forgive,

to change,

to cry,

to love,

to learn,

to hope,

to care,

to heal.

May we all find healing and hope at this time.

Amen

Sermon

Our invocation at the beginning of service states this is a time for questions more profound than answers. Good questions can help us expand our world view and give us insights into our human condition. Not so profound questions can also provide insights, usually into the condition of the questioner. A couple of years ago I was asked “Why was I born in Scotland?” I was confused by the question and after some thought I answered. “I was young at the time and I wanted to be close to my mother.” Maybe this is a good example of a question being more profound than the answer.

I found it strange to be asked about an attribute of mine over which I had no control. Having responsibility for our actions assumes we have some control over them. Not really the case with our own birth. Yet through the use of stereotypes we often make assumptions about others based on factors over which they have no control such as gender, region of origin, cultural background, race, or class. I think my questioner was trying to gain some understanding of my country of origin, an area with which he had no familiarity. I sympathize. I sometimes struggle to relate to people from different cultural backgrounds and fall back on stereotypes to relate to an individual.

One author says “One reason for stereotypes is the lack of personal, concrete familiarity that individuals have with persons in other racial or ethnic groups. Lack of familiarity encourages the lumping together of unknown individuals.” Stereotypes can be a useful but limiting way of relating to people different from us. Useful in allowing us to categorize and organize the many people we meet but limiting in the generalizations and projections we make onto those people. Generalizations become most problematic when we make judgments or form values based on them.

I sometimes feel that people are like icebergs – there is 10% above the water is what we really know of the person from our actual encounter with them. The other 90% of the person is hidden from us and we make up by projecting onto the person stereotypes from the group we feel they closest match or even just from people they remind us of. Stereotyping attempts to assume everyone within a particular group is similar because of one common attribute such as color of skin, primary language spoken, or financial well being. Such over-simplifications fail to capture the complexity of individuals and groups but stereotypes are not about the truth. They play into our conscious and unconscious prejudices, often simplifying what really are complex relationships and resulting in uninformed judgments of others. It is convenient for us to make decisions based on stereotypes because they help us generalize about groups we know little about.

Once we have a stereotype of a person or a group then we can find the examples that reinforce the stereotype and it can become our truth. This makes it hard for us to change our mind about someone or for us to recognize the changes others undertake in themselves. We resist letting facts get in the way of our opinions and we constrain others with a generalized image of them. Yet if we really seek the truth then we must be open to change our views. A great promise of Liberal Religion is the ability to change as our understanding widens and knowledge deepens. Our beliefs are open to change and the truth we seek is really just the best world view we have at the present time and will be enriched by the world as we experience it.

Stereotypes are created for a reason. I believe the purpose of many stereotypes is to justify the privileged status of an insider group based on some common attribute and stigmatize the outsider group as somehow responsible for their own lesser status. Those most marginalized in our society because of poverty, color of skin, gender, or sexuality are most likely to have their individuality and identity limited or distorted by a group identity. Stereotypes of marginalized groups arise to justify their lower status in society with the reason for their lower status somehow being that groups own fault. For example, the poor are poor because of laziness and desire not to work rather than other reasons such as prejudice, simple misfortune or an unfair economic system.

I remember getting a rude awakening to my own stereotyping of others while serving breakfast in a homeless shelter. I noticed a number of the men wearing work uniforms for some very well known companies. I was surprised by this. In closer observation of other men, I noticed they were grooming themselves and rushing out the shelter much like many of us do when late for work. Many of these homeless men had jobs. I realized that my stereotyping was that homelessness was synonymous with unemployment. For some, being homeless is synonymous with joblessness for many it is not. I wonder if the workmates of the working homeless know about the housing situation of their colleagues or is that part of the 90% of the iceberg that we do not know about others.

This type of disconnection or separation between people goes against what I see at the core of liberal religion. Liberal religion strives for greater inclusion and connection between all people while recognizing the contribution each individual life makes to the fabric of our religious community. Each individual life contributes a unique story and the difference between our own story and the stories of others helps us grow our understanding of the human condition in all its complexity. I believe that diversity of religious thought and a variety of life experience is a source of spiritual growth for us. We learn much more from our differences than our similarities yet our differences can also separate us from each other. This tension with difference both being the source of our growth and a source of separation is a struggle for us within liberal religion.

In the reading that Jim read earlier we heard the author Jesus Colon struggle with whether he should help the woman with the children. He knew the right thing to do, to help her, but was concerned about how it would be perceived for a black-skinned, Puerto Rican man to help a white woman. He was aware of the potential prejudices that the woman COULD have, prejudices based on the stereotypes of the day. Would she think he was being too familiar or threatening her? Would her children be frightened of him?

The author, Jesus Colon, chose not to help her and says “I failed myself. I buried my courtesy early on Memorial Day morning.” I believe he felt that through his own actions and human separation he lost an important part of his own humanity. There is such a broken human connection when one is fearful even of offering help, not asking for directions or asking for money or even just casual conversation – but to offer help to someone he perceived needed it. He resolves next time he will do what is right regardless of how it is perceived. Jesus’s experience occurred in the mid-1950s yet much of what he says still resonates with me today.

I know that I often second guess my own behavior because of how it will be perceived by people particularly people of a different gender, age, race, or cultural background. A childhood female friend of mine said to me many years ago “Brian you have to realize how intimidating you can be to people because of your height, of course you are only intimidating until you start talking.” I guess there will be no fire and brimstone sermons from this preacher – pity. I remember being quite shocked when she told me about how I could be intimidating and that self-awareness has stayed with me. That perception of myself does affect the way I interact with others.

I would imagine most of us here today can think of characteristics of ourselves that we are aware of when interacting with others. Some aspects become more dominant when we are dealing with those different from us – often gender, race, class, or power differentials between people can change how people perceive themselves and the other. I became most aware of how those from marginalized groups can perceive of themselves in stereotypical and limited ways by an experience I had at the San Francisco Unitarian Universalist church.

I met Nathan Cistone on his first day visiting our San Francisco church. I was the first person who spoke to him at the church and we talked for about a half hour. I must have been behaving myself (or very quiet), since Nathan came back and became very involved in our religious community. Nathan and I became close friends. He was bright, funny, and kind-hearted. Prior to knowing Nathan I had no friends who were transgender. Occasionally we would discuss his struggles as a person who is transgender and how he had become estranged from his parents four years previously as they struggled to accept Nathan’s desire for others to recognize him as a man.

Nathan found a welcoming home in our church and was popular with many. One day I approached him about becoming a worship associate which involved co-leading worship. He resisted asking “Do you think people would be okay having a transgender person leading worship, or do you have an ulterior motive and are asking me because I am transgender?” I understood his concern, and replied, “I’m asking you because I think you are bright and articulate but I do have an ulterior motive. I’m 41 years old and do not want to be the youngest worship associate here, so I want a 26 year-old like you.” Nathan’s hearty laughter quickly subsided into tears. I was confused and asked what was wrong. Still sobbing, he explained, “Nothing is wrong. That is what I love about this church, people see me as a whole person, sometimes I need to be reminded of my own complete humanity.” This was a revelation for me to see how one marginalized aspect of a person’s identity came to dominate their own view of themselves. We often need to be reminded by others of our own worthiness and wholeness as people regardless of some specific identity.

I think this was Jesus Colon’s struggle in the earlier story, he could not see past his identity as a black, Puerto Rican. This is understandable given the history of racism and persecution that blacks and Puerto Ricans have experienced in North America. This sensitivity to one’s own identity was probably a healthy self-preservation mechanism but as demonstrated in the story so limiting to human connection. My friend Nathan was fortunate in finding a community that could help remind him of his wholeness as a person and allow him to embrace his full humanity. Some of us here today I would imagine feel the same about this religious community in Austin.

The San Francisco Unitarian Universalist community was also blessed and transformed by Nathan’s humanity and this became all too sadly clear to me about six months after the conversation I just described. On September 28th 2004, at the age of 27, Nathan died in a car accident. This occurred about a week after he and his mother had re-established their relationship after several years of estrangement. The Sunday after Nathan’s death he was supposed to give a reflection at the worship service in the San Francisco church. The minister asked me and two other friends of Nathan’s to read his reflection during the service. There was a sense of disbelief amongst everyone present. Despite the solemnity of the occasion we could not suppress the optimism of his words. It was a difficult and profound experience. I left the service sad but uplifted by the community support and Nathan’s optimistic outlook despite the adversity he had faced in his life.

After the service I read the newspaper report of his death. I remember feeling my heart sink as the last sentence of the article said the coroner had identified Nathan as a woman. I was angry that even in death his desire to be who he wanted to be, who he believed he was, being denied. My relationship with and affection for Nathan was so strong that I was hurt by the denial of his identity. This shows me the transcendent power of a relationship where people can bring all aspects of their full humanity including their differences and uniqueness. This is transforming to all involved, both individuals and community. I know it was true for me, and I believe it was true for Nathan and many members of the San Francisco church.

I think this shows the great promise of liberal religion with its drive towards inclusiveness and not only acceptance but an embracing of various identities. At our best we enable all members of community to embrace their fuller humanity beyond restrictive stereotypes and prejudices common in the wider society. Our religious community benefits from the diverse range of experiences and identities people bring into our community. I know my relationship with Nathan forever changed my understanding of and compassion for people who are transgender or struggling with their own gender identity.

Historically both the Unitarian and Universalist movements have sought greater inclusion of people in all aspects of our movement. Women in many religious denominations have had a major role in lay leadership and that continues today but that is not true of ordained leadership. Universalist Olympia Brown was the first woman ordained into ministry in North America and this happened in 1863. In the late 19th century Unitarians had ordained twenty-three women. During much of the 20th century leadership in the Unitarian movement actively blocked and discouraged women from ordained ministry.

After the merger of the Unitarians and the Universalists only about 2% of our ministers were women as late as 1970. Reflecting the greater equality women have elsewhere in our society, today there are more women actively serving as Unitarian Universalist ministers than men. So if you want a stereotype of a Unitarian Universalist minister today is it would be woman not a man. I believe that the struggles women have had for equality can only enrich the ministries within our movement. While women ministers may be common in Unitarian Universalism we should not forget that many religious movements in the United States women are a small minority or not allowed in ordained ministry.

Another example of our Liberal religious drive for inclusion within the Unitarian Universalist movement has been the acceptance and support of gays and lesbians. This includes many openly gay ministers serving without controversy in contrast to other denominations. Yet I still feel there is work for us to do in this area. I was very surprised to read a recent survey conducted within a Unitarian Universalist church in the San Francisco Bay area where 25% of the congregation expressed concerns about potentially calling a gay minister. This situation gets further complicated when one considers the same congregation a year later called a gay minister with a 94% vote in favor.

In thinking about these two apparently contradicting facts I wonder if there was some stereotype of a gay minister at work here such that 25% of a congregation felt troubled by the idea. When a gay person was proposed as the minister for the church people were able to see the individual minister beyond a gay stereotype. While this can sound a hopeful example of transcending stereotypes I wonder if a different gay ministerial candidate could overcome the same prejudice. This suggests to me that we still have work to breakdown stereotypes since I can’t imagine 25% of a congregation saying they would be concerned about a heterosexual stereotype.

This shows the struggle we have with stereotypes. When a person comes from a group we are familiar with or we perceive as “more like us” then we see them more as an individual but I suspect we still project much of our own values onto them. When a person comes from a group we perceive to be different from ourselves then we are much more likely to stereotype an individual with properties of a group, properties that have nothing to do with the individual themselves. This can be a problem since most stereotypes are negative.

So how does liberal religion guide us to respond to the limited perspective demonstrated by stereotypes. I believe our striving for inclusion of people with differing beliefs and life experiences is fundamental to overcoming the prejudices created by stereotypes. One of the defining characteristics of Liberal Religion is that we are non-creedal, where we do not have to profess a shared belief to be part of this community. This allows an openness of religious and personal expression within our communities and creates a place where through honest and open interactions spiritual growth of individuals and our community can occur.

Our differences are our strength. Similarity leads to conformity – conformity of religious views, conformity of societal norms, conformity of a patriarchal culture, conformity of political orthodoxy, and conformity of what it means to human and fully alive. The difference that comes from a diversity of opinions, histories, cultural background, class, gender, and race leads us to wrestle with questions that are more profound than answers. A seeking that helps us to grow our soul a little each time we struggle to live to our highest ideals. In serving our highest ideals we seek to understand the struggles of those who are different from us.

In serving our highest ideals we seek to overcome our own biases and prejudices as we honestly encounter the individuality of people different from us. In serving our highest ideals we accept that we are capable of great service to others even as we are imperfect in our relationship them.

