Senior Lunch

Senior Lunch will occur on Wednesday, April 12th, meeting in Howson Hall at 12 p.m. noon. Our speakers are Rev. Jonalu Johnstone and David Riehl, Board Treasurer. You may not know David, so here is a bit about him.
 
David (Dave) Riehl is the current Board Treasurer for First Church Austin. He and his wife, Gretchen, joined us six years ago, moving from First Church Dallas, where they were 30 year members. Dave will spend a few minutes filling us in on his background and then continue the discussion with Rev. Jonalu’s presentation. He will share his insights into the status and outlook for the finances for our congregation.
 
Everyone is welcome to attend even if you are not a senior.  If you’ve never attended, we bring our own lunch and drinks, and visit for about half an hour. The program will begin around 12:30 p.m.

Sacred Ground

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Rev. Chris Jimmerson
and Genie Martin
February 26, 2023
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

Unitarian Universalists affirm and promote the web of all existence of which we are a part. Many cultures view not just the human world but that web of all existence as part of a sort of extended family. Certainly, we are called to build the Beloved Community with and among our fellow humans. Perhaps from this point of view though, we are also called to love all of creation itself.

 


 

Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

In the true nature of things,
if we rightly consider,
every green tree is far more glorious
than if it were made of gold or silver.

– Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Meditation Reading

Nothing whatever is hidden;
From of old, all is clear as daylight.
The old pine-tree speaks divine wisdom;
The secret bird manifests eternal truth.
Sitting quietly, doing nothing,
Spring comes, grass grows by itself.
Falling mist flies together with the wild ducks;
The waters of autumn are of one colour with the sky.
Mountains and rivers
The whole earth all manifest forth
The essence of being.

– Zen sacred text

Sermon

Chris Jimmerson

We have a wonderful new ministry team at First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin. The Earthkeepers ministry is dedicated to tending the sacred ground upon which we gather as a religious community.

And today’s service invites us into an extended moment for thinking about what we mean by “Beloved Community” in our mission.

Might we adopt a more expansive view of it? We begin with some reflections from long-term church member and active participant in Earthkeepers, Genie Martin.

Genie Martin

Good morning everyone. I’m Genie Martin and I’m here today as a member of the Earthkeepers (the new name of our church landscape committee) and also to talk about “Beloved Community”. The words on our wall mean a lot to me and I feel that we completed the original ideas when we added Dr King’s phrase “to build the Beloved Community” to our statement.

When I was a very young adult trying to make sense of how there could be so many sincerely religious people who had such different beliefs, it seemed like, if you looked past the differences, the core idea that people were calling “God” was simply a profound connectedness. I made the big mistake of saying that out loud to the minister of the little church I grew up in, and he told me I couldn’t think like that. I would be a heretic. It was meant to scare me, but I looked it up just to be sure. I found that the basic meaning of “heretic” is “a person who chooses what they believe”. I thought, “Well, okay.” It took a few years after that to discover that there is actually a church for “born again heretics”, and to find my way here where I belong.

These days I still let others argue the details, and I simply do what I can to nourish, transform and keep building that connectedness, that community. Of course, when we say those words, and when Dr. King said them, it’s with the assumption that we are talking about human community, a nurturing, just and beloved relationship between the people of the world. That’s a big enough challenge. Right?

About the same time that I started coming to church here, I, the artist, somehow ended up with a job teaching science in the city parks department. That was a big learning curve. Luckily, I was generously mentored by a group of wonderful people, including one woman, Margaret Campbell, who was a visionary environmentalist. She taught a different, but in essence, a similar idea of beloved community. She showed me a broader view of our place in this small corner of the big universe, and a different way of being profoundly connected.

We humans are not the rulers of this Earth that we like to think we are. We are one species of creatures in an intertwined, a profoundly connected web of life. We like to think we are so important, but we forget that we don’t exist independently of our home planet Earth, which is one planet in a solar system, one part of a big sky full of stars.

If this starts feeling like we’re insignificant, let’s remind ourselves that we have seen, again and again and again, the real power that is available to small but profoundly connected parts of a whole community.

So, the Earthkeepers here at the church have been trying to revitalize this little corner of the world, trying to get things to be a bit less scruffy, to look more welcoming. We hope it shows.

There’s a lot more to do. But we also want you to know that we are not working to create a manicured space that is only for the human community of First UU. Our church is a small part of Austin, but we are part of a larger community. In this expanded view of community, just as our congregation is bigger than those of us sitting here in this building, our church property is also a welcoming landscape that connects to other green spaces across the city, and to the whole ecosystem of central Texas. There are all sorts of birds, butterflies and bees, foxes, many kinds of wildlife who stop in for a visit. This is not a new thing. In years past the original landscapers of the church grounds worked hard to make a beautiful space, but made some dated choices that we now know could be done better. The next round of landscapers did some very good work to start updating what’s here and to take some important steps towards being more environmentally aware. Recently we’ve had a period of time when it just wasn’t possible to fully maintain all of our grounds here. Which brings us to now. We want to introduce our Earthkeepers group, and we want to let you know that we’ve been working hard to build a space that welcomes a Beloved Community, one that it is a bigger community than only the people.

Chris Jimmerson

Thank you, Genie. When I first read Genie’s beautiful words, I thought to myself, “Oh my goodness, what I am ever going to say after that!” So, I downloaded one of those artificial intelligence chatbot apps to my smart phone and asked it for advice on my part of this sermon. It sent me the entire history of its sermon writing and expressed interest in becoming the next minister here at the church. I deleted the app.

Anyway, I love Genie’s thoughts, and I love her invitation to expand how we think about beloved community to include the web of all existence, which we affirm and promote as Unitarian Universalists and of, which, we are a part, as Genie said.

I love how Genie emphasizes that our goal is not to create an entirely manicured landscape because we are a part of and must welcome a much, much larger ecosystem.

I think our spirituality and our faith are like that. Our faith can never be completely manicured because we are a part of a spiritual landscape that is vast and mysterious and unendingly complicated. We are a living tradition. Unitarian Universalism is a faith for which revelation is not sealed.

What we mean by that is that our faith is always seeking expanded truth, always asking deeper questions, always in relationship with other systems of belief.

Ours is a spirituality that accepts that life’s joys and sorrows are intertwined; that multiple potentialities may exist at once; that what we do not yet know is an incomprehensibly vast ocean upon which floats our tiny island of unmanicured uncertainty.

And we Unitarian Universalists think that’s great, because it means that almost limitless possibilities still lie before us!

One system of belief that expands the concept of Beloved Community is that expressed by Carol Lee Sanchez and many other Native American writers.

Sanchez, a poet, author and artist, writes of a wisdom tradition that views the rocks, the stones, the birds, the trees, the waters and the wind, the mountains and the fields, all of life and creation, the very soil upon which we rest, as our siblings, ancestors and relatives. They are sacred just as we are.

The web of all existence is a part of what we commit to loving when we struggle to build the Beloved Community. I will talk more about this when we Spring into Action this April to engage even more regarding the climate crisis.

For now though, I invite us all to think about how from this point of view, our relationship with the land and with all of life and creation is a holy relationship. The web of all existence is a family, of which we are only one small part, not a commodity for us to exploit.

And this perspective actually has a long history at this church. II Our current Earthkeepers group builds upon great work that has been done before now, such as putting in the all ages playground and populating our land with native plants. Did you know that we have for many years been a certified wildlife habitat?

Here’s the plaque that proves it.

SLIDE

That’s likely a big part of why, as Genie mentioned, we often share our land with a variety of birds, squirrels, butterflies, bees, as well as other insects and creatures, including hawks, foxes and, at least once, a skunk (though not lately and which proved to be harmless if left alone).

I also have not seen our flock of parakeets lately. They often come to hang out with us though, and they come and go, so I am hoping they visit again sometime soon. We have had recent fox sightings though! And speaking of which, would you like to see some of the foxes that have visited us in the past? Here is a short clip from one of our our security monitoring cameras.

VIDEO

That was from when the building was closed because of the pandemic, so there were not people around the courtyard at the time. Some folks also may not know that we also are generating part of our own electricity because church participants in the years before now had the wisdom to install solar panels.

SLIDE

And of course there were folks who came well before those of us here today, including our First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin ancestors.

We do not yet have a complete history of the land before it became the church’s, but we must acknowledge that there were those before us who were in relationship with what is now our church land, and that this land was likely once held sacred by Native American peoples. We do know that the Tonkawa lived in central Texas. The Comanche and Apache, as well as others also moved through this area.