The encounter with difference is the great promise of our Liberal Religious community. Our honest, humble, and compassionate response to this encounter helps us to transcend the stereotypes of others and ourselves. In doing so we connect more fully with our own humanity and the humanity of others, this I believe is how best we can bless our world. I believe Jesus Colon connected with himself in the story we heard earlier when he promised to offer his help regardless how it would be perceived. I believe my friend Nathan connected with his own wholeness as a person when he realized others viewed him as more than a person who was transgender. I believe I am most complete and whole when I am serving others in the cause of higher ideals. I leave you with this question when do you feel most alive and whole as a person? When we live in our actions the answer to that question we are blessing and enriching our world.

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Wright, Conrad. A Stream of Light: A Short History of Unitarian Universalism (Boston, MA:UUA, 1989) p.100

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Covenants

© Davidson Loehr

 7 September 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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PRAYER:

We give thanks for life and truth, and are grateful when they find us. The kind of light that can heal comes in so many forms, from so many directions. It may be that the best way to live is with the kind of openness and trust that seems so much easier for children than for adults.

When the man Jesus pointed to small children and said we must be like them if we are to enter the kingdom of God, it was a deep truth that transcended even him, and was rooted in the deepest nature of life itself.

Let us not think that religion is about swooning to the sound of heavenly words or music. It’s about coming alive in a deep and fulfilling way. Living well is more than “the best revenge” – it’s also the best religion. And it’s what generates the heavenly music, not the other way around.

Let us give thanks when we are found by the kind of truth that can set us free and make us feel more whole.

And let us try to be vehicles of that kind of truth and healing for the parts of our world that touch our heads and hearts. Those in our larger world need us, just as we need them, for we really are all in this together. And for that too we give thanks. Amen.

SERMON: Covenants

“Covenant” is a weird word. In 22 years, I’ve never preached on it, seldom used it, and get suspicious of people who throw it around like it’s something of which all really cool people should have one.

So after deciding to bring it to you as a Sunday theme, I had to try and understand it well enough to know why I think it’s worth your time to hear about it in a sermon. For me, that meant trying to learn a wide variety of covenants, both from religion and from real life, because I think the more ways we can say something, the better the chances are that we actually know what we’re talking about.

So let me start with you the way I started with myself – by talking about a lot of different kinds of covenants, so the pattern and feel of what this weird word means might come alive from several different directions. It’s actually about something pretty important, and not at all confined to religion.

One of the classic statements is from the Bible, from the book of Joshua, where the writer says that you can serve any god you choose, then ends with the famous line, “But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.” (Joshua 24:15)

Another is the famous statement of Martin Luther’s, when he decided he had to serve a different definition and style of God than the Roman Catholic Church had served for almost 1500 years, when he said, “Here I stand. I can do no other. God help me. Amen.” As I said last week, this wasn’t long before he had to hide out for a year and a half because the Church wanted to kill him. But he was sustained in his hiding out by the new faith to which he had given himself heart, mind and soul.

Probably the most detailed and demanding example is in the religion of Islam. We are in their most sacred month, the month of Ramadan, when Muslims are expected to fast during the day for a whole month, as an exercise in spiritual purification. But in addition, there are four other Pillars of Islam, expected of all. They are required to profess their faith, do the ritual prayers that occur five times a day, pay a percentage of their income each year to benefit the poor – the poor can demand this! – and at some time in their life, make a pilgrimage to Mecca.

Those are all pretty dramatic. But the idea of being possessed by an idea or a cause that gives you life is not just something that happens in organized religions.

I’m a member of a local group of former military officers. It was started by a retired Air Force general I know, and most of the officers were Colonels or generals. I’m the token former Lieutenant, and the token minister. What I like most about it is the deep and powerful covenant these men made with the oath they took as officers, and how much that oath still empowers them. For the past few years, they have been mailing letters to the very highest level military commanders, some of whom they know personally, reminding them that this oath was to uphold the Constitution, not support a President who has violated his office by launching an illegal invasion and occupation of Iraq, and systematically destroying the freedoms and civil liberties at home that these soldiers had once believed they were fighting to protect. “We have a sacred duty to uphold the Constitution,” they will say, “and we have all devoted our lives to that duty.” That’s a covenant, a very powerful one. At one time or other, most of these men have risked their lives on behalf of that covenant.

It doesn’t have to be that dramatic. The three banners we have hanging up on the front wall are inviting a kind of covenant (TO COME ALIVE, TO SEEK TRUTH, TO HEAL OUR WORLD). It is the covenant of people in almost every religion I know of, anywhere on earth. Is there a religion anywhere whose people don’t believe they are there to seek the kind of truth that can set them free, help them come move alive, and help heal themselves, their relationships with others, and whatever parts of their world they can touch? It’s very close to the definition of what it means to be religious, or just to be serious about life. And taking it seriously, giving ourselves to it, is a covenant that can be as binding as a General’s oath to uphold the Constitution, or Martin Luther’s saying “Here I stand. I can do no other.”

The banners and liturgical candles beneath them are reminders. Banners point to the lights because those ideals can each open us to kinds of light we need. The lights point to the banners, because we need to be lit up by plugging into only the highest ideals, and letting them take possession of us like the angels of our better nature.

The story of Androcles and the Lion also shows a kind of covenant. (I told this as the children’s Storytime at the beginning of this service.) It’s a very old story. Ancient sources insist that it is a true story, told by someone who witnessed the scene in the arena. It comes from Aesop’s Fables, and Aesop lived 2500 years ago, about the same time the Buddha lived. Androcles’ covenant was with Life. The lion was just the form of life that needed his help. It could have been a dog, a cat or a child, it happened to be a lion. The lion’s covenant was simpler. It was just with Androcles, who had probably saved his life.

And that wonderful ten-word statement of the spirit of liberal religion in the Bible that I read you last week is also inviting you into a covenant: “Examine everything carefully. Hold fast to what is good.” (I Thessalonians 5:21).

I don’t want to push the examples and metaphors for this too far, but I’ll try another. If life were an automobile, the covenant would be the transmission. It is how we get the power transferred to us, how we assimilate, incarnate, the promised power of religion. Every commitment with consequences comes from a covenant.

Now not all covenants are good. Not all gods are good, and not all gods give life to us. Some drain it from us in the name of lower and more selfish aims. After all, Mafia members also have a covenant. So do those conspiring to commit a crime. Corporations that punish whistle-blowers are saying that the whistle-blowers violated an implied covenant to put the corporation above all other considerations, including truth, justice and safety. But one of the most hopeful facts of life is that most of us can tell the difference between coming alive and selling out, and we know it very early in life.

I’ve been reading some fantasy series written for young people this summer, and It’s interesting how often this idea of serving high ideals with your life comes up, and kids understand it almost intuitively, I think. One series of books was by Rick Riordan (Ryer-den, rhymes with “fire”), four volumes on Percy Jackson and the Olympians, all based in the ancient Greek myths, and a wonderful retelling of them. The children are called half-bloods, meaning half human, but also the sons and daughters of the Greek gods, and so they have the nature of their divine parents, and you can predict how they’ll act and what they’ll be passionate about.

I know you’re getting what this is about. It is really about a fundamental concept in religion and life: the question of what are we serving, and whether it gives us life, whether it and we are a blessing to ourselves and others.

Here’s another example that may not sound at all like a covenant. My undergraduate degree was in music theory from the University of Michigan, and I still remember a remark from a lecture in composition, about the French Impressionist composer Maurice Ravel, who wrote “Bolero” but also a lot of more complex stuff, and was regarded as perhaps the greatest orchestrator of the 20th Century. The line that stayed with me came when the professor said the most remarkable thing about Ravel was that he never published a bad piece of music. He wrote some, of course – even the best composers write some bad music. But he destroyed it before he died. He never published a bad piece of music because the idea of it violated something that seemed sacred to Ravel: only to serve the muses at the highest level possible to him, nothing less.

As I’ve reflected on it over the years, I’ve thought this really makes Ravel a lot like a saint, one of those people way more perfect than we’d ever aspire to be. We don’t hear stories of saints being really nasty, rude, cruel, or selling out to a lobbyist. I don’t know how they were in real life, but the image created of them by those who told and edited their stories was an image of someone living a nearly perfect life. That’s how Ravel was like a saint. Living the live of a perfect composer who never published a bad piece of music, no matter what the market demanded of him – and you know the market clamored for more pieces like “Bolero” (which Ravel once described as eight minutes of orchestration without music).

When you come here on Sunday, you know that I, Brian Ferguson our ministerial intern, all of our paid and unpaid musicians, our lay leaders, greeters and ushers will always be trying to serve the highest ideals we can. If you’ve been coming here for awhile, you know this, but It’s worth saying out loud from time to time. we’re serious about the time we all spend together here, because we have made a covenant with high religious ideals, high musical ideals, a covenant to serve the truths that can make us more whole, help us come more alive, help us heal ourselves and those others in our world whose lives we touch. That is as sacred as it gets, and that’s what we’re here to serve, every week.

Every week, you know this is a room where you can come to hear inspiring and challenging words. If theyre more challenging than inspiring, they may not always be comfortable. But if we’re doing our job, they will always be about coming alive, seeking truth and healing our world rather than hearing about outsourcing, downsizing, maximizing profit for stockholders, winning through intimidation or learning how to swim with the sharks, as though that wouldn’t just turn us into sharks, while outsourcing our souls.

This church, like all sanctuaries, is committed to being a nourishing place to dream of making better music with our lives, and protecting the dreamers. It is a place, and these worship services are homes, where we can dream in peace together – dreams of finding and being converted by the kinds of truths that can help us become more free and whole, filled to overflowing with life, so the world around us might be nourished by the overflow.

The goal of all this seems to be to live as Ravel did his music, only publishing the best. To the extent that we can pull it off, It’s pretty admirable.

What if the children’s author Rick Riordan and the composer Ravel are right? What if we are all half-divine, called to find that higher voice, those angels of our better nature, the healing kind of harmony, let it get inside our souls and shape us in its image? What if all the works we published in our lives had the mark of that kind of excellent spirit? We’d be eligible for sainthood, for one thing.

Here’s another way of putting this. you’re going through your life, wandering around a bit. You see this church, but you think, “Oh, that’s religion, and I don’t trust it. It isn’t honest. I know religion, and it isn’t honest.” Then you come in, hang around and listen for a bit, and you think, Oh well, I get this. It’s just ideas, abstract ideals and values, like reading philosophy books. I get it. Well, that was interesting. Ho hum.” Then one day – it can happen at any time – you become aware of a large sort of animal near you who is suffering. It’s a thorn of some kind stuck into it, a big painful thing. The animal needs your help. You’ve learned about suffering, and truth, and life, and know that even you can help alleviate suffering. It’s a little scary, but you find some courage – maybe it comes from realizing that after all you are half divine, and you call on the power and courage of that god or goddess who’s always been with you as part of your soul. So you do it. In spite of some fear, you pull out the thorn in this animal’s foot. You do it perhaps not because you cared so much for this one suffering animal, but you have learned to care for life, and this potentially powerful creature is very much alive. You heal it. It is only afterwards, when you begin to notice how much more easily and lightly you are walking, that you realize the animal, all along, was really you.

And this life-changing little drama has a sound track. It’s accompanied by a choir of the better angels of our nature, singing some of the most beautiful music ever published.

To Come Alive

© Davidson Loehr

 August 31, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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PRAYER:

When we are tempted to get carried away with how special we are – so much more special than everyone else – let us remember that the words “humanity” and “humility” have the same root.

If a self-absorbed arrogance blocks us from growing into our fuller humanity, we may have better luck along the path of a more selfless humility that leaves room for the larger world to find its way into us.

Wherever we build walls of self-righteousness, we exclude ourselves from participating in a world that is larger and usually more blessed than all our little fossilized certainties.

One of the most profound ironies of life is the fact that we don’t become bigger by exalting ourselves, but by finding our calling as small parts of a much larger reality.

Another of life’s delicious ironies is that humility enlarges us more than hubris, embracing differences makes us better people than demanding similarity, just as the willingness to understand another shows that we are more highly evolved than the eagerness to judge them.

We pray for greater humility, understanding and compassion. For those are among the spiritual vulnerabilities that truly are more powerful than tight little strengths.

Our world desperately needs people who can become more fully human. We pray for the humility to become one of them. Amen.

SERMON: To Come Alive

We gather here to pursue the promises of honest religion: to come alive, to seek truth, and to heal our world. We’re here in search of that special kind of light that has always been at the center of nearly all religions. It is the light that lives in words like enlightenment, spiritual illumination, and that halo that medieval painters used to put around the heads of all the saints. One of religion’s two most enduring questions is “Where are you hurting?” The other is who and what is that religious light, that religious truth, meant to serve? And those two questions are deeply intertwined.