And so our Earthkeepers build upon the efforts of many others in stewarding our small part of the ecosystem. In their doing so, I have sensed that they have already enhanced their own spirituality and their sense of connection with this place we have chosen as our spiritual home.

There is something about being in direct, physical, hands on relationship with the earth that brings us as a sense of its holiness that we might otherwise move right past. And my beloveds, we do rest upon sacred ground. I have never felt this more strongly than I did early last year.

In January of 2022, our senior minister at the time, Meg, let me know that she was facing a serious health condition and would have to retire at the end of the church year. I was so heartbroken for Meg. My soul ached for our religious community that would have to bear this loss. Over the eight years that Meg and I had done ministry together at the time, we had not only become close colleagues but also good friends. We had supported one another through so many challenges, both here at the church and in each of our personal lives. We had also shared many, many joys.

I knew that, though our relationship would continue (and has, by the way – I spoke with Meg recently and she seems to be doing well) – though our relationship would continue, it would also change. In just a few months, we would no longer get to do ministry together. And that saddened me so greatly.

Even though it was cold out, and our church building was still shut down due to the pandemic, I had this overwhelming urge to come here – to immerse myself in this holy place. And I did.

I drove over, and for a while, I sat on one of the benches outside, allowing the surrounding nature and spiritual warmth I felt emanating from our building to envelope me in their hallowed embrace. After a while, it started to rain lightly, so I came inside, and sat here in the sanctuary, where Meg and I and so many of you had created so many holy moments together. And a sense of the divine entered and comforted my heart – the sacred held my soul until it was able to rise up and go on.

In a moment, I am going to invite us to rise up in body or spirt and sing together “Come and Go with Me to that Land.” This song likely originated as an African American spiritual, during the times slavery, so we must recognize the pain and suffering from which it arose, as well as the hope, resilience and human spirit it expresses.

I recently read that African American singer, scholar and activist Bernice Johnson Reagan has said that perhaps the song cries out a yearning to journey toward a set of better conditions – a land of freedom, justice, and singing.

A land that holds and is a part of the Beloved Community. We forge sacred ground when we create those conditions upon it.

Freedom. Justice. Beloved Community.

In these, we already rest upon sacred ground, no matter where we may be.

Benediction

As we go back out into our world now, go knowing that you are immersed in the holy. Go with the understanding that you already rest upon sacred ground. Until next we gather in this hallowed place: Go in peace.

May the congregations say, “Amen” and “blessed Be”. I send you much love.

 


 

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Liturgy: The (Earth) Work of the People

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Rev. Sara Green
March 26, 2023
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

There are many interpretations about what we are supposed to be doing as a church – rituals, building community and justice, are just a few. Liturgy, sometimes interpreted as the work of the people, calls us to make micro experiments in beloved community creation. Let’s explore how our care of land and collaboration with the planet helps us to dig deeper into our mission in our communities.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

Excerp from “Evidence”
by Alexis Pauline Gumbs

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Meditation Reading

Excerpt for “Being Black”
by Angel Kyodo Williams

Sermon

Text of this sermon is not yet available.


SERMON INDEX

Most sermons during the past 23 years are available online through this website. Click on the index link above to find tables of all sermons for each year listed by date (newest to oldest) with topic and speaker. Click on a topic to go to that sermon.

PODCASTS

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Second Sunday Offering: Texas Equal Access Fund

The mantra for Texas Equal Access is “fighting together for abortion access is community care”.  Over the past tumultuous year, TEA has shifted from funding abortions in Texas to supporting people seeking care outside of Texas.  In addition, they have worked with community partners to gain local protections such as de-prioritization of criminal investigations of pregnancy outcomes.  Also, TEA was a plaintiff in a recently decided case that affirms their right to provide financial assistance to Texans seeking an abortion out of state. 
 
TEA is also committed to pushing for human rights to abortion access by hosting retreats, investing in the community and people who have had abortions by having them poised for advocacy for future legislative sessions.  They host rallies, support Pride events, and have their own fundraisers “to be in community and as radical self care.”  In early March, the Executive Director was on the front page of the American Statesman for TEA’s promotion of a state bill to require coverage of abortions and contraceptives.  TEA is notable for centering race and gender equity in their work, and their commitment to resistance.