Most of the sermons this fall are planned to help us all find a more informed and more commanding connection to our several religious traditions. We are religious liberals, our style of worship here has been heavily influenced by the Protestant Reformation (whether we’re Christians or not), and some of our most important beliefs – of which you may not even be aware – have been shaped by the best Unitarian thinkers of the early 19th century. Our religious heritage has several levels, and I think you will resonate with each of them. They are all like successive incarnations of the spirit of honest religion, the spirit of liberal and liberating religion, the search for the kind of truth that makes us come more alive, that helps us make ourselves and our world more integrated and authentic. That’s the gift of life that all religions are meant to offer, and at its best I think liberal religion does it best of all.

I’ve always like etymology, the study of the origin of words, because it can show us deeper meanings of ordinary words that we might otherwise overlook. For instance, the root of the word “liberal” is also the root of words like liberation and liberty, and it means “free.” In religion, it means free from the constraints of anyone’s orthodoxies, creeds, or salvation schemes that include them but not you. I”m not knocking salvation. It comes from Latin words meaning “to save,” but it’s also the root of our word “salve” – it’s about a healthy kind of wholeness. There is a salvation scheme that transcends all religions, that most of the wisdom literature in the world points to, that is as true and life-giving today as it was 4,000 years ago, in the first incarnation of the liberal spirit that we know of.

Today, I want to give you one kind of introduction to honest religion, liberal religion, and what it has involved since its first known appearance at the dawn of history. This is very broad, like flying over a continent pointing out what shows from six miles up. We’ll revisit some of these themes throughout the fall, both in sermons and in the adult education class our ministerial intern Brian Ferguson will be leading on Monday nights starting September 22nd. This is a class where you can read and hear what the influential Unitarian and Universalist thinkers wrote in the early 19th century. It’s a little sobering to realize that students preparing for the Unitarian ministry only have to read one essay each by a total of just three Unitarian writers, the most recent one dating to 1841. That sounds pretty paltry, and in some ways it is. But Unitarian thinkers have not contributed much of anything to mainstream Christian thought since then, because they have not been interested in mainstream Christian thought since then. But the new perspectives they brought in a century and a half ago are still profound, still life-giving, and still absolutely essential parts of how almost everyone here understands religion. This may surprise you, like that Voltaire character who was surprised late in life to learn that all his life he had been speaking prose, but it’s true. So one theme for this fall will be learning what it means to be both a liberal and a religious liberal.

How old is this spirit of honest religion, this spirit of liberal religion? It’s at least 4,700 years old, which makes it almost prehistoric. It is found in the oldest story in the world, the story of Gilgamesh, a real-life ruler who lived about 2750 BC, which makes it older than the Bible, older than the earliest Hindu writings, and more than 1500 years older than the Iliad and the Odyssey. The Gilgamesh story is also the source of the Flood story in the Bible, and the source of the myth about Noah and his ark. I’ve done a whole sermon on the Gilgamesh epic, and don’t want to repeat it except to show how powerfully it illustrates the spirit of liberal religion, that quest for the kind of light that is at the heart of spiritual illumination and religious enlightenment.

Those who wrote the story more than four millennia ago described their age as the “modern” age, which sounds impossible, when they didn’t even have wi-fi or TV dinners. But writing had just been invented right there in Sumeria, a hundred years earlier, so they saw all the pre-literate people as ancient, and themselves as modern. They knew writing had changed the world forever, for now history was born, and the past could always be present as never before. It gave them a kind of synoptic view of history that pre-literate people couldn’t have, so they saw themselves – rightly – as modern. And as modern people, they had the audacity to ask whether the gods were still useful, and they decided the gods were no longer relevant. This didn’t frighten or depress them. Instead, Gilgamesh decided that the purpose of life is right here among us. It is about living well, loving friends and family, building and contributing things to the future, and being enlarged by the joy and fullness brought through music and the other arts, and the enthusiastic participation in life.

In other words, they decided, more than 4700 years ago, that the purpose of life is to seek the kind of truth that makes you come more fully alive, and to participate passionately in the many opportunities and blessings life offers. Even that long ago, they grew beyond being interested in some tricky way to live on, whether through an afterlife or a reincarnation. The Buddhists, who wouldn’t appear for another 2200 years, would have said it was the kind of truth that could awaken us from our illusions.

That’s the liberal spirit in its earliest known incarnation: the spirit that will question and challenge and shrug off anything that no longer gives us the kind of truth that makes us come more alive. It is a very courageous spirit. It is also very disturbing. Imagine that – simply deciding the gods are no longer useful, and shrugging them off! I think the Gilgamesh story went farther and more boldly than all of the Bible-based religions that hadn’t even evolved yet.

When they did evolve, when the ancient Hebrew tribes put together their notion of God by combining Yahweh and the Elohim gods (“Elohim” is plural), and borrowing from other religions, they put together a God from which, in some important ways, we are still suffering. What I mean by that is that biblical scholars are clear that Yahweh evolved originally from a tribal chief, and has always kept much of the authoritarian character of that ancient tribal chief. The covenant between that God and his people was based on an earlier Hittite treaty between a ruler and his subjects. That’s the covenant – which I’ll talk more about next week – that says “I’ll be your ruler and you will be my people. I’ll protect you if you obey, and punish you if you disobey.” That’s the attitude that still lets Western believers move way too effortlessly to persecuting or murdering those who believe differently. It’s been harder to shrug that God off as irrelevant, because its followers may kill you for it – as many martyrs throughout history have discovered the hard and painful way.

But this liberal spirit that ranks getting right with truth higher than getting right with God, and coming alive higher than coming to Jesus – this is a dangerous spirit in all times and places. It believes that “New occasions teach new duties,” and that “Time makes ancient good uncouth.” Those are the words of 19th century poet James Russell Lowell, but Gilgamesh walked that talk more than four thousand years before him.

When Martin Luther, who started the Protestant Reformation nearly five hundred years ago, reincarnated that ancient liberal spirit, he threw out five of the seven sacraments of the Roman Catholic Church, and said that informed believers trumped uninformed popes. So you can’t be too surprised to learn that he had to hide out for over a year because the Church had a contract out on him – the same kind of contract that the Ayatollah Khomeini had out on the novelist Salman Rushdie when Khomeini said it was the religious duty of Muslims to kill Rushdie because he had insulted old beliefs.

The liberal spirit is about freeing the light, liberating the light from the little cages we keep building for it through our creeds, orthodoxies and rituals. The Unitarian church I served before coming here, in St. Paul, MN, has a wonderful version of this message engraved on the outside of their building, with a picture of birds flying – the bird is a nearly universal symbol of the spirit. The words were by one of their ministers from half a century ago (Wallace Robbins) and say, “We dare not fence the spirit”. We dare not fence the spirit! There is the spirit of liberal religion in six short words.

There is a kind of eternal game in religions, between the liberal spirit and the conservative enclosures that keep trying to limit the light to only their own comfort, to fence the boundless energy of the Holy Spirit into the confines of their parochial certainties, the limits of their current orthodoxies and creeds.

Now I”m not going to keep singing the praises of that liberal spirit without stopping to attack it – well, if you believe in the liberal spirit, you have to attack it. Because here we come up against the catch in all of this wonderful and arrogant talk about freedom. Because when you read it this way, this liberal stuff can sound misleadingly heroic. It can sound like the point of criticism and inquiry is simply to shatter whatever beliefs people have erected to help them through their lives, as though destroying is a higher calling than creating, as though merely knowing some truths is more important than coming alive. That’s the seduction that liberals must avoid if they’re to be religious liberals. For finally, religion isn’t about knowing the right facts; it’s about coming alive. It isn’t about knowing truths; it’s about living them. It isn’t about preaching peace; it is, as the Buddhists say, about becoming the peace that we want. And that is so much harder!

The liberal spirit says that if we mouth second-hand beliefs, we’re living someone else’s life, which means there’s nobody left to live our life. But the spirit of religion says that if our beliefs are only about us, only serve us and our kind of people, then we’re serving something too small to give us life, too partial to be a truth that can help us become more whole, too limited to heal either ourselves or our world.

Another way of putting this is to return to the words I used in the first paragraph of this sermon. All of religion – meaning all of healthy, honest and adequate religion – can be boiled down to two questions. Yes, this is sort of the Cliff Notes version of Religion 101, but at one level it really is this simple and clear.

The first question is, “Where are you hurting?” Half of honest religion is seeking a path to lead us beyond our existential discomfort, our spiritual ennui, the sense that our lives could somehow be “more” and the longing for that “more”. We don’t need a flashlight for this; we need the kind of light that lives within illumination and enlightenment: that kind of light, that big. And absolutely nothing may stand in the way of our search for it. No orthodoxy, no creed, no belligerent beliefs forced on us by those who stopped their own search before they should have, and who are threatened by voices like old Gilgamesh’s that say their precious gods, creeds and rituals are irrelevant and useless. These are the voices that say time really can make ancient good uncouth. Not just wrong, but uncouth. The liberal spirit empowers us to barge through all obstacles in the way of finding the kind of truth that can set us free, make us feel more alive, and help us heal ourselves and our world.

But the second question – and I think this is the deepest and most easily overlooked question in all of religion – is “Who and what does the Light serve?” This truth we seek: what must it serve? To what must it bind us in order to be the kind of truth that can really grant us the kind of wholeness, aliveness and health we seek? The word “religion” means “reconnection.” It is about binding us to life-giving truths through a personal covenant – which is the subject of next week’s sermon.

But when we move to this second question, we are no longer in the realm of simplistic scientific or rational answers. Now we are in the realm of poetry, metaphor, and love-talk. And in love-talk, the answer is that the truth and the light must serve God. Even more than God. It must serve Life: all of life. The kind of truth that can help us come more fully alive originates within the life force – not within religious scriptures or communities – and must return us to that life force to complete the circle, and to bring us home again.

If it builds fences at the edges of our own comfortable beliefs, and excludes or damns those who believe differently, than we have found something too small to be worthy of our yearnings. If it divides the world into the saved and the damned – where we and those who think like us just happen to be among the saved – then we have hitched our wagon to a lie, rather than to a star. If the light we find starts becoming a little spotlight shining just on our face and telling us we – just we – are special, special, special, then we have been duped and seduced, and need to be awakened from our illusions.

There is a little passage in the Christian scriptures that sums this up in just ten words: “Examine everything carefully; hold fast to that which is good.” (1 Thessalonians 5:21)

Examine everything carefully – that’s the liberal spirit. Hold fast to that which is good – that’s the spirit of religion. And what is good – the light that is truly a light unto the world – is what connects us with truths that make us come alive, that help us heal ourselves and our world. You can call it what is good, what is of God, or what is sacred. We can only get at this sort of thing through symbols, metaphors, and love-talk.

That kind of light is the most ancient symbol of religion. We’ll light the light up here on our little ledge every week, as a symbol of that transcendence, illumination and enlightenment, to lift up and liberate the light that is the promise of honest religion. We’ll light a light every week. But it won’t always be the same. Today it’s just one flame. Next week there will be three flames, and three banners hanging above them. Then in a few weeks there will be some more feminine shapes for the candle bases instead of just these X shapes. At the end of September, there will be a family of five candles of different sizes and shapes, lit by a family of five of our church members. On the 12th of October there will be seven lights arranged like a four-foot wide menorah for a service on Atonement in harmony with the Jewish high holy days. A church member who is a rabbi will blow the shofar, the traditional ram’s horn – you don’t want to miss this – and I’ll try to find seven church members with Jewish backgrounds who would like to come up and light the seven flames. You get the idea. We want to liberate the light, to let it point in many directions, not just toward us. We dare not limit the light or fence the spirit, because in order to serve us well, that light and that spirit must serve all of life. We are cups of water from the ocean of life; we need to be reconnected with the ocean.

There is an aliveness in us that wants us to become whole and fulfilled. Call it our spirit, or the spirit of life within us, our Buddha-seed or our God-seed. It’s that spark of the infinite within us, the stardust that resides in every atom of our being. Sometimes we get frightened, or seduced, or bribed, or numbed by habit and conformity. We settle for smaller, second-hand identities. We become merely a man or a woman or an American or a Christian or a Muslim, merely a Unitarian or a University of Texas booster. You’ll find that distinction between small and large, first- and second-hand identities, preached by almost every good religious thinker in history, including the three 19th Century Unitarian preachers we’ll talk about later this fall.

To some extent, the ancient Greek myth of Narcissus is all of our stories – that’s why myths last for centuries, after all. He fell in love with his own reflection and was so entranced by it that he could no longer experience the huge world around him. We so easily go to sleep.

That’s why we gather here: to call forth the better angels of our nature, that they may kindly or rudely awaken us and beckon us back to the spirit of life, where we belong, where we can examine everything carefully, and hold fast to what is good. It’s that challenging combination that makes us both liberal, and religious. It’s a very good place to be.

To Love Alike

To Love Alike

© Aaron White

 August 17, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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I went to my culture asking in search for the meaning of love, and this is what I found: The film, Love Story, told me that “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.” St. Paul told me that love is “patient” and “kind.” He said that “I may have all knowledge and understand all secrets; I may have all the faith needed to move mountains – but if I have not love, I am nothing.” [1]

The other St. Paul, along with St. John, told me that “All you need is love.”

I found in one database 3,419 songs with “love” in the title, and only 124 with “work” in the title. [2]

I was told by others that love looked like diamonds or chocolate. Still, others told me that love looked like sex, or marriage, or friendship. Some say God is love. And yet, if I am to believe what I find in my newspaper’s comic strip section, Love Is apparently what happens between two strange looking naked people. I went to my culture asking in search for the meaning of love, and these are what I got: mixed messages!

It is not unusual for me to find in life that what causes religious reflection for me often comes from very unexpected sources. And this time, the main catalyst came from the television comedy, Scrubs. In one scene, the main character, J.D., is daydreaming about a visit to a friend’s church. I don’t remember too much about the scene, except that in ending the worship service, the very charismatic minister turns to the gathered congregation and says, “I love you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.” I love you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

In our modern expression of Unitarian Universalism, I often hear us talk about some things as if they were inevitable – unavoidable. We talk about the inevitability of truth or sometimes the fact of an ever growing complexity and diversity in life. We speak of inevitable knowledge and understanding that comes with experience. But what I don’t often hear described as unavoidable, what I don’t often hear is talk of this type of irresistible love, one that would say, “I love you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.”

However, running through the core of our tradition, deep within the DNA of our religious heritage, is the understanding that a profound, mature love has the power to break so many barriers. In 1568, the first (and only) Unitarian king in history, John Sigismund of Transylvania, enacted the first recorded law of religious toleration in a nation’s history. While this law included all varieties of the Christian religion only, it was a radical move at the time. He was counseled by his Unitarian court minister, Francis David, who is famously quoted as saying, “We need not think alike to love alike.” But what is it that we love?

Religious thinkers and practitioners, philosophers and scientists alike have been aware for many years that our identities are shaped to a great degree by what it is we hold dear, that we are transformed by what we love. The term “worship” derives its meaning from an older word meaning to give worth, to assign “worth-ship” to something. And at least this form of devotion, this love assigned to people, things, and ideas, seems inevitable in this life.

Our own Ralph Waldo Emerson famously noted, “A person will worship something – have no doubt about that. We may think that our tribute is paid in secret in the dark recesses of our hearts – but it will out. That which dominates our imagination and our thoughts will determine our lives, and character. Therefore, it behooves us to be careful what we worship, for what we are worshipping, we are becoming.” [3]

The liberal Christian theologian Paul Tillich also noted for him how powerful and, sometimes how dangerous, this type of love can be. For Tillich, “idolatry” simply meant assigning our ultimate love, our “worth-ship,” to things that did not deserve it. In his assertion, everyone, even atheists, make gods out of things that do not deserve the title or the concern.

Our misplaced love can make gods out of money or power, can have us chasing after status or esteem; our highest loyalty and love can easily be paid to the shabby deities of a flag or tribe. Like Emerson and so many before him, he knew that as humans, we will worship something, but that our ultimate love should be directed toward the most ultimate things possible. What/whom is it that we love?

I know that in my own life, it is so easy to misdirect my love – to give ultimate attention to things that don’t ultimately deserve it. I know that I love my wife, my friends, and my family. I love my church, and I devote my love to the emergent, creative process in the universe that I call “God.”

But I am willing to bet that I am not the only person in this room today who has found that it is so tempting to fall in love with other things, too. Maybe it’s my ego – sometimes I fall in love with the idea of being right. I’ve found that it’s tempting to fall in love with possessions, a specific cause, to fall in love with one way of doing things, or even just being liked.

On the other side, it seems like it is also easy for us to fall into the trap of believing that we can tell WHO deserves love in this world and who doesn’t. I know that for me, personally, it is so simple for me to talk about a world in which all people deserve love, but it is a lot harder to live in that world.

I can get revved up on a Sunday morning, convinced that all creation is one big family, and then hours later turn on my television and thing some very unlovely thoughts about people who vote differently, think differently or spend their resources differently. It’s hard to live in that world where we don’t have to think alike “to love alike.”

Sometimes, things get tuned around such that we begin to wonder if we ourselves aren’t less deserving of love than others. I wonder if anyone else here has ever felt like they screwed up so bad that there was little chance of being liked, let alone deserving love? I know deep down that I’m never disconnected from the world, never cut off from what is sacred or an opportunity to grow in wholeness, but sometimes it’s very easy to feel as if I am disconnected.

This is certainly not a new issue in religion. We know that at least one branch of our Unitarian Universalist heritage was forged out of this question of who deserves real love, who deserves to be treated equally in the eyes of the world, of the sacred, of God. Although there were certainly believers of Universalism before him, the minister John Murray is often credited as the “Father of American Universalism,” because he founded the first explicitly Universalist congregation in our country.

Murray and our other early Universalist Christian ancestors spread what they called the “doctrine of universal salvation,” the notion that no loving deity could possibly condemn one of its creations to eternal punishment. As you might imagine, in a time of much fire and brimstone preaching, this wasn’t always the easiest position to hold.

After one sermon in which Murray drew a lot of applause, one local orthodox minister, the Rev. Bacon, and some of his supporters left the worship space, “came back with some eggs, and started pelting Murray with them.”[4] For all of you who are fans of corny jokes and puns, you’ll be happy to know that the very witty Murray immediately responded that day, “These are moving arguments, but I must own that I have never been so fully treated to Bacon and eggs before in all my life.” [5]

In our historical heritage, there is a long-standing tradition of people who affirmed that while we are surely defined by what we love, we are equally defined and transformed by what loves us! It seems like a somewhat strange idea for us today. It was this notion of an irresistible love that brought into being one of the most influential figures in our movement that you’ve probably never heard of, or at least don’t hear much about lately.

In 1794, at the age of 22, Hosea Ballou was ordained at the Universalist General Convention without even knowing he was going to be ordained. This young Universalist minister, although he didn’t preach on this often, became Unitarian in his theology, and thus was one of the first true Unitarian-Universalists in our tradition. At the age of 33, Ballou wrote a text that is one of the most influential in his history of our movement. It is called A Treatise on Atonement.

I’m going to do this work a great disservice and boil it down to just a few sentences. Basically, Ballou’s asserted that if our failings are finite, as we are, it makes no sense religiously for an infinite God to bring the infinite power of the universe down to punish one individual, finite being for doing what finite beings do.

He then turned the entire thing around and said that in this divine relationship, it is humans who are the dissatisfied party, not God. For Hosea Ballou, it wasn’t God who needed to be reconciled with human beings, but the other way around. Has anybody else ever felt this way, that it’s not life that has a problem with us, but we who have the problem with life?

Like many before, he asserted that in matters of doctrine, etc, a generously placed love was the safest bet: “Be cautious in any system of divinity,” he warned. “The moment we fancy ourselves infallible, everyone must come to our peculiarities or we cast them away.If we agree in.love, there is no disagreement that can do us any injury, but if we do not, no other agreement can do us any good.”[6]

Ballou said some things in 1805 that are radical in many settings today, including our own, I think. He said, let’s get over quibbling with each other about the literal meaning of religious or philosophical terms. Our religious lives aren’t only about having someone’s anger resolved; they are about growing together in love. Salvation isn’t about getting saved from some eternal punishment, but with falling in love with life, real life.

It makes sense that in the religious tradition of his past, when the teacher Jesus was asked to sum up the most important Jewish laws, he said here were only two things: to love your God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind and to love your neighbor as yourself. [7]

I wonder if that much has really changed for us. If we are going to commit our deepest love, our devotion and “worth-ship” to something, if we are going to make a god out of something, it had better be something worthy of our attention, and when we do, let us serve that life and all our human and non-human neighbors with every inch of our being.

What is it that you will choose to love? What would it look life for you to be reconciled to life, to your god, or to the world? With so many troubles coming in our direction from life, it’s pretty hard sometimes to imagine that we are the dissatisfied party in the relationship.

We can assert, like so many before us, that there is no group of people damned to hell because of their religious beliefs, yet, in a way, we are “saved” every day. As we read together this morning, we are warmed each day by a sun we did not create, we are fed by food we could plant, but not grow, and we are held in a community of friends and loved ones we did not earn and could never buy. [8]

Whether you are joining us for the first time or one time of many, know that you belong here. We can be a people stuck in our heads, curious for new knowledge, constantly working out the details of an argument or idea, ever in search of new truth. But just as deep within our religious family is the desire to live in a reality where our night language poetic minds could imagine God, or the universe, or reality saying, “I love you, and there’s nothing you can do about it.” We can affirm that all people take part in what is sacred – we need all people to make meaning, and all, without exception, are worthy of love.

How is it that you would respond to such a world? What will you spend your life loving? How is it that you will fall in love with life? This kind of love is not easy; it’s certainly not the kind that can be summed up on one song, or one item, one newspaper page or one verse. It is being reconciled with life.

Those who have loved a parent, a sibling, a child, partner, or friend know that love never means perfection – it has tremendous waves and can be very hard. I think the same will be true of our response to life. So many people in the world, and so many in our community here today, are having a hard time believing that life could be on their side. Let us show one another with all our heart, soul, strength, and mind, that while so hard to understand, it can be a life worth loving.

My spiritual friends, hundreds of years ago, John Murray issued this call: “Go out into the highways and byways of America, your new country. Give the people, blanketed with a decaying and crumbling [religion], something of your new vision. You may posses only a small light but uncover it, let it shine, use it in order to bring more light and understanding to the hearts and minds of men [and women]. Give them, not hell, but hope and courage. Do not push them deeper into their theological despair, but preach the kindness and everlasting love of God.” [9]

It was obviously a successful call and a compelling message, as at one time in the 1800s, Universalist churches alone had over 600,000 members – around 4 times what our UU churches have today. It was the 5th largest denomination in the country. In fact, they did such a good job that they almost put themselves out of business! As more and more religious groups affirmed that eternal punishment did not await outsiders, Universalism lost some of its bite.

It seems as is part of our own time is similar to that of Murray. So many people are blanketed in ideas of religion that no longer work, that are crumbling in the face of a new world, and many of them have no idea there is an alternative. Let us not hide it from them. Let us, too give our society something of our new vision, a world in which all beings participate in the sacred, a world in which we value a sincere love over correct doctrine, a world in which we know that when we agree in love, no disagreement can do us lasting harm. In fact, let’s do it so well that we put ourselves out of a job – where this vision of inclusion and tolerance seems commonplace.

So much of who we are is shaped by what we love, and how we respond to a world that gives us life. Who here is ready, in the face of so many imperfections and hardships, to get right again with life? What is it that you will choose to love? May we find together those things that are truly worthy of our devotion and love them with all we have.

What better time than now?

Amen.

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[1] 1 Corinthians 13:2

[2] http://www.hopstudios.com/nep/unvarnished/five/1730/

[3] Ralph Waldo Emerson, Quoted in Singing the Living Tradition, reading #563.

[4] Charles A. Howe, The Larger Faith (Boston: Skinner House Books, 1993), 5.

[5] Ibid.

[6] Ibid., 28.

[7] Mark 12:29-31

[8] Singing the Living Tradition, reading #515

[9] The Larger Faith, 9.

Something, Anything More

Aaron White

 August 10, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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A few years ago I heard the story of a woman named Rue. Rue had recently decided to purchase a home in what was becoming the very expensive location of Sag Harbor, New York. When she thought her luck was exhausted, she found what could be described as the deal of a lifetime. But there was a catch. The home Rue was looking to purchase was listed under two different prices. The more expensive price for the home included as she expected “a house, a shed, and a little garden.” The less expensive price for the home ($110,000 less expensive) included “a house, a shed, a little garden, and Ned.”[1]

Ned was the former owner of the home, an older man who was growing quite ill. In exchange for the drastic reduction in price, Ned could live in his larger downstairs portion of the home for his remaining days, while Rue would inhabit the two rooms upstairs. Jokingly, Rue refers to him as the “man who came with the house.”[2]

When Rue first bought the house, it seemed no problem to her. She didn’t take up too much space, was single, and Ned would surely not be around for too long. Within the year, though, she had “[acquired] a puppy, a husband, and a baby.”[3] And Ned was still very present. Now she feels somewhat bad about even talking about the situation, as everyone involved knows, a significant part of her is waiting for Ned to die. “I never expected to live that long,” said Ned. “I’m aware that the other side can’t be thrilled that I’m still here.”[4]

I can’t help but think that a lot of us share an experience similar to that of Rue. Here is a woman, cramped in her own home, feeling as if something drastic needs to change before she can start really living. How many of us here have felt, or are feeling, the same way? So many of us spend our time waiting for something to be different – for something to be over – waiting for something to leave us before we really start to live.