Choose Kindness

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Rev. Ed Proulx
March 19, 2023
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

We have seen the unspeakable become commonplace. It’s become more and more common and unspeakable. How do we, as religious people address our societal breakdown? One conversation at a time.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

OUR LIVES INTERSECT AND INTERTWINE
By Tania Marquez

It is a wonder and mystery that our paths have crossed;
That in the immensity of time, in the vastness of space,
we coincide here.
I am in awe at the ways in which our lives intersect and intertwine,
at the beauty we create when we gather.
May our coming together make us more compassionate,
more just, more caring, and more loving.
May our hearts and minds be open to this offering.
I am so glad you are here.
Let us worship, let us marvel at the miracle of being here, right now,
and the Mystery that has brought us together.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Meditation Reading

To laugh is to risk appearing a fool,
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental
To reach out to another is to risk involvement,
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self
To place your ideas and dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss
To love is to risk not being loved in return,
To hope is to risk despair,
To try is to risk failure.

But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow,
But he cannot learn, feel, change, grow or live.
Chained by his servitude he is a slave who has forfeited all freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.

– William Arthur Ward

Sermon

Text of this sermon is not yet available.


SERMON INDEX

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PODCASTS

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Rev. Sara Green and Community Potluck


First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin

Sermon: LITURGY: THE (EARTH)WORK OF THE PEOPLE

by the Rev. Sara Green

Service Co-Led by the Revs. Sara Green and Chris Jimmerson

Followed by:
A Community Potluck
Hosted by First UU Earthkeepers

March 26, 2023
Service at 10:45 a.m. in the Sanctuary
Potluck* at 12:15 p.m. in Howson Hall and Courtyard

 

Rev. Sara Green is a southern cis/queer, Black femme minister and farmer living in New Orleans. She imagines liberation/salvation/beloved community as communities that have the ability to eat good food together, experience pleasure in their bodies and regularly put their hands in the soil – all while free from fear and violence from existing social structures, and while living into the cultural and legal changes necessary for this world to exist.

Rev. Chris Jimmerson is the Acting Senior Minister for First Unitarian Universalist Church of Austin. He has a strong calling toward anti-oppression, interfaith and social justice work and has been especially involved in immigrant rights and racial justice. He loves leading worship and the pastoral work of ministry.

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*Please bring potluck offerings to the kitchen before the service at the temperature at which they need to be served. Put your name on all dishes and utensils.

Making Meaning in an Upside Down World, with Rev. Jonalu Johnstone

April 6th, 13th, 20th, and 27th from 7 – 8:30 p.m. on Zoom

The world has turned upside down for many of us in the last few years. How do we learn from
what we have encountered and discover meaning to equip us to move into the future? We’ll draw
from UU and other writers as we put our own experience into perspective as we make meaning.

Who knows? Maybe we’ll even grow into wisdom. Register here

Adult Religious Education Opportunities

Three stimulating opportunities for adult religious education are coming up:

Braver Angels Workshop
Saturday, March 25th from 9 a.m. – 12 p.m. at Howson Hall

If you are heartsick about the rancor tearing our country apart,
If you believe that your opponents should not be your enemies,
If you believe that America’s best days can lie ahead,
JOIN US for our FREE workshop, SKILLS FOR BRIDGING THE DIVIDE.
This workshop teaches crucial capabilities for having respectful conversations that:
• Improve our ability to re-frame difficult conversations.
• Explore creative ways to discover seemingly hidden areas of common ground between us.
• Develop good boundary-setting capabilities to ensure that our conversations begin, progress,
and conclude in more respectful ways, even in difficult moments of interaction.
Click here to register for this free event.

For more information, contact Laraine Altun at laltun@braverangels.org.

 

Nonviolent Communication (NVC) Practice Group
Sundays at 1 p.m. from March 26th – May 28th, except April 23rd and May 21st (congregational
meetings)

Through the emphasis of NVC on deep listening—to ourselves as well as others—we
discover the depth of our own compassion. NVC can be seen as both a spiritual
practice that helps us see our common humanity, using our power in a way that
honors everyone’s needs, and a concrete set of skills which help us create life-serving
families and communities.
Please join us to learn more and practice using these compassionate skills together.
Register here.