I figure I’ll just throw out a few of the things I know I have thought or said in my life and see if they resonate with anybody else here: “Just after this project is over, then I’ll start really spending time with my partner again – I’ll be in better touch with my family when this crazy month winds down – I’ll have time to be a good person again when this to-do list is a little smaller – I’m just too busy to have a spiritual practice.” And yet I am somehow consistently surprised that the to-do list is never empty, there’s another project after the one I finish, and my spiritual practice doesn’t practice itself. Anyone else? I once heard a Christian monk say that he prayed every day for one hour, and if he was going to have an especially busy day, we would pray for two hours. I don’t know about you, but I’m definitely not there yet!

The rhetoric we hear so often about our modern lives is that we are fast-paced, over-booked and constantly busy. But busy doing what?

I refer to a line by the Quaker author, Parker Palmer, quite often because it resonates with me so much. He says there are “moments when it is clear – if I have eyes to see – that the life I am living is not the same as the life that wants to live in me.”[5]

There is often so much life that wants to live in me, and instead of living it, I’m waiting for Ned to die and leave the house before I get started! I can only speak for myself, of course, but so often I feel like some part of who I am needs to be different or be gone before I can start living like I want to live. How often are we waiting for that perfect moment in life or that perfect version of ourselves to be present before we start living like we want to live?

The truth in my experience, though, is that there is no perfect moment in the future to start really living, that no flawless version of me is ever going to show up that can take risks for me – Ned is never going to leave, and if he does, he’ll be replaced by someone or something very similar. If we wait for that “perfect” moment, it will be too late.

Theologically, most of us as UU’s assert that heaven and hell are not places but states of mind that we experience here on this earth. We talk about believing in “life before death.” But how many of us miss it? Often, it is not the external busyness of life that has me waiting to live, but the busyness of my mind. It is so easy to get caught up in remembering times in the past when I took a risk and failed, or work out the most detailed scenarios of all the things that go could go wrong in the future.

The Buddhists refer to this aspect of our being as our “monkey mind,” and scientists would identify the part of our brain that does this as our neo-mammalian brain. We can be very thankful that our ancestors millions of years ago developed it – it is exactly what helped them to make sense out of patterns and make choices between options. But that doesn’t means it is always easy to live with it now.

We even do this as a religious community. I’ve heard it said that we can’t make the difference of a “real” religious community until we’re bigger than we are, or that we need to all agree on some more things before we get started making communities of justice. I hear all the time that people want their church to grow, but not to look different than it is right now. We can easily spend much of our time as a people worrying about what a newer future would look like with us as a vital voice in our society, but if we wait for that to happen on its own, we will have missed the opportunity of a lifetime.

We spend so much of our lives waiting to live, so much of our lives worrying about the past or the future. But as we know, we have such a brief time to live the life that wants to live in us.

It doesn’t take much to remind us of our finitude, our mortality: a close call in an accident, a scary diagnosis, the loss of a friend or family member. But in the midst of this reality, it is sometimes hard to really believe that one day we will not exist!

One of my favorites musical groups, Spiritualized, summed this notion up in a song, from which I got the title of today’s sermon. Here are a few lines from the song:

“Though my body gets tired, my mind does it no favors at all

And there’s so little time, to do something, something, anything more

And there’s no use in crying about the damage that you’ve done inside

And there’s so little time, to do something, something, anything more

…Don’t cry, baby, cry – as long as you and I

Do more than just survive, don’t cry, [we’ll] have a real good life

…There’s so little time, so do something, something, anything more.”[6]

It brings me some comfort to know that we’re certainly not the first people in history to live with this tension. We may feel busier than ever – our bookstores are filled with texts helping people to live in the present moment, dealing with worry and anxiety, but this has been the human condition for a long, long time.

Spiritual teachers have been addressing this concern for millennia. In the language of the early Christian writings, Jesus reminded those around him that the Kingdom of God was present here and now, not somewhere else! Just as now, this teacher knew that much of our human life is consumed waiting and worrying about our problems around food, safety, money, status, etc. It is almost as if the authors of this text could have been writing today. In the book of Matthew, the text has Jesus saying, “Isn’t life more than food, and your body more than clothing…Can all your worries add one day to your life?”[7] He charged those around him to live their lives now. Verse 34 of the same book reads, “So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today.”[8]

An author of one of the Psalms in the Hebrew Scriptures says something I feel all the time, just in a little different language. He writes in Psalm 35, “Oh Lord, you know all about this, Do not stay silent. Do not abandon me now…Rise to my defense…take up my case…Then I will proclaim your justice, and I will praise you all day long.”[9]

And yet here we are again: I’ll be happy and grateful for life, just after these good things happen to me. I know I feel this urge to live a life of peace and justice within me – I just need to get all my affairs in order first. There’s so much that could go wrong! I just need enough money to be secure first, have the right job first. Once that happens, I’ll definitely start living the life that wants to live in me.

This issue has not gone unnoticed in our own historical tradition of Unitarian Universalism. Ralph Waldo Emerson, in his essay titled, Prudence, noted this same problem in his own time. “Life wastes itself while preparing to live,” he says, “…How much of human life is lost in waiting?”[10]

In a letter to a friend, Henry David Thoreau also noticed that people seemed too busy to live. He writes, “It is not enough to be industrious; so are the ants. What are you industrious about?”[11]

My friends, what is it that you are busy about, and what is it that you are waiting for? What great dream of yours, what type of life and love have you wanted to live that you’re waiting on? There is so little time to do something, anything more.

For me, this challenge is not an expression of only one side of liberal religion, that side which continually calls for freedom of conscience and personal expression. This is a vital part, but only one part. It is not the whole story. A true understanding of our finitude calls me to serve life and others as only I can while I am here. I owe it to the life that I affect to live more nobly and lovingly in the time that I have. There is no one exactly like you, never has been, and never will be again.

Here’s one way of putting the length of our time on earth in perspective. If the entire history of the Universe was compressed into 100 years, every day would equal 400,000 years, and each minute would be 250 years long.

In this cosmic timeline, all hydrogen in the universe is created on day two. Our solar system comes into existence in year 67. On this timescale, the dinosaurs died out in May of year 99, and we Homo Sapiens appear on December 31st of the 99th year. Rev. Michael Dowd had this to say about the timeline, “If we show up on the last day of a 100 year process, maybe it’s possible that the whole thing wasn’t meant for us.”[12]

We are so big and yet so small at the same time. Some of this information is very humbling for me. I think, “You mean to tell me my ego is not the most important thing in the universe? But I spend so much time defending it!” This perspective also helps me when I think about my screw-ups. In cosmic time, they are pretty small. Some of this information lets me off the hook a bit for the mistake that I thought was the end of the world, and especially for that load of laundry that went undone last week and caused me so much stress. It just puts things in perspective.

This doesn’t mean, though, that each of us does not matter. We know that what we do lives on, that we make a make upon life itself, each of us affects lives. All of us in this room share a common ancestor somewhere way back. I’m able to speak here today because millions of years ago, some individual primate had the gumption to move out of the way of that falling branch, or thought it was better to gather in community to face an opponent. So don’t let anyone ever tell you that you can’t make a difference! Who knows what life will live because of you?

My point here is this, we have so little time, yet so much is possible. In his book, Canticle to the Cosmos, the physicist, Brian Swimme says, “Four billion years ago the planet Earth was molten rock; now it sings opera!”[13] Friends, in the last 2 minutes of this cosmic time-line I described, we have experienced the coming into being of harnessed electricity, social democracies, the protestant reformation, airplanes, the internet, vaccines, Beethoven, and of course, the IPod. What will the next minute look like because you were alive?

We’re not very big in cosmic time, but we know that in this history of the Universe, shared common interest has driven complexity and cooperation among elements and living things. When there was crisis, it was the cells that joined together, the animals that cooperated, the societies that served one another, who survived to live life. We UU’s affirm that reality is interdependent, that no part of existence exists separate from another – that we can’t easily draw boundaries around one part of reality and call it sacred and that profane. As Emerson noted in The Over-Soul:

“…there is no screen or ceiling between our heads and the infinite heavens, so is there no bar or wall in the soul where [a human], the effect, ceases, and God, the cause, begins. The walls are taken away…”[14]

We know that what we do makes a difference. If we do share a common home and a common good, then what your life has to offer this process can be given by no one but you. It does not always have to be grand or seemingly ground breaking, just the life that wants to live in you. What are you waiting for?

It is sometimes hard for me to even think in these massive cosmic terms, how my life fits into the history of the universe. It’s a little overwhelming to tell you the truth. So it sometimes helps me to scale it down a bit.

How many more times will your friends smile because you have lived? Who will learn something they did not know because you were there to teach them? What stranger might be convinced that people can be good because of your small acts of kindness? What song, poem, painting, family, garden, church, community, would not exist in the same way without you? And what great piece of life have you yet to express?

What are you busy about, and what is it that you are waiting for? What is keeping you from living, as Christians might say, as if the Kingdom of God really is present here on earth, or as our Buddhist friends might say, what is it that keeps you from living in the only moment that is, this present moment?

Friends, in this life, we have so little time. So much of what we focus on in our anxieties of the past or future – so many of our worries – bind us to imperfections or mistakes that remain so small in perspective. Yet at the same time, we are able to change lives; we are able to affect the course of life itself.

It is up to us to offer what we can while we are here. It will be made up of the common elements of life: One more conversation, one more smile, one more song, one more act or forgiveness, of kindness, one more act of justice.

May we realize that there will be no more perfect moment that now to begin living the life that wants to live in us. May we join together, finding the strength of community and friends to build the life we wish to see on earth. As the song says, “there’s so little time, so do something… anything more.”

What better time than now?

Amen.

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[1] This American Life, “It’s Never Over.” Produced by Alex Blumberg (Chicago: Chicago Public Radio, June 23,2006)

[2] Ibid.

[3] Ibid.

[4] Ibid.

[5] Parker Palmer, Let Your Life Speak (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2000), 2.

[6] Jason Pierce, “Anything More.” Spiritualized. From the album Let it Come Down. BMG, 2001. Audio CD

[7] Matthew 6: 25-27

[8] Matthew 6:34

[9] Psalm 35:22-28 (Paraphrased)

[10] Ralph Waldo Emerson, Prudence – http://www.rwe.org/works/Essays-1st_Series_07_Prudence.htm

[11] Henry David Thoreau, Personal Letter to Harrison Blake. November 16, 1857. http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Henry_David_Thoreau

[12] Michael Dowd, Beyond Sustainability: A Hopeful, Inspiring Vision of the Next 250 Years, online video broadcast – http://www.wie.org/unbound/media.asp?id=57 (Accessed August 6, 2008).

[13] Brian Swimme, Canticle to the Cosmos, quoted in Michael Dowd, Thank God for Evolution (Tulsa: Council Oaks Books, 2007), 121.

[14] Ralph Waldo Emerson, The Over-Soul – http://www.rwe.org/works/Essays-1st_Series_09_The_Over-Soul.htm

Doubt is Not Our Product

© Aaron White

 August 3, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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I believe it was Lilly Tomlin who said that “no matter how cynical you get, it is impossible to keep up.”

I tend to fall on the optimistic side of the spectrum, but this week I, and I know many of you here too, were hit with a very harsh version of reality. This week, individuals in one of our communities had their foundations shaken. Yet again, a location of worship, sought for its safety and comfort was turned into a place of violence. A community in celebration has become a community in mourning.

As many of you might know, on the morning of last Sunday, July 27th, a man walked into the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church in Knoxville with a shotgun hidden in a guitar case. He entered the sanctuary, and during a performance by the congregation’s children of a song from their musical, Annie, he began shooting at those in attendance. At this point, two adults have died as a result of the attack, and a handful of others remain wounded. Some notes in the shooter’s car gave voice to his anger at the liberal community for our views and specifically inclusion of the GLBT community, but overall, this appears to be the action of a very sick man whose frustrations found a focal point in one of our churches.

As human beings, it is natural to want to make meaning out of a situation like this, but when things appear so senseless, communities of faith can very quickly become communities of doubt. As Unitarian Universalists, we’re often quite comfortable bringing our doubt with us to church and our religious lives. We’re usually quite proud of this fact, and rightly so. However, I think that when we talk about bringing our doubt with us, what we mean most of the time is a skeptical stance toward any creed or doctrine, a questioning mind about the details of any scientific, philosophical, or religious truth.

But the events of this week highlight realities that many in our community bring with them every week into our sanctuary – “doubts and questions that run so deep, it challenges our very being.” It has not taken me long in ministry to realize that in any gathering within our walls, someone is asking questions like these: “Will I make it through tonight? “With all that is happening in the world, how can we make any difference?” “How could anyone love me?” “Do I have what it takes to be a good person again?”

Overall there is so much evidence of good in the world, so many things that go right that we hardly even notice. Just the simple act of getting in our car and driving across town involves thousands of acts of social cooperation, and this very superficial example highlights that our lives are filled with this reality. Yet in the face of all this some events can shake us to the core. I’m sure that most everyone here has experienced something like this, I know I have. Some personal failure, some betrayal, an accident, the loss of someone we love that threatens to call into question our assumption about a good life.

One writer on doubt is the author, David Michaels. In his recent book, Doubt is Our Product, Michaels explains how easy it is for one action or thoughtfully placed question to cast doubt on what we believe to be true, even in the midst of much evidence. He explains that in modern history, our society has been unaware for the most part that there is a doubt industry existing right under our noses. In the 1960’s and 1970’s, when the dangers of cigarettes were becoming more of a public issue, tobacco companies started to hire scientists and spokespersons whose entire job was to create doubt in the minds of the public that cigarettes were actually harmful, that what evidence was telling them was true. Michaels took the title of his book from a cigarette company memo. It reads like this:

“Doubt is our product, since it is the best means of competing with the body of fact that exists in the minds of the general public. It is also the means of establishing a controversy.” David Michaels’ book is about how this strategy today is being used again today in science, business, and politics. Some of the same people have been hired again to challenge he science of evolution or global climate change. He says that the motivation behind this creation of doubt is explicit and simple. If we are focused on the controversy, if we spend all our time debating the facts, we are involved in very little action. Many people’s best interest rests in our doubt about ourselves and what we know.

We have been fed doubt, not just this week in events that shake us, but our whole lives. So much of our current consumer society thrives off us doubting who we are as individuals. We’re meant to wonder if we’re good looking enough to attract a partner (I’d better buy something to fix that), wonder if we are smart enough to land that job (I’d better buy something to fix that), wonder if we have enough stuff to look to our friends and family as if we really have value (better buy something to fix that). Much of this society feeds us doubt in the hope of making us find our trust in something we can buy, not something that will last. As one of my favorite musical artists says, “Making you think you’re crazy is a billion dollar industry.”

But we know that in real life no product you can buy can bring back a loved one; no thing you can buy can erase an experience of trauma or restore hope to someone for whom life has become a threat. And so, we gather together in a community like this to offer something different, a different “product.” But what we offer in a place like this is certainly no set of easy answers.

In a reading in the back of our gray hymnal, the Rev. Robert Weston is quoted as saying, “Cherish your doubts, for doubt is the attendant of truth – doubt is the touchstone of truth; it is an acid which eats away the false – it is a testing of belief – those that would silence doubt are filled with fear,” he says, “their houses are built on shifting sands…” I do think that Robert Weston is correct. However, I don’t know about you, but it’s easier for me to praise doubt when I have the luxury of ambiguity, when things seem easy or simple, when my friends and family aren’t suffering, when I am not scared.

But what do we do with such doubt when we encounter events like those that happened in Knoxville last weekend? To me, Weston’s reading points out that doubt is NOT meant to be a final product of anything, but a part of the process, a tool. We use doubt, he says, in order to find trust in something else. We UU’s are fairly good at discovering what it is we doubt. But what is it that we here will choose to trust?

The Rev. Forest Church had this to say about our religious foundations: “We Unitarian Universalists have inherited a magnificent theological legacy. In a sweeping answer to creeds that divide the human family, Unitarianism proclaims that we spring from a common source; Universalism, that we share a common destiny.” In other words, we’re all in this together.

My friends, let us not doubt our power and value as a people gathered here. Do not think that because we do not give easy answers here that we do not give something of value. We have given and will continue to give a voice for justice, a home for inclusion, and loving community that does indeed save lives. So many people have been told they do not matter in this world ? that they do not deserve the love of someone’s god, or any love at all. No matter what, we will continue to build a community that strives to offer more and more love to any and all who would seek it.

People often ask me what consolation Unitarian Universalism has to offer those facing sickness, death, or fear if we have no version of God or an afterlife we all agree on. We have seen a part of the answer to this question lived this week.

Annette Marquis, the District Executive for the Thomas Jefferson District of the UUA, where the shooting took place, said that in her experience of seeing our communities come together in the wake of the tragedy that she had “never been so proud of being a Unitarian Universalist.”

She watched our values being lived as congregational and denominational leaders joined in a response effort, partnered with the outpouring of help from other faiths, and ministered to the pain and fear that was so present in the children and adults affected that day.

She was proud, as am I, that our hopeful faith does not retreat when the hardest of times are present. During the candlelight vigil held in Knoxville on Monday evening, UUA President, Bill Sinkford, said this, “None of us can allow our pain and anger to keep us from living our faith, from welcoming all people, from standing on the side of love. We will not let that happen. We will continue our commitment to welcoming all”

We have been taught so many times what to doubt. What is it that we will trust? Once again, I think that life has shown itself worthy of our faith, worthy of our trust in community and in love. In the response to one man’s act of violence, we saw so many stand up in courage. Even in the midst of so much violence and confusion, the members of the Tennessee Valley Church lived their values.

One of the individuals who died in the attack was said to have placed himself in front of the shooter’s weapon, shielding others, and sacrificing his life for theirs. When it would have been so easy, so understandable, to respond in violence to the attacker, members of that congregation restrained him until the police arrived.

There is no question that for this brave group of people, our liberal religious values withstood a tremendous test. In response to one act of violence, thousands have gathered in solidarity, millions expressed their compassion and good will. We can trust our human connection in this world.

There are many events of human suffering in the world, but this week, members of our religious community especially took pause because in a way, this hit so close to home. Some members of our congregation have friends and family who were present for the attack. Their sanctuary, their gathering in community, and their worship feel so familiar to our own.

Yet this single event serves also as a reminder of our place deep within the human condition and never outside of it – a place where, yes, violence and fear exist in a very real way, yet they do so alongside community and hope. This is not simply bright-eyed liberal idealism, but a fact, a reality we have seen this week and in so many other places.

We are reminded that it is our human experience that is familiar, that with fresh perspective we might see our minor disagreements and labels for exactly what they are, minor. While we would certainly never wish for THIS type of opportunity for reflection, it calls us to see that the work of our lives and the work of our religious communities serve something far larger than ourselves. We can trust that this is true.

We know that there is more to life than the labels we wear, and that one act of violence is not the end of hope. We know that, as a colleague once said in a sermon, “life wants to live,” that creation was not something that happened once long ago being corrupted further and further, but rather that the great story of the universe, the evolving, emergent creative force that has brought us into being continues to create right now – “in the cells of our bodies, in our families, our communities, in our response to life and death.”

We may trust that all humanity and indeed all life is as interconnected as we say it is, literally tying us all to the same ancestors, the same family. As we said in our last hymn, “what touches one affects us all.”

We know that violence will continue, that bad things will happen again to liberals and conservatives, to Christians, Jews, Muslims, and Sikhs, to people of every color and creed. Yet we also know that communities of every sort will continue to join together and form lives of meaning and care.

Some have this week been left in doubt about when and where we can be safe in practicing our religion. Even a place called a ‘sanctuary? became a home for violence. The events in Knoxville certainly affected many outside of that congregation, but this was one incident, and we can trust that we are as safe today as we were last week, as we have ever been. We are as secure as anyone can be who professes to live a life of radical love and inclusion. And what we read in the paper or see on TV is certainly not always helpful in making me feel safe. Trust in life does not sell papers or increase ratings. Hope will not keep us in front of our TV’s watching coverage; hope would have us living our lives and the values we proclaim.

Nothing is ever certain, and there are things in life far beyond our control. But, a Unitarian Universalists, we know that how we respond is up to us. As First Church’s own Mary MacGregor put it this week in an interview, “How can we close the doors of our churches? We can’t do that. We have to have our doors open.”

My friends, we do have to have our doors open, not only our physical doors, but those which leave us open to continual love and trust in this world.

I am suggesting something a bit unusual in a UU church – I’m suggesting that we give up some of our doubts. I’m asking you to give up doubting that your life is sacred just as it is, to give up doubting that communities such as this can change lives in radical ways, and to give up doubting that in the midst of confusion and pain, life is still precious and good.

Let us have our doubt, as Robert Weston said, so that we may trust in something else, too. Let us have doubt, so that we may have faith. This is not a faith like many associate with that word; this is not a blind faith which would ask you to believe something without evidence. The type of faith we have to offer is that of the theologian, Paul Tillich, who asserted that faith is a verb, the “act of being ultimately concerned.”

In this faith, we join together in devoting our worship and our lives to that which is worthy of devotion, and nothing less. Let our faith be in life itself, faith that love exists, that we know it to exist here on earth and can make it real in our very lives.

Let’s continue to bring a cynic’s mind to creeds and doctrines, but friends, please carry no doubt about the potential of human care, the sacred nature of all creation, and that in an evolving universe, there is potential around every step – or as we say in one of our hymns, “there is more love somewhere.”

The children of the Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church expressed something similar when they gathered on Monday evening during a candlelight service and sang the song they had been practicing this summer. As rain poured outside and congregants held candles high, the children sang, “The sun will come out tomorrow.”

We know that it will.

May we continue to realize that while we welcome doubt into this place with open arms, doubt is not OUR product. Our products, our ends, are faith, hope, and love, with which we will all continue to build our beloved community on earth.

When we reflect on events such as these and so many others in the world, may we be called to recognize the preciousness of our life and others. Let us live and love as if it is our only chance.

What better time than now?

Amen.

The Sometimes Strange Science of Us – Jim Checkley

© Jim Checkley

 January 27, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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Imagine it is 2,500 years ago and you are a Greek with a question. This question has been bothering you for quite some time and you just can’t figure it out. So one day you decide to consult the Oracle of Apollo at Delphi, one of the ancient world’s most intriguing and unusual establishments. For there at the ancient temple located beneath the shining rocks of Mount Parnassus, the God Apollo spoke through a Pythia, or human priestess, and offered inspiration and guidance to all who came.

Legends tell that Delphi and its environs had long been considered to have mystical powers. A few years ago I went to Australia for my 50th birthday and actually turned 50 while visiting Uluru, formerly know as Ayers Rock, the largest monolith in the world. I was nervous about going out into the middle of the desert to a giant sandstone monolith for such an auspicious occasion – ironically, I had always thought I’d go to Greece and turn 50 at the Parthenon but I’ve got to tell you, Uluru has a magic to it that has to be experienced and cannot be described. If Delphi was like Uluru, then I understand exactly why the ancient Greeks put an oracle there and why they thought the very land held special power.

When you arrive at Delphi, you approach the entrance to the temple and notice something carved into the wall, something that has come down to us as the best known of all the Delphic injunctions: in Greek it reads: GNOTHI SEAUTON, which we translate as “know thyself.” Some sources say that “know thyself” is the answer the Oracle gave to Chilon of Sparta who asked: “What is best for man?” It is, interestingly enough, the same advice that the Oracle in the 1999 movie The Matrix gave to Neo, only in the movie the phrase was written in Latin over the entrance to the Oracle’s kitchen. Times change, but the questions (and some of the answers), do not.

Now it seems self-evident that knowing yourself would be a good thing. But just what does it mean to “know thyself”? It is a question as old at the Delphic Oracle itself. Socrates said that it meant that “The unexamined life is not worth living,” that it was important on a daily basis to look inward to discover the true nature of our beings and to consciously make decisions about our lives and our dreams. In The Matrix, know thyself meant to know the essence of your inherent nature, which for Neo meant to know, the way we know we are in love, with every fiber of our beings, that he was the One, the savior of mankind. And when asked what he thought of the injunction “know thyself”, St. Augustine replied, “I suppose it is that the mind should reflect upon itself.”

Nowadays we call such self-reflection “metacognition,” the ability to think about your thoughts, to engage in self reflection, to introspect. This ability was for centuries thought the sole province of human beings, but animal research has challenged that old prejudice’some animals seem to have the ability to reflect upon their internal mental states, if only at a rudimentary level. That aside, while I think that knowing yourself certainly includes self-reflection, I think it is more than that. For modern science has shown us quite dramatically that we are more than just our conscious selves, and knowing oneself, truly knowing oneself, would include understanding all the layers of our beings, conscious, subconscious, and unconscious.

So let me suggest that simple – or even complex self reflection will not get you where you want to go. One thing that has become clear over the years is that we humans are not monolithic beings – we are not simply a conscious being that makes fully informed choices about life. We want to think we are, and we certainly behave as if we are, but modern research on the sometimes surprising science of us has revealed that often, our control is an illusion, and that there is something very powerful and very deep going on that we don’t even know about at a conscious level.