For more information, contact Laraine Altun larainea@gmail.com.

 

Making Meaning in an Upside Down World with Rev. Jonalu Johnstone
April 6th, 13th, 20th, and 27th from 7 – 8:30 p.m. on Zoom.

The world has turned upside down for many of us in the last few years. How do we learn from
what we have encountered and discover meaning to equip us to move into the future? We’ll draw
from UU and other writers as we put our own experience into perspective as we make meaning.
Who knows? Maybe we’ll even grow into wisdom. Register here.

 

What if you can’t?

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Rev. Jonalu Johnstone
March 12, 2023
First UU Church of Austin
4700 Grover Ave., Austin, TX 78756
www.austinuu.org

We human beings have real limits that can make us vulnerable. Accepting what we can’t do allows us to ask for help and connect more deeply in community. Difficult idea, but let’s have fun with it.


Chalice Lighting

This is the flame we hold in our hearts as we strive for justice for everyone. This is the light we shine upon systems of oppression until they are no more. This is the warmth that we share with one another as our struggle becomes our salvation.

Call to Worship

BOOK OF LIFE
roddy bell-shelton biggs (they/them)

Open the book of life what do you see as you flip through the pages soaking it all up Where is the joy, the pain, the hope, the loss, the love? Now close it tight, place your hand over your heart, and Pause … Then open the book of life again …. Pause once more …. remember beloved be vulnerable and Begin Again In Love. Come let us worship together.

Affirming Our Mission

Together we nourish souls, transform lives, and do justice to build the Beloved Community.

Meditation

A LITANY OF WHOLEHEARTEDNESS
By Dawn Skjei Cooley

Because there have been times when shame has crushed our ability to be wholehearted
We let go of who we ought to be and embrace who we are.

Because we have not always had the courage to be imperfect
We let go of who we ought to be and embrace who we are.

Because we have struggled to have compassion for ourselves or others.
We let go of who we ought to be and embrace who we are.

Because we have been afraid of our own vulnerability
We let go of who we ought to be and embrace who we are.

Because we are sometimes too scared to live authentically
We let go of who we ought to be and embrace who we are.

Because we want to be whole-hearted people, confident in our worthiness and our belonging
We let go of who we ought to be and embrace who we are.

Reading

ACKNOWLEDGMENT OF LIMITATIONS
By Burton D. Carley

I wonder if the river ever despairs of its downward destiny,
and harbors a secret desire to flow uphill.

I wonder if winter yearns to be summer,
or if a flower wishes it could bloom out of season.

I wonder if silence would like to shout,
or if the sky wants to fall down and become the earth.

I wonder if the bird longs to become a rabbit,
or if the fish ever dreams of walking on the land.

I wonder if the mountains envy the valleys,
or if snow secretly covets the warmth of June.

I wonder if the moon complains that is it not the sun,
or if the stars envy the earth.

I wonder if rain prefers a cloudless sky,
or if grass tires of green and hopes for blue.

I wonder if spring really likes growing,
or if fall rages against its colorful dying.

I wonder if the world ever sighs after more than it is like you and I,
like you and I.

o Spirit of life, we struggle against our limitations. Teach us to accept them.

Amen.

Sermon

WHAT IF YOU CAN’T?

In our optimistic UU way, we like to say you can do anything you set your mind to. It’s not always true. There are some things you can’t do.

Let’s watch a short video about what our bodies can’t do. [VIDEO]

All this is kind of fun – to see what we can do, to see how our bodies are limited. Other stuff we can’t do is not so much fun. And admitting some of those falls into that category of vulnerability – our theme for the month.

Confession time. In my freshman year of college, I failed four classes. Calculus, Philosophy, Organic Chemistry, and I think some kind of history — I can’t even remember. Probably because I didn’t go to the class often enough. This is going to be a bit of an interaction sermon. I’m going to ask for your confessions, as well. Totally voluntary, of course. I’m going to ask you to stand up or wave your arm overhead if you can agree with this statement:

I tried something and failed.

Look around. It helps not to feel alone in that, doesn’t it?

What would it be like to own up to what you have failed at? You don’t have to do it; I’m just asking.

Does it make you feel uneasy? A little queasiness in the pit of your stomach? Do you want to present it as funny so that it doesn’t hurt so much? I do. It’s hard to acknowledge our failures.