Research shows that our subconscious and unconscious selves play a big role in who we are, how we feel, and what we do. More fundamentally, new studies reveal a subconscious brain that is far more active, purposeful, and independent than previously thought. Generalized goals, like eating, mating, traveling, and the like, appear to be instigated by neural software programs that can be run by the subconscious whenever it, and not we, chooses.

Let me give you a couple of examples:

In a recent experiment, psychologists at Yale were able to alter people’s judgments of a stranger by handing those people a cup of coffee. It’s true. What happened was this: the subject of the experiment was handed either a hot cup of coffee or an iced latte in a social setting. Afterwards, the people who held the iced latte rated a hypothetical person they read about as being much colder, less social, and more selfish than did the students who held the hot coffee. As improbable and strange as this seems, this result is consistent with others that have poured forth over the last few years. For example, new studies show that people are more tidy if there is a tang of cleaning liquid in the air, and they are more prone to be highly competitive in their negotiations with one another if there is a leather briefcase at the end of a long table rather than an old, worn backpack, in which case they are more laid back.

Psychologists say that what is going on is a demonstration of how everyday sights, smells, and sounds can selectively activate goals and motives that people already have in their brains. What is going on is that the subconscious is running preexisting programs that strongly influence our choices and our behavior – all without us actually having any conscious awareness that we are being manipulated by our own brains.

These findings help to explain how we can be happy one minute, then for no apparent reason, unhappy the next. I’m sure everybody in here has experienced this phenomenon – you show up to a party feeling great, then, without apparent reason, you get depressed, turn sour, and want to get away. No amount of self-reflection can explain the change, but it could be that one of the women is wearing the same dress that your ex-girlfriend was wearing the night she tossed all your possessions onto the street or perhaps the smell of the house triggered repressed resentments about your childhood. You didn’t consciously realize any of it, but your subconscious did, and initiated a hard-wired program that actually changed your basic equilibrium.

I’m going to go a little further and say that I don’t think that self-reflection is enough to know thyself for yet another reason. No matter how hard we try, I don’t think it’s possible to get a true picture of who we are simply by looking inward. While it’s true that only we can see our deepest thoughts, our deepest desires, and our deepest motivations, one thing we simply cannot see is how others see us. We need more data, data that reflects the who that we are in the eyes of others. In short, to fully know ourselves, we need feedback on the self that others know and experience.

And thanks to the Internet, all of us can do something that the visitors to the Oracle at Delphi could not: While they could ask a god for advice, we can Google ourselves. How many of you have Googled yourself? According to a Pew Research Study, by the end of 2007, about half of all Americans have come a little closer to knowing themselves, at least as others see them, by Googling themselves. But whether one Googles oneself or simply listens to what others who know and care about you have to say, I don’t think we can get close to truly knowing who we are without input from outside of ourselves. That perspective allows us, at the very least, to check on whether who we think we are matches with how we are perceived by others, and, if there is a discrepancy, as there often is, figure out what happened, and correct it.

Another thing about human beings is we are not static. We change as we grow older, more experienced, and, as Billy Joel might say, earn a few scars on our faces. I certainly don’t think I am the same person I was in my early twenties, before my experience with advanced Hodgkin’s disease and all that went with it. I have a sense of continuity, certainly, but deep inside I know that I have changed at a very fundamental level, a conclusion that has been confirmed by many of those closest to me over the years.

While these assertions may seem to run counter to the strong current in our culture that we each have an essence that is eternal and at some fundamental level, unchanging, recent findings in neuroscience and neuropsychology tend to support my experience. I do not dispute that we are born with certain aspects of ourselves hardwired. Nor do I dispute that this hard wiring is sometimes quite difficult to change. Nonetheless, research is showing that while older brains may be less efficient than younger brains, and may in fact, show signs of memory loss and the like, older brains may actually be wiser brains. It has to do with how information is accumulated and processed, but the point is that for this and other reasons, our brains – and with them, us – change over time. So unlike some people who think it’s better to be consistent than right, I think it’s OK to change your mind because, in fact, your mind changes. We change. We become different people with different desires, different wants, different goals, different values. And keeping up with ourselves, not living in the past, is a big part of knowing ourselves.

Which brings me to the point that knowing thyself doesn’t just mean knowing and understanding one’s essence. It also means knowing our dreams, our abilities, our real virtues and even our frailties. It means knowing ourselves in all our aspects, including how we change over time, at least as well as we know the world, our jobs, and those around us. But this often isn’t the case. Just as we are generally good at helping somebody else figure things out, whether it be their love life, money situation, problems on the job, or whatever, we are often not so good at taking care of ourselves, and the same applies here. As I’ve gotten older I have realized just how much I was unaware about my younger self and I think many people have had the same experience and that some, some go almost all the way though life as complete strangers to themselves.

So does all this mean it’s not possible to fully know yourself? I think that’s a fair question. There are those who say that it’s not possible to understand oneself, that an accurate definition of self is impossible from an objective point of view. Others think that the exploding field of neuroscience – the study of the brain at an anatomical, but in particular, at the cellular and even molecular level – is the most hopeful candidate for providing scientific answers to the questions that have perplexed human beings for thousands of years, including who we are and what is our true nature.

Neuroscience is expanding at a fantastic pace. My son, TJ, who is doing the lay leading today, has his masters degree in neuroscience and so I have some idea of how far we have come since the old days of stone knives and bearskins when I was studying biochemistry in graduate school.

But you know, while I think neuroscience is going to be able to teach us a lot about what we are and how our brains work, I think it’s going to be less good at telling us who we are and how we should live. So while it is clear that we are comprised of conscious, subconscious, and unconscious beings, and that our feeling of total conscious control is something of an illusion, no matter what science says, no matter what the limitations, it is vital that we get to know ourselves to the best of our ability, and be honest and accepting of what we learn. If you insist on being ignorant or if you insist on being somebody else, then who will ever be you?

All of which brings me to William Shakespeare. Thought by many to be the world’s greatest playwright, Shakespeare’s greatest play may have been Hamlet. In Hamlet, Polonius is preparing his son Laertes for his travel abroad. Polonius directs his son to commit a “few precepts to memory”, the most famous of which is, “This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.”

Much has been written about this quote, and I certainly am not going to do any literary exposition here. But I do think it’s interesting that Polonius assumes that Laertes knows himself, for how can one be true to oneself without first knowing oneself? Thus, before following Polonius? advice, we first must follow the advice of the Oracle at Delphi, something that is at best a daily exploration, and at worst, impossible. But leaving aside for the moment the very real issue of how do we know ourselves, what does it mean to be true to that self? What does it mean to be true to the self we know and understand today, who needs to get about with the task of living, and hopefully living well?

Well, the first thing we know is that Shakespeare was not trying to grant Laertes permission to behave however he wanted. If you are an axe murderer, it will not avail you to say you were simply being true to yourself. So that’s not what’s going on here. Unless we live in solitude, being true to oneself will always mean being true in the context of culture, society, and law. Thus, one of the most difficult aspects of being true to yourself is how to navigate in a complex society that presents us with scores of often complicated, difficult, and even ambiguous relationships.

And we do live in a complex society that demands much of us, and that, for almost all of us, requires some level of compromise. It is inevitable. So we tend to wear masks, masks that have the Good Housekeeping seal of approval, that are safe, that don’t rock the boat. Sometimes we wear them because we have to, one of those accommodations to reality that just has to be. But sometimes we wear them out of fear, and sometimes we wear them out of a lack of self-confidence. Those are the masks we need to work on, need to shed, if we are to live a truly authentic life of integrity.

Still, we are left with the difficult question of how to choose our path, when to fight and when to yield. There are many answers to this question, of course, but let me quote what Thomas Jefferson had to say: “In matters of style, swim with the current, in matters of principle, stand like a rock.” Looking back on the 1970s, I’m not sure I agree with Jefferson on matters of style, but I do certainly agree with him on matters of principle.

Which begs the question, of course, which principles? Well, if we are being true to ourselves, then the principles we are being true to are the principles we found within ourselves, while we were following the Delphic command to know thyself. You know, taken seriously, this position is a pretty radical one in our culture, one that sits at the core of what I understand it means to be a modern Unitarian Universalist and an adherent of liberal religion.

I’ve been coming to this church for 31 years, and have always believed that one of the important missions of this church is to help people get to know themselves, their real selves, and then assist them in being true to themselves as they live their lives and participate in our world. This is, I think, a very different mission from many other churches. In many other churches the mission is to convince you to distrust your humanity, to almost disavow it, in favor of revealed truth that comes from God, truth that is unchanging, that is to be accepted and obeyed. Our church, and all those like it, are very special places, are sanctuaries of humanity in the broadest sense of the word and I, for one, am grateful for them.

But did you know that some of the people in this church are among the most disliked people in America? It’s true. And I’m not talking this time about being gay or lesbian. According to a study conducted by sociologists at the University of Minnesota, atheists, agnostics, and freethinkers are among the most disliked persons in America. They fell below Muslims, homosexuals, and recent immigrants in a poll that measured the respondents? view of whether and how much a number of different groups shared the respondents? vision of America and what it means to be an American. Unitarian Universalists, as free thinking adherents of liberal religion, and by that I mean us – you and me – we are not much liked or trusted by many in mainstream society, something it pays to know when you are out and about in the world.

Having noted that, we all know that no matter who you are, sometimes being true to oneself and one’s principles takes enormous courage and may even put you at risk of harm. It sometimes means having to stand against the majority, or your friends, or even your family. It means engaging in a regular pattern of behavior, and of making choices that are consistent with your espoused values and with the person you claim to be inside. It means having the courage of your convictions, and of being willing to put them out on the table, even when they are not popular. And I suggest to you that it all begins with knowing yourself, and then of accepting yourself, fully and completely, both the good and the bad, in order to be true to the good and change the bad.

Now, I don’t mean to imply that we are always alone in our lives and in our quest to be true to ourselves. Certainly, we have our friends, our family, we have this church, and we have a community of thought and feeling that goes back hundreds of years. All of that is enormously important.

And yet, we are a creedless religion that honors the individual conscious; which leads me to one of the scariest things about liberal religion and trying to know and be true to oneself.

There isn’t anyone else to blame.

When it’s up to you, when you are being true to yourself, then that’s all there is. This is another reason why living authentically, living the life of personal integrity, takes so much courage. Sometimes we’re all we’ve got.

And on this topic, it occurred to me that some Christians wear WWJD wristbands “What would Jesus do?” At first I thought we could wear WWED wristbands – you know, What would Emerson do?” Or even perhaps just get our own WWJD wristbands – only they would stand for What would Jefferson do? But ultimately I realized that none of these would be authentic, that if there was going to be a UU wristband it would have to read: WWID? What would I do?

Finally, there’s more to life than principles. There’s dreams, there’s goals, there’s fun. Yes, even tortured soul UUs get to have fun. But strange as it sounds, being true to your dreams, your goals, and your potential can sometimes be just as scary and intimidating as standing up for unpopular principles. Once we take off our blinders, once we see for real, we begin to understand just how much is possible in our lives and we wonder if we’re up to it. We look out at the vista of possibility and it can be overwhelming.

The philosopher Soren Kierkegaard put it this way: “There is nothing with which every person is so afraid as getting to know how enormously much he is capable of doing and becoming.” We talk about becoming the true beings that we are and then of being authentic and living lives of integrity, and it certainly sounds good, even exciting, but when it comes down to it, sometimes those prospects can be intimidating and scary. Sometimes it’s as if we are waiting for somebody to give us permission to be ourselves and pursue our dreams and our potential.

My message to you is don’t wait for anyone or anything to work on yourself and your dreams. You see, when we know ourselves, then we come into focus, our dreams become clearer, our path becomes straighter, and our sense of purpose and meaning grows until we feel such power and such of sense of belonging to and being right with the world, that as night follows day, we almost cannot help being true to ourselves.

So let me close today by suggesting this: I think there is a way to both know who you really are and at the same time, be true to who you are. And it’s not through ruminating, or self-reflecting, or taking classes, or any other inward looking activity. Ultimately, I think knowing yourself and being true to yourself is best accomplished simply by engaging fully in life and making choices and standing by them.

In the hit move Batman Begins, Rachel Dawes tells Bruce Wayne that it isn’t who you are underneath, but what you do that defines you. You are the choices you make and the actions you take. So if you want to know who you truly are, then put yourself out there, in situations that are challenging, that call for action, because then you’ll know. “There will be an inner voice that will tell you how you are doing.” You can sense it if you are honest with yourself and listen carefully.

So let me ask you to do something today, something we should do every day of our lives. Do something that is you. Do something that is true.


 Presented July 27, 2008

First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin

Revised for print.

Copyright 2008 by Jim Checkley

Responsibility and "Easy Religion"

© Aaron White

 July 20, 2008

 First UU Church of Austin

 4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756

 www.austinuu.org

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Although I was laughing, I had to cringe a bit when I first heard it. It was one of the most accurate portrayals of someone stumbling through a definition of Unitarian Universalism that I had ever heard, and I saw it on a 2006 episode of The Colbert Report. After reciting the entire Nicene Creed, the host asks a staff member, Bobby, what religion he is a part of. When Bobby responds, “I’m a Unitarian,” Colbert asks, “So you’re a Christian, too?” Here’s Bobby’s response: “Well, I incorporate Christian values as well as aspects of many other religious traditions in my belief in God, and I don’t mean to imply that I necessarily think God exists or doesn’t exist, or that it even maters to Him, or It, or Whoever, what I do or do not believe. What’s important is that it’s my choice, and that’s what holds the Unitarians together.”

A very confused Stephen Colbert asks Bobby, “So, do you celebrate Christmas or Hanukkah?” – to which Bobby replies, “Sure.”

To hit this close to home with the satire, one of the writers must have known us well.

Has anyone else out there ever felt like Bobby ? tripping over our words and apologizing, doubling back as we try and explain exactly what it is that we do here? It is not necessarily a simple thing to explain a liberal religions community in a few breaths. It would be a lot easier if our religious tradition had its own version of the Nicene Creed, but that’s just not the religion that we signed up for.

I think that my mixed reaction to these types of portrayals of UU’s comes up because it hits on my personal feelings about what it is that we do in this community and how we present ourselves to the world. Most of the time, when friends or family ask what it is we are about, I give them a brief explanation, and then lately I have gotten in the habit of saying, “But the best way to really know more is to come and experience us for yourself; here’s where we’re located.”

After some time and experience, most of the people close to me get it.But not always, and there’s one response that really gets me. Often, a stranger who sees me wearing a UU t-shirt or the person sitting next to me on an airplane will ask me what I do for a living. When I explain to them our vision of universal inclusion of humanity and freedom of conscience in religion, of deed not creeds, I sometimes get the response, “Well, Unitarian Universalism sounds like a pretty easy religion.” I don’t know about any of you, but in my experience of trying to live fully in this dynamic community and tradition, that couldn’t be further from the truth. At its best, Unitarian Universalism is no easy religion.

When I try to live out the values that we hold up as a community in my daily life, it is far from easy. It is not a simple task to assert that no one religious tradition can hold all of the truth, even my own. It is not simple to be humbled in the face of such grand questions of meaning, community, and the sacred. It is not simple to cast aside superstition, and yet stand in awe of the beauty and mystery of the universe, attempting to speak truth while allowing for poetry and metaphor to make its way into our spiritual lives. To imagine that each part of creation, that every individual on this earth (no matter how much I disagree with them), participates in the sacred and deserves love ?this is one of the hardest religious tasks I can ever be asked to do.

At their best, our religious lives are certainly not easy. But they can be sometimes. It would be easy for me to call myself a tolerant and open minded man ? to ride around with a “Coexist” bumper sticker on my car and continue to become enraged at other drivers or look down on others whose vehicle expressions don’t match my “open minded” views.

It is easy for me to think I know all I need to know about someone because of the way they voted in the last election, to assume the worst motives of someone who believes differently and then become enraged when my views are misrepresented.

It would be easy for us as a religious community to call ourselves a “welcoming congregation” and then ignore guests who join us for coffee after the service ? and this happens all the time. How many times in church have I finished singing a hymn like “We’re Gonna Sit at the Welcome Table” or “Enter Rejoice and Come In” and then noticed that I had not met the person sitting right next to me in the pews?

It is easy to talk about how many religious beliefs are welcomed in a community like ours and then never really share them with the people who join us here. And it would be easy to imagine that the reason we join together in a religious community is to only learn new facts or be surrounded by like minded people, and not to be transformed in love.

This kind of spiritual life, this kind of community like we find in a Unitarian Universalist church can certainly be easy. But at its best, when we are truly responsible for the vitality of our spiritual lives and making real the things we say we believe, it will be one of the most difficult journeys we’ve ever begun. But I think it will be worth it.

One hundred and eight years ago, the Universalist minister, Rev. Frederic Williams Perkins, wrote an essay titled, “Why I am a Universalist.” In one section of this work, Perkins explains that for him, the core of his Universalist Christianity of the time rested, not in the correct facts, but in living in the reality of love – that easy religion thinks it is done when it finally gets things right, but a challenging faith calls us deeper than that. Here’s part of what he said:

“The heretic, to the Universalist, is not the man who denies the accuracy of a method of creation portrayed in the book of Genesis; he is the one who distrusts the deathless love of God . . . . It is the depth and earnestness of the religion, and not the correctness of the scholarship, that is of primary concern.”

It is not easy to go deep in our religious lives. It is temping for me to think that if I simply learn enough, I will be at peace or become a better person; that if I just start getting all the facts straight, I’m well on my way. We Unitarian Universalists are pretty good at getting the facts ?we tend to be very curious people, people who yearn after new knowledge. But it seems like the temptation for us, our easy route in religion is to believe that the whole reason we are here is to get those facts.

A teacher of mine once challenged me to ask three questions in all of my spiritual life: “What, So What, and Now What?” We UU’s have the “what” part of the equation down. Also, it is getting much easier to gain information in our world. With every portable electronic device imaginable, we can carry libraries in our pocket. We can “Google” almost anything. It is going to be hard to take that new information we gain and ask, “So what?”

How will my life be transformed by this knowledge? How might this help me to fashion a life of justice or grow to better love and trust this world? An easy move in our religious life is to believe that our community, which calls us to self expression, values that above understanding and compassion.

I can believe that my highest virtue was sitting strong in the face of someone’s anger, or really proving myself to friends or family that disagree with me (and these can be great things). However, the challenge for me, in the face of that same anger or disagreement, is going to be asking, “How is that they are hurting?” A responsible religious life calls me to see the fear in defensiveness and the pain behind ego. It calls us to bringing what the Zen Buddhist, Suzuki Roshi called a “beginner’s mind” to our relationships and to the world. In terms used commonly in the Unitarian Universalist world, a search or truth and meaning that is both “free” and “responsible” is going to take some radical new forms of understanding.

I think that one of the most profound and yet simple examples of this type of depth in religion came from a man named Krister Stendhal, a recently deceased Swedish theologian who formerly served as the dean of the seminary I attended. In 1985, as a response to much opposition to the building of a Mormon temple in Stockholm, Stendhal developed a brief set of guidelines to use in responsible ecumenical and interfaith work. Now, since almost everything we do in a UU church is in a small way “interfaith,” it seems like these might be valuable for us in many ways. He called them, “Three Rules of Religious Understanding.”

They are phrased in very simple language and some appear to be self evident, but I think they leave no room for the easy road in religion. Here they are:

1) “When you are trying to understand another religion, you should ask the adherents of that religion, and not its enemies.”

Our society has lately become one that is more and more comfortable with black and white, right and wrong, with little shade of grey. How much confusion, misinformation, and fear might have been avoided in the last seven years if the majority of our citizens learned about Islam, for example, from Muslims, instead of cable news or emails form a friend? I am afraid that we religious liberals have not been immune from this infection of polarity and simplicity either. I wonder how much of our understanding of traditional Christianity, for example (especially the evangelical sort), has come to us from its enemies and critics, and not its followers.

2) Stendhal’s second “rule of religious understanding” is this: “Don’t compare your best to their worst.”

I think this is probably the rule that I have the most trouble following. I think that we have a lot of “best” here. In fact, if I didn’t think that this was the best religious tradition I could be a part of, I would be somewhere else this Sunday morning. I am so proud of the history of our tradition – that the Universalists were the first denominational body to ordain a woman in this country, that we have led the pack in our support and inclusion of the GLBT community in our religious life, that we have made great efforts toward anti-racism and social justice, and so many other things.

 

However, how many of us (myself definitely included here) start off our definitions of who we are by saying what we are not? How often do we introduce this place by saying, “As opposed to religion X where they tell you that you can’t to this or that, we say”… Many of us are fresh out of another religious home, or trying out a spiritual community for the first time in a long time, and it’s completely understandable to define ourselves somewhat by some distance from this past. But as we grow together in our religious journeys, it will be easy to continually say, “I know who I am, because I am not one of “them.” When we begin taking responsibility for our religious development, it will be challenging to say, “I know who I am, because this I know, this I believe, this I have experienced – we know who we are because we believe in life and the radically transformative power of love, inclusion, and justice.”

3) Stendhal’s third rule of religious understanding goes like this: “Leave room for “holy envy.”

By this, he means to find some part of another’s tradition that you admire and wish was incorporated into your own. For me, the easy path often looks a lot more like holy pride than holy envy. During my least admirable moments, I can get so caught up in the excitement of being in a community of like minded people, of finding a place where I can be authentic and religious, that I sometimes catch myself thinking that we might somehow be more evolved, more human, than others. Anybody else?

I catch myself thinking that I’d just assume never have to talk to one of “them” again because, as we know, they don’t talk to anyone who disagrees with them. This is when I begin to use my holy pride to build up walls, and it is very easy to feel safe inside them. I have to say that I think Krister Stendhal’s rules could be pretty helpful in understanding ourselves as well. Ask the adherents, not the enemies, don’t compare your best to their worst, and leave room for holy envy. I wonder what it might look like during a period of overwhelming self-doubt or criticism to turn those rules around and say, “When you are trying to understand yourself, ask your supporters and not your enemies – count the “yes” votes in your life, not the mistakes. Don’t always compare the best of others to the worst in yourself, and do leave some room for holy envy, but don’t think that what you stared off with isn’t sacred already.

The responsibility that comes with a free religious life is certainly no simple thing, and it is definitely not easy. Nowhere in our literature or our history do we find a promise of an easy answer or a simple journey together.

I find it very interesting that in the narrative of the Hebrew Scriptures, the Israelites wait exactly one verse after celebrating their release from the Egyptians before complaining about their newfound freedom. In Exodus 14 and 15, Moses has just led this small group of escaped slaves out of their camp, miraculously through a parted sea that swallowed their foes, to celebrate with song and dance at their new location. At their camp the people sing a celebration hymn that reads, “With your unfailing love you lead the people you have redeemed. In your might you guide them to their sacred home.”

They begin their journey in the first verse of chapter 16, and the second verse reads, “There, too, the whole community of Israel complained about Moses and Aaron. “If only the Lord had killed us back in Egypt,” they moaned. “There we sat around pots filled with meat and ate all the bread we wanted. But now you have brought us into the wilderness to starve us all to death.”

This freedom and responsibility in religion and in culture is hard. How much of our society has felt like it might be easier back in Egypt lately, where there are many more constraints, but more security also? In our community here, too, how many of us have longed sometime for a simpler faith where at least we all agreed on what it is our church believes? But we know that it wasn’t better in Egypt, and we have chosen together a free religious life. The word “heretic” merely means one who chooses. We have chosen to walk together in a place (like the invocation often says) where questions are more profound than answers, where we have cast off the security of the simple fix in religion, to seek new truth every day, and to affirm that we “need not think alike to love alike.”

My friends, what this community, what this history and this free religious vision has to offer us will not be easy. I know that for any visitors here today, I am not offering you a simple sell on our religion. But I can tell you, it is worth it. This free and responsible spiritual life calls us to be transformed by participating in it, and to therefore transform the lives of others. It calls us, not to simply throw away the old stories of our religious past, to define ourselves by what we are not, but to reuse and recycle that past, to retell those stories in a way that makes meaning for us now. It calls us to use our freedom, not to build walls, but to go deep and dig wells from which we can all draw – to see the best in others and ourselves.

In this tradition, no minister, no denominational figure, no staff person or district official bears the responsibility of coming up with answers, with a statement of faith. It is not that one person is responsible for the future of a free religious life, every person is, and each of us has enough of what is sacred inside us to play a significant role.

I’ll conclude today with the words of the UU minister, Rev. Rebecca Parker. They might be familiar to some of you:

“Your gifts, whatever you discover them to be, can be used to bless or curse the world. The mind’s power, the strength of hands, the reaches of the heart, the gift of speaking, listening, imagining, seeing, waiting,”

Any of these can serve to feed the hungry, bind up wounds, welcome the stranger, praise what is sacred, do the work of justice, and offer love.

Any of these can draw down the prison door, hoard bread, abandon the poor, obscure what is holy, comply with injustice, or withhold love.

You must answer this question: What will you do with your gifts? Choose to bless the world.?

My friends, in a free religious community, it is the responsibility of each of us to offer such a blessing. It is not easy, but it is ours to make real.

What better time than now?

Amen