I could give you a whole list of ways I’ve fallen short-I didn’t learn to ride a bicycle until I was 10, because I gave up when I was 6 or 7, and so did my parents. I got a D in Driver’s Ed. I have such a poor sense of direction that pre-GPS, I got lost going to many important occasions – a wedding rehearsal, a funeral, the airport. Not to mention being lost in the wilderness, which I have also done. I have fallen down a rock face while rock climbing – not fun. I have fallen and broken bones. I have failed tests, job interviews, event organizing. I have had manuscripts rejected, missed deadlines, lost money on stupid decisions. I have failed to reach goals I set. So many bad memories …

Yet, I am also glad I have had failure as part of my life. It has made me less afraid to try things, because I know that if I fail, if I can’t do it, I’ll live through it, probably. Failure has made me vulnerable, which I really needed to learn because I prefer to present myself as perfect. Failure has taught me what works by teaching me what doesn’t work — and introduced me to my limitations. Failure has helped me learn to ask for help.

It is true that for some people asking for help or being vulnerable may have a higher cost. You may need to be more cautious about who you ask for help, or when you open yourself vulnerably. That’s all real, based in part on the identities we carry in this world and in how we process feelings. So, I’m not saying everyone needs to confess all their failings. There are certainly some I will keep to myself.

But I want to challenge you – if you’re willing – to a little bit of vulnerability around what you can and cannot do.

So, I invite you to stand or wave your arms if you can agree to some statements:

I can’t reach the top shelf without standing on something. I can’t walk as far or run as fast as I used to.

I can’t drive.

I can’t stay organized.

I can’t get up early in the morning.

I can’t dance.

I can’t get along with some people in my family. I can’t always tell what I’m feeling.

I can’t always handle everything.

Some things we can’t do are easy to admit, and others are a lot harder. Almost all of them, though, are things that other people have struggled with, too.

That’s why people gather around their failures and frailties. Reasons that there are l2-Step groups to help people cope with the challenges of alcoholism and other addictions. Reasons for grief groups. Reasons for parent support groups.

We need one another at a deep and profound level. We need to see others dealing with what is confronting us and see the successes and failures so we have some idea what we might be able to do.

Here’s another statement that I invite you to stand or wave your arm if you agree:

It’s hard for me to ask for help.

So you’re not alone. Here’s another one. I try to help when someone asks.

There’s a little disconnect here. Most of us are fine with helping out, and a lot of us find it hard to ask. Some of the fault lies in lies we have been told, well-meaning lies, but lies nonetheless.

Our culture is individualistic. Many people expect themselves and others to pull themselves up by their bootstraps – whatever that means. The phrase originally meant that what was asked for was impossible. No one can pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Their bootstraps are near the ground, not up. It was sarcasm, folks, not wisdom. You can’t pull yourself up by your bootstraps. No one else can, either.

The individualism of our culture has hurt us more than helped us. And our religion – Unitarian Universalism – has fed into it. The picturesque cabin Thoreau built at Walden Pond. Emerson’s essay on “Self-Reliance.” The long lists of individual Unitarians, Universalists, and Unitarian Universalists who have achieved so much. The lie is that they did it alone. In every case they had help. Thoreau was close to town and had plenty of support. Emerson had whole crowds of admirers and coconspirators. Even if someone’s work has been done alone, they built on ideas, education, resources that they have gained from somewhere. As John Dunne told us, “No man is an island.” Neither is any woman or transgender person. No one is an island.

Maybe, then, we need some help in asking for help. Here are some useful phrases. Repeat after me:

“Could you please help me?”

“I don’t know what to do.”

“Here’s what I need.”

A lot of times it can be useful to tell someone why we need help and exactly what we need. And sometimes, all we can do is to say, “Help!” And here’s the amazing thing! We don’t have to wait until we are desperate to ask for help. Maybe, you could ask someone to come with you when you go shopping for clothes to help pick out something that looks good on you. Or you could ask for someone to help you walk the dog. Or to study together. Practicing in those small situations might even help us ask for help in those harder situations, where we are a little more desperate. And maybe can’t even name what we need.

Take a moment and think of who you could ask for help.

You might think of a particular situation where you might need help – if you broke something, if you were sick, if you were sad and needed someone to talk to, if you didn’t understand what something meant. Try to come up with 5 people you could ask for help, maybe different people for different situations. [Pause, at least 30 seconds.] Now, find someone else near you and share with them your 5 people (their name or their roleteacher or boss, for example) who you could ask for help.

You’ve heard of the “The Little Engine that Could” that train engine that huffed and puffed its way up the hill. A pastor named Julian DeShazier wrote an article about church and ministers called, “The Little Engine that Needed Collaborators.” His point was about overfunctioning clergy, and the need for everyone in the church to share the load. The point has a broader application, though.

Similarly, as a volunteer working with a woman’s group many years ago, I had a supervisor who always sent a pair of us to do any task – some pretty hard tasks, pounding in stakes, clearing fields, greasing wheelchair lifts. She used to say, “One woman can’t do anything. Two women can do anything.” And while it might be possible for one woman to do something, I’ve learned that often it’s a lot more fun and a heck of a lot easier if there are two – or more – working on it.

We need one another, especially when we can’t do it alone.

Benediction

Go in peace, knowing that every imperfection, every failure, every vulnerability is part of you. Love every bit of yourself so that you can be loved completely by others. And when you need others, please ask for their help. Because we are only whole as a community when our interactions and relationships make us so.

Amen. Ase. Blessed Be.


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Ostara (Spring Equinox) Gathering on Monday March 20, 2023 at 7 p.m. at First UU Austin. 

Hosted by First UU Pagan Alliance in collaboration with the Monday Mindfulness group, we will meet outside in the courtyard, weather permitting, so bring a camp chair if you have one handy (our foul weather plan is to meet in Howson Hall).
 
We will begin by opening the circle and casting directions, this will be followed by a guided-drumming meditation (journeying) and a few short Ostara readings. We will then do a group drum circle and will have extra drums if you don’t have your own. The ceremony will end with a closing of the circle, leaving plenty of time for socializing, reflection, and future sabbat planning and feedback. This event is open to interested church members and friends, we hope to see you there!

Spring Market – Sunday, April 2

Shop with a Conscience before and after Worship Service on Palm Sunday, April 2.

Along with an opportunity to buy a variety of handmade goods, shoppers will be supporting UPAVIM, a women’s collective of artisans in Guatemala who fund a school and day care center in a very poor community. 

Barb will be with us again.  Some of you missed getting favorite articles at the Holiday Market in December.  Barb has guaranteed a wide variety of favorites and some new things for spring.  Look for her in the Gallery.  

Vegan Tasting Event

Are you interested in connecting with UU vegans? 
Want to learn more about the food and lifestyle? 
Would you like to explore how it connects to the UU faith? 
Or maybe you just want to enjoy some delicious food with us??

 

Join us after the service on April 16th in Howson Hall for some extra eats and treats from the First UU Vegan interest group. Get your palates ready for some yummy good food that contains no meat, dairy, or egg ingredients; food powered only by plants.

Feel free to bring a vegan treat or dish to share if you are inclined. Bon appetit!

 

For questions or to learn how to join, email Suzie at szriddle@gmail.com.

 
  

FUUCA Silent Auction – May 2023

The silent auction is back and it will run from May 7th – May 28th. Our silent auction is a different kind of auction as it features experiences and services. Of course, our primary goal is to raise money, but our silent auction also allows an opportunity to connect with others in your community through shared experiences. Examples of an experience or service might include a games night, a French picnic or having someone detail your car.

We need you to donate your experience or service AND needed are a couple of volunteers to help with Sunday set-ups in May. Please find Gillian Redfearn in Howson Hall after service for questions and to offer up your experience and/or service. She can also be reached at gigi7844241@gmail.com or (512) 784-4241.

2023 Austin CROP Hunger Walk – Sunday, March 26

After the potluck on Sunday we will gather with others in our community to fight hunger both here and around the world. We are looking for walkers and donors for the Austin CROP Hunger Walk, which will be held at Camp Mabry on Sunday, March 26.  The step-off will be at 2:30p.m. and the route is accessible for wheelchairs and strollers.
 
Sign up online here. You can also contact Emily Speight at espeight@alumni.utexas.net or 512-636-7005 or visit the Social Action table in Howson Hall for more information on walking, donating, or both.
 
Thank you for helping to feed the hungry in Austin and around the world